In the premiere episode of "Ask Oprah's All Stars," an OWN: Oprah Winfrey Network original program featuring Suze Orman, Dr. Phil, and Dr. Mehmet Oz on a panel answering viewers' questions, Orman took an inquiry from one of HuffPost's very own readers.
The reader wrote in asking if she had a right to be angry at her twin sister, who borrowed $4,000 and has yet to pay it back. Despite losing her job and falling upon hard economic times, the reader explained, her sister still managed to get a manicure and take her children on vacation.
"You have a right to be angry at her," Orman responded. "But i have to tell you, you should actually in be, in my opinion, more angry at yourself. Just don't go telling me this is the first time you've seen your sister be irresponsible with money."
Orman continued, "When you give someone money, you're giving it to them...don't think you're lending it to them."
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