05/09/2009 05:12 am ET | Updated Nov 17, 2011

When All You Have Left Is Your Pride

"I have a new client, a laid-off lawyer, who's commuting in every day -- to his Starbucks," said Robert C. Chope, a professor of counseling at San Francisco State University and president of the employment division of the American Counseling Association. "He gets dressed up, meets with colleagues, networks; he calls it his Western White House. I have encouraged him to keep his routine."

The fine art of keeping up appearances may seem shallow and deceitful, the very embodiment of denial. But many psychologists beg to differ.

To the extent that it sustains good habits and reflects personal pride, they say, this kind of play-acting can be an extremely effective social strategy, especially in uncertain times.


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