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Unemployed Veteran: 'No Thanksgiving' For Me This Year

Judy

First Posted: 11/22/10 07:38 PM ET Updated: 05/25/11 07:15 PM ET

Judy Sullivan, a former Air Force nurse living in Boston, says she has always gone above and beyond the call of duty to serve her country--but she feels like Congress may not be doing all it can to help her in return.

Sullivan told HuffPost she was nominated for a medal in 1979 after running up seven flights stairs in her maternity uniform, six months pregnant, to help evacuate a Texas hospital during a violent tornado. After Hurricane Katrina in 2005, she took three weeks off with no pay and eventually lost her job in order to fly down to New Orleans and volunteer with the Red Cross. But now, at 58 years old, Sullivan says she is applying for 25 jobs per week, scraping by on $72 unemployment checks, and has a total of $100 in her bank account--not enough to cover a Thanksgiving turkey, much less housing expenses or medical prescriptions.

After writing letters to all of her Congressmen and Senators to express her frustration and receiving only form letters in return, Sullivan wrote an open letter to Governor Deval Patrick in the "rants and raves" section of Craigslist on Saturday.

"I just wanted to let you know that I can't even get hired to bag groceries and that the system has let me down," Sullivan wrote. "I will do anything but nobody will hire me. I have a good resume. There just isn't any reason to go on and I have tried everything in my power to fix things. I just can't face the battle anymore. I don't know how."

Sullivan said she wrote the post, which she titled "No Thanksgiving," in a moment of desperation.

"I was just feeling hopeless at that moment in time," she told HuffPost. "I've worked my entire adult life-- I've never not worked, even when raising a child. Why can't I find a job? Does anybody care? Who else could I write to when I get upset?"

After working as a headhunter in the medical field for 12 years, Sullivan says she was laid off in April 2009. She wanted to start her own business after that, or at least try to get a job in her same field, but she was legally unable to do so for a year because of a non-compete clause in her contract. So she started collecting unemployment insurance and took a part-time job for $11 an hour at Nordstrom in the meantime.

Last week, Sullivan says she received a call from the Massachusetts Division of Employment and Training informing her that they had mistakenly forgotten to factor in her part-time job when determining the amount of her unemployment checks, which had been $653 a week based on her previous salary. They told her that they were cutting her checks down to $72 a week for the next five weeks and that she owed them $6,000 back for the overpayment--even though she had recently lost her part-time job at Nordstrom.

"I'm really angry about this loophole," Sullivan told Huffpost. "It seems like people who were doing what they were supposed to be doing and taking jobs to make ends meet are now being penalized. I don't know what I'm gonna do."

Sullivan said she now has a total of $100 in her bank account, she doesn't know how she'll pay $6,000 to the state if they fail to waive her fee, she receives no responses to the 25 jobs she applies for each week, and she feels like she has little to be thankful for on this Thanksgiving holiday.

"I know it's not the country's fault I'm out of work," she said. "And it's not like I'm special-- there are millions of people like me. It's a recession. But I spent a good part of my career helping people. I'm a veteran. I've worked my entire life. It shouldn't be this hard to get a job."


Are you struggling to put food on the table this Thanksgiving, or are you opening your home to someone who can't afford a turkey? Please send stories to LBassett@huffingtonpost.com.

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08:25 PM on 11/26/2010
Just a ltlle comment from the subject of the story: I may be down on my luck. But I am not a victim. I am a fighter. Insult me for anything I actually do wrong- that''s ok. Do not insult me based on lies, misinterpretations, dumbness, or your own character defects. Do not make the mistake of thinking that just because I seem like a nice person in the story, that I won't go toe to toe with anyone who insults my character in a public forum.
smilingasa
I am a truth teller and a boat rocker
01:58 PM on 11/27/2010
Nothing nice about you lady - I read some of your responses to Poster who are responding to the story.
04:17 PM on 11/27/2010
I guess you are not used to being confronted directly about what you say on line. If you are going to make accusations you must accept that there might be a consequence.
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msfitz4
06:33 PM on 11/26/2010
So many are making critical statements about her part time work.Do you have any idea how over run the unempoyment systems in all states are? Do you know how to figure out what your unemployment amount would be? Or would you just take their word for it? Mistakes are rament in large gov programs. To many people needing help and not enough resorces. Do you honestly think if she was cheat she would put her self out there? NOT
smilingasa
I am a truth teller and a boat rocker
01:24 PM on 11/26/2010
I don't have any respect for anyone who think they do not have anything to be thankful for! Lady you have a lot to be thankful for - you are alive and healthy; I am sure you have family and friends and you should be thankful for that.

When you give, you should not expect anything in return and from reading this story LADY you expect to be paid back for your past giving - That is a problem.

Another thing, you tried to beat the system and double dip by working and collecting unemployment and that is against the rules - now you have to pay back the money and you are upset about that. Big Business get away with this kind of thing and I come down hard on them and I am doing the same with you.

I believe you have a lot to offer but you just need to change your outlook! I wish you the best!
08:13 PM on 11/26/2010
You are an angry person, aren't you? Also poorly informed. You might want to read up before you unleash your vitriol. You don't read do you? (Vitriol means angry nastiness)But then, it's easy to do that when you don't use your real name and hide behind a screen name. Nasty and cowardly is a very bad combination. In fact, how about sending me your name so I can sue you for slander? Or just get some mental health counseling and keep your hostility in check.

I was caught in the loophole that Congress fixed in July but did not make retroactive. You are supposed to try to work,and take whatever comes your way.I did that. I reported my weekly earnings and when I made over a certain amount, it was deducted from my check. The problem was the job ended and my benefit was recalculated on that amount. Many people were caught in this, and it is why Congress fixed it.

You don't know me. You know a few facts about me because of a story. I think the reporter just wanted to make the point that the system is failing good people who tried to do the right things, is all.
smilingasa
I am a truth teller and a boat rocker
01:47 PM on 11/27/2010
You just proved yourself to be the angry one, no anger in my post just TRUTH. It is true that I don't know you but I was responding to your business you put out there and that is what we do here; if you don't want us to respond don't post. I wish you the best!
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MamaJoe
Age is a high price to pay for maturity.
08:51 PM on 11/27/2010
Personally Judy, I think you have a right to be angry, everyone does. I can hear the frustration and hopelessness in your post and there are some who are disparaging you for speaking out without knowing you as a person. I don't know you, but I can sympathise with your frustration, I hope that things improve for you very soon.
11:32 AM on 11/28/2010
LADY, I think you need a chill pill. Also you should take a refresher course in basic English grammar.
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Jennifer Mead
Girls dig unix
05:40 PM on 11/25/2010
If a conservative reads this what do they think? That she deserves it? Just curious.
06:31 PM on 11/24/2010
I'm not having Thanksgiving this year either.
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Halsey
"There is a price to pay for speaking the truth. T
02:30 PM on 11/24/2010
I don't understand. I'm assuming that Judy let her nursing specialty go when she went into headhunting? I'm not criticizing her ONE BIT, trust me, but at 58 there is still a need for Registered Nurses. Could she not update her credentials? My cousin is 56 and just now studying to be a nurse (I will NOT forward this to her). My gawd Washington (and Mass) give this woman a break for crissakes. WE are not supposed to feel old and worthless at 58. What is the point of living longer if you live in poverty, frightened all the time? If Judy lived in Los Angeles I'd invite her to my itty, bitty single apt (and I'm 55...cancer led to my "lay-off") but I'd take her to my brother's with me for some dinner. This just breaks my heart and frankly hits home. I'm her, in a month or two. Ahhh..amerika...the dream died. I'd like to thank Reagan, Clinton, Bush #43 and now Obama.
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LongTimeLiberal52
"Some things just need to be said..."
12:56 PM on 11/24/2010
389 years ago, the indiginous Wampanoag helped the relative handful of surviving Pilgrims in Massachusetts (who weren't really doing too well, BTW) to cultivate the land and wildlife, literally saving them from starvation.

It's worth noting that the celebratory feast we commemorate tomorrow resulted from that amazing act of peaceful cooperation and basic human kindness - one that in TODAY'S toxic social climate would probably be vilified by a significant number of misinformed fellow citizens as "a socialist redistribution of wealth to illegal immigrants..."

And who knows? Maybe the critics have a point. After all, THOSE buckle-shoed immigrants didn't really end up returning the favor when it was THEIR turn to show compassion and brotherhood toward North America's original occupants, did they?

Nevertheless, I hope we can try to remember that it was the Wampanoag's spirit of grace, tolerance, and "lending a helping hand" which made that first Thanksgiving - and, perhaps, America itself - possible. For if this truly IS a quintessentially "American" holiday as so many bumper-sticker patriots insist, then those same qualities should forever be at the core of everything we do as a nation.

Happy Thanksgiving, everyone!!!!
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01:09 PM on 11/24/2010
And within 50 years, they were at war because the Pilgrims swindled the Wamanoags out of their real estate. Nothing ever changes except the dates on the calendar.
12:45 PM on 11/24/2010
I find it so strange that people always look for the negative, this woman is a vet, she has proven over time to be selfless. You don't know her whole situation, but once in a while a single voice needs to float to the top, as a representation of the rest. Its frustration, wanting to work, the pride you get from working. It is beyond a simple, look for a lower job. After 10, 20, 30 years... what is society loosing in the way of experience that this person could give in their field. When it all comes down to it, No these are not great times, but things have spiraled out of control, these times should never have come to pass. Don't spend your time trying to poke holes in every ones story, to make them seem like a bad person, find the sentiment in it, the frustration its not just one person, its the voice of millions who struggle to find a job, pride and a way to carry on.
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10:47 AM on 11/24/2010
dont forget big banks and big corporations have record profits this year - i am also a vet laid off a year ago with wife and son, we both have BAs and only jobs we have been able to pull down have been a couple of seasonal - nada at the moment - move from CA to NV to OR in last 2 years looking for pretty much anywork and now we decided we are moving back in with my mother woohoo 40 living with mom. Im not sad anymore IM MAD i dont want pitty or unemployment support i want opportunity im starting to rant god im pi$$ed
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jimstaro
09:14 AM on 11/24/2010
And while this is happening, money also drying up for military help orgs. as well as veterans orgs., we get the pampered class, majority of america, whining about the security they help create the need for, most being of the cheering crowd of these failed wars of choice and loss of personal security under those who ordered it all, even the (T) {tepublicans} in congress!!!!

"Nam '70-'71 last of my four!!
09:06 AM on 11/24/2010
Thank you all for your support. Some people seem caught up in painting me as a fraud or poser because I am a woman veteran and nurse. That disrespects women and all women who serve their country.

I was a a Captain in the USAF at Sheppard. I joined because of the Viet Nam War. I had protested it but also felt like I wanted to help soldiers. A tornado hit on April 10, 1979. I was six months pregnant and having problems with the pregnancy and not supposed to exert myself. But I had to risk it, and I lost the baby that night. Had I made it one more month, he might have survived. It was crushing. I did what anyone would have done. It was my job to evacuate the patients and I do not think it was special.I just did my job. The USAF did, because I risked and lost the baby to do it. See the AF Times May/June/July 1979.

I have not worked as a nurse in 12 years. I am not qualified to work as a nurse again until I go back to school. I can't go back to school right now.That is just the way nursing is.
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SoccerNana
America is moving forward!
04:42 PM on 11/24/2010
Have you applied at any VA hospitals? Have you gone to your state's VA Regional Office? The number to the VA Regional Offices in all 50 states is 1-800-827-1000. The VA Regional Offices have vocational rehabilitation programs designed to help and assist veterans; if you haven't already, please contact them.

I hope all goes well for you my fellow veteran.
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RJII
Self Sustainability is the Future
11:22 PM on 11/23/2010
it took me two years to find work after losing everything- including self worth and sanity. i've been employed for a year, but i am still struggling to get fully back on feet. i am blessed to have landed a job after 400 plus applications. i pray for better days for everyone looking.

this recession can be brutal for some. you see friends going to work, shopping, paying bills and then there's you on the other side of plexiglass trying to find any work and salvage the remains.

I hope you find something soon Ms. Sullivan.
06:40 PM on 11/23/2010
I am sorry that you are having a difficult time....I understand completely. I am 50, and have worked since I was 15..worked my way through college, and had a succesful non stop career in Advertising, until things started going south with the economy. I was unemployed for over a year, and finally have a part time job in an unrelated field, makiing 1/3 of my former salary.
I know how hard it is to send out resumes, and then never recieve an answer....I have had several interviews and have been told I have to much experience, but can tell that being 20-30 years older than the person interviewing me is the main difficulty! Consider volunteering somewhere you want to work, or pitching contract work as a consultant...it worked for me, somewhat.
It doesnt seem fair to be in this situation after working hard and trying to do the right thing all my life....I like the idea of writing letters, even on Craigslist, and may start doing so myself.
Good luck to you!
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cceras
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05:05 PM on 11/23/2010
My boyfriend is a 51-year-old who last worked at a Saturn Dealership when they closed. He now has 14 weeks of unemployment left and some serious medical issues. Life is scary for him and because of his pride he does not want to ask for nor accept help from others. These are very sad times and it seems based on comments here and elsewhere that compassion, like work, is in short supply. I wish Judy the best and to know she is not alone and there are some people who appreciate her service and dedication.
05:01 PM on 11/23/2010
I'm a consultant to the non-profit JVS-LA www.jvsla.org in Los Angeles that received a grant to help veterans recently returned from Afghanistan and Iraq with finding jobs. Called Veterans First, JVS-LA offers free career coaching, assessments to help identify transferable skills, and job placement.

For nearly 80 years, JVS has enhanced hundreds of thousands of lives with vital employment and career services. Each year, JVS helps nearly 30,000 people from over 30 sites around Southern California. A non-profit, non-sectarian organization, JVS works with city, state and county agencies to ensure everyone has access to the help they need, including long term unemployed, at-risk students, and people with disabilities.
06:18 PM on 11/23/2010
Justjim, that sounds like a great organization. However, I do not think that the topic of this article qualifies for that assistance. I am not sure the Department of Defense definition of veteran applies in this article. By their definition, it is any individual who serves in armed conflicts or has reached a defined retirement date (the first date being at 20 years of service).

I think it's terrible that an RN cannot find employment either in a hostpital or an assisted living enviroment. It seems like something more of age discrimination than thing than anything else.
09:15 AM on 11/24/2010
You are incorrect about the term veteran.

FEDERAL DEFINITION: under Federal Law a VETERAN is any person, who served honorably on active duty in the armed forces of the United States. (Discharges marked GENERAL AND UNDER HONORABLE CONDITIONS also qualify.)


STATE DEFINITION:DEFINITION OF A MASSACHUSETTS VETERAN, M.G.L. C.4, SEC. 7,cl 43rd as amended by the Acts of 2004 - Effective August 30, 2004. To be a "veteran" under Massachusetts law a person is required to have either: 180 days of regular active duty service and a last discharge or release under honorable conditions Such member does not need to have any wartime service. -