Jennifer Aniston: Self-Proclaimed Romantic Explains Why Relationships Fail

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First Posted: 09- 9-09 08:32 AM   |   Updated: 11- 9-09 05:12 AM

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Jennifer Aniston is promoting her upcoming "Love Happens" with an interview in the October issue of Harper's Bazaar in which she proclaims, "I'm still a romantic."

The ex-wife of Brad Pitt, ex-girlfriend of Vince Vaughn and more recently of John Mayer tells the magazine that she knows what makes a relationship fail.

"I think it's laziness," she says. "I think a good relationship is about collaboration. I think you just need to talk to each other. Say what you need. Say what you want. That way it's not threatening. You just need to say, 'This is important to me.' Don't expect your mate to read your mind."

She also puts some blame on women who don't expect enough of their men from the beginning.

"I think that's because it's just instinctual as a woman to be the caretaker of your home. Women complain that men don't do enough, but it's your own fault," she said. "You train your man to do nothing. You can't blame someone for not knowing what his or her job should be if you don't ask for it right off the bat."

But don't think she's still hung up on any of her exes.

"I think it's important to have closure in any relationship that ends - from a romantic relationship to a friendship. You should always have a sense of clarity at the end and know why it began and why it ended. You need that in your life to move cleanly into your next phase," she said.


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Jennifer Aniston is promoting her upcoming "Love Happens" with an interview in the October issue of Harper's Bazaar in which she proclaims, "I'm still a romantic." The ex-wife of Brad Pitt, ex-girl...
Jennifer Aniston is promoting her upcoming "Love Happens" with an interview in the October issue of Harper's Bazaar in which she proclaims, "I'm still a romantic." The ex-wife of Brad Pitt, ex-girl...
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LAloo explains the development of love & then spirals out of meditaotoon; most women are to aggressive! This woman looks feral!!!!!!!!!!!


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    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:12 PM on 10/15/2009
- ChelseaC I'm a Fan of ChelseaC 145 fans permalink
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She's beautiful.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:32 AM on 09/17/2009
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Jen, what you fail to realize is that today's society is a throw away society.

More than 1/2 of marriages end in divorce.

Expect to have many relationships in your lifetime.

Sad to say but our country is all about consumption (still) and relationships are a part of that.

That said, i'd date you!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:17 AM on 09/11/2009
- feyangel I'm a Fan of feyangel 24 fans permalink
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I don't feel she is qualified to discuss "why relationships fail." She could legitimately discuss why HER relationships fail-- but she is completely not qualified to offer advice and/or generalized insights. In my opinion.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:30 AM on 09/11/2009
- wanked I'm a Fan of wanked 9 fans permalink

Maybe its because one partner is shallow and spends all their free time working on their tan and body or talking about their ex's.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:19 AM on 09/11/2009
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Not another hollywood "love story"...gag.

I like Ms. Aniston, but enough with the relationship talk it's not good for her image; besides all that stuff sounds really trite, like she read it on the inside of a snapple cap or on the side of a box of tea.

Closure? You can't order a side of closure to go wiith your break-up/ divorce/ death of a partner. Life is messy.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:43 PM on 09/10/2009
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She sounds, well, like a bird brain.

Maybe that is her relationship problem. Too much stupid.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:28 AM on 09/11/2009

Why are we getting the intricacies of relationships explained to us by someone who is introduced my her string of break-ups? I have nothing against Ms. Aniston, but when she talks like she has it all figured out and says things like (yes I'm paraphrasing) "it's your fault if you don't train your man right," it gives a little insight into her romantic woes.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:30 PM on 09/10/2009
- El Camino I'm a Fan of El Camino 9 fans permalink
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Sic transit gloria ElPerro.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:30 PM on 09/10/2009

OMG she can sing! Give her an Oscar.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:20 PM on 09/10/2009
- PuddinPie I'm a Fan of PuddinPie 3 fans permalink

OMG!!!! I can't believe this has continued into Thursday! I'm loving it!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:10 PM on 09/10/2009
- HAKI I'm a Fan of HAKI permalink

I love her.
I see she really is going out with Gerard Butler. Lucky girl! There are pictures of them leaving an LA restaurant late last night!! She dates and marries the hottest Hollywood hunks.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:10 PM on 09/10/2009

Oh yeah, Jen, next time I get a guy I'll make sure to be demanding and controlling. I'm sure that'll make him wanna stay like, forever.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:26 AM on 09/10/2009

We all know why. She's a B I T C H

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:01 PM on 09/10/2009
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Is that what you call your mother?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:26 PM on 09/10/2009
- nah415 I'm a Fan of nah415 7 fans permalink

Very predictable. Very boring. Very Jennifer Aniston.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:23 AM on 09/10/2009
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Agreed.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:10 AM on 09/10/2009
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But she managed to grab your attention? Sees like she's doing a wonderful job.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:25 PM on 09/10/2009
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Who cares what Miss Box Office Poison thinks?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:21 AM on 09/10/2009
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Looks like you do, hence the clicking on the link.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:26 PM on 09/10/2009
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Fly away, your bitterness.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:19 PM on 09/15/2009

I can't believe how passionate women get about Jennifer Aniston. She is however very
smart about milking all the sympathy into box office success.

It's amazing that it's 2009 and women are still saying things like someone "stole"
her husband! What he was drugged and forced to have sex against his will?
People aren't property, men have free-will and make their OWN choices: good or bad.

If my husband left me for another woman I'm not going to go crazy and say someone
"stole" him from me. I'm going to face the fact that HE left me. Men are tempted daily,
it's up to THEM to resist and keep their marriage vows. I think Aniston gets that
her ex-husband fell out of love and left her. They both seem to have moved on.
However she understands that her fans have not.

Every time she is in a Rom-Com and has to talk about relationships brings
in sympathy and money. I used to find her movies entertaining but got bored and
started feeling manipulated. She should stay single and continue to milk it, I would!

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:50 AM on 09/10/2009
- El Camino I'm a Fan of El Camino 9 fans permalink
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"I can't believe how passionate women get about Jennifer Aniston."



Tell me about it. ElPerro's gonna drop a u terus if she doesn't calm down and take her e strogen p ills.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:22 AM on 09/10/2009
- Endora I'm a Fan of Endora 8 fans permalink

Of course it is up them to resist, but the women trying to get them are responsible for their actions, too.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:09 PM on 09/10/2009
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