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Loleini Tonga MySpace Page: Chris Henry's Fiancee's Profile

First Posted: 3/18/10 Updated: 5/25/11

Loleini Tonga, the fiancee of dead Bengals receiver Chris Henry, allegedly has a MySpace page.

"Mrs. C. Henry" is a 25-year-old with ties to Ohio, Louisiana and North Carolina. At 8:00 PM on December 15, she posted: "Jus put deposIt down 4 weDDing piCs... Paid 4 ouR riNgs... Bout 2 eaT wiT my maN n bay bayz.... Startin 2 geT a headache thinKing bouT dis weddin.. I need A cuP." Scroll down for screen grabs of her MySpace page and click HERE for pictures.

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HUFFPOST SUPER USER
exile
03:32 AM on 12/23/2009
tOtaLLy sAd sH*t mEan dAt huH
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mokachyna
Ready for the zombie apocalypse...if it comes.
07:15 AM on 12/20/2009
This is really sad...but why does this woman type likes she's in 5th grade...al­l the caps and internet lingo makes me dizzy.
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Azmom
Independent thinker.
11:50 AM on 12/19/2009
Why do people think it makes them look good to sound so ignorant? That post was atrocious.
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ckfan
Conduct business honestly; spend money wisely
11:23 AM on 12/19/2009
These athletes marry the wrong women for the wrong reasons. This is a sad story.
09:41 AM on 12/19/2009
People are interested in seeing this woman's myspace page?
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05:20 AM on 12/19/2009
before you use a word to describe someone, why not know what it means?
02:49 AM on 12/19/2009
Ugh - reading her ignorant posts gives me a headache. Her behavior is inexcusabl­e. She may not have meant to kill him, but how can you drive away with a human being hanging on to your truck and not think that just maybe they'll be seriously injured or killed if you continue driving?
06:55 AM on 12/20/2009
her myspace page may just as well have been in Greek for all I could understand of it. what is this culture about and how did it start?

when I was growing up I saw brave black Americans fighting for their rights and doing it with dignity. and for what? so that their children and grandchild­ren could decide to act like thugs and forget how to use the English language?
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skatoolaki
Passionate, fiery walking contradiction.
04:37 PM on 12/18/2009
Very sad situation; she'll live with this for the rest of her life. She had to be going pretty fast for him to fall out and suffer such grievous injuries; either that, or he was accidental­ly ran over.

I can't judge them; my fiance and I got into some hellish fights when we were younger. Especially when we used to drink on a regular basis; those fights always got nasty. This was just a very tragic, terrible accident and I feel bad for all involved.

As to her "gangsta" writing, it seems to be de rigeur for the young people online and even those in my age group do it. I don't get it; I prefer to look educated and mature and I feel if I want people to take me serious or my opinions to be relevant, I should write accordingl­y.

It doesn't mean she is stupid or uneducated­, though - if her college degree and income are any indication­, she's probably a pretty smart young woman. Personally­, I don't think I could type like that if I wanted to - it seems irritating and difficult to pull of (quite possibly as irritating and difficult as it is to try and read). Still, I don't think we can judge her on that. I know plenty of extremely intelligen­t and well-spoke­n individual­s that come, when it comes to typing or texting, prefer shortcuts and slang-type or, simply, just aren't very good at communicat­ing in written form.
02:52 AM on 12/19/2009
But what good is being intelligen­t if you try so hard to hide it? One can't help but make assumption­s when there's little evidence to the contrary.
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Azmom
Independent thinker.
11:54 AM on 12/19/2009
Sorry but I just don't buy that. Her writing wasn't *short form* it looks ignorant. If she really is a smart person, then she isn't smart for hiding it...So very well.
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skatoolaki
Passionate, fiery walking contradiction.
09:39 PM on 12/19/2009
I just do not feel comfortabl­e passing judgment on her level of intelligen­ce based solely on what - or how - she writes on her MySpace page. I know too many people that do this who are quite perspicaci­ous.

I never said her writing was "short form", and I do not believe it is. It's a type of slang, in its way, but it isn't short form or even text-like abbreviati­on.

Yes, it looks ignorant and I noted that. It also comes across as near illiterate and patently immature. It does speak something of her that she would consciousl­y choose to write like this but, again, I cannot base my judgment on her as a whole based on just this. Not only it is a small sample of her life and writing, it is on her MySpace page - by its very nature, a place where young adults tend to come across informally to the very point of illiteracy­.

You may feel comfortabl­e judging her based on what we have seen here, and that is your prerogativ­e; I respect your opinion. I just do not feel I can say, with certainty, that she is completely stupid and undeservin­g of sympathy. I would need to know more about her before making an overall assumption about her person. I have, before, judged others on the very same type of thing, and many times have been proven wrong (not always, of course - some people are, truly, just plain stupid ^_^).
12:15 PM on 12/18/2009
"Startin 2 geT a headache thinKing bouT dis weddin.. I need A cuP." One wonders how many cups they had in their system by 6:30am.
09:19 AM on 12/19/2009
LOL, that was funny.
04:41 AM on 12/18/2009
Very unfortunat­e situation. Million dollar talent and 2 cent smarts. Prayers to his children.
11:02 AM on 12/19/2009
Bingo. You nailed it, "Million dollar talent and 2 cent smarts".
12:31 AM on 12/18/2009
Sorry for this young man's death. From what I've heard, it seems he's had a chaotic life. Meanwhile, what's up with his fiancee and why the need to write her comments in such a ridiculous manner? Is it her stab at trying to be gangsta? If so, why? What's the attraction­?
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FlipMode
08:40 PM on 12/17/2009
This is hardly "gangsta." It's young, but not gangsta.
06:59 AM on 12/20/2009
Oh really? where does one go to look up the esthetic criteria that determine what is "gangsta"?

I will wait while you look up esthetic criteria.
01:59 PM on 12/23/2009
Do you know how many teenagers write like this?
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mew-too
05:04 PM on 12/17/2009
How sad.
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chendri887
Viva California chaparral!
03:35 PM on 12/17/2009
No matter what the circumstan­ces, the outcome is sad. I know the chaos of crazy relationsh­ips.

But, on an aside, I'm not a big fan of the MySpace. Especially the MySpace Bio with the mixed caps and lower case, which seems to be de rigueur for the social networking scene. Sad.
03:14 PM on 12/17/2009
Go Jays!

Also, looks like she does that iCrEdiBly AnnOyINg tHInG sOMe peOpLe dO WheRe tHey sWITcH bEtWeEN lOWeR anD UpPeR CaSe iN AN AttEmPT tO LoOk WaCKy aNd SpOnTanEOu­S.
xsm941f
by any means necessary
05:10 PM on 12/17/2009
Unreadable but her's was readable. So your point? Geez, get a life.
09:03 PM on 12/17/2009
You got me good.