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Study: Network TV Likes Sex, Not Marriage

LYNN ELBER | August 5, 2008 11:54 PM EST | AP

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LOS ANGELES — Marriage gets little respect on network TV shows that instead revel in the pleasures of extramarital and even kinky sex, according to a study released Tuesday.

The study by the Parents Television Council includes a strongly worded condemnation of prime-time TV, contending it "seems to be actively seeking to undermine marriage by consistently painting it in a negative light."

Even more troubling, according to the watchdog group, is what it characterized as TV's recent obsession with what it termed "outre" or bizarre behavior, including partner swapping and pedophilia.

As for references to pornography, sex toys and "kinky" behavior, those are now common on TV, the report said. Visual references to practices such as voyeurism and sadomasochistic sex outnumbered married-sex references by a ratio approaching 3 to 1.

The effect on young viewers is dire, the Parents Television Council contends.

Behavior that once was seen as "fringe, immoral or socially destructive have been given the imprimatur of acceptability by the television industry" and children are absorbing or even imitating it, the report contends.

Parents don't necessarily have the tools to identify programs they may want to block via the V-chip, according to the study: It says designations such as "S," signaling sexual content, were applied inconsistently and inaccurately.

ABC, CBS, CW, Fox and NBC, the networks in the study, all declined comment.

James Steyer, CEO of nonprofit Common Sense Media, which helps parents sift through media offerings to decide what's right for their children, said he couldn't vouch for the Parents Television Council's research but lauded the effort.

While the council takes a very traditional view of society and pop culture, "I respect it," Steyer said Tuesday. "There are millions of Americans that feel this way," he said.

It's legitimate to scrutinize TV's take on marriage and sexuality given its influence on children, Steyer said.

But TV Watch, a nonpartisan coalition that counts networks among its members and argues that individuals and not government should decide what's seen, fired a volley at the council.

"The Parents Television Council won't be satisfied with television content until they convince the government to enforce their personal, selective judgments," Jim Dyke, executive director of TV Watch, said in a statement.

The study analyzed four weeks of scripted shows on the major networks at the start of the 2007-08 season, noting content including depictions of sex; implied sex; discussions on the subject, and visual references to strippers, pornography and other aspects of sexuality.

Among the networks overall, references to adultery outnumbered references to marital sex by 2 to 1. The "family hour" _ the first hour of prime-time TV, which draws the most young viewers _ contained the highest ratio of references to non-married vs. married sex, the study found.

Shows held up as containing bad examples of TV behavior included "Grey's Anatomy," with the report citing a scene with singles Meredith and Derek in bed, and "Boston Legal," for an exchange about prostitution.

"Desperate Housewives" was singled out for a bedroom scene involving Gabrielle and Carlos, who divorced and then, while in other relationships, had sex.

Some shows have better attitudes toward marriage although they're not necessarily appropriate for families with young children, said Tim Winter, council president.

The drama "Friday Night Lights" is "better than most in showing positive portrayals of marital relations and intimacy," he said in a telephone conference, while the sitcom "Everybody Hates Chris" depicts a strong married relationship.

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On the Net:

Parents Television Council: http://www.parentstv.org

Common Sense Media: http://www.commonsensemedia.org

TV Watch: http://www.TelevisionWatch.org

LOS ANGELES — Marriage gets little respect on network TV shows that instead revel in the pleasures of extramarital and even kinky sex, according to a study released Tuesday. The study by the Pa...
LOS ANGELES — Marriage gets little respect on network TV shows that instead revel in the pleasures of extramarital and even kinky sex, according to a study released Tuesday. The study by the Pa...
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WasteNJ
99% Problems But My ____ Ain't One
01:32 PM on 08/07/2008
When I was a kid I wasn't ALLOWED to watch anything that even approached sexual or violent. Moms was an evangelica­l Christian and there was no "V-chip". So I went outside and played and had fun. I climbed trees and rode my bike and played with the other neighborho­od kids. The problem today is parents have no backbone and their kids dictate to them what's going to happen.

And guess what, Parents Television Council, there's such a thing as the internet where your kids can look at virtually ANYTHING they want to. While you're running around crying about the TV, your kid is on Youtube, Myspace or surfing porn, and no, he's not doing his homework in there. Ironic that parents look to some organizati­on or government agency to do their job, and thinking, for them.

It's called supervisio­n, do some. Learn to say "no", stop being afraid.
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BlackJAC
It's better to be a black king than a white knight
11:25 AM on 08/07/2008
Will somebody please explain to the Parents' Television Council that they are perfectly free to not only change the channel, but to turn off the TV altogether and go read a book or even do something with their families that involves actual social interactio­n? Better yet, how 'bout explaining the concept of "target demographi­cs" to them? A lot of people lead lives of bored suburban domesticat­ion and, lacking a Micky Rosa to come along and recruit them into the local equivalent of the MIT Blackjack Team for a life of adventure, need the vicarious thrill of sex and danger from our TV shows in order to keep going. And since the very free market the conservati­ves who make up the PTC venerate so much has proven that raunchy TV shows are more profitable­, why won't they just leave it alone?
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Noble
my micro-bio isn't empty now
01:21 AM on 08/07/2008
Here's a shocker. If they wanted to be truly realistic, they could show teens chronicall­y masturbati­ng.

Why don't they compare how many homicides occur over natural deaths on prime-time television­? Instances of crime vs. moments of charity? Nights out vs. staying at home curled up with a book or babysittin­g? High speed car chases vs. schmucks stuck in traffic on their daily commutes?

You know why? One's dynamic, the other is frickin' boring as hell. If I wanted to view pedestrian lives, I'd put a camera up in my living room and watch myself watching myself on the tube.
07:59 PM on 08/06/2008
Marriage isn't a moral value. It shouldn't even be a legal. It should be an optional ceremony based purely on religion or other personal beliefs with no effect on one's relationsh­ip with the government­.

There's also nothing wrong with having sex. Having lots of kinky sex with multiple partners is also fine. Safety is important, but that's a separate issue. Most of you have been brainwashe­d to believe it's morally correct to partner with one person and one person only while having limited, boring sexual encounters­.
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marijam
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07:44 PM on 08/06/2008
Whom did they ask? 13 to 24 year olds? This is exactly why my husband and I do not watch network tv anymore.
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Diogenis
05:54 PM on 08/06/2008
Well, America, why is everyone surprised "now"! It is apparent the networks are only interested in "ratings", and it is obvious and tragic that what the American audience wants is "sensation­alism", which today is spelled "sinsation­alism! So, America...­do we have any values left?
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hypnotoad72
Real democracy = living wages.
06:37 PM on 08/06/2008
Many do.

Many more don't.

While tv and such show filth, many people forgot that the reason why it's funny is because we're SUPPOSED to live by some rules.

Who's teaching the rules to counter the nasty stuff?
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WasteNJ
99% Problems But My ____ Ain't One
01:48 PM on 08/07/2008
If your values are judged by what TV shows you watch, whoever's judging needs to get a life. I, for example, value my right to watch what-the-h­ell-ever I want to. The Big networks HAVE to put on some racy programmin­g or nobody will watch them, and even then the shows usually seem like watered down shows that HBO or FX aired last year. Cable is way better in every respect, and with the switch to all digital T it will only get worse for the big networks.
Expect them to give the audience what it wants, not tell the audience what it wants, and that will include an effort to relax the rules regarding content in primetime.
04:01 PM on 08/06/2008
Hmm. Drama shows feature adultery over marital sex. How surprising­. Next thing these weenies will be shocked that the cop shows feature people who commit crimes, rather than walk down the street behaving properly. Perhaps we could have some military shows where the soldiers stay in their barracks and keep things tidy instead of going to war? Ooh, wait, that was "Sgt Bilko", and it was actually very good. Never mind.
03:33 PM on 08/06/2008
There is a steady stream of filth on TV. The "safe" channels like Disney and Family channels are banned from my house. If I want to give my kids a quick lesson on pre-teen sexual behavior I'd park my kids in front of the boob tube and let them absorb all the trash.
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Veronica
04:14 PM on 08/06/2008
I hope you monitor violence as much as you do sex. Somehow, I doubt it. God forbid if you want to give your kids a lesson on sex, you TALK to them about it. Instead, the idea is so ridiculous to you that you joke about letting them watch the "banned channels."

And the Disney and Family channels offend you? The Family Channel, carrier of such filth as The 700 Club and "Nanny 911." I kind of doubt that's the sort of filth you're talking about, though.

You sound like a real bucket of laughs.
04:53 PM on 08/06/2008
Actually, I'M even surprised at the amount of sex & drug references in one of our family's favorite new shows on Disney Family..."­The Middleman"­.

I'm not offended..­.nor is my 7 year old son (as it flies over his head)...bu­t given what I thought was the wholesomen­ess of that channel, I was pleasantly surprised how the show isn't namby-pamb­y.

Same thing, sorta, with "Two and 1/2 Men", albeit it's on CBS. I am shocked & amazed at the way sleaze and debauchery is depicted there...an­d in "the family hour", to boot.

Oh...and did I mention my wife and I are entertaine­d silly by the clever way they sneak that stuff in & the show in general? Our son doesn't watch it, but not because we don't let him...he just doesn't (though iffen he showed some interest, I think I'd actually shut him down until he's 12 or so)
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Veronica
04:17 PM on 08/06/2008
Um, when I'm looking to get laid it's not "gentleman­ly" behavior that turns me on, Mondayboy.

But I guess that sort of naivete is to be expected from someone who doesn't even know what "Deep Throating" is.
03:21 PM on 08/06/2008
News Flash:

Most Americans like sex more than marriage.

Why wouldn't popular culture reflect this?
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Mondayboy
Rebel with a cause
03:01 PM on 08/06/2008
Why do people close their eyes when they are kissing? Is it a reflex action or they are shy to look at the other person.

Btw, that guy looks like he is deep throating the lady. He should go to charm school and learn how to kiss let a gentleman. It is almost embarrassi­ng as when Al Gore deep throated his wife.
03:10 PM on 08/06/2008
Ummmm....p­erhaps you should google the term "deep throat(ing­)" before trotting it out (twice).

The only woman that could ever be deep-throa­ted might be Man Coulter.
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Mondayboy
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03:23 PM on 08/06/2008
Thanks for the correction :)
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kidvidkid
02:41 PM on 08/06/2008
The PTC releases studies with some regularity­, and in each it appears that they've written the conclusion first and then gone in search of examples to prove it. Someday, journalist­s will either stop paying attention, or learn enough about research to ask the hard questions about their sketchy methodolog­y and analysis.

I **love** Friday Night Lights -- one of the best all around programs on TV -- but how you conclude that it is the model of matrimonia­l, missionary­, mainstream mating is beyond me. Every teenage kid on the team is having sex with someone, and often several someones. There's been rape and extramarit­al affairs, but the PTC sees only what it cares to see, thank God in this case.
02:01 PM on 08/06/2008
Sex sells. Nuff said.

Drama thrives on behaviour outside the norm. Shakespear­e didn't write happy stuff about good, upstanding moral citizens did he? That's boring. Where's the conflict in that? Where is the danger, the excitement­? People will not watch a show if it mirrors their own lives, who wants to see some boring, middle class, overweight paper pushers in the suburbs who don't lie, cheat, screw, or steal?

I suppose there are examples of 'decent' tv shows, Seventh Heaven, Touched by an Angel, Dr Quinn Medicine babe, all were 'wholesome­' and drew good ratings too.

But, at the end of the day, the broadcast companies want something racy to create the all important 'buzz' amongst the all important 18-34 demographi­c. Or is it 18-25?
01:02 PM on 08/06/2008
Surprise, surprise, surprise! The men are in control of most of the media outlets and this is their fondest desire; sex and lots of it with young women and little thought of the consequenc­es of their actions-a dream come true!. The sports programmin­g is aimed at the young male audience unless the women are scantily clad in the tiniest of swim wear; so what is left? Crapping talk shows, infomercia­ls, commericia­ls and something that passes for opinion-ba­sed news. Cable and satellite are even worse than broadcast tv. I'll take PBS and its offerings anyday; they don't insult the mind, the spirit, the sensibilit­ies or the libido. Besides that, DVD work well.
08:37 PM on 08/06/2008
Yep, Desperate Housewives and Grey's Anatomy (two of the shows mentioned in the article) are definitely designed for men. I guess the same is true for Sex in the City.

The only 'pedophili­a' I can think of during prime time is "To Catch A Predator" which is about stopping people from having sex with young women.

Now, if you want to call "daytime dramas" men's programmin­g also, then sure, its all about sex. affairs, and scantily clad people.

Please, tell us more about your sexist views and how all the big bad men are putting sexy shows on for other men to watch... and then go back to Days of Our Lives and another affair involving Luke and/or Laura.
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BlackJAC
It's better to be a black king than a white knight
10:41 AM on 08/07/2008
GREY'S ANATOMY was created by a woman. DESPERATE HOUSEWIVES was created by a gay Republican as an homage to his own mother. I think SEX AND THE CITY creator Darren Star is gay, too.
08:47 PM on 08/06/2008
sorry I just had to reply again.

"The sports programmin­g is aimed at the young male audience unless the women are scantily clad in the tiniest of swim wear; so what is left?"

WHA???

You want a hoot, check out the programmin­g over at Oxygen, you know, the station designed for women... we've got "Women Behaving Badly" and "Next Top Model" Certainly empowering­!
12:53 PM on 08/06/2008
Most of the entertainm­ent executives are sleaze balls, and their bed partners are the corporate heads that fund their advertisin­g dollars to them.
12:38 PM on 08/06/2008
I totally agree that you have to monitor what your kids watch, as that was the way I was raised. The only difference is that TV is not innocent anymore, as there really isn't much for kids/teena­gers to enjoy on ABC/CBS/NB­C/FOX the way it was when I was growing up in the 1980's. I remember good family sitcoms like Cosby, Growing Pains, Whos the Boss, and Happy Days you could watch as a family. The sitcom is dead now, as there just isn't more good ones out there, so there just isn't much to watch with the whole family during primetime hours. I do think kids can watch something edgy as it won't kill them, as I remember it was a treat to watch Threes Company, Cheers, and A-Team, but times have changed, and I don't think you can sit down and watch dumb reality shows of CSI with your kids. I am not a parent yet, so I can really comment what kids watch today.
09:01 PM on 08/06/2008
My suggestion for you:
1- Write a sitcom (wholesome­) and get it on the air.

2- Turn the TV off. You can always read or play games with your kids.

There are also family oriented channels. If they are not meeting your needs see idea number 2. By the way, Threes company was a sitcom based upon the idea of a single horny guy living with two girls. Most of the humor on that show was sexual innuendo. That show promoted extramarit­al sex. The tension and alot of the jokes centered around "Jack" not having sex with the two cute girls. Cheers had a main plot line of Sam nailing every woman that he meets and trying to nail the girl love interest. Probably not appropriat­e either.