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Nebraska's "Safe Haven" Law Allows Parents To Abandon Unwanted Children

JEAN ORTIZ   08/22/08 06:23 PM ET   AP

Safe Haven Law

OMAHA, Neb. — Nebraska's new "safe-haven" law allowing parents to abandon unwanted children at hospitals with no questions asked is unique in a significant way: It goes beyond babies and potentially permits the abandonment of anyone under 19.

While lawmakers may not have intended it, the month-old law raises the possibility that frustrated parents could drop off misbehaving teens or even severely disabled older children with impunity.

"Whether the kid is disabled or unruly or just being a hormonal teenager, the state is saying: 'Hey, we have a really easy option for you,'" said Adam Pertman, executive director of a New York adoption institute and a frequent critic of safe-haven laws.

Nebraska's approach is surprising because it is the last state in the nation to adopt a safe-haven law.

But instead of following the lead of other states, which focus on the abandonment of newborns, lawmakers here wanted to extend the protection to all minors. And in Nebraska, that goes all the way up to age 19.

"All children deserve our protection," said Sen. Tom White, who helped broaden the measure. "If we save one child from being abused, it's well, well worth it."

White said it doesn't matter if that child is an infant or three years old or in the care of a parent or baby sitter. As for what constitutes a minor, he refers to common law, which interprets it to be anyone under age 14.

State Sen. Arnie Stuthman, who introduced the original bill dealing only with infants, agreed to the compromise after the bill became stalled in debate.

"The main interest I have is that it gives the mother or a parent another option of what to do with a child before they do something drastic," he said.

The measure, which took effect July 18, does not absolve people of possible criminal charges _ for example, if a child had been beaten.

And since the law does not specify, it technically allows anyone, not just a parent, to legally surrender custody. Most other states narrowly define the role of the person surrendering the child.

Some hospitals have fielded questions from the public about the law, but no children have been dropped off.

"I hope there never is one," Stuthman said.

Pertman, who directs the New York-based Evan B. Donaldson Adoption Institute, said his research going back several years shows safe-haven laws are not accomplishing what they intended. Women who are distressed enough to want to abandon their children are not the ones reading billboards or getting the message about these laws, he said.

Pertman finds Nebraska's law particularly alarming because it is not focused on infants and parents.

Casting such a wide net "circumvents every rational practice in child welfare that I'm aware of," he said. "That's as nicely as I can put it."

California, for example, allows parents to legally abandon a child at a hospital or other designated safe zones within 72 hours of birth.

The brevity of the law could trigger litigation over its meaning, said Jonathan Turley, a George Washington University law professor.

"This law is obviously written in almost skeletal form," he said. "Drafters will sometimes try to say as little as possible so they don't create ambiguity, but drafters here succeeded in writing the law in such a limited fashion that the entire provision is ambiguous."

Nebraska lawmakers acknowledge the courts will have to sort out the details, and they have said they are open to revisiting the legislation if necessary.

The Nebraska Hospital Association has been working to help its 85 member hospitals statewide establish procedures for dealing with abandonment cases.

Sen. Ernie Chambers, who voted against the law, said he would prefer to address the reasons that parents abandon their children rather than offer them safe haven.

"I don't think such laws are wise," he said.

Kathy Bigsby Moore, executive director of the child advocacy group Voices for Children in Nebraska, said she also worries how the law might affect adoption rates.

"The sad thing is we have plenty of other mechanisms for people to use," she said. "I'm not sure the safe-haven law is really going to help in a majority of cases."

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05:01 PM on 08/23/2008
It is very obvious from reading these posts, that the cast majority of you do not understan dthe legislative intent for these "safe haven" laws. The vast majority of you are fousing on the lack of of a age limit (frustrated mothers dropping off their junior high age chilkdren) or have turned this into an abortion debate or one about parenting skills. This law is about a teenager that hides her pregnancy from her parents and rather than smothering the child, can take the child to a "safe haven" NO QUESTIONS ASKED. This alw is about a single mother that had an out of wedlock child and realizes she cannot care for the child, she can take the child to a "safe haven" no prosecution, no three years of trying to MAKE her assume a responsibility she cannot cope with. This is about the woman that finds herself with an abusive boyfriend and thinks she has no options for he is making her choose between him and the child (many times he ends up killing the other man's child because she cannot or willnot protect the child) This is reality folks, all sane people WISH life was different, but wishing don't make it so! This law will serve, as I said before, the HELPLESS, before we read another case of the mentally tormented parent "disposing" of their baby.
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tbone99
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05:10 PM on 08/23/2008
The sad thing is most women's shelters don't offer space for children, only a few do. This makes many women decide against leaving no matter how bad it gets.

Too badt here are not crisis centers like the one in Tucson.You can leave your child there for a up to a few weeks if there is a crisis in your family and you can't provide, cope or protect your child.
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tbone99
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04:50 PM on 08/23/2008
Hey it's better than selling them on Craigslist , like i recently read about someone doing , with a five year old.
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04:14 PM on 08/23/2008
I work around people all day long who have raised severely autistic children; their kids are teens now, and the people I work with do incredible things helping other families cope with what can be enormous difficulties in the pre-school and early school-age years; difficulties dealing with non-communicative, sometimes explosively physical, often un-toilet trained children who can't be left alone, 24 hours a day. Day after day.

I work with incredible, strong women, yet one day my boss--a degreed social worker herself--looked up from reading a sad account about another mom at the end of her rope who'd committed (perhaps) suicide in a car accident with her son. She said, "We've all had that thought. Every one of us. We don't do it, but there was a day we thought about it, sometimes many dats. It would be OVER." She said it quietly.

And if this law helps some mom who's been stretched past breaking point to find a better solution that rammed an 18 wheeler head on, it's worth it.
04:02 PM on 08/23/2008
This just opens the door for would-be parents to say "I changed my mind, I don't want to have a child anymore". And how, exactly, is this better than abortion? Considering the child has already been brought into the world, shouldn't we as a society expect that the birth parents who made the initial choice to have a child assume the responsibility for said child?
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04:31 PM on 08/23/2008
"Considering the child has already been brought into the world, shouldn't we as a society expect that the birth parents who made the initial choice to have a child assume the responsibility for said child?"

NO we should NOT expect birth parents to assume responsibility. And if anti-choice advocates have their way ... there will be plenty more birth parents FORCED to have unwanted, unmarketable children for which they WON'T and SHOULDN'T assume responsibility. In fact, the responsibility SHOULD be assumed by the anti-choice advocates... to keep taxes from being raised?
05:15 PM on 08/23/2008
The title "birth parent" is not necessarily synonymous with responsibility. Withholding information on reproductive functions is, in my mind, child abuse. When normal biological (God given?) activities can lead to death, disease, or unwanted children, it is the adults who should demonstrate responsibility.

Parents, who would not allow their child to ride a tricycle without a helmet, send adolescents into the world with the sage advice to keep their legs crossed.
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06:49 PM on 08/23/2008
Maybe, depends upon whether the parents had any choice re/ birth control and/or abortion. Even then, if the parents choose to avoid responsibility, it is the child that pays. I think that the people who enacted this law understand that. Given your attitude, I assume tht you would oppose divorce as well.
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03:19 PM on 08/23/2008
can we drop off presidents?
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06:50 PM on 08/23/2008
Only if they are toilet trained.
02:27 PM on 08/23/2008
I live in New Mexico next to an Indian Reservation. The latest news is that a woman beat her two year old child to death and placed his body in a cooler. Nebraska's law should be an example for all states and Indian Reservations to follow. As a society, let us do more to protect our children.
01:13 PM on 08/23/2008
This is a tough one. I had to wait 24 hours to post because that picture and the sadness this story generates is like a body blow. I was in Nam so that shows that I have been around a while and I have an occupation that interacts with people that have problems of all kinds. This story makes me want to grab mankind by the ears and shake them a lot and maybe they will wake up and try to be good people. I know people that are now mature adults that survived parents and those that survived the social services system and the positive note in this is that they are here and did survive. One of them is my best friend. You sit in the shade on a porch and have a few beers and hear the story about journey. I also have my own stories that would shock most of you. A lot of us that are older have these stories so bad parenting has been around a while. You try to be true to your nature and be kind and thoughtful and caring but the early years always come back to you over and over again and there was a definite permanent impact. I wont criticize this law or complement it either. I will just ask my fellow man to try to do better in the future.
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01:10 PM on 08/23/2008
As a former principal in the public schools, I am very happy that this law exists. I had to phone s ocial service about twice a week to report child a buse.

One day, 2 of my students, ages 7 and 9, showed up at school with their back-backs over flowing . They said their Mom told them not to come home after school or she would k i ll them. I drove them to s ocial services after school knowing that I couldn't bring any more "foster" children home for dinner.

Mom herself was ab used and men tally i ll.

Kids ended u in foster, then back with Mom, then...?
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01:00 PM on 08/23/2008
It's a sick society that has to pass laws allowing parents to abandon their kids. But it this protects one child from a life of abuse, it's more than worth it. There should be a way, however, to go after the offenders. No one has a righ to harm a child.
12:33 PM on 08/23/2008
For old people like me, I like the Kevorkian airline. Fly a mile high, push the needle, fly a hundred miles over the ocean, and kick open the door. Kevorkian should receive a medal of some kind.
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12:32 PM on 08/23/2008
I will tell all of you bloggers that are being so self-righteous that, as a child that was consistently abused and neglected, I would have welcomed a way to get away from the hell that was my childhood in the home of my birth parents. Bravo to Nebraska--very brave move. This is truly PRO-LIFE!
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BabsfromKansas
12:38 PM on 08/23/2008
As a principal in the public schools, I am very happy that this law exists. I had to phone social service about twice a week to report child abuse.

One day, 2 of my students, ages 7 and 9, showed up at school with their back-backs over flowing . They said their Mom told them not to come home after school or she would kill them. I drove them to social services after school knowing that I couldn't bring any more "foster" children home for dinner.
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06:52 PM on 08/23/2008
Hear, hear.
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gypsy508
12:11 PM on 08/23/2008
Next time your kids don't behave tell them you'll drive them to Nebraska and leave them there
12:17 PM on 08/23/2008
....or maybe it will result in less abused and murdered kids, of all ages !
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Mort
Once I thought I was wrong, but I was mistaken.
12:55 PM on 08/23/2008
That might work better than introducing them to Mr. Rope, Mr. Gag and Mr. Closet!
11:37 AM on 08/23/2008
For those Repugs who believe fetuses should be birthed at all costs, this should allow them to relieve their guilt and participate in the after effects.

Oh, I forgot, guilt is for the poor and oppressed.
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ShakeYourComplacency
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11:27 AM on 08/23/2008
We could support and fund organizations like planned parenthood. We could fund social programs and health programs. We could improve the financial position of families. We could fund education. We could approve of condoms and birth control. We could provide pregnant women unprepared for children information on their options, including termination of the pregnancy. We could stop pimping religion, which encourages abused wives to stay with their husbands. We could start trying to prevent violence in the home and incest in the home. We could provide families with stable jobs, health care and paid childcare. Or.....................................Or....................we could make more laws like this that allow parents to drop the kids off at hospitals. This isn't just a sad (and probably necesary) law, it's the canary in the coalmine.
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11:38 AM on 08/23/2008
I think President Obama will be quite open to all of the options you list in your first paragraph.

McCain will be happy with the status quo.
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MsLiz
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01:26 PM on 08/23/2008
McCain thinks the status quo is unacceptable. He wants to roll back to the 1930s.
05:33 PM on 08/23/2008
I used to live next door to a family with a single (divorced) mom and 6 children. The mother worked from early morning to night making van seat covers. The children, ranging from 15 to 7 managed as best they could. Every evening was devoted to feeding and bedding down the brood and every weekend to laundry and what passed for cleaning.
One day, a car (I thought it was social services) stopped in the drive between our houses. The ladies got out and came to my door. They wanted to know if I would give my neighbor some pamphlets and invite them to church.
I told the ladies that I would do that, but what was really needed was someone who would come by and mow the tiny lawn, take the kids to a movie, or provide a casserole. The idea of doing personal service so shocked them that they ran from my door, leaped into their car and sped away. I filed the pamphlets.
It is the relentless grinding responsibility of raising children without support, either personal or financial, that crowds out all the joy in life that makes people snap. Instead of worrying about the unborn, churches should be taking care of the living. I believe this is one of the requirement listed in the “rule” book.
A safe place, that you could leave a child, even for a few days, would save many families from crossing into a realm of no return.
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07:02 PM on 08/23/2008
Thank you.
10:52 AM on 08/23/2008
I am a former Judge in the state of Nebraska. To you "naysayers'; at what age would you draw the line. The legislators did the right thing. A year old? So, then if the child is 18 months old, the parent(s) don't see any options. I strongly favor any option other than the list of horrors that I could recite from my own first hand experience. If this option saves one child from death, it is worth any of the silly "what if's" and moral rhetoric posted by those that live in a world of theory. Forget the “troubled kids” and all of the “normal” family conflict. This legislation prevents babies in dumpsters, closets, motel toilets, and dropped on in rest stops restrooms. It amazing to me , that people readily accept prosecutors making deals with hired killers in order to get the prosecution they want. But advocate that a parent with a “psychic break” be allowed to place a child , with impunity, in safe hands is somehow circumventing justice. Hundreds of times parents have killed their children because in their tortured minds they cannot see a way out for themselves of their children. A cut off age will doom those children over that age. Let’s save some lives and worry about the “what if’s” when the situation arises. And to that hospital, you better hope that you DO have some children dropped off. That means there are safe and the law is working for the helpless.
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12:45 PM on 08/23/2008
Toyally agree. Good Law.
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MsLiz
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01:29 PM on 08/23/2008
(Applause). I was a guardian-ad-litem on cases such as you describe. People sitting in the pews have no idea what goes on in the real world. Life is hard, let's not make it worse.

The Nebraska law doesn't abrogate the obligation to pay child support, does it? It just removes the child from the parent's immediate presence.

As the nation's economy worsens, we will see more children at risk.
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tbone99
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04:57 PM on 08/23/2008
It sounds anonymous - at least the baby law was.Child support should not be expected, because it may be the dealbreaker that makes them decide they will go ahead and keep that child...

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