Ceara Sturgis, Lesbian High School Student, Told She Can't Wear Tuxedo In Yearbook

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SHELIA BYRD | 10/15/09 09:09 PM | AP

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JACKSON, Miss. — Everyone at Wesson Attendance Center knows 17-year-old Ceara Sturgis is gay because she's never tried to hide it.

But when Sturgis – an honor student, trumpet player and goalie on the school's soccer team – wanted her senior photograph in a tuxedo used in the 2009-10 yearbook, school officials balked. Traditionally, female students dress in drapes and males wear tuxedos.

Now, the American Civil Liberties Union of Mississippi has gotten involved, issuing a demand letter to Principal Ronald Greer to publish the picture of Sturgis in the tuxedo. The ACLU says it's giving the school until Oct. 23 to respond before pursuing court action, said Kristy L. Bennett, the ACLU's legal director.

A secretary for Greer referred questions to Copiah County Schools Superintendent Rickey Clopton, who declined to comment on Thursday.

Sturgis said she should get to decide how she looks in the senior photo.

"I feel like I'm not important, that the school is dismissing who I am as a gay student and that they don't even care about me. All I want is to be able to be me, and to be included in the yearbook," Sturgis said in a statement.

Veronica Rodriguez, 47, said school officials are trying to force her daughter – who doesn't even own a dress – to appear more feminine.

"The tux is who she is. She wears boys' clothes. She's athletic. She's gay. She's not feminine," said Rodriguez during an interview Thursday at the ACLU office.

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Rodriguez said Sturgis took her pictures over the summer instead of with the other students last year, but she used the same studio.

In August, Rodriguez said she received a letter from the school stating that only boys could wear tuxedos. Rodriguez said she met with assistant Superintendent Ronald Holloway who told her he didn't see regulations about the issue in the student handbook.

But when she talked with Greer, she said he told her it was his "conviction" that Sturgis wouldn't appear in the yearbook in a tuxedo.

Bennett said the teenager's constitutional rights are being violated. Bennett said similar cases, including same-sex prom couples and girls wearing tuxedos to proms, have been successfully challenged in court in other states. ACLU officials said they were unaware of any other constitutional disputes involving gay teens at Mississippi schools.

"You can't discriminate against somebody because they're not masculine enough or because they're not feminine enough. She's making an expression of her sexual orientation through this picture and that invokes First Amendment protection," Bennett said.

There's no state policy that deals with the yearbook photo issue, said state Department of Education spokesman Pete Smith.

The deadline for the photo to be accepted for the yearbook was Sept. 30. But advertisements for the publication are still being taken so Sturgis has time for her photo to be included, Bennett said.

Sturgis lives with her grandparents in Wesson, a town of about 1,700 founded during the Civil War in southwest Mississippi. The town's Web site said residents "pride ourselves on our quiet way of life."

JACKSON, Miss. — Everyone at Wesson Attendance Center knows 17-year-old Ceara Sturgis is gay because she's never tried to hide it. But when Sturgis – an honor student, trumpet player and ...
JACKSON, Miss. — Everyone at Wesson Attendance Center knows 17-year-old Ceara Sturgis is gay because she's never tried to hide it. But when Sturgis – an honor student, trumpet player and ...
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Mississippi. What a shocker.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:32 PM on 11/06/2009

Ceara, stay strong and true! You go girl! It's not easy being a lesbian in the south... the bible belt with all of its homophobes is not a fun place to live sometimes. Stay true to yourself and go for any dream you may have! I hope you accomplish all your dreams!

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:55 PM on 10/21/2009
- klandish I'm a Fan of klandish 83 fans permalink
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Women have been dressing in tuxes since Marlene Dietrich did in the 30's. What's the big deal?This is just another form of gender fascism. And THAT should be OUTLAWED.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:22 PM on 10/19/2009

"Gender Facism"? What the blooming heck is that?

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:43 PM on 10/20/2009
- klandish I'm a Fan of klandish 83 fans permalink
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It's when Institutions, societal conventions, and the mainstream dictate to the culture what is not only appropriate for it's citizens to wear but insists on it to the point of creating gender rules that must be followed to the letter or consequences will result. The effect is no different when certain Religions oppress female followers with specifics in dress that must be accommodated or persecution will follows.

By the way I made the term up.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:24 AM on 10/21/2009
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    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:26 PM on 10/18/2009
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I know. Let's make all school children wear identically shaped and patterned uniforms.

I was going to say "paper bags", but this is an instance where having basic ground rules prevents kiddies from playing stupid games, like that.

Principals like to claim "We can't do anything, waaah!". Oh, yes you can. Otherwise you'd have done it. Stop being indolent. If there are problems with discipline and education in this country, then the solution is utilizing discipline and education.

"Learned traits"; people are not born as doctors, fresh from the proverbial chute... or anything else. Nor am I discounting genetic traits - but genetic traits are not the issue here. Anyone attempting to spin the issue is diverting into hyperbole.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:29 AM on 10/18/2009
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I have no idea what you just said.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:46 PM on 10/18/2009
- RACVC I'm a Fan of RACVC 5 fans permalink

Ceara is an honor student, trumpet player, and a soccer player. Historically she has dressed in her own style for a long time at this school. Sounds like she's doing quite well for herself.
This principal needs to focus on the real school problems that he undoubtedly has to deal with.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:07 AM on 10/18/2009

PART TWO

I have seen a lot of posts about Ceara will have to conform to dress-codes in the "real-world." Those are usually WRITTEN rules and never would Ceara choose to work in a place that required her to wear a dress. She would agree to wear a pant suit like so many women today wear, including myself.

Again, I appreciate every single one of you supporting my sister, you all have NO idea how much this means to her, you really do not. Your comments have been read by either myself or my mother or even my sister (when she has the time to break away from everything that is going on in her life, she is after all in her senior year, still playing sports, and doing band and on top of all this interviews and media conferences haha) and these words of encouragement have meant the world to her and her family. It has made Ceara feel important because Ill tell you, this senior picture is NOT the first time Wesson has discriminated against her, this senior picture is just the straw that broke the camels back. Thank you ALL!

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:04 AM on 10/18/2009
- KazooDan I'm a Fan of KazooDan 21 fans permalink
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I'm sure Caera will be happier in life than all of the naysayers on these pages.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:15 AM on 10/18/2009
- wdw505 I'm a Fan of wdw505 74 fans permalink

America needs to bring the shock factor back. If a 14 year old girl is pregnant, it is not a reason to throw a party the age of consent has not been reached and society will judge. Your kid tattoos his/her body beyond belief society will judge. Body pierce your face society will judge. A felon is released on to society depending on the crime where he/she can live and work is judged. If you are on welfare for an extended period of time society will judge. Your son wants to marry his boyfriend this not a happy occasion. Until recently it was illegal. Society will judge still.

More things that society judges to be aberrant, wrong, illegal or just plain bizarre, less people will go down that path. Society is kept in check. Peer pressure can be good.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:16 AM on 10/18/2009
- KazooDan I'm a Fan of KazooDan 21 fans permalink
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You're right, peer pressure can be good. The principal is not her peer. I wonder how many of her peers have a problem with the tux pic? Probably very few.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:27 AM on 10/18/2009

Your logic escapes me.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:29 AM on 10/18/2009
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So what you're saying is that it's good for society to ostracize those who are different? What a lovely sentiment.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:49 PM on 10/18/2009
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wdw505....you are a homphobe..pure and simple

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:28 PM on 10/19/2009
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It is nobody's business to judge others. Let her wear the tux, if that is what she wants.

Get over yourself, before someone judges YOU!

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:47 PM on 11/06/2009
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Good luck to your sister and your family. Sounds to me like Ceara is both strong and bright. May she do well and be happy.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:09 PM on 10/18/2009

Fine....

But consider this...

In a world that is mostly hetero she is going to have a tough time and that is the reality of the situation.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:46 PM on 10/20/2009
- ladyvader I'm a Fan of ladyvader 103 fans permalink
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I wear clothes from the mens department. Had not hurt me at all. Get over yourself. Clothes are clothes.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 06:48 PM on 11/06/2009

Ms Fuller,

In all kindness, would it be allowable for her to wear a woman's pantsuit for her yearbook photo?
Perhaps that would quell the contorversey and permit everyone to "save face"?

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:06 PM on 10/20/2009

PART ONE

First of all, I would really like to thank EVERYONE who is supporting my little sister in this matter. I understand that none of you actually know Ceara and do not understand who she is. My sister has always been pretty open about her sexual orientation and she has been boyish her entire life. He has never been the one to wear girl clothes, she has never been feminine. I know to some of you, you think this is a small matter, but to my sister, family, and myself, Wesson is not allowing Ceara to be WHO SHE IS!

My sister, my mother, and I have discussed this issue a lot over the past week and we are ALL in agreement that if there had been a WRITTEN rule concerning this matter, Ceara would have worn the drape and just taken the tux pictures for herself. Little do people know the when this all FIRST started, we didnt run straight to ACLU, Greer said she could not wear the tux, then our mother went to Ricky Clapton and he said he did not see the big deal, Greer turned around and said he didnt care this picture was not going into the year book, mom went back to Ricky Clapton and he said that whatever Greer says goes.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:03 AM on 10/18/2009
- dct1999 I'm a Fan of dct1999 366 fans permalink
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No dress code = she should be able to wear the tuxedo

You can't retroactively institute a dress code. And the homophobic principal should keep his "convictions" to himself.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 10:59 AM on 10/18/2009
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See my direct post above, HOW is the principal being "homophobic"?

And, yes, there should be a dress code re-instituted. In my day (the late 1980s), kids got to wear truly nasty stuff at school and nobody blinked an eye. (e.g. a heavy metal t-shirt, with the slogan "Metal up your ass tour", complete with a picture of a dagger-wielding fist coming up out of a toilet. Yeah, that's really classy... not...) Some people have sued their districts, and won, for a hell of a lot less than what I endured (it's enough to write a book on, and there are enough shocking elements to make it profitable in *this* society too). That's all I've got to say...

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:32 AM on 10/18/2009

Wesson does have a general dress code that students have to abide by, there has always been one it just became more strict when I was there. Both guys and girls must wear polos and I know at one point they were going to try and enforce khakis but I dont think that went over well.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:45 AM on 10/18/2009
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Even if a new dress code is instituted it wouldn't apply to Ms. Sturgis. A tuxedo is not equivalent to tatesless tee shirt slogans.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:46 AM on 10/18/2009
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I agree completely about the often disgusting swill people put on their t-shirts these days (and car bumpers, etc), but that has nothing to do with this girl and her tux photo. Nothing at all.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:49 PM on 10/18/2009
- wdw505 I'm a Fan of wdw505 74 fans permalink

to enforce societal judgments is not always bad

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:37 AM on 10/18/2009
- dct1999 I'm a Fan of dct1999 366 fans permalink
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And it's not always good.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:47 AM on 10/18/2009
- KazooDan I'm a Fan of KazooDan 21 fans permalink
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What gibberish. You can't enforce societal judgments on others. They can only be enforced on ones self.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:51 AM on 10/18/2009
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And whose gets to make these "judgments" you want enforced?

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:30 PM on 10/19/2009
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Is there something in the water in Mississippi that makes people pick stupid fights?

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:33 AM on 10/18/2009
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Maybe be related to Baptistima Infuenziana.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 04:47 PM on 10/18/2009

A quiet town...that's a laugh...

You know there are some things that are just better to go along with..

As in "Know when to pick your battles"....

All of us have to learn that lesson and to learn that we need to "get along" or else
the going is going to be more tough than it needs to be.

Bad enough that she is gay because she isn't going to have an easy life...

And that's what many of us are afraid of....

Being so different is pretty hard.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:46 AM on 10/18/2009
- nick1936 I'm a Fan of nick1936 17 fans permalink

What the hell did you all expect IT'S MISSIISSIPPI

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:12 AM on 10/18/2009

Nick,

I moved from Boston to Dallas in the summer of 1963 going into first grade.
I was short, had a really "funny" accent and was Catholic when most of my classmates
were Baptist.

I know full well what it is like to stick out like a sore thumb!

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:09 PM on 10/20/2009
- Willow712 I'm a Fan of Willow712 18 fans permalink

In our small town Iowa, senior pictures are taken outside, usually at the park, on a horse, with a dog, leaning over a downed tree, with 4H goats, etc. They usually are wearing jeans and a Tshirt, lots of fall leaves, etc. They include whatever is important to the senior. Then the photographer and family pick out the best pix for the yearbook.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:32 AM on 10/18/2009
- Dupree I'm a Fan of Dupree 218 fans permalink

As our society becomes less and less civil and more and more selfish oriented...we can see the results of the "me generation." There was a time when schools had every right to a dress code ,...now throw in a little sexual preferences ...and it is all of a sudden harmful and wrong. I feel strongly that we are becoming a society that believes the individual should do whatever he or she wants to do and then we wonder why our society and young people in general has lost the art of discipline. They feel as if they should simply do whatever they want to do and regardless whether parent or institution,....no body has a right to tell them anything. Well, sometimes in life...YOU will be restricted to adopt a dress code. I have worked in environments that dictated what could or could not be worn to work. And if you wanted that job...you find it in your best interest to conform to their rules and policies. Life has rules. Every thing you want to do...you may not be able to do. It is better for her to learn that now than later....regardless of her sexual preference...it is NOT even about that...it is about following rules. They are not all made to be broken at every person's whim.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:12 AM on 10/18/2009
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Faved! etc

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:51 AM on 10/18/2009

This isn't about whim, or rules. The article, if you had deigned to read it, made clear that there was no dress code in the student yearbook - rather that it was the Principal's 'conviction' that she would not be allowed to dress as she chooses in her picture. THAT is discrimination, simply because someone does not conform to gender norms, and THAT violates first amendment rights.

Let the damn girl dress how she wants, and stop trying to force people into a narrow and foolish view of gender.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 07:59 AM on 10/18/2009
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Dupree: If this young woman wanted to wear a T shirt that was rude or distasteful or cut down to her navel, I might agree with you! Given the following facts however, I must respectfully disagree:

1. She didn't ask to wear a rude or pornographic T shirt.
2. there is nothing in the school dress code or state policy that covers this situation or states it isn't allowed.
3. the Principal Greer is trying to force his "convictions" on her
4. there is legal precedent that addresses this situation and allows females to wear tuxedos.

I don't understand why some people want to pick a fight. Allow her to wear what she wants and concentrate on more pressing school issues!

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 08:29 AM on 10/18/2009
- KazooDan I'm a Fan of KazooDan 21 fans permalink
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Let me guess. You're part of the "Don't take away my freedoms" crowd, aren't you?

Sounds like you're the one being selfish.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:18 AM on 10/18/2009

I don't follow your argument. This is not a school "dress code" issue nor does anyone say a kid should be allowed to wear whatever to school. I think this is a gutless principal who knows he's picked a wrong fight but this way he keeps approval from the administration and board of education. That way he keeps his job. Don't forget he has the local Klan peering over his shoulder.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 11:35 AM on 10/18/2009

This is not a life changing event--she should be able to wear what she wants--it's her picture, after all. It's not like she's wanting to dress half-naked, or something....

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 01:00 AM on 10/18/2009
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Thank you. Precisely. A little perspective.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 02:08 AM on 10/18/2009
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You're both offkey, for a school's a disciplined environment. Just as must as you treasure the laws of the land, so, too, must she treasure and abide by the rules of the school which, from all appearances, she and or her parents freely chose for her to attend.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 03:53 AM on 10/18/2009

You know the adage that we all get "15 minutes of fame" well I don't know if that's really true but ask yourself what you would want to be remembered by?

In our teenage years and college years there are decisions that all of us have made that later in life we wish we hadn't made.....

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 05:53 PM on 10/20/2009
- Dupree I'm a Fan of Dupree 218 fans permalink

Part TWO

Everything YOU want to do in life...that makes perfect sense to YOU ...may not be for that particular institution. This young woman will find out that in the real world...she will NOT be allowed to wear whatever her little mind think of ...it has nothing to do with her sexual preference as much as it has to do with life itself. It is time she grasp that truth for a young man may decide that he wants to wear a G string to school...hey...look...you just can't do every thing you want to do in life.

    Reply    Favorite    Flag as abusive Posted 12:42 AM on 10/18/2009
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