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'I'm Losing My Home Basically For Being Fat' (VIDEO)

First Posted: 03/18/10 06:12 AM ET Updated: 05/25/11 03:55 PM ET

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Greg Staffa is about to lose his home because he needs to lose some weight.

At least that's how the Farmington, Minn. resident sees the situation, and he's created an elaborate website to tell his story: www.becauseimfat.com.

It goes like this: Staffa claims he will be kicked out of his house at the end of the week because he can't make his mortgage payments. He can't make his mortgage payments because he lost his job at Northwest Airlines, where he'd worked for nine years. He lost the job in March because he didn't have any seniority when a merger necessitated staff cuts. He lost his seniority after an injury sustained in 2006 hoisting a bag limited his ability to work. He said he was fired on the spot but got the job back months later as a new hire.

An independent medical exam found that Staffa's disability had less to do with the injury and more to do with his weight -- 275 pounds. A compensation judge didn't think much of the doctor's reasoning, but a ruling in Staffa's favor didn't restore his pay or seniority.

"There is no question I am losing my house over being fat because everything stems back to that day," Staffa, 34, wrote on his website, where he's uploaded just about every relevant document -- the medical exam doctor's letter, court filings, letters to the bank, even pay stubs from Northwest. (If you don't feel like combing through all that material, try the simple diagram.)

Staffa wrote that he set up his site partly in response to harsh comments about the need for "personal responsibility" on an article about the foreclosure rate in Minnesota. "It's easy to attack a few bad apples. But what good is that when the entire orchard is on fire?"

Staffa is nothing if not an extrovert. In 2006, he ran an attention-getting write-in campaign for a state senate seat. Last year he traveled across the country to raise awareness of homelessness, something he himself experienced in 2001.

"If you fall on bad times, don't feel ashamed," Staffa told the Huffington Post. "There's a lot of good people who fall on bad times who feel ashamed."

Last week, Staffa sent a desperate letter to his bank, TruStone Financial, begging for a deal that would allow him to keep his home. He said he has received no response.

A TruStone spokeswoman declined to comment, but said, "We work really hard to try to avoid foreclosures."

For his part, Staffa stressed that the bank has done nothing wrong. "The bank doesn't owe me anything. I signed a contract," he said. "But we're in such a different times."

He said he is not on good terms with family. He's frantically looking for a job and a place to stay after Dec. 18.

"It being the week before Christmas really sucks."

Of course, Staffa's enterprise would be incomplete without a YouTube video:

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02:14 PM on 12/15/2009
Um yeah... nice try with that line of reasoning. You assumed a certain level of risk by getting to that weight. Honestly... the most I ever weighed was 230lbs (6') and I felt miserable. All sorts of health problems started cropping up. I reacted and dropped to 190lbs. I'll be damned if I'm going up again.
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JoeBlough
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10:49 AM on 12/15/2009
Extreme victimhood?
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sclan5
08:23 AM on 12/15/2009
Wow, some serious fat hating loathesome people here. Openly bshing fat people. I guess my christian upbringiing did something for me. I just can't go there with the mob.
Not every overweight person is a donut juckie. I don't care what you all say here, I really think sometimes it is an undiagnosed medical issue, or how about depression? Its just not as simple as "hey drop seventy pounds you fatty" If a person is overweight the only thing that a Dr. ever tells them is oh well if you lose weigtht that won't happen. Stress is just as imortant to every day health, I don't see people saying hey quit your job, leave your family, stop going out of your way to help people, your just adding stress! I really disagree that fat is a choice. The only times I've been able to lose weight ,or quit smoking or any other major change is when I was in the right place mentally. That doesn't just happen. Life happens.
02:18 PM on 12/15/2009
The only slack I'll cut anyone is that ACCESS to decent food is hard to get. Something like 90% of Americans eat mostly processed foods and the chemical mixes pretending to be food. A lot of it is piles of corn syrup (valueless as food and does not trigger the "i'm full" signal).

Most people do not bother to move more and eat less. And they choose poorly in what they eat. Sorry, but I'm old enough to remember when fat people were the EXCEPTION in any random group rather than the norm.
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06:10 PM on 12/15/2009
Hard to get and expensive.

Part of that issue is that 90% of the food in the average grocery store is processed food full of many variations of corn. Large scale food processors know exactly what the combination of salt, sugar and fat does to your brain chemistry.
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08:19 AM on 12/15/2009
Tax fat.
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JeanRR
07:23 AM on 12/15/2009
I find this very interesting. Hatred of fat people is one of the last acceptable prejudices. I am saddened to see how many on a supposedly liberal site are eager to show off their remaining bigotry. What ever happened to empathy?
11:54 PM on 12/15/2009
How do you know that the posters who are posting their "remaining bigotry" as you put it, are liberals? Isn't that bigotry on your part? It's a fact that there are a great many right-wingers and repugs who come to this site regularly, just to stir the pot......how do you know it's not them who are posting the hate?
04:42 AM on 12/15/2009
If you truly worry about losing your house over your weight I suggest eating less and exercising more
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KIVPossum
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03:56 AM on 12/15/2009
If the back injury was an on the job incident, why was he fired? Maybe there was some violation of company policy involved?
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08:50 AM on 12/15/2009
There's a new strategy around employers are using; change the employee's status from disability to family medical leave (without telling them), which only lasts six weeks or so, then fire them when the six weeks is up. "Got a problem? Then sue us."
03:44 AM on 12/15/2009
here's the thing:

we all only need ONE thing to remember to make this world a better place: is what we are doing / how we are living harming anyone on this planet or deteriorating earth itself ?

now: there could only be one reason to feel sorry for this person: a genetic disease in spite of a healthy (vegan) lifestyle.

if that's NOT the case he is responsible for a collapsing health care system, disastrous environmental pollution, attrocities against animals and on top of that stealing my time with his whimpering.

i do send him all love and energy if he fits my description of a "righteous" human being.
if not he needs to shut up and correct his behavior.

it's as simple as that.
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floridafun
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07:39 AM on 12/15/2009
you made sense with your first line, then when you inserted "vegan" as the only way to be healthy you lost credibility with me.

yes we do need to get into a mindset of taking care of our own selves and taking care of our earth. vegan is a fine option to consider, but it isnt necessary. health can be maintained and preserved without being vegan.
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03:24 AM on 12/15/2009
I have mixed reactions. One is to feel sorry for the guy, because it's tough to be a vulnerable working person a paycheck away from financial strain or destitution. And the mortgage lending system is horrible, stacked utterly against the little working stiffs like us, struggling to scrape our monthly dabs of cash together to continue living somewhere that probably isn't worth the hundreds of thousands of dollars we "paid" for it.

On the other hand, I also feel that his playing of the victim card is unpleasant. I'm not really willing to jump on the bandwagon of resentment and martyrdom he's pulling. I doubt that being heavy has much to do with where he finds himself. It seems a little facile to blame it all on weight discrimination.

Truth is, we don't have all the facts about him or his life. Should we? I don't know that it would be that useful to him even if we did. But many of the commenters on this thread are being unduly harsh to him. I think erring on the side of compassion is good, while not validating his victimized approach either.

Isn't there some way we can help guys like this without letting him sink to the bottom all alone, and without artificially buoying him up either? There's got to be some way to help people like him get over their limitations and become productive societal members....
02:42 AM on 12/15/2009
I have a ex-wife I call Karma, and I regret the day I made her mad. . .
02:25 AM on 12/15/2009
What ever happened to "at-will" employment. Yes, it stinks. However, a company should have the right to fire anyone at any time. I truly believe that this whole wrongful discharge thing is lame.

If someone fires me because I'm of Latin descent, oh well. I don't want to be there anyway.

I'm sorry. But I have no sympathy for anyone who buys a house without at least 5-10 years of mortgage payment....at least. Personally, I'm waiting to buy a house cash. I'm DONE with credit. If I can't afford it cash, I CAN'T AFFORD IT!
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03:43 AM on 12/15/2009
Most states do still have at-will employment. The only reasons you can't be fired are those attributes covered by anti-discrimination laws....unless, of course, you have a signed contract and are a member of the union. If you are not in breach of your contract, then the employer should be showing "just cause" for termination. (Unions exist by an agreement between management and workers and the same ideas apply).

With that said, why hasn't he lost weight in the last 3 years? Heck, even Medicaid should have paid for a gastric bypass and dropped most of the problem pounds by now!
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floridafun
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07:43 AM on 12/15/2009
agreed..except with the part where you think medicaid should have paid for him to have gastric bypass. he isnt at the weight level where they should. he should have lost the weight by eating less and eating nutrition foods instead of filling non-nutritional foods. poor or not it can be done.

he is looking for a pity party. sounds too much like "i am a crackhead so they fired me and now i want someone to do stuff for me i choose not to do for myself"..
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skatscan
07:16 AM on 12/15/2009
Tied any ladies to the railroad tracks today?
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01:59 AM on 12/15/2009
If Tiberius' only son hadn't been poisoned by that avaricious rogue Sejanus, we wouldn't be arguing about any of this.
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jennysez
05:01 PM on 12/15/2009
But then Claudius would never have been emperor, and who's to say Tiberius' son would've been better, I mean, look what the old lech did with Caligula!
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01:14 AM on 12/15/2009
Can't wait until popular culture catches up to the fact that stress is a major health hazard and commences to stress-bashing - you know, ridiculing the people who neglect family, friends and their own mental and physical health to work 60, 70 hours a week, the people who can't stop worrying about career to have a real life.
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alieninvader
12:37 AM on 12/15/2009
Why is it human nature to always create subclasses of people? Judging by this story and similar ones in the past, the subclass dujour is the overweight.

How about we start to ri di cule the people who actually deserve it, like the people that actually de.stro.yed the economy? Instead, we do what they want...create enemies from within our own ranks rather than realize that the people in charge (mostly corporations) are the true e.ne.my.
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Mikeeee
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01:22 AM on 12/15/2009
I agree, being obese should be as acceptable as what the banks have done, what health care insurers do to people, smoking cigarettes and drinking to excess.
All of these things lead to a better world for everyone.
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04:16 AM on 12/15/2009
Good counterpoint.
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JeanRR
07:18 AM on 12/15/2009
You're right. Everyone should be perfect. Those who are not deserve our derision. Fat people, smokers, alcoholics, they've all brought it on themselves and we the perfect ones are not required to exhibit compassion or empathy.
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skatscan
07:24 AM on 12/15/2009
I'm no fan of those who are fat, I'm a jerk about it I know.

But it seems being fat had nothing to do with the guy getting hurt on the job. And you know money was taken out of his weekly paycheck to cover possible injuries ion the job. This is not a guy looking for a free ride.
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Mikeeee
Private corps can't do it better!!!
12:36 AM on 12/15/2009
I don't think all the fat defenders have anymore validity than smokers. Lets have a story about defending the alcoholics.
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JeanRR
07:20 AM on 12/15/2009
It must be nice to have no faults. Share some of your life stories with us. I myself would love to hear what it is like to be without blemish.