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Pastor's 'Seven Days Of Sex' Message Goes Viral (VIDEO, POLL)

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Huffington Post   First Posted: 12/26/08 Updated: 5/25/11

Not surprisingly, the "Seven Days of Sex" sermon that Pastor Ed Young gave his Texas congregation earlier this month has really caught on.

Young challenged his parishioners to have sex with their spouse every day for a week to see how it benefited their relationship. And although he bases his 'sexperiment,' as he calls it, on Christian ideology--that God created sex for husband and wife--it would seem that the fundamental message is resonating outside church walls: more sex is a always a good thing, even if you have to schedule it.

Yesterday's New York Times' 'seven days of sex' story shot straight to #1 on the Most-Emailed List.

In the article, Young's congregants report that on the seventh day they were feeling pretty good.

One parishioner, Rob Hulsey, 25, said his Baptist relatives raised their eyebrows about it, but he summed up the reaction of many husbands at Fellowship Church when he first heard about the sex challenge -- "Yay!"


A week later, he and his wife, who are expecting a baby and have two older children, could not stop holding hands during the sermon. His wife, Madeline Hulsey, 32, said she was just as thrilled to spend a week focusing on her husband. Usually, "we start to kiss, and it's knock knock knock, Mom!" she said.

Others found that, like smiling when you are not particularly happy, having sex when they did not feel like it improved their mood. Just eight months into their marriage, Amy and Cody Waddell had not been very amorous since Cody admitted he had had an affair.

"Intimacy has been a struggle for us, working through all that," Ms. Waddell said. "This week really brought us back together, physically and emotionally."

So Pastor Young told his parishioners to keep going.

Today Tucker Carlson endorsed the idea on The Daily Beast, calling it "one of the best public policy proposals of the decade."

Once you factor out venereal diseases, there's almost nothing better for you than regular sex. Judging from the many studies on the subject, a daily romp is healthier than yoga, a five-mile run and a handful of multivitamins combined. Sex has been shown to ameliorate memory, posture, depression, anxiety, insomnia, menstrual cramps, digestion, bladder control, dental health and the sense of smell.


It's a natural analgesic that also reduces the risk of prostate cancer and heart disease. It lessens the incidence of colds and flu. It burns calories. Overall, according to a 1997 study in the British Medical Journal, men with the most active sex lives have a death rate half that of those with the least active. Sex prolongs life.

You'd think that someone other than Ed Young would have noticed this. Maybe one of the tens of thousands of federal bureaucrats paid to worry about America's health might have caught on and launched an ad campaign on billboards and city buses. ("Sex: It's the Right Thing to Do," or "Take a Minute for Couchball.") But no. It took an evangelical.

CNN's Rick Sanchez and Kyra Phillips were all over the story, playing Marvin Gaye's "Sexual Healing" and swaying in their seats. At the end of the report, Kyra joked "I gotta go to church" and ran off the set.

WATCH:


Here's an excerpt of the original sermon:

The marathon sex mandate is not so new: this year two books, 365 Days of Sex: A Memoir Of Intimacy and Just Do It: How One Couple Turned Off the TV and Turned On Their Sex Lives for 101 Days (No Excuses!), made headlines and raised eyebrows, as well as the question of which comes first: a happy couple or a good sex life? Read more about those couples' stories here.


Quick Poll

What do you think of the '7 Days Of Sex' mandate?

I agree with Tucker Carlson: Christian doctrine aside, it's one of the best public policy proposals of the decade.

I think it's stupid and overly simplistic. A mandate for sex robs the act of its romance and makes it mechanical.

I don't know. I'll give it a try and get back to you.


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Not surprisingly, the "Seven Days of Sex" sermon that Pastor Ed Young gave his Texas congregation earlier this month has really caught on. Young challenged his parishioners to have sex with their spo...
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BlackYowe
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11:07 PM on 11/30/2008
Sounds like a fun idea. What ever could it hurt unless one of the spouces has a STD from messing around on the side. Pew, how could anything be more uplifting than a good roll in the narthex!?
02:01 PM on 11/30/2008
Get out of the bedroom organized religion, you've done nothing but screw things up (pun intended).
07:26 PM on 11/28/2008
The whole goal behind the scheme for this pastor is to increase the pregnancy rate among his congregati­on. The more you get busy, the chances of procreatio­n increase. These people are not here to guide you for better life; they just want to explode the number of church members to squeeze more money out of them.
03:00 PM on 11/28/2008
LOL it's always funny to see how people of faith seem to be always behind. People that pay attention to science and research have known for years that more sex with your partner leads to better relationsh­ips.
02:17 PM on 11/28/2008
This is news?!? Who cares!!!!!­!! Focusing on stupid b.s. like this is what's wrong with our media. If CNN is apparently adequately covering this non-story, why is it also on The Huffington Post?
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sociocanuck
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12:16 PM on 11/28/2008
Sign me up. Do I really have to get married first, though?
10:39 AM on 11/28/2008
Sex should be taught in the church as long as it taught right from the Bible.
01:44 AM on 11/28/2008
..........­.....and the wives should be graciously submissive­.
10:26 AM on 11/28/2008
Well said! If he cared at all he would have address the reasons why some of these couples were not having sex. Sex only has all of those great benefits if both partners are enjoying it! Maybe those men/women are clueless about pleasing their partners because they have had their heads stuck so far into the bible that they have forgotten that the average relationsh­ip cannot survive without some sort of intimacy! Intimacy can mean a variety of things, and that is not just sex! Why are some people such idiots?
01:15 PM on 11/28/2008
I think one of the points was to be able to discuss and address those issues also--not just some ravenous husband having sex with his wife. Read and watch before making blank judegement­s.
10:35 PM on 11/27/2008
Good advice. Like most things we know we "should" do (healthy diet, exercise etc) we don't actually do it unless we make ourselves do it - and then we are so happy for it.

God only know why everything becomes so difficult. I actually turned down sex with my wife the other day because I could just tell it was another chore for her (funny because she was the frisky one BEFORE we got married). Guys just stay the same.

It a sad feeling when the woman you love no longer desires you. And yes, I help around the house bla bla bla. She's just no longer into it.
10:29 PM on 11/27/2008
This is pretty stupid. People are acting like a preacher has the last word in people's lives. Let the Bible show you the way, not some crazy preacher!

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10:53 PM on 11/27/2008
Obama is a communist? You are frickin crazy, go pray for the Rapture.
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DCinFrance
As a matter of fact, it's all dark.
12:42 PM on 11/28/2008
LOL...I'll call you crazy until the cows come home.
11:27 AM on 11/27/2008
Sex advice from Pastor Ed Young and Tucker Carlson?..­... hmmmm.... No Thanks.
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sunnybunny
04:39 PM on 11/26/2008
Why all the negative comments about sex and christiani­ty?
12:39 AM on 11/27/2008
This is the context in which most Christians commentary of sex is heard, whether it's the way they condemn those who have it differentl­y from them (unwed, gays and lesbians) or when they are in denial of their own sexuality (Haggard) or raping children (priest)
03:35 AM on 11/27/2008
How much Christian commentary on sex have you heard?
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DCinFrance
As a matter of fact, it's all dark.
12:45 PM on 11/28/2008
It's particular­ly focused on Christians because it's the majority religion in the US. However, there are few religions that do not define sex outside of male/femal­e relationsh­ip as wrong, and fewer yet outside of marriage in a male/femal­e union.
01:17 PM on 11/28/2008
can two males produce offspring?
01:19 PM on 11/28/2008
can two females produce offspring?­--Even hardcore science states certain facts in the universe.
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02:01 PM on 11/26/2008
For married couples who apply this to their life I think it will manage to cause break through' s that will either make some couples appreciate each other all the more and some others show to their partners how they never really cared all that much for them in the first place. It'll be good either way as being happy with the one you're with is very important and if the one you're with has been using your relationsh­ip for person gain and profit and sex is only used as a reward in their little game of marriage, it'll expose the phonies and bring the loved one's closer together. I think it's perfectly legitimate and will benefit the group as a whole and save many and end a few marriages but that is better than the status quo, life's too short.
01:34 PM on 11/26/2008
One condition was that "Pastor Ed" had to have a private "Jesus Meeting" with ALL of the spouses, just to confirm that they were truly, and properly "filled with the Spirit" !
01:24 PM on 11/26/2008
As a Christian liberal progressiv­e, I have read a lot of hateful comments towards christians on this site. To be liberal minded is to accept ALL people and their beliefs. Some christians are bad. Some muslims, atheists, agnostics, and jews are bad. It is the height of closeminde­d bigoted thinking to lump whole groups of people together and then judge them. No matter who does it. My pastor talks about sex and intimacy in marriage. People outside the church tell us all the time that more sex is good for you. I guess they are all perverts trying to brainwash our little minds as well. Oh yeah, I am not a drone. I am a educated black woman who leaves judgements up to God as He commanded. Republican­s are not the only Christians in this country. I am sick of all the judging and name calling from the so-called liberal left. Look in the mirror at your own bigoted behaviour.
04:20 PM on 11/26/2008
No, it's not necessary to accept ALL people and their beliefs. Some people believe that women or asians are inferior or subhuman, for example. I don't have to accept those people or their beliefs.
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DCinFrance
As a matter of fact, it's all dark.
12:55 PM on 11/28/2008
I too am not of the opinion that I must celebrate every opinion as if it had legitimacy just because it was uttered by someone. However, they have every right to whatever nonsense they wish to believe--l­eft, right, upsidedown or sideways--­as long as they leave it at that. There is no harm done to me if someone says to me "you are wrong" or "there are regrettabl­e consequenc­es as you act upon your beliefs". However, if in acting upon my beliefs I am infringing or otherwise disenfranc­hising another from their liberty to believe utterly stupid things, then I should be brought to answer for it in this world.
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feliznavidad
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03:05 PM on 11/27/2008
Alleluia! I am a progressiv­e and a Christian -- and I fear that the militant atheism and andi-Chris­tian bias of some on the left are sowing the seeds of destructio­n in the progressiv­e movement. Believe me -- I don't like the practices or teachings of some so-called "Chrstian" cults -- but many of these are simply heresies. Some cults, though they easiy claim the name of Christ, actually seem to reject the essence of His teachings. I don't expect non-Christ­ians to know the difference­, but I do wish people with genuine faith in Christ would work hard to find a church on that is solid foundation­s. We will be most effective when there are many more of us that are trying to follow The Way. To non-Christ­rian progressiv­es -- Please don't split the progressiv­e movement -- we need to be united.