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'I Love Boobies': Cancer Bracelets Raise Debate Over School Codes

BOB MOEN   10/15/10 06:24 AM ET   AP

I Love Boobies

LARAMIE, Wyo. — A $4 rubber bracelet meant to raise breast cancer awareness has done that and more: Students nationwide are wearing the "I (heart) boobies" wristbands, and running afoul of school administrators.

Schools from California to Florida have banned the bracelets because they believe the "boobies" language is inappropriate.

The bracelets are marketed by a California-based nonprofit created to raise breast cancer awareness among youth. The Keep A Breast Foundation has sold 2 million of the bracelets so far, with the money going to breast cancer research and education programs.

The group believes a bracelet with a catchy, envelope-pushing slogan such as "I (heart) boobies" is a better way to teach kids about breast cancer than more traditional methods like pink ribbons.

Kollin West, a 14-year-old student at Laramie Junior High School, is one student who got in trouble over the bracelets.

The ninth-grader began wearing his bracelet after noticing the number of women being treated for breast cancer at a hospital where his father was undergoing chemotherapy for testicular cancer.

"I just thought it would be a good idea to support breast cancer," said West, who also wears a bracelet that says, "Check Yourself."

School officials objected, ordering West to wear his "boobies" bracelet inside-out because they considered the bracelet's wording inappropriate. West pointed out that girls at his school, the local high school and even an elementary school were wearing them without a problem.

Officials, he insisted, "were taking it in an immature way."

The dispute drew the attention of the Wyoming chapter of the American Civil Liberties Union, which argued West had a free speech right to wear the bracelet. School officials ultimately agreed to allow him to wear it except in the presence of two teachers - one a victim of breast cancer and another who lost a relative to the disease - who found the "boobies" reference objectionable.

Bracelet wearers, officials added, must sincerely support the breast cancer cause and not use them to demean women.

A high school in Elmira, Ore., also banned them, saying the message was lost on most students who wore them: ninth-grade boys. In Sioux Falls, S.D., O'Gorman High School principal Kyle Groos said the wristband language "trivializes the issue."

Not so, argues the Keep A Breast Foundation, which was founded 10 years ago.

Marketing manager Kimmy McAtee argued the bracelets compel kids and adults to talk about a disease that the American Cancer Society estimates will kill an estimated 39,800 women and 390 men this year in the United States.

"A lot of kids don't want to do pink ribbons, and they're not going to eat for yogurt labels," she said, referring to one firm that donates money to breast cancer research when consumers return pink-colored lids from its product. "And these bracelets are a conversation starter that I think the pink ribbons didn't have in a younger demographic."

It's not the first controversial breast cancer-related marketing effort in October - National Breast Cancer Arewareness Month. For example, Mike's Hard Lemonade released a pink-colored liquor beverage to mark the month and benefit the Breast Cancer Research Foundation, but some found the campaign offensive because alcohol has been linked to an increased risk of cancer.

For McAtee, the breast cancer bracelets have served their purpose by stirring conversation and focusing attention on the health issue.

"Keep A Breast really feels that 'boobies' is not a four-letter word," she said. "We're using a word that's not scary, and I think that is why the media have really started talking about us."

"We've really been able to talk to so many more people because of this," she added.

In Laramie, Kollin West said none of his classmates has made fun of him or joked about the wording.

Kelly Carroll, principal of Laramie Junior High School, and Suzanne Perry, assistant superintendent of Albany County District 1, did not return repeated calls for comment.

School administrators long have struggled to balance dress codes with free speech rights, notes Kitty Porterfield, spokeswoman for the American Association of School Administrators.

Dress codes are intended to promote decorum and respect among students, and hemlines, necklines, hair, shorts, changing fads, toys, clothing and accessories with gang connotations have all been matters of contention, she said.

In Colorado Springs, Colo., officials at a middle school told students in September to conceal religious jewelry, prompting a complaint from a student who wanted to wear a cross necklace outside his shirt. The American Center for Law and Justice threatened to file a free speech lawsuit against the school district.

School officials later modified the order to affect only rosaries, which they say some gangs use as a unity symbol. They were supported by the local Catholic diocese, which declared this week that schools should let students wear religious jewelry but can ban gang members from wearing rosaries.

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Keep A Breast Foundation: http://www.keep-a-breast.org/

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10:09 AM on 11/02/2010
The only reason half of these students are wearing these bracelets is for the humor of it. Would they still wear them if they instead said "Help Fight Breast Cancer"? Probably not. The meaning is the same but the way the message is delivered is completely different.

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Mitch Craft
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05:05 PM on 10/18/2010
OMG are they serious. Why do people care so much about the human body and there kids knowing about it. Boobs, they are everywhere. All women have them, and some guys too. Give me a break. And its a cancer awareness bracelet to boot. This angers me.
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Andman0121
09:17 AM on 10/18/2010
These are no different than those ridiculous Lance Armstrong bracelets that hipsters use as fashion accessories. Give me a break.
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Frank Bourne
The truth hurts.
11:06 PM on 10/17/2010
What about the testicular cancer bracelets with the catchy slogans? When do we pass those out at school? Not sure they'd be as popular though.
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BlueCheesehead
05:56 PM on 11/01/2010
How about w/ a slogan like "Kick Cancer in the Balls!"
06:14 PM on 10/17/2010
I think this bracelet trivializes the breast cancer battle. I (heart) boobies? C'mon They can come up with something better (and more mature-sounding) than that. Just my opinion.
olddognewtrick
Half full or half empty...It's the same
01:04 PM on 10/17/2010
When you are done with these please don't throw them away! They can be recycled in the "Ring Toss For Prostate Cancer"
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thereisonlyoneparty
more amazing than you
09:40 PM on 10/17/2010
Hopefully it will work out better than the "Ring Toss for ED."

That was a total flop.
09:58 PM on 10/18/2010
LOL!!!!!!

BEST comment I have ever seen.
09:28 AM on 10/17/2010
I haven't decided where I fall yet on this issue. I can see why many would find the bracelets demeaning, and I can see where many would find anything that raises awareness and funds for research to be a good thing.

Two quick observations:
1) Whether or not I find this to be inappropriate for students to wear to school depends on an individual student's behavior. I have seen several students wearing these bracelets, and there has never been a problem with lewd comments or juvenile reactions.
2) I find it fascinating that words can be so divisive. This in and of itself is a valuable lesson to my students about the power of language.
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Daoine
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10:55 AM on 10/17/2010
I'm glad to hear you're in the same spot as I. I am a teacher and administrator, and this poses some interesting issues.

Words, over time, develop connotations depending upon how they are used. "Boobie" coming from a person who supports breast cancer awareness, and "Boobie" coming from a middle schooler running down the hall shouting it; two different issues. If the term can be used respectfully to raise awareness then I'm all for it and would try to find a way to support it if possible. But if it is being used as an opportunity for immature kids (being realistic, not negative) to try and get away with using the term in school then it becomes a distraction to the educational process.

On another tangent...what happens when people start openly using slang terms for parts of male anatomy? Testicular cancer is a prevalent disease of the male reproductive organs. Will we be having the same debate when the "I heart b@lls" bracelet comes out?
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07:27 PM on 10/16/2010
My mother died of breast cancer in the days when people didn't even use the WORD cancer. "Very sick" or perhaps "The Big C" (not to plug the Showtime series by the same name, which is good for lots of reasons) I care about cancer.

But I'm concerned that breast cancer seems to trump other cancers in the non-profit ad biz. The young man mentioned, whose father was getting chemo for testicular cancer, is not wearing a band for that cause. Would schools go nuts if I (heart) nuts bands were worn? And would schools appreciate the wonder of students supporting brain tumors by wearing I (heart) brains?

Now. Explain to me HOW a school administrator is going to deal with "They were supported by the local Catholic diocese, which declared this week that schools should let students wear religious jewelry but can ban gang members from wearing rosaries." Right.
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MikeDu
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06:44 PM on 10/16/2010
To make believe 'boobies' is an offensive term is to make believe you're living someplace other than America in the 21st century.

What concerns me more is the 'breast cancer racket'. I've been given to understand for such organizations a LOT of the proceeds gathered from one pledge drive is plowed back into the next pledge drive. I vaguely recall years ago scndal concerning a Blue Cross pledge drive in California after a major wildfire. They raised about a $150,000 in donations. The executive who ran the project was rewarded with a $150,000 bonus.
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Steft50
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05:20 PM on 10/16/2010
As a woman I can understand how some could find this bracelet offensive, really I can. My mother in law died from breast cancer that spread thru her body during the second time she had it. However, I also know that a. this is gonna grab kids. Using a slang term is going to get their attention in a manner that others won't. And b. you've got to have a sense of humor in this life. If you don't and you take everything so seriously what's the point of it all? Even serious issues have humor in them somewhere. And laughter is a wonderful aide to healing!
06:28 AM on 10/17/2010
Please tell me how exploiting children will help the fight of breast cancer? How will marketing to children help cancer patients? I don't know too many people with a sense of humor regarding cancer. It is serious and not a marketing plan.
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Steft50
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02:07 PM on 10/17/2010
Please tell me how educating youth in a manner they get while at the same time raising funds to fight this terrible disease is exploiting children? While you may not like the marketing of diseases, that is the only way to educate people and raise funding to fight them. If you have another way that does not include marketing of any sort please feel free to approach any fund raising/education organization, I'm sure they would love to hear your ideas. As for humor in all things, well, just ask those in health care, firefighters, cops, military, all people who see and deal with horrendous things daily how they get thru it without going into full blown depression or totally crazy. The answer is with humor, even in the worst times. Depression never helps heal, or helps to fight disease. It is possible to take something seriously and maintain a sense of humor of it.
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Rebecca Borchers
07:57 PM on 10/17/2010
Yes this is exploiting children. NOT

boobies boobies boobies boobies boobies boobies
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dbishop76
Left of liberal Texan.
05:04 PM on 10/16/2010
I heart...

boobs, boobies, jugs, tits, titties, tatas knockers, hooters, bosoms, cans, gozangas, headlights, melons, second base and BREASTS.

Having worked for the American Cancer Society, I have seen every variation of "mammary" used to describe the female breast. Frankly, if you are offended by this, if you think it somehow degrades women....imagine how degraded we would feel if these kids WEREN'T wearing this. If they just didn't care.
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07:23 PM on 10/16/2010
Most kids don't care and we shouldn't be using this term to teach children about breast cancer, it's akin to using the Simpsons to teach kids about family life! My best friend is now in her radiation phase of treatment after a lumpectomy and chemo. Why do people always think a gimmick will help.....teach the kids the facts, if they are too young to care they're too young to be taught about this issue.
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dbishop76
Left of liberal Texan.
07:27 PM on 10/16/2010
You have clearly not worked with the youth I have in fundraising.

Get over it...
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Neontom69
Takes being "moderated" personally
09:11 AM on 10/17/2010
Adolescent boys don't need bracelets to remind them that boobs exist. They are already trying their hardest at school or the beach or the mall to "notice" boobs and show their "awareness". The bracelets are a great tool to remind them that these two wonderful and new objects of their attention are also subject to disease. The fact that they say "boobies" is simply a clever way to remind these kids about reality and may inspire some to pursue a medical career, or some other worthwhile cause in their futures.
06:30 AM on 10/17/2010
Don't you think its irresponsible to engage children in your marketing?
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Rebecca Borchers
07:59 PM on 10/17/2010
No. This isn't marketing, its awareness and fund raising. If kids want to get involved, let them.
04:17 PM on 10/16/2010
i loved boobies since i was a baby ; true story

i feel offended not by booby language but by pollution offenders , junk food peddlers , stress causers etc some of the causes of sickness

we need to have a green ribbon campaighn

unpolluted boobies for healthy babies
03:10 PM on 10/16/2010
When I see those words encircling my sixth grade students’ wrists, I feel offended as a female. Members of my family have died of breast cancer, and some are survivors. A woman is more than a breast. The presence or absence of breasts that other people may happen to “love” has nothing to do with being a woman to the core of one’s soul. This is a raw fact that those who have lost one or two breasts come to terms with, hopefully with the emotional support of loved ones.

It is my opinion that the phrase “I Love Boobies” portrays women as sexual objects, and infantilized ones at that. We teach our sixth graders the proper terms for body parts within our health curriculum. It is unfortunate that the legal department of my school district, issuing a directive that we are to allow students to wear the bracelets, undermines our attempt at educating our students to be respectful of women through their endorsement of slang terms.

If people wish to support breast cancer research, there are multiple avenues for that purpose, all of which respect women.
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dbishop76
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05:12 PM on 10/16/2010
A woman is far more than a breast, for sure...

However, those breasts give sustenance to infants.

In order to raise awareness about a particular type of cancer, sometimes you have to use words/phrases that appeal to the masses to start a conversation.

Suppose your students have this bracelet on and someone asks them about it. A conversation that would never have happened taken place otherwise. Maybe a student gets involved with Relay For Life or the Komen Walk and raises money for this cause when they never would have otherwise?

Are we really going to let verbiage get in the way of this? I hope not...
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07:25 PM on 10/16/2010
Nonsense, are we so dumbed down as a culture that we can't be spoken to using the proper terms for anatomy.......I seriously hope not!
06:32 AM on 10/17/2010
In order to raise awareness about a particular type of cancer, sometimes you have to use words/phrases that appeal to the masses to start a conversation.

My God how many decades do we need to raise awareness? We're aware. We have conversations all the time. Awareness is just an excuse to market products! Now we're using that marketing term to sell offensive products to children in the guise of "raising awareness"
02:47 PM on 10/16/2010
most kids who say they support breast cancer are lying they just dont want to get in trouble
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DonCosenza
03:01 PM on 10/16/2010
Who in their right mind *supports* breast cancer?
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dbishop76
Left of liberal Texan.
05:17 PM on 10/16/2010
What an amazing display of disrespect for young people. You don;t think youth can support a cause? While working for the American Cancer Society, I watched those "liars" raise more money than many of their adult counterparts.
10:58 AM on 10/16/2010
I can't wait to get my "I heart nuts" bracelet.
olddognewtrick
Half full or half empty...It's the same
01:07 PM on 10/17/2010
I really doubt that the American Mental Health Association will let that fly...
07:34 PM on 10/17/2010
well ok then, "I heart nutsacks."