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'My Spiritual Journey,' by The Dalai Lama

The Huffington Post   By His Holiness The Dalai Lama First Posted: 10/11/2010 9:03 pm Updated: 11/07/2011 4:36 pm

The following is an excerpt from the Dalai Lama's latest book, "My Spiritual Journey," a collection of personal memories, anecdotes and reflections on his boyhood in Tibet, his early life as a monk and his experiences as a world leader living in exile:

I am a professional laugher

I have been confronted with many difficult circumstances throughout the course of my life, and my country is going through a critical period. But I laugh often, and my laughter is contagious. When people ask me how I find the strength to laugh now, I reply that I am a professional laugher. Laughing is a characteristic of the Tibetans, who are different in this from the Japanese or the Indians. They are very cheerful, like the Italians, rather than a little reserved, like the Germans or the English.

My cheerfulness also comes from my family. I come from a small village, not a big city, and our way of life is more jovial. We are always amusing ourselves, teasing each other, joking. It's our habit.

To that is added, as I often say, the responsibility of being realistic. Of course problems are there. But thinking only of the negative aspect doesn't help to find solutions, and it destroys peace of mind. Everything, though, is relative. You can see the positive side of even the worst of tragedies if you adopt a holistic perspective. If you take the negative as absolute and definitive, however, you increase your worries and anxiety, whereas by broadening the way you look at a problem, you understand what is bad about it, but you accept it. This attitude comes to me, I think, from my practice and from Buddhist philosophy, which help me enormously.

Take the loss of our country, for example. We are a stateless people, and we must confront adversity along with many painful circumstances in Tibet itself. Nevertheless, such experiences also bring many benefits.

As for me, I have been homeless for half a century. But I have found a large number of new homes throughout the vast world. If I had remained at the Potala, I don't think I would have had the chance to meet so many personalities, so many heads of state in Asia, Taiwan,
the United States, and Europe, popes as well as many famous scientists and economists.

The life of exile is an unfortunate life, but I have always tried to cultivate a happy state of mind, appreciating the opportunities this existence without a settled home, far from all protocol, has offered me. This way I have been able to preserve my inner peace.

As a child, I learned from my teachers to take care of the environment

As a little boy, when I was studying Buddhism, I was taught to take care of nature, since the practice of nonviolence applies not just to human beings but to all sentient beings. Everything that is animate possesses consciousness. Wherever there is consciousness, there are feelings like pain, pleasure, and joy. No sentient being wants to suffer. On the contrary, all beings search for happiness. In Buddhist practice, we are so used to this idea of nonviolence and to the wish to put an end to all suffering that we are careful not to attack or destroy life unwittingly. Obviously, we do not believe that the trees or flowers have a mind, but we treat them with respect. So we assume a sense of universal responsibility toward humanity and nature.

Our belief in reincarnation explains our concern for the future. If you think you are going to be reborn, you make it your duty to protect certain things so that, in the future, your incarnation will profit from it. Even though you could be reborn on another planet, the idea
of reincarnation motivates you to take care of the Earth and of future generations.

In the West, when we speak of "humanity," we are usually referring merely to the present generation. The humanity of the past no longer exists. The humanity of the future, like death, does not yet exist. From a Western standpoint, we are concerned with the practical aspect of things, solely for the present generation.

Tibetan feelings toward nature stem from our customs in general and not just from Buddhism. If you take the example of Buddhism in Japan or Thailand, in environments different from our own, the culture and behavior are not the same. Tibet's natural environment, which is like no other, has had a strong influence on us. Tibetans do not live on a small overpopulated island. Throughout history we did not worry about our vast, sparsely populated territory, or about our distant neighbors. We did not have the feeling of being oppressed, unlike many other communities.

It is perfectly possible to practice the essence of a faith or a culture without associating it with a religion. Our Tibetan culture, although largely inspired by Buddhism, does not draw all its philosophy from it. Once I suggested to an organization aiding Tibetan refugees that it would be interesting to study how much our people have been shaped by their traditional mode of life. What are the factors that make Tibetans calm and good-natured? People always look for the answer in our religion, which is unique, forgetting that our environment is also unique.

The protection of nature is not necessarily a sacred activity, and it does not always require compassion. As Buddhists, we are compassionate toward all sentient beings, but not necessarily toward each stone, tree, or habitation. Most of us take care of our own house,
without feeling any compassion for it. Similarly, our planet is our house, and we should maintain it with care, to ensure our happiness and the happiness of our children, of our friends, and of all the sentient beings who share this great dwelling place. If we think of our
planet as our house or our "mother," our Mother Earth, we will necessarily take care of it.

Today we understand that the future of humanity depends on our planet, whose future depends on humanity. But that has not always been so clear. Until now, our Mother Earth has been able to tolerate our neglect. Today, however, human behavior, the population, and
technology have reached such a degree that our Mother Earth can no longer accept it in silence. "My children are behaving badly," she warns to make us realize that there are boundaries that should not be passed.

As Tibetan Buddhists, we advocate temperance, which is not unconnected to the environment, since we do not consume anything immoderately. We set limits on our habits of consumption, and we appreciate a simple, responsible way of life. Our relationship to the environment has always been special. Our ancient scriptures speak of the vessel and its contents. The world is the vessel, our house, and we, the living, are its contents.

The result of this is a special relationship to nature, since, without the container, the contents cannot be contained. It is not at all reprehensible for humans to use natural resources to serve their needs, but we should not exploit nature beyond what is strictly necessary. It is essential to reexamine from an ethical standpoint the share we have received, the share for which we are all responsible, and the share we are going to hand down to future generations. Obviously, our generation is going through a critical stage. We have access to forms of global communication, and yet conflicts occur more often than dialogues to build peace. The wonders of science and technology coexist along with many tragedies like world hunger and the extinction of certain forms of life. We devote ourselves to space exploration when the oceans, seas, and freshwater resources are becoming more and more polluted. It is possible that the peoples of the Earth, the animals, plants, insects, and even microorganisms will be unknown to future generations. We must act before it is too late.

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02:40 PM on 10/26/2010
I only upload this link to show all what the Dali Lama His Holiness allows to take place by his host of students Zen of the higher path but only sometimes the lower is allowed. In fact the press erroneously called the Buddhist nun a he in this picture to incorrect the reporting of the war story about Viet Nam Buddhist monks barbecue by Madame Nu calling it:

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Which is a 1 in 4 Satori experience if it be successfully completed again by Oct 3st the rally day after in lessor cities of higher military expenditures but NEVER who you are at all either!

For your family pictures are worth words too many but yes. Or be For as it says in your Declaration de Homo Sapient, ´When in the course of human evolution it be necessary to create among the following:

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!NAMESTE! Please, you all have a happy face mindless too like the others so many.
03:48 PM on 10/19/2010
Training Mind Eight Verses


Train one's attitude in the thoughts expressed by these verses is the most precious meditation, and to recite these verses daily is the best prayer, free of all differences that we normally think to see between religions and traditions.



With the determination to accomplish

The highest welfare for all beings,

Who excel even the wish-granting Gem

May I at all times hold them dear!

Whenever I associate with someone

May I think myself the lowest among all,

And hold the other supremeIn the depth of my heart!

In all actions may I search into my mind,

And as soon as delusions arise, Endangering myself and others,

May I firmly face it and avert it! When I see beings of wicked nature,

Pressed by violent sin and affliction,

May I hold these rare ones dear

As if I had found a precious treasure!

When others, out of envy,

Treat me badly with abuse, slander and the like

May I suffer the defeat

And offer the victory to others!

When the one,

Whom I have benefited with great hope

Hurts me very badly,

May I behold him as my supreme Guru!

In short may I, directly and indirectly,

Offer benefit and happiness to all my mothers;

May I secretly take upon myself

The harm and suffering of the mothers!

May all this remain undefiled

By the stains of the eight worldly principles;

May I, by perceiving all objects as illusive,

Free from attachment be released from bondage!
02:07 PM on 10/19/2010
"In 1937, a TWO-year-old Tibetan boy was taken from his parents in the north-eastern reaches of his country to the capital, Lhasa. Tenzin Gyatso earned his first trip to the capital because he was recognised as the reincarnation of His Holiness the Thirteenth Dalai Lama, the supreme spiritual and temporal leader of Tibet."
Tagster Villagers must have laughed from the time he was born until he was two and taken to Lhasa to retain such happy memories.Lucky!
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chaya
Another proud veteran
01:53 PM on 10/18/2010
"Our belief in reincarnation explains our concern for the future. If you think you are going to be reborn, you make it your duty to protect certain things so that, in the future, your incarnation will profit from it."

I agree with everything the Dalai Lama says in the above article--and I thank him for saying it--but the sentence above points out a reality: what he believes is not what the majority of people in the world believe. They believe that either the world was created for their own private, personal use for the tiny, insignificant span of their one life on earth--or that the world is supposed to end soon and then will be miraculously transformed into Paradise.
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feyangel
10:29 PM on 10/13/2010
I love this man.
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mssreader
eat, read, sleep, read and be happy
01:47 PM on 10/15/2010
feyangel, me too.
06:14 PM on 10/17/2010
me too. he's very grounded man.
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07:16 PM on 10/13/2010
I'm quite sure he is a professional laugher - he travels the world, is treated like royalty and people worship him! A friend of mine saw him speak and kept saying how honored she was to be in his presence. Give me a break. Seems to me if he were so spiritual he would reject this sort of groveling worship.
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feyangel
10:30 PM on 10/13/2010
He has no control over whether people love or "worship" him (as you put it)-- how ungracious it would be to reject people's honor/respect and/or loving.
12:15 AM on 10/14/2010
I didn't know spirituality had a set of requirements. You must educate the Dalai Lama next time you meet him about these spiritual requirements.

How is expressing "honor to be in his presence" equivalent to "groveling worship"? There is nothing to gain. I could see how it could be applied if someone said that to the queen of England. Some people express their love and the love they feel they are receiving from him as an honor. He provides unconditional love, which is diametrically opposite to your distorted sense of conditioned spirituality.
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Weirdwriter
04:30 PM on 10/13/2010
"Once I suggested to an organization aiding Tibetan refugees that it would be interesting to study how much our people have been shaped by their traditional mode of life. What are the factors that make Tibetans calm and good-natured? People always look for the answer in our religion, which is unique, forgetting that our environment is also unique."

This is an excellent point that I think can be applied elsewhere -- pagans and Christians seem to have gotten along reasonably well in the same culture unless a dominant and power-hungry hierarchy (Roman or Roman Catholic) decided one or the other was the enemy.

People of different ideologies seem to get along better when people aren't competing for resources, jobs, political advantage, etc.

Our environment -- physical, political, national -- appears to have a big influence on whether most of us are calm and good-natured, or angry and looking to blame someone all the time.
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LintLass
"When you can balance a tackhammer on your head...
05:19 PM on 10/13/2010
"pagans and Christians seem to have gotten along reasonably well in the same culture unless a dominant and power-hungry hierarchy (Roman or Roman Catholic) decided one or the other was the enemy."

All dispute about equivalencies and ignored history aside, this is still possible, you know.

You could start with capitalizing Pagans: as much as it's a loosely-defined name, it's still a name. Proper name. Of people. As much of people as you.

We could de-pressurize *all* of this if we remember that America, at least, is based on a common humanity, not these arguments.

Also, that in either culture, nothing brings folks together like *building* something, and there's a lot we need to be doing here, once we establish some boundaries and mutual humanity, here.
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Weirdwriter
07:08 PM on 10/13/2010
I've seen pagan capitalized and not, by Pagans and pagans. I didn't know there was a rule about that, or if it was like "gentiles," because it didn't address A one particular belief system under the heading.

Try not using "Christian" as a pejorative, and maybe we can start to build common respect and a better understanding of each other's faith.
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ryker88
Only the pure in heart can make a good soup.
02:42 PM on 10/13/2010
The Emory (University) Report on the Dalai Lama, if anyone's interested.
http://www.emory.edu/EMORY_REPORT/_docs/issue-pdfs/10_15_10.pdf
03:31 AM on 10/13/2010
Chinese Buddhists tend to be fanatical vegetarians.
The reason why this factual statement is so important is because
if China puts a McDonalds in every town -then remaining forests will continue
to dwindle til we all fast food ourselves into extinction.
In case someone doesn't know what I'm talking about -to get more beef for hamburgers
vast stretches of rain forest and other forests are being clear cut for cattle grazing.
A few billion Chinese vegetarians makes the earth more sustainable than a few
billion fast-food junkies. Americans need to clean up their act in this regard too.

Many Chinese have ancestors that were Buddhists.
Buddhism has a rich heritage and legacy in China.
This is the reason why Buddhism drives a few Chinese authorities crazy.
This depth of Buddhism within their ancestral lineage pushes their buttons.

Even if you are not a Buddhist but are an environmentally aware person than you
can see that Chinese Buddhism can and will help the earth in a big way.
Please keep this in mind when you are looking at the Dalai Lama.
What he is saying is extremely sensible for the survival of our planet.

The last thing we want is a greedy Chinese nouveau riche behaving like the criminals
on Wall Street.
Or the Chinese nouveau mid to lower classes behaving like the many spoiled
Americans who are fast food junkies.
Things have to change quickly if we are to survive as a species.
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cayuse
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09:11 AM on 10/13/2010
I strongly suggest you search REIT, China is not the problem it is America
02:35 PM on 10/13/2010
Please read carefully with mindfulness - don't skim.
I did write, "Americans need to clean up their act together in this regard too"
Global greed has no boundaries and is not your friend.
Forget the tribalism. Everyone needs to take responsibility.
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LintLass
"When you can balance a tackhammer on your head...
05:20 PM on 10/13/2010
Tibetan Buddhism and Chinese Buddhism are not the same, and neither is the Chinese government.
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mssreader
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01:59 PM on 10/15/2010
LintLass, very true.
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soma77
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08:04 PM on 10/12/2010
The Dalai Lama is a Buddhist and a Christian teacher. We Christians can learn many things from this spiritual giant. http://thinkunity.com
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Weirdwriter
08:33 PM on 10/12/2010
Well, he's not a Christian so he cannot be a Christian teacher. He is an excellent man and Buddhist teacher, and his way of teaching the truthes both faiths recognize makes him someone Christians can learn from
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04:17 PM on 10/13/2010
I don't know, I was explaining Buddha to an older Southern man once. He said (with no guile or meanness) "Hmm, you know that Buddha sounds like a good Christian feller"
So the Dalai lama might be good Christian teacher. :))
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LintLass
"When you can balance a tackhammer on your head...
05:27 PM on 10/13/2010
Frankly, it seems unclear to me exactly where this Jesus claimed 'Worship me as the only way to the only God,' when it seemed he was himself trying to be more about 'teachings.'

Which antedate the Buddha by a long ways, actually.

Maybe Irish Pagans are still half-ready to blow a sling-stone out the sides of our heads like Conor macNessa about people not-getting that and treating people badly anyway.

This has been all *you* for a long time, here. And one minute, you're saying, 'Everyone must obey Christianity,' and the next you're saying, 'Well, that bit ain't Christ. But kneel anyway.'

Maybe the *teachings* are what they are. And. Well.

I hear a lot of insisting and not much wisdom, these days.
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PennsylvaniaPam
political junkie to the core
07:27 PM on 10/12/2010
Does the Dalai Lama ever have a grumpy moment? I couldn't imagine it, even if he did.
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Weirdwriter
07:54 PM on 10/12/2010
He seems to have the grace to keep 'em to himself.
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LintLass
"When you can balance a tackhammer on your head...
05:27 PM on 10/13/2010
That's not how you laugh professionally, I assure you.
olddognewtrick
Half full or half empty...It's the same
08:07 PM on 10/13/2010
I would agree...but, if he did, HP and TMZ would be the first to report it...
07:24 PM on 10/12/2010
At one time I had an interest in the Dalai Lama, but then I read remarks he made about homosexuality and I felt they were rather negative so I let my interest go....

I can't really find much about Buddhism and homosexuality. I know there are differing branches and suspect it's like in Christianity where some branches are more progressive and accepting, while others are more conservative...

I'm guessing he's from a more conservative strand...???
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PennsylvaniaPam
political junkie to the core
07:30 PM on 10/12/2010
I believe that homosexuality is only a true problem in Christianity, based on prohibitions written in the New Testament. I have never heard of it being that way in Buddhism; in fact, it would be a contradiction to Buddhist philosophy.
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MrHomerS
Mmmmm...purple
08:07 PM on 10/12/2010
As usual, Western religion, particularly Christianity, takes all the blame, even though there are denominations that accept homosexuality to greater or lesser degrees. Acceptance of homosexuality, to the degree that it occurs, is more common in Western societies than non-Western ones. The Asian Buddhisms generally hold that homosexual behavior is immoral. The DL's position on human sexuality seems to be spot on with that of the Catholic Church. He said, "Buddhist sexual proscriptions ban homosexual activity and heterosexual sex through orifices other than the vagina, including masturbation or other sexual activity with the hand... From a Buddhist point of view, lesbian and gay sex is generally considered sexual misconduct." See: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/14th_Dalai_Lama
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Weirdwriter
08:07 PM on 10/12/2010
It may be more of a cultural prohibition than religious, but I don't know enough about the Dalai Lama's brand of Buddhism to know for sure how and why he feels about homosexuality. He has always stressed compassion, acceptance and respect for the basic humanity of the individual.

Even within Christianity and Judaism, there is disagreement on the interpretation of scriptures with reference to homosexuality. Jesus never mentions it. It is also not mentioned among the Ten Commandments, which are key to both faiths. Why have "Do not bear false witness" or "Keep the Sabbath holy" and not "Do not have homosexuals relations" if it is as important to God as more conservative faith adherents insist?
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LintLass
"When you can balance a tackhammer on your head...
05:30 PM on 10/13/2010
They're less maniacal about it, but they do still have notions of social orders. Mostly relics of scarcity mentalities: It's not the same, 'theologically,' really: come down to it, most societies want babies. Doesn't mean that 'Gay is Wrong' is what they wrap their universe around.
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LintLass
"When you can balance a tackhammer on your head...
04:46 PM on 10/12/2010
""I am a professional laugher""

You're good at what you do, sir. Even in the old town. I promise that's high respect before the:

Your Holiness. ;)

""In the West, when we speak of "humanity," we are usually referring merely to the present generation. The humanity of the past no longer exists. The humanity of the future, like death, does not yet exist. From a Western standpoint, we are concerned with the practical aspect of things, solely for the present generation. ""

With respect, I'm actually not so convinced. I think, in 'The West,' people are *aware* of these things, just not *thinking or speaking* so. It's probably why 'we're' all so conflicted about this stuff. Afraid, you know? 'The Mother' has always been with us, people just got all wound up in other things. Someone made it a 'fight.' For, I guess some idea of 'ego' involving, well, whatever. and it plays out on big scales. Crazy, but I promise there's laughter.

Kind of hoping I don't lose my country, myself, and try to laugh, anyway, but I bow to a real professional. :) But so it's been, I think, particularly for Americans: we learn *everything* the hard way, but we mean it when we do. :)

Blessed be, Your Holiness. It's not the first smile of yours I've been glad to see, today. :)
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LMPE
I connect the most dissimilar things
04:39 PM on 10/12/2010
Thanks, but I can hardly understand it.
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LintLass
"When you can balance a tackhammer on your head...
05:00 PM on 10/12/2010
OK. Seems like an intriguing start. You were expecting, perhaps.....
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LMPE
I connect the most dissimilar things
05:06 PM on 10/12/2010
Truth be told, I've never really known how to respond to the Dalai Lama.
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PennsylvaniaPam
political junkie to the core
07:32 PM on 10/12/2010
LMPE~ Sit with it. See what comes up for you. That's the purpose of Zen koans, not that the Dalai Lama is a koan! Same idea, 'though.
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Tulka2
Solidarity. Courage. Humor.
04:21 PM on 10/12/2010
....ever notice how in a conversation, the laugh is always on himself....? That's key. I read somewhere recently that the average five-year-old in the company of other five-year-olds laughs something like three-hundred times a day (!!!). Western adults, in the company of other adults, laugh something like fifteen times a day. What is the difference? Well, squelchy body noises are hilarious, for one thing, but children are willing to laugh at their own mistakes is the main thing... also laughter spreads like a virus through children.

May all beings be happy; may all beings have cause to be happy.
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Weirdwriter
08:10 PM on 10/12/2010
Great point!

I have noticed that people who seem happiest and most sane are those who don't take themselves too seriously.