Rape Victim Goes On YouTube To Ask For Help (VIDEO)

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First Posted: 05-15-08 02:22 PM   |   Updated: 05-23-08 05:12 AM

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CNN reports on the wrenching video of a crying 16-year-old girl who turned to YouTube to plead for help in prosecuting her alleged 23-year-old rapist.

Watch the video below and read more underneath from CNN about this strange story.

The teen, whom CNN interviewed but is not identifying by her last name, is among dozens of young people who are turning to social networking sites like Facebook and MySpace to talk about sexual assault.

For an online generation, the Web offers what traditional counseling does not. It's a chance to communicate without having to face someone or fear their judgment. Some people are seeking legal advice and medical information, and many younger victims believe they can warn others about their accused attacker, counselors say.


CNN reports on the wrenching video of a crying 16-year-old girl who turned to YouTube to plead for help in prosecuting her alleged 23-year-old rapist. Watch the video below and read more underneath ...
CNN reports on the wrenching video of a crying 16-year-old girl who turned to YouTube to plead for help in prosecuting her alleged 23-year-old rapist. Watch the video below and read more underneath ...
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Typical wing nut talking points. Lets miss the point completely and just promote hate.
This poor girl seems sincere.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:23 PM on 05/16/2008
- Tator I'm a Fan of Tator 9 fans permalink

To bad Liberals are so soft on crime. I bet is he is repeat offender that was given a year or less for another rape by a Liberal judge.

Start executing a few of these guys and watch the rape rate go down and the Liberals call for "be nice to the criminal" go up.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:48 PM on 05/16/2008

No, it's too bad that Repuglican'ts are too lazy to do anything about crime. Can't execute them unless you catch them and as 9/11 showed us all, U.S. law enforcment couldn't catch a cold. I guess if there''s no money for big business, then there's no point.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:03 PM on 05/16/2008

But there IS money in crime and punishment - for all the privatized prisons.

My view of these alleged "law and order" types:

Heavy on the order, obeying the law . . . not so much.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:14 PM on 05/16/2008

and neocons are just so good at keeping our prisons overcrowded. Because everyone's guilty.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:24 PM on 05/16/2008

The liberals have locked up or dismissed many Republican Senators, Congressmen, and their appeasers like Randy Duke Cunningham, Tom Delay, Abramoff, Scooter Libby. If Liberals weren't being kept busy by mendacious thieving republicans, maybe they'd time to solve real crimes.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:04 PM on 05/16/2008
- sink I'm a Fan of sink permalink

Way to miss the point and focus this real, sad issue on your own pathetic self-centered opinions.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:13 PM on 05/16/2008
- julieeiluj I'm a Fan of julieeiluj 3 fans permalink

This is Florida. Blame the Republicans.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:54 PM on 05/16/2008

I believe it's real.

The girl says she was told by the lawyers to "go find other rape victims" -- and that kind of brush off sounds TYPICAL! They sure as hell aren't gonna investigate it -- routine rapes just aren't worth the man hours.

I have total faith that something horrible happen to this girl and the lawyers all concluded she's a "poor slut" and refused to investigate a damn thing because, c'mon, why should they waste all the money. In their mind the guy was going to jail for other crimes so, nope, they aren't gonna waste any time on the rape portion. So I'm sure they're confused as to why she's upset. In their mind justice was done -- so what if he doesn't go to jail for rape and so what if she never gets to face her attacker in court? That's how these people think.

"You claim there were others, huh?" yawns the bored attorney. "Whatever. Go ahead and get some statements on your own and then maybe we'll do something."


I believe her.

She was raped and the bored DA decided it was too much trouble to go for a rape conviction so they blew her off.

Hell no they didn't think it was worth the time, money or detective man hours to invesigate a routine rape.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:55 PM on 05/16/2008
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"According to court documents, Crystal and the man both said they had an ongoing sexual relationship.

The prosecutor, who declined to comment to CNN, concluded that the teen and the 23-year-old had consensual sex, according to the case file."

Sounds like he dumped her.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:41 PM on 05/16/2008

There is no such thing as consensual sex between a 23 year old and a 16 year old. It's called statutory rape.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:10 PM on 05/16/2008

Oh BS. 16 year olds are more than capable of consenting to sex, regardless of what the laws say. She's not an infant or school child. Today's girls are engaging in sex willingly at 13. Consent laws should be abolished! They only exist to send innocent men to jail to appease the feminist agenda

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:42 PM on 05/16/2008
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Depends on the state and country. Statutory is a legal term. What is the age of consent in this state? Anyone know?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:44 PM on 05/18/2008
- sink I'm a Fan of sink permalink

(Setting aside the statutory rape issue for a second)

Yeah, because having had consensual sex means that this girl was forever required to give it up on demand whenever her boyfriend demanded it or drugged her into it.

Your comment makes me sick.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:15 PM on 05/16/2008
- ChrisR I'm a Fan of ChrisR 3 fans permalink

Fake. Do not trust anything like this anymore.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:14 PM on 05/16/2008
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If the case goes to trial, the defense will use this video to try to discredit the complainant. I advise anyone in a similar situation not to make such a recording.

Judging this in a light most favorable to the man, he is still seven + years older than this girl and had sexual contact with her when she was below the age of consent. From the CNN article, I understand he is being prosecuted for lewd and lascivious contact. He had no business putting his hands on her, and prosecution is warranted. I'd give him jail time and sexual offender status.

This girl needs some parenting and counseling, and get the computer out of the bedroom.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:57 AM on 05/16/2008
- EbonBear I'm a Fan of EbonBear 38 fans permalink
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I'm honestly not sure what to make of this. Might be real, might be a staged recitation of a real event, might be lying for some reason, might be an outright hoax, I just can't say. Not enough information.

One thing though, this really isn't the place for yet another round of the Hillary/Obama wars.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:32 AM on 05/16/2008

Most local district attorneys have a private complaint process for people to use when the DA will not file charges. I suggest she explore that process.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:08 AM on 05/16/2008
- julieeiluj I'm a Fan of julieeiluj 3 fans permalink

in Florida?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:55 PM on 05/16/2008

For all you would-be date rapists / rapists out there...

NO means NO period !

I remember reading about rohypnol (sp.?) in the mid nineties, and thinking to myself ' WTF is their MAJOR MALFUNCTION ??? Can't get any, any other way ? '

You need to be nailed - up by your balls ( If you have any. ).

I hope that little girl gets some help, solace, and care.


More to follow. -ralph

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:43 AM on 05/16/2008
- landmine I'm a Fan of landmine 4 fans permalink

hmmmmm.
I think this is one for the courts.
Article says they "had an ongoing sexual relationship".
At some point, she says she resisted.
The guy says otherwise.
Court should figure it out.
Innocent till proven guilty.

I hate to see young people go through stuff as rough as this so early in their lives.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:39 AM on 05/16/2008
- BushBites I'm a Fan of BushBites 30 fans permalink

It's statutory rape either way, though, isn't it?

She was 16 and he was 23.

Or is that kind of thing legal down in Floriday.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:55 AM on 05/16/2008

That is legal in most states. 16 is the age of consent regardless of the age of the other. Only 12 states are older than 16. Many states the law is 16 as long as the older person is a person in authority, foster parent, step parent, teacher, police officer, boss, ect.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:55 PM on 05/16/2008

in my state (PA), it's 16 is the age of consent but only with someone up to 4 years older than you are, until you hit 18

so 16 +4 = 20
17+4= 21
18= anyone

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:24 PM on 05/16/2008

I agree. If they had an ongong sexual relationship, rape will be hard to prove. She will be shown as a scorned woman, who was left by her lover.

Sorry, but the court system is not easy.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:02 AM on 05/16/2008
- bentenrai I'm a Fan of bentenrai 3 fans permalink

That's one hell raiser... her tears look fake, but if she's underage and the guy an adult, he definitely ought to get his @$$ hauled downtown for a while, regardless of whether she's kicking a fuss or not, he should know better. She definitely look like a kid.
I feel for the girl, but I'm reserved about this. I've dated a drama queens, and I had to attend teary scenes over stuff that wasn't worth it, I've seen more nastiness of thought than anything else.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:10 AM on 05/16/2008
- Pleidian I'm a Fan of Pleidian 6 fans permalink
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Either way...Makes me really sad. Is this where we are..."modern" human beings? I swear, if there really was an all powerful God with a daily interest in what happens on Planet Earth (as relegious people seem to have convinced themselves), we, as a living being project of God, would have been terminated for genocide and general bad behaviour sometime during the 20th century.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:55 AM on 05/16/2008

The alternative, of course, is that there really IS this all power God... in whose image we were created, of course. In other words, judging from that which He has sown, God is one sick, messed up mofo. Oh, and for the conservative christian types who feel compelled to inform me I'm a blasphemer, I was actually told this by Jesus last night when I was texting Him, so back off!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:48 AM on 05/16/2008
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Well put Pleidian. I am surrounded my those who believe in the modern superstitions. However, my parents never depended on religion to keep my dating habits rather sedate by today's standards. I think it is asking too much for the courts to get involved in personal relations. The courts would do well just to enforce restraining orders effectively, which is what that girl needs now if she is so frightened. Also when I was in high school and college decades ago, the FAST GUYS were well known on the feminine grape vine. Has that disappeared? Maybe it has. A really fast guy came after me in church a couple years ago and no one said a thing until I started asking around. Then they fessed up. Meanwhile everyone just watched that predator without saying a thing. I have noticed a general lack of community in my suburb. I guess we are all isolated in our cars and when we get home we watch TV instead of interacting.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:52 AM on 05/16/2008
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Fake.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:11 AM on 05/16/2008

i feel like there is a lot more to the story.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:02 AM on 05/16/2008
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The sad thing is we've had other convincing acts like lonelygirl, or the guy who claimed to be an Iraq vet and both were bogus. I truly hope this isn't fake.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:35 AM on 05/16/2008

I agree! There is a lot of crap on youtube that is a pure cry for attention. On the other hand, I'm sorry if her story is true.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:26 AM on 05/16/2008
- arkgrfx61 I'm a Fan of arkgrfx61 4 fans permalink

I think you might be right....it just seems very over-acted.
I'm sorry if my reaction is incorrect, but I go by my gut and heart strings and neither one of them are being wrenched or torn.
I don't know from personal experience (thank god) but if I were raped i would not want to announce it to the world.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:21 AM on 05/16/2008

That's my reaction too.

If it's not a fake, I am truly sorry, but - I just get the impression that it's a total hoax.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:15 PM on 05/16/2008
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Telephones don't work anymore?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:59 AM on 05/16/2008
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No matter what, she needs help. What kind I am not sure. Maybe because she looks so much like Drew Barrymore people think she is acting. The computer and camera may not be hers, it does nothing to disprove her that she is on good equipment. If she is telling the truth I just hope she gets the help she needs, if this is a prank it does a terrible disservice to young girls who are really going through this type of situation. But I would give her the benifit of the doubt for now, more women have been raped than have lied about it.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:54 AM on 05/16/2008
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