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Ken Mehlman: I'm 'At Peace' With Myself, There's 'Absolutely' Room For Gays In The GOP


First Posted: 08/25/10 11:42 PM ET Updated: 05/25/11 06:30 PM ET

In an interview with the Huffington Post on Wednesday night, former Republican National Committee Chairman Ken Mehlman -- who announced earlier Wednesday that he is gay and intends to join the fight for marriage equality in California -- said he wishes he had come out while he was the face of a historically anti-gay Republican Party platform.

Mehlman acknowledged regret that he remained closeted when he led the RNC between 2005 and 2007 -- a time when, as The Atlantic's Marc Ambinder noted, it was "stepping up its anti-gay activities."

"The reason I wish that I had been in a different place then, as I am now, is I know the personal benefit of being comfortable with, and at peace with, an important part of your life," Mehlman said. "Until you get there, it's much harder. I'm very glad to be there."

The former chairman argued that he tried hard to "expand the party and build the party," but said he wished he had done more for gay rights. Still, he said, "[You] can't look back, you've got to look forward."

In the interview, Mehlman was reluctant to address current political subjects, declining to comment on President Obama's progress on LGBT issues and the conservative movement's often-offensive rhetoric toward gay men and women. He did, however, say that there is "absolutely" a place for LGBT individuals in the GOP.

"I think the Republican Party is a diverse party with lots of different views, and I think it's a mistake to presume that people who disagree with what I think is the right answer -- which is freedom to marry -- are inherently motivated by divisive instincts," Mehlman said, adding that he thinks conservatives are focusing less on social issues like opposition to LGBT equality and "much more about the size and scope of the government -- spending, deficits, and taxes."

Many high-profile LGBT activists have already embraced Mehlman since his announcement earlier Wednesday. "We hope the fact that Ken Mehlman has reached this level of honesty will now encourage other political leaders to reject divisive anti-gay campaign tactics which, as Mr. Mehlman now admits, are purely cynical attempts to manipulate the American public," Gay and Lesbian Victory Fund President and CEO Chuck Wolfe said in a public statement. Openly gay Democratic strategist Steve Elmendorf told the Huffington Post that it was "great for the community to get new converts" because "until we get 51 percent of the American public supporting us on these issues, it's really important that we welcome people who want to come help us."

Center for American Progress Senior Vice President Winnie Stachelberg, who is a former Human Rights Campaign executive and longtime friend of Mehlman's, said, "I'm sure there will be plenty of people who will be angry that he came out when he did and after the things that he did, and he probably regrets that more than most people, but I think that having him as part of the team moving forward will only help all of us in this fight."

The impetus for Mehlman's coming-out was a Sept. 22 fundraiser for the American Foundation for Equal Rights, which is fighting for marriage equality in California. Mehlman will co-chair the event with Elmendorf and high-profile Republicans including Steve Schmidt, who managed John McCain's 2008 presidential campaign, and Nicolle Wallace, who advised both McCain and President George W. Bush.

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In an interview with the Huffington Post on Wednesday night, former Republican National Committee Chairman Ken Mehlman -- who announced earlier Wednesday that he is gay and intends to join the fight f...
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09:44 PM on 09/02/2010
This is a previous post of mine.
Didn't expect this turn about until October. But I had expected them to start speaking pro gay marriage against Obama's anti gay marriage stance. One thing I know is that they would never vote for gay marriage. Not a one of them. I am surprised that no one has connected Mehlman's outing to this timely attempt at grabbing any gay democrat who wants to believe this scenario more than the truth. If you consider these events in the right light, this play, Mehlman and republicans using his sexual orientation as a means to seduce gay votes is worse than his previous behavior.
10:20 PM on 08/27/2010
There's only room for homophobic gays in space. NASA, take it away....
06:26 PM on 08/27/2010
He intends to join the fight for marriage equality in California? You're a little late for that party.
08:05 PM on 08/27/2010
Mmm-hmmmm....though to be fair, some insiders say he's been assisting for the past few months. (Though come to think of it, that would have been the lull before Judge Walker's ruling.)
03:53 PM on 08/28/2010
I don't trust him, never will... Not that it matters. :)
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Openly feminist, Openly bi, Openly Buddhist; OPEN
01:20 PM on 08/27/2010
The Republican Party dropped the ERA in 1982. If they want to attract queers and women and people interested in equality - then they can write, support and pass legislation that we would find attractvie.
05:01 PM on 08/27/2010
Right! What a concept.
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Ioan Lightoller
Proud Gay Pagan Man, Living Happily With Husband
03:34 PM on 09/15/2010
Yes, what a concept. I am not holding my breath however.
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tploomis
I am a human bean.
11:52 PM on 08/26/2010
When people who have been on the wrong path make a significant positive change in their lives, I prefer to focus on that positive change, rather than continuing to focus on the persons they were previously. I think we should encourage and approve of positive growth in people, rather than remaining critical of what they were in the past. Many of the comments here are way off track, in my opinion.
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dwayner
03:24 AM on 08/27/2010
So by that reasoning, if a murderer finds "God" in jail and begins preaching from the bible, we'll just consider the slate wiped clean and only focus on the "good works"? This man was at the vanguard of a serious hate agenda and does not simply earn forgiveness for now changing his tune.
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Cori527
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03:02 PM on 08/27/2010
Totally agreed. There is a price to be paid.
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Christopher Scott
03:36 PM on 08/27/2010
I think the concept is that people can move forward. It does not obviate what was done in the past, but we can progress beyond our past. I believe its called personal growth.
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Bob Kellerman
Let's have more sanity toward each other
04:31 PM on 08/30/2010
OK -- let him DO something positive to begin to make up for the bad, awful stuff he did, not just try to whitewash himself ---
I give him that chance.
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myjoyy
11:45 PM on 08/26/2010
Yes and it's called "standing room only" - standing right next to Steele who said there was room for Blacks. And if you try to get others out of the closet and into your party, don't woo them with chicken and potato salad. It doesn't work - ask Steele.
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11:36 PM on 08/26/2010
He's too ugly to be gay. Perverted? Yes, but not gay.
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boomcat44
If you're gonna be a BEAR....be a GRIZZLY
11:33 PM on 08/26/2010
This guy is STILL lying to himself.
Son, the whacknuts will NEVER accept you.
You'll be a second class citizen, period.
You know that's the truth.
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Ioan Lightoller
Proud Gay Pagan Man, Living Happily With Husband
03:37 PM on 09/15/2010
That is that sad truth that people such as Mehlman are unlikely to accept. They have their whole political lives tied up with the Republican Party and it would require a paradigm shift that most GLBT Republicans either cannot see or if they do, cannot embrace.
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10:20 PM on 08/26/2010
There obviously wasn't enough room to get that closet door opened, eh Ken?
10:02 PM on 08/26/2010
And that room is called a closet. A fabulously decorated closet of course, but still a closet.
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Chg9389
09:50 PM on 08/26/2010
When I came out in 2003, I left the Republican party far behind. It had been my home for my entire adult life.

I watched helplessly as the Republican party used anti-gay politics to savage the gay community. I listened in dismay as I heard the head of the South Carolina GOP tell me and all other gay people that they were not only not welcome in the party, but that homosexuality was even incompatible with being a Republican.

Ken, I heard you and your fellow Republicans speak loud and clear then, and I've listened to the hatred poured out in state amendment after amendment, in the refusal to grant us even the most basic human rights. You have less chance of a gay person becoming a Republican than the Nazi party had hopes of attracting Jews in 1946.

There is no way in God's creation I'd ever come back as a Republican. You people threw me out, and this party gets more disgusting and hateful the further away I get. Consider me a VERY happy Democrat and your arch enemy.
05:06 PM on 08/27/2010
I'm glad you got out : ) It's nice of you to address him as a former member of his party.
09:34 PM on 08/26/2010
Poor George Bush, he was and is truly clueless.
09:33 PM on 08/26/2010
The entire Bush crew were a bunch of impostors. Bush was the biggest of them all.
09:03 PM on 08/26/2010
Did him and Bush get along..., just asking.
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08:51 PM on 08/26/2010
At a time in Mr. Mehlman's life when he had a choice to come out, or collect a pay check, he took the money.