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Rape Charge Dropped After 14-Year-Old Accuser Commits Suicide

COREY WILLIAMS   11/10/10 10:49 PM ET   AP

Samantha Kelly Suicide

HURON TOWNSHIP, Mich. — Samantha Kelly endured merciless taunting from classmates after they learned that the high school freshman had accused a senior of rape.

The weeks of harassment eventually became too much. Samantha went home from school Monday and hanged herself in this community southwest of Detroit.

With their key witness dead, prosecutors on Wednesday dropped criminal charges against the older student, saying they had no case without the accuser's testimony.

Samantha's mother screamed at 18-year-old Joseph Tarnopolski after his brief court appearance and had to be restrained by a relative. She told reporters she was not consulted about the decision to dismiss the third-degree criminal sexual conduct charge.

"My daughter did not get any justice," June Justice said.

Tarnopolski told the Detroit Free Press he was sorry to hear of the girl's death. He told Detroit station WJBK Samantha was "a friend" and felt "a little bit" responsible, but said others were behind any taunts.

"If she was getting ridiculed, it's not because it me," Tarnopolski said. "It's because of somebody else."

Samantha's accusations became known to many of her neighbors and classmates after she and her mother spoke to a local television station about the matter. Samantha's face was blocked out, but word of her allegations quickly spread.

"People wanted to beat her up – people who were friends of Joe," said Ayla Raines, who also attended Huron High School. "Not to her face. She heard from other people that they wanted to beat her up."

Another student, Calie Bouchard, said 14-year-old Samantha was confronted once in the lunch room by a group of girls who insisted she was lying.

"She started breaking down in tears," Calie said.

Principal Donovan Rowe said school officials investigated the alleged bullying and found nothing overt. Rowe said on occasion he walked behind Samantha as she went from class to class and witnessed no harassment.

Huron Township police said Justice brought her daughter to the station on Sept. 27, a day after the encounter with Tarnopolski, to file a sexual assault report. At the time it was considered a statutory rape case, meaning the pair had consensual sex but that she was under the age of consent.

Tarnopolski told WJBK that he had sex with Samantha, but it was a "mutual thing."

Justice also met with school officials and asked to keep the matter confidential, the principal said. Initially, he added, there was no animosity between the two families.

School officials said they were blindsided by the Oct. 18 television report in which Justice criticized administrators for not taking action to protect her daughter.

Before the story aired on WJBK, Justice "was pretty complimentary of us," Rowe said. "She indicated she wanted to move her daughter to another school, but Samantha wanted to stay here."

Samantha had not been at school for about two weeks before returning Monday morning with her mother.

"Her mom had mentioned some harassment," Rowe said. "I asked her specifically if it was happening here. She said no. It was happening in the trailer park."

Samantha told close friends she was constantly being intimidated.

"She told me she was being extremely bullied, and it was extremely stressful," said 16-year-old Devyn Waldecker, a neighbor in the Huron Estates mobile home park. "People bumped into her in the hallways at school. On two occasions after school, people tried to jump her."

Waldecker, who attends another school, wanted to help the girl she had befriended just this past June, but "really didn't know what to do."

"I told her I was there for her – anything she needed from me," Waldecker said.

Samantha didn't deserve such an ordeal, said Devyn's mother, Shannon Waldecker. "Sam was a very sweet, soft-spoken person and very honest."

After school Tuesday, Devyn Waldecker learned from Samantha's mother that her good friend was dead.

"I was shocked and heartbroken," the girl said.

On Wednesday, Wayne County prosecutor's spokeswoman Maria Miller said the case against Tarnopolski could not proceed "because the sole evidence ... was the complainant."

Attorney Joseph Kosmala, a Detroit-area defense lawyer who was not involved in the case, said the prosecutor seemed to have no other choice.

"Sexual assaults are not crimes that typically take place in front of witnesses. They're private crimes," Kosmala said. "Unless the complainant can sit in the witness chair and point the finger, there is no case."

Police notified school officials Monday night about the suicide. Students were told the next day that a schoolmate had died and that counselors were available.

Tarnopolski's attorney, Jacqueline George, called the case "a sad situation" for all involved. "I hope both families can heal," she said.

A Facebook page was created to memorialize Samantha and by Wednesday afternoon had more than 550 friends. It reads, "R.I.P., Samantha Kelly. You will be missed. We love you."

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Associated Press writers Jeff Karoub and Ed White in Detroit contributed to this report.

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Tim Paynter
Activist, attorney, humano!
01:37 PM on 11/19/2010
This is a tragic story for a young girl who needed a friend and could find none. The boy should be prosecuted and the DA who should have protected her should be fired!
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09:38 PM on 11/11/2010
UPDATE:

Last Updated: November 11. 2010 5:57PM
Police investigate second sex complaint against Huron Township teen
George Hunter and Doug Guthrie / The Detroit News

http://detnews.com/article/20101111/METRO/11110475/Police-investigate-second-sex-complaint-against-Huron-Township-teen#ixzz15211h2d3

“Huron Township— Huron Township Police confirmed Thursday they are investigating a second "similar" complaint against an 18-year-old Huron High School senior who saw felony charges against him for having sex with an underage classmate dropped because the 14-year-old victim committed suicide.”

It also turns out that some vile excuses for human beings have being leaving hateful messages and pictures at Samatha’s Facebook Page.:

“Facebook moderators have deleted the hateful messages and pictures of naked children posted to a Facebook page entitled, ‘R.I.P., Samantha Kelly. You will be missed. We love you.‘As of 1:15 p.m. today, the page was ‘liked’ by 3,700 people since it was created Wednesday.”
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the964kid
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07:15 PM on 11/11/2010
This is a really sad story, I understand there were some inconsistencies in the girl's earlier statements, but I cannot understand how they dropped the charges against this 18 y.o. boy, because a 14 y.o. cannot legally consent to sex in that state. At the very least this 18 y.o. needs to pay the penalty for having sex with a minor, something I believe he's already admitted to.

One aspect that is a bit strange is the mother's actions. I'm not sure how or why she thought it was helpful for her daughter to take the story onto local news stations, which probably only created more stress on the 14. y.o.

The entire case is so tragic.
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CateManhattan
Common sense is way too uncommon.
11:55 PM on 11/11/2010
Because the school and the authorities were ignoring the crime? That'd do it. The faces were hidden -- if the boy hadn't texted his bragging they mother and girl would have remained anonymous.
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the964kid
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12:46 AM on 11/12/2010
So no charges had been pressed against the 18 y.o. before the mother and daughter went public?
06:14 PM on 11/11/2010
I would have killed the SOB with my bare hands
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Titanshanks
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06:14 PM on 11/11/2010
If you wonder, as I did, who these nasty high school students were, or what they grow into, read through the comments from last night, say after 2 or 3am.

As I was reading them, I felt a kind of sickness and sadness it's hard to put words to. There are some comments expressing sadness, but most are blasting the grieving mother, blaming her for everything that happened to her late daughter. Then there were unending, stomach-turning, fiercely angry protestations from men claiming that there is nothing wrong with having sex with a 14 year old girl--that they know what they're asking for; they're responsible for what happens to them; they all go to the same school so whatever happens is fine. Among the apologists were fathers, with teenage daughters.

I try to remember as a man the good fortune I have, that I almost never have to worry about being raped. In my life, only once was I nervous. I know a lot of men are unaware of the problems women face, but the crowd up late last night was on another plane altogether. Take a glance through the comments; it's like walking through an asylum of mentally deformed men.
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CateManhattan
Common sense is way too uncommon.
11:56 PM on 11/11/2010
Thank you.
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emh
12:53 AM on 11/12/2010
yes, thank you. as a rape survivor, reading those comments makes me especially sickened. but i do when i read stories like this to remind myself that even 30 years after i was raped, i still need to be vigilant. there are sick people everywhere, and that kind of talk promotes a culture in which it's ok to bully rape victims, where adults who know about children being raped don't do anything and where victims kill themselves. it's nice to hear a man speak out who clearly gets it.
05:04 PM on 11/11/2010
What goes around comes around. OJ found this out. I hope that this rapist will face judgement someday.
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44jupiter
Okay, where's the damn ice?
04:42 PM on 11/11/2010
"Rowe said on occasion he walked behind Samantha as she went from class to class and witnessed no harassment."

Where do they find these geniuses? Obviously the bullies slither away when the Principal is watching.
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Vodou
04:27 PM on 11/11/2010
I see this in part due to the double standard of what is acceptable sexual behavior in males vs females. Many times when a boy has sexual contact with a girl he has no interest in pursuing a relationship with, rumors will be spread about her and she begins to get tormented in the school. I saw this happen over and over again in when I was in school but it never happened to male students. The particularly vicious ones doing the bullying were other females. This dichotomy that exists in our society about female sexuality being something to be admired and detested is often central to many of these stories.

When I was 17, I saw my best friend so elated directly after her first time with a boy only to see her become devastated when she found out he had told several people about his conquest. Her story then changed to him forcing himself on her, in what I saw was an attempt to quell some of the rumors that had already begun to spread about her. (I am not saying at all this is what happened to this girl in the article)

In short, parents need to do a better job of teaching your children to respect other people and the consequences of bullying.
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Gavin Saunders
we only have each other
08:55 PM on 11/14/2010
Not much good can result from psychologically and emotionally immature people exploring sexuality.
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Meggie
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04:06 PM on 11/11/2010
She was still too young and it's still statutory rape.  Nice bunch of kids you've got there Huron Township.
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blukazoo
I support your right to disagree.
04:03 PM on 11/11/2010
Tragic story. Let's hope all the people taunting the poor girl are forever haunted by their nasty behavior.
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Barringtonmorr
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01:39 AM on 11/12/2010
Yeap I agree
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Issaquah79
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03:48 PM on 11/11/2010
I hope those young people that bullied her are haunted by their misdeeds forever. What an awful story.
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Meggie
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04:08 PM on 11/11/2010
Maybe someday if they have kids and have to come to the harsh realization that they cannot protect those kids every second of the day, they'll have a clue. 
03:42 PM on 11/11/2010
Because of the age difference, it's statutory rape. As the perpetrator has admitted having sex with Samantha, why are witnesses needed?

For those who can't grasp why there should be statutory rape laws, their purpose is to protect children who are too young to deal with the consequences of sex with an adult, such as the social and emotional turmoil to which this unfortunate young girl was subjected.
JStading
"Shall NOT be infringed" means what it says.
04:31 PM on 11/11/2010
Statutory rape laws may be designed to protect children who are too young to deal with the consequences of sex, but they are rarely applied that way, particularly when the victim is male.  If a male is raped, be it through force or as a function of statutory rape law, and the woman/defendant gets pregnant, he is responsible for child support.  That's right, he must pay his rapist child support for the kid he didn't consent to having.  Most states follow this abhorrant law....
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CateManhattan
Common sense is way too uncommon.
12:05 AM on 11/12/2010
Oh you poor pathetic thing . . . . it must be so difficult to live with all this rage against awful women. We don't want boys to be sexually assaulted, but your feverish mind thinks we are all depraved.

Why don't you just fess up to what you've done. It's sure clear you've done some of this. You keep making up stories to try to say that this girl was at fault. You tried that as a defense and it didn't work? So you are trying again?
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gypsysailor
Things that might have been never were.
03:37 PM on 11/11/2010
So the principal walked behind her to several classes and found no sign of bullying? Guess what numb nuts, kids are not going to do anything in front of you.
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Meggie
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04:08 PM on 11/11/2010
That caught my attention, too.
 
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Handbags4Hunger
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03:23 PM on 11/11/2010
This little girl deserved better. I am learning from these sad cases and hope to be able to use this to protect my kids from the cruelties of today's society. If we can all treat each other better she will not have died in vain. My prayers are with her mother and family now.
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Carson Boyd
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03:21 PM on 11/11/2010
We live in a world that believes in force. This naturally leads to the escalation of force with thoughts like, "If force didn't work, I must not have used enough of it." There was the force of the police against the young man: there was the force of his friends who rose to his defense: there was the force of the suicide. I have noticed such thoughts in myself, that (for instance) given the opportunity I would apply such force to a bully that he would find his will to bully broken and his actions deterred. But if I actually did that, and succeeded, wouldn't I be teaching that force works? I would be creating the world that I want relief from. You don't get peace by hating war. You get peace by loving peace.
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CateManhattan
Common sense is way too uncommon.
12:07 AM on 11/12/2010
What do you mean in this for the girl in this story?