Hundreds Of Korean Families Separated For More Than 50 Years Reunite

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KWANG-TAE KIM | 09/26/09 02:46 PM | AP

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SEOUL, South Korea — Lee Dong-un cried and held the hands of his 60-year-old North Korean daughter Saturday during their first meeting in more than half a century. They were one of hundreds of families reuniting as part of a program revived by Pyongyang in an effort to ease tensions with South Korea.

The meeting was bittersweet for Lee, who left behind his pregnant wife and daughter, then 2 years old, in North Korea when he fled to the South during the Korean War. The 84-year-old burst into tears after his daughter told him his pregnant wife was killed when a bomb fell on her North Korean town.

"I always thought about you. I've never dreamed that we could meet," the elder Lee said, according to South Korean media pool reports. No foreign journalists were invited to the reunions.

The reunions are the first between the divided countries in nearly two years. Pyongyang suspended the program in 2007 in retaliation for conservative South Korean President Lee Myung-bak's get-tough policy toward the North.

The resumption of the program is widely seen as the North's latest olive branch toward rival South Korea. In recent weeks Pyongyang has reached out to Seoul by freeing five detained South Koreans, agreeing to "energize" a troubled joint industrial project, and restarting suspended tours for South Koreans to the North.

"North Korea appears to be aiming to use the humanitarian project as a way to restore bilateral relations," said Koh Yu-hwan, a North Korea expert at Seoul's Dongguk University.

Lee Dong-un was among about 200 families from both sides scheduled to hold six days of reunions with relatives they have not seen since the war ended in an armistice, not a peace treaty, in 1953, leaving the countries divided. The last reunions were held in October 2007.

More than 120 South Koreans, most in their 70s or older, arrived at the Diamond Mountain resort on North Korea's east coast on Saturday for the reunions, according to the Unification Ministry handling inter-Korean affairs.

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Millions of families remain separated following the Korean peninsula's division in 1945 and the ensuing civil war. There are no mail, telephone or e-mail exchanges between ordinary citizens from the two Koreas, and they can't travel to the other side of the peninsula without government approval.

The meetings are a highly emotional issue in the Koreas because most of those applying for the chance to see their long lost loved ones are in their 70s or older, and are eager for a reunion before they die.

Of 127,400 South Koreans who have applied since 1988, nearly 40,000 have already died, according to South Korea's Red Cross.

The reunions, which began in 2000 following a landmark inter-Korean summit, last through Oct. 1 and it remains unclear when they may be held again.

For some, the reunions brought back painful memories.

"You said that you will be back soon after visiting Seoul, why did you come now?" Chung Wan-shik, 68, asked his 95-year-old father Chung Dae-chun, who lost contact with his family as the war struck while he was on a business trip in South Korea.

Saturday's reunions also included two South Korean abductees and one South Korean prisoner of war in the North.

The two abductees – former South Korean fishermen whose ship was seized by North Korea in waters off the west coast 22 years ago – met their loved ones from the South.

"I never forget to think about my hometown and sister," Roh Song-ho, one of the fishermen, told his South Korean sister. He married in North Korea, and brought his wife and daughter to the reunion.

South Korea says the North is holding 560 of its soldiers from the war, in addition to 504 South Korean civilians – mostly fishermen whose boats were seized since the war's end.

North Korea says the civilians voluntarily defected to the North and denies holding any prisoners of war.

The North agreed to resume the reunions last month as part of its moves to reach out to South Korea and the United States after months of tension over its nuclear and missile programs. The reunions also come amid growing pressure on Pyongyang to abandon its nuclear weapons programs and return to stalled disarmament talks.

North Korea boycotted the six-nation nuclear talks in April to protest world criticism of a rocket launch it carried out, but its leader Kim Jong Il has reportedly expressed interest in "bilateral and multilateral talks," indicating the North could rejoin the nuclear negotiations involving the U.S., China, Japan, South Korea and Russia.

SEOUL, South Korea — Lee Dong-un cried and held the hands of his 60-year-old North Korean daughter Saturday during their first meeting in more than half a century. They were one of hundreds of f...
SEOUL, South Korea — Lee Dong-un cried and held the hands of his 60-year-old North Korean daughter Saturday during their first meeting in more than half a century. They were one of hundreds of f...
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- EdA I'm a Fan of EdA 5 fans permalink

"Just as guilty"? Not hardly.

While I certainly feel that the long-standing travel ban is wrong-headed and counter-productive, it is not NEARLY the same, not by orders of magnitude. For half a century, North Korea has allowed essentially NO connection of ANY kind between Koreans whom they control and Koreans in the South (or for that matter virtually anyone anywhere else in the world). On the other hand, people in the United States -have- been able to interact with Cuba, especially with family members, albeit generally through somewhat circuitous routes. Please note that while it is not legal for a U.S. passport to go to Cuba, it is my understanding that it is perfectly legal for the person who is attached to that passport to go (and also to come back!).

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:29 PM on 09/26/2009
- pedernales I'm a Fan of pedernales 20 fans permalink

I'm sure you could find, personally, worse horrors throughout our illegal Iraq invasion or unless you've been among the majority in Guantanamo.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:49 PM on 09/26/2009
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Governments should not be able to exercise this degree of control over people's lives. There is no rationalization for it. The only word to describe this type of forced separation is "mean".

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:49 PM on 09/26/2009
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To the author: It's "rending", not "wrenching" - "heart rending", not to be confused with "gut wrenching".

HTH.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:59 PM on 09/26/2009
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Good point. We do need some good proofreaders around here.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:13 PM on 09/26/2009
- provgrays I'm a Fan of provgrays 33 fans permalink

"Heart wrenching" is correct, as in causing great pain to the heart. To rend means to separate into pieces with violence or to tear at one's clothing in rage or grief. Rend also is defined as distressing the heart with painful feelings.

Nothing wrong with the word choices in the piece.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:33 PM on 09/26/2009
- Iccarus I'm a Fan of Iccarus 31 fans permalink
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Tear down that wall Kim Jong Il !

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:50 PM on 09/26/2009
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Families should certainly be united, but if the two countries unified, most of South Korea's wealth would be wasted on the North which would need decades upon decades of investment to counter over 50 years of totalitarian neglect.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:27 PM on 09/26/2009
- dteg I'm a Fan of dteg 26 fans permalink
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Better that than wasting the money on two armies training to annihilate the other.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:00 PM on 09/26/2009
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***Better that than wasting the money on two armies training to annihilate the other***

Or perhaps a third option of keeping North and South Korea as seperate countries?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 09:17 PM on 09/26/2009
- timbonotes I'm a Fan of timbonotes 29 fans permalink
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it pales in comparison to the money that the American taxpayer has involuntarily forked over to continue the greatest holdup in world history, the Wall Streeet bailout

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:22 PM on 09/26/2009
- siasina I'm a Fan of siasina 102 fans permalink
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Dammit, just let them all reunite and reunite all of Korea.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:24 PM on 09/26/2009
- dteg I'm a Fan of dteg 26 fans permalink
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i am rooting for the North and South to reunite. Maybe then they will have the land resources to feed all of Korea.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:42 PM on 09/26/2009

Recent famines in N. Korea were not caused by a lack of resources but rather from a twisted system imposed on the people by the few thugs who rule N. Korea

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:46 PM on 09/26/2009
- dteg I'm a Fan of dteg 26 fans permalink
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not really what I meant. I mean the land and resources. I am sure they would be better able to use the land with help from S,K.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:57 PM on 09/26/2009
- bwin I'm a Fan of bwin permalink

North Koreans need access to media, especially the internet. That alone would force a change in the will of the people. Absolutely no excuse for starving your own people. There is a special place in hell for him and his ilk.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:08 PM on 09/26/2009
- hulagirrrl I'm a Fan of hulagirrrl 43 fans permalink
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Boy, I can not wait for the day when the people do the same that East Germany did, just crush the borders. It is so wrong to keep people apart for political reasons.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:47 PM on 09/26/2009
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As some one who is living in South Korea, you would be surprised but South Korea's (most) don't want reunification. They feel as if they are two totally different soceities with nothing in common with the North. When Germany reunified it had a whole host of problem which are still being felt today. South Koreans don't want the hassle. The South has the 11th largest economy and they have in the last 30 years gotten this new found wealth and they don't want to lose it. There is just so much time and once the generation of the Korean War dies off the younger generation won't feel the need for these family reunions with distant relatives.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:29 PM on 09/26/2009
- dteg I'm a Fan of dteg 26 fans permalink
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I am sure there will always be those that don't want it to happen. There are many that do and in the long run it will probably be the best for both nations. It is probably mostly those who make money off the military. Our soldiers could come home if they reunified.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:47 PM on 09/26/2009
- richnerd I'm a Fan of richnerd 50 fans permalink

Interesting but it makes sense. I was in Berlin after the wall came down and there was a cultural divide and some curious misconceptions. Many West Berliners thought that people raised in East Berlin were lazy and used to being paid for a bad work ethic. It's taken some time, but the city has changed. South Korea is very much like Japan was during the bubble.....I can't see the two cultures reuniting without serious problems. The younger generation have moved on...their values are much different than their parents.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:05 PM on 09/26/2009
- Iccarus I'm a Fan of Iccarus 31 fans permalink
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Shoot is it to late to take back that tear down that wall comment I made?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:58 PM on 09/26/2009
- samilli3 I'm a Fan of samilli3 67 fans permalink
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some human beings can be so cruel......glad that these families were reunited.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:38 PM on 09/26/2009
- Vxx I'm a Fan of Vxx 31 fans permalink

This is such intimate cruelty practiced by the North Korean thugs.... and it doesn't even begin to address the "disappear" labor camps that doom entire generations of families for one member being scapegoated.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:47 PM on 09/26/2009
- foxbat I'm a Fan of foxbat 109 fans permalink
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It's a shame that these families, and others like them in other parts of the world, have been separated by such a superficial boundary as nationalism.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:09 PM on 09/26/2009
- tel8034 I'm a Fan of tel8034 92 fans permalink

Don't forget that the US is just as guilty .................... Remember the CUBA TRAVEL BAN.

Most Americans currently travel to Cuba through Canada, Mexico or the Bahamas in order to make contact with their families left behind, and they ALWAYS INSIST that NO Cuban immigration entry stamp is affixed to their passports so as not to get into trouble with the American authorities when they return back home to the US.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:37 PM on 09/26/2009
- foxbat I'm a Fan of foxbat 109 fans permalink
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tel ... agreed. I was originally going address my post just to the article, but included the reference to other parts of the world like Cuba, Haiti, and several other places.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:53 PM on 09/26/2009
- JulieSA I'm a Fan of JulieSA 165 fans permalink
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Nationalism isn't the problem. Totalitarianism is. N Korea is a prison camp that lets no one in or out without permission.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:48 PM on 09/26/2009
- foxbat I'm a Fan of foxbat 109 fans permalink
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It's not just totalitarianism. The US has restrictions to Cuba that cause hardships for families. Haiti has a policy that works somewhat in reverse that makes it hard for people without families still in Haiti to leave the country. There are other places in the world that have similar issues. While totalitarianism contributes to the hardship, it's not just non-democracies that impose these types of hardships on families.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:56 PM on 09/26/2009
- Ventoi I'm a Fan of Ventoi 6 fans permalink
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La paix.

We do not find peace in separating families.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:57 PM on 09/26/2009
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what is distressing about this is that this division was caused because the US military left in defeat....

"Kim Ki-sung, an 82-year-old South Korean, met his son and daughter whom he left behind in North Korea in 1951 when U.S.-led U.N. troops retreated during the Korean War."

Viet-Nam is a unified country who we welcomed as a trading-partner in the UN Assembly last week...

Perhaps we should chose our battles more wisely...aka..the Iraq fiasco....where we removed our best defender against Iran...

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:51 PM on 09/26/2009

Yes.

It would have been much, much better to let the entire Korean peninsula be run by those fabulous Kims (they're always so concerned about the well-being of their people!) than dividing the country and letting the South govern itself as its people see fit . . .

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:38 PM on 09/26/2009
- dteg I'm a Fan of dteg 26 fans permalink
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You never know what Korea would look like today if USA had not fought there.

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:50 PM on 09/26/2009
- JulieSA I'm a Fan of JulieSA 165 fans permalink
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Because it would be better if the entire peninsula were imprisoned and starving instead of just half of it? Is that what you wish on them? What's your beef with Koreans?

    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:50 PM on 09/26/2009
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