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First Posted: 04/20/11 07:29 PM ET Updated: 06/20/11 06:12 AM ET

Toronto police constable Michael Sanguinetti thought he was offering the key to rape prevention. "I'm not supposed to say this," he told a group of students at an Osgoode Hall Law School safety forum on January 24, but to prevent being sexually assaulted, “Avoid dressing like sluts.”

Despite Sanguinetti’s subsequent written apology and promises of further professional training, the victim-blaming gaffe heard round the world sparked a movement that began in Canada but is now sweeping the United States and abroad: SlutWalks.

“We had just had enough,” said Heather Jarvis, who founded SlutWalk Toronto with friend Sonya Barnett. “It isn’t about just one idea or one police officer who practices victim blaming, it’s about changing the system and doing something constructive with anger and frustration.”

While Jarvis, 25, and Barnett, 38, initially expected only 200–300 people to show their support, upwards of 3,000 massed on the streets of Toronto on April 3 -- some wearing jeans and a T-shirt; others in outfits more appropriate for a Victoria's Secret fashion show: thigh-highs, lingerie, stilettos -- and marched to police headquarters. Their goal: to shift the paradigm of mainstream rape culture, which they believe focuses on analyzing the behavior of the victim rather than that of the perpetrator.

“The idea that there is some aesthetic that attracts sexual assault or even keeps you safe from sexual assault is inaccurate, ineffective and even dangerous,” said Jarvis. She recalled a sign at the march that read: "It was Christmas day. I was 14 and raped in a stairwell wearing snowshoes and layers. Did I deserve it too?"

Since the movement’s inception, the SlutWalk campaign has gone viral. Facebook groups have been emerging to promote satellite SlutWalks in Europe, Asia, Australia and most major US cities. Asheville, Dallas, Hartford, Boston and Rochester will host SlutWalks between now and May 7.

The ubiquity of a rape culture that attributes sexual assault to a woman’s dress or expression of sexuality (both in the court of law as well as in the court of public opinion) helps explain the movement’s widespread resonance and popularity.

In late February, a Manitoba judge condemned a rape survivor in court for wearing a tube top, no bra, high heels and makeup, which he implied had led to her sexual assault. Justice Robert Dewar called the assailant a “clumsy Don Juan” who had succumbed to “inviting circumstances.”

In 1999, Italy’s highest court ruled that a woman wearing jeans could not be raped because it is impossible to remove a pair of pants “without the collaboration of the person wearing them.”

When an 11-year-old was gang raped in Cleveland, Texas this March, a controversial New York Times article noted that the victim “dressed older than her age, wearing makeup and fashions more appropriate to a woman in her 20s,” as if this were a relevant factor in the crime perpetrated against her (the Times later responded to criticism).

“If someone breaks into a house, do you blame the owner for having a house that looks appetizing?” asked Elizabeth Webb, the 24-year-old organizer of SlutWalk Dallas. “I don’t think so!”

Given Dallas’ close proximity to Cleveland, Texas and the fact that April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month, Webb felt it appropriate to organize SlutWalk Dallas, which will take place on April 23. A survivor herself, she feels very close to the issue.

At 18, Elizabeth Webb became a statistic. Along with one in four college women, Webb joined the rank and file of rape survivors. Like 80 percent of victims, she was sexually assaulted by someone she knew -- a close friend who drugged her at a party. Like 15 out of 16 rapists, Webb’s attacker never spent a night in jail.

Although she reported the rape the next day (which her Texas hospital required before administering a free rape examination), Webb stopped pursuing the case after succumbing emotionally in the face of the onslaught of questions acquaintances asked with raised eyebrows, questions aimed at challenging the integrity of the victim: What were you wearing? Why did you go to his party? Why did you drink?

“Sexual assault is traumatic, and to add victim blaming on top of that is damaging to the psyche,” said Webb, now 24, who only recently relinquished her sense of self-blame. “I can’t remember what I was wearing, but why weren’t they asking why he slipped something in my drink?”

Those organizing the SlutWalks are personally connected to the cause in varying degrees. Monday’s SlutWalk Orlando was put together by a feminist theory class at the University of Central Florida. Other organizers are survivors themselves.

Nicole Sullivan, 21, one of three organizers of the May 7th Boston SlutWalk, is a survivor. “But you hear people whispering and asking if you’re the right kind of survivor,” said Sullivan, referring to the Whoopi Goldberg school of thought that there is rape, and then there’s “rape-rape.

Sullivan felt scrutinized for having embraced her own sexuality. “I was told that if I hadn’t owned a vibrator I wouldn’t have gotten raped. It was crazy what people would come up with.”

SlutWalk Toronto’s website states, “Being in charge of our sexual lives should not mean that we are opening ourselves to an expectation of violence, regardless if we participate in sex for pleasure or work. No one should equate enjoying sex with attracting sexual assault.”

An aim of the SlutWalk movement is to reappropriate the word "slut." “I come from a frame of mind that language is powerful, and you can also change language,” said SlutWalk founder Jarvis, using the word “queer” as an example of a word that was once strictly pejorative but is now a common sexual identifier used by the LGBT community.

The embrace of sluttiness has attracted most of the controversy surrounding the event. Posts to SlutWalk Facebook groups question whether the fishnets and chants “We’re here. We’re sluts. Get used to it!” present at SlutWalk Toronto help SlutWalk’s goals, or set the movement back. Fox News commented that there is “nothing brave” about marching for sluttiness, and a conservative blogger accused participants of being “high off attention.”

According to SlutWalk Boston co-organizer Siobhan Conners, 20, although Boston SlutWalk is expecting approximately 1,000 participants, a counter event called “Pimp Walk” has been planned to take place on the same day at the same time. Conners also finds herself removing pornographic and hateful posts from the SlutWalk Facebook page.

“Not everyone has to chant ‘I’m a slut and I’m proud,’” said Conners. “No matter how you identify, even if you don’t consider yourself a sexual person, we’d like to have anyone who is supportive of creating a more positive environment for women and believes that rape shouldn’t be permitted.”

SlutWalk organizers, both domestically and internationally, hope that the movement creates a global dialogue in which women feel comfortable discussing sexual assault without fear of blame.

“By starting this walk and talking to my friends about whether they want to help me, I’ve learned stories from my friends where I didn’t know that they had been sexually assaulted before,” said Lena Ellis, the organizer of SlutWalk Detroit. “This serves as an outlet and lets them have a voice. Having my friends open up is a big deal, and if this happens in my little circle, it can happen for a lot of other people as well.”

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11:05 PM on 05/23/2011
I was all set to walk in my first slutwalk a week ago but it was canceled because of weather. I'm looking forward to the rescheduling.
I was 17 when someone attempted to rape me. I was wearing jeans, a t-shirt and red cowboy boots. I'd vetted the guy before going out with him, he knew a lot of my friends and I met him at a party thrown by a close friend. We went out for coffee and our second date was to the drive in and that's where he pulled a knife and told me to get in the back. Fortunately for me, I was able to kick him with my red cowboy boot and escape the car.
I was an extremely sweet girl at the time and did absolutely nothing that would have lead him to believe I would have agreed which I'm guessing is why he brought a knife to our second date.

I didn't report the incident to the police, only to the large group of guys who had appointed themselves my big brothers. I suspect he would have rather dealt with the police.

No means no... in shorts and a crop top or in a burqa ... you are even allowed to say yes up to a point and then say no and have it mean no.
Police or judges should not be allowed to call a victim's dress into the case.
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07:42 PM on 05/14/2011
If men were the victims there would be no one trying to blame them for any actions leading to the event.
12:16 AM on 05/29/2011
You might want to avoid making this a gender issue, rather than a criminal one. I assume you have a father, maybe brothers, sons or husbands who care about you, and the average cop takes his work very seriously. Yes, it's usually a man trying to defend and protect you. A little gratitude makes it much easier.
04:44 PM on 06/02/2011
Didn't you yourself just make this a gender issue by implying that women don't ahve the capacity to protect themselves?
08:07 AM on 05/10/2011
Hey, I saw a REALLY attractive boat parked in my neighbor's yard last week.

I might as well steal it, because after all, he should know better than to park it where people like me can see it!
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01:40 AM on 05/10/2011
Oh, wow. I cannot believe the things some of the people here are saying.

Let me get to the bottom line: RAPE IS NEVER OK. PERIOD.

I appreciate the word of caution from some men here. But it also presupposes that women who wear "slutty" and/or suggestive clothes attracts this kind of attitude. What about condemning the attitude, rather than justifying where it comes from?

Rape and sexual assault are all about power. If a man thinks he can overpower a woman physically, he will do it regardless of what the woman is wearing. On the other hand, if a group of "street walkers" were peddling their "goods", a man would not even think of sexually assaulting them. Because he'd be overpowered by these women. That said, I'd like these people on HP who claim what women wear has any correlation with the likelihood of rape to post a scientific study to back up this claim.

Because if there is no connection, then why are even discussing this?

As for the comment below: since we are on the topic of "personal responsibility", let me point out that my responsibility is to myself. No man, not even my husband, can touch me inappropriately without my consent. And that same rule applies to men.

What? Was there a sign on my shirt saying "Assault me!"? Exactly, I didn't think so either.
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02:13 AM on 05/10/2011
And even if there was a strong connection between what we wear and the likelihood of us being raped, it still doesn't make us the bad ones. It only proves that our societies justify this sick behavior of some men and using "what we wear" as a scapegoat.
01:49 PM on 05/20/2011
Mostly good points but you are sadly misinformed if you think "streetwalkers" as you put it are never the victims of rape.
The opposite is true; even those prostitutes who are "willingly" selling them selves (as opposed to being "pimped" or "traffiked") are the victims of sexual assault far more often (and robbery and murder) than the general population. It's one of the main arguments for legalizing prostitution.
just saying
02:11 PM on 05/07/2011
So many people like to play the victim as opposed to taking personal responsibility for their actions and choices. If you choose to be in a seedy part of town, choose to drink too much, choose to perform outrageous behavior, choose to wrong people to associate with. The chances of something happening will be greater.

Remember an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.
07:39 AM on 05/10/2011
Somewhere we need to draw the line on responsibility, msc13.

Most all hurricane damage outside the storm surge zone is from tree-fall. Somebody who cuts down every tree in their yard also has no chance of getting their house smashed next hurricane. But ... then their daily quality of life and property value is significantly reduced, because they've taken "personal responsibility" to extreme levels.

Likewise, many traditional Muslim cultures have taken rape prevention to extreme levels, requiring women to wear heavy covering head-to-toe. No chance a rapist will see something irresistible. But they've taken away a woman's ability to express herself through dress, to be comfortable, to move about freely, and to engage in normal human activities.

And, you know what? Despite having removed the visual temptation, women still get raped in Muslim cultures.

Ultimately, rape is a crime of violence, aggression, and subjugation. Men who rape are going to do so because they need to hurt someone weaker than they are. Sex is just one tool these violent people use to hurt others.

So, yeah, take precautions. Close your blinds at night, lock your doors, don't open the door to strangers, get a dog, hell, get a gun and learn how to use it. Don't put personal stuff up on the internet. If you have a public persona kind of profession, go the extra mile.

But don't go overboard, and especially don't blame yourself or other victims for the behavior of criminals.
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11:52 PM on 05/13/2011
When all is said and done, the only choice that matters is the choice one person made to perpetrate sexual violence.
02:00 PM on 05/07/2011
So let me get this straight, with all the other significant problems in the world (economy, natural disasters, wars etc.) women are protesting a mere four letter word?
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10:55 PM on 05/23/2011
No one is protesting a word. The protest is against a mindset in law enforcement that would blame a victim.
12:27 AM on 05/29/2011
Go back and read for comprehension.
05:24 PM on 05/06/2011
Obviously, people have too much emotional attachment to this issue.

If I wore the cash I carried around my neck in a clear plastic bag, no one should be allowed to steal it, I shouldn't be blamed for being stolen from because there was no valid reason to take it, but, if I want to avoid trouble, I should probably keep the cash hidden in a wallet hidden inside my pants/coat instead. A study looks at a large number and looks for statistically significant trends. Yeah, in large part, most rape is unrelated to clothes, and prosecution/defense of rapes should ignore that factor. However, you may be that blip in the study that didn't show up as statistically significant, and it's up to people to work out the odds on their risk and make their own decision.
01:37 PM on 05/07/2011
+1 well put. You put it way better than i could.
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11:57 PM on 05/13/2011
Too much emotional attachment? Doesn't sound like you know any survivors. At least I hope no survivors have to deal with you. You start to get it right and then back pedal. You either understand or you are ignorant; period. Rape is completely unrelated to clothes. Telling women that if they cover up enough and live in enough fear, they will be safe is not only incorrect, it places the onus on the victim yet again.
02:00 PM on 05/01/2011
It seems as though alot of you here exclaiming that rape never happens because of looks never heard that prostitutes are most frequently targeted by serial killers. personally i would group serial killers and rapists within the same sociopathic mindset.

if a killer could target specific victims, so could a rapist.
and whos to say a rapist couldnt have "criteria"

Most guys dont know the statistics.
many have the thought process above ^^^
thats why we offer advice
and we get called pigs and accused of blaming the victim when really we just love those close to us and keep them from dangerous situations.
05:49 PM on 05/01/2011
What a great cause!

I have never understood how wearing clothing that happens to be fashionable will make it so it negates any blame to an assailant in the event of a sexual assault. Most fashionable clothing in the U.S. is not what you would call conservative or prude.

The psychology of why people do the things they do might be similar, but that does not ever make it the victims fault, be it a man or a woman. This kind of thinking is what leads to women being kept in their homes and covered head to toe for fear of rape because of how society has set it up. By giving the assailant the power and also absolving them of blame it just sets up a vicious cycle of abuse.

If I wear a tank top or shorts, or if I go to a lake and wear a swimsuit, I'm not thinking, I can't believe I'm wearing this in public I might get raped. As an American, I seem to have this idealist illusion that women can wear clothes and not be labeled a harlot or attacked for it. And even IF my clothing invites sexual attention, it is not an invitation. People need to learn how to control themselves, take responsibility, and not force blame on someone who is already coping with a damaged psyche.

They are already blaming themselves, they don't need help hurting themselves, just support so they can heal.
07:50 AM on 05/10/2011
While driving in traffic with the family in the heart of downtown New Orleans years ago, we slowly passed by a tall, strikingly beautiful blond woman in one of those "Law and Order" lawyer mini-skirt suits and heels, carrying a briefcase in the direction of the Federal Court house. My husband's head turned to track her just like it was on a string. As I was saying "Eyes on the road!", a man in a little sports car coming in the opposite direction, was doing the exact same thing, and actually crashed into the back of the car in front of him, just like in the movies.

This woman was in no way dressed like a hoochie-mama. She was just very attractive.

Had she been attacked, would some of you blame her for just being pretty, and dressing nicely?

Do you blame her for her admirer's fender-bender?

No, don't answer....please.
05:07 PM on 05/05/2011
Correct me if I'm wrong, but I'm pretty sure that serial killers don't target prostitutes because of their attire, but because they are considered low risk victims: They tend to have less contact with the outside world, and will not be missed as quickly, their area of work is usually in more dangerous neighborhoods, and less frequented by police, and there is a general mistrust of authorities because of their lack of rights, so investigations and witnesses tend to turn up dry.

Saying that by "dressing slutty" a woman could invite sexual assault is to say that she has some fault, when the truth of the matter is that it is never okay for a man to overpower a woman for sexual purposes. And it is also untrue, because for rapists, it is usually a question of "who would it be easiest to overpower?" and is the girl just "in the wrong place at the wrong time."

This sort of attitude is why many rape cases go unreported, many rape victims contemplate or attempt suicide, and why gay sexual assault and marital rape are looked at as lesser crimes.

If you love those close to you, the best thing you can do is to teach them to defend themselves, and that the victim should never blame themselves.
08:35 PM on 04/29/2011
Hey everyone!! SlutWalk Hartford is this weekend, May 1st (Sunday) from 3-5pm! Please come and show your support! I would be so proud to walk beside you all!
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10:06 PM on 04/28/2011
Rape is not correlated with the attire of women.
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11:20 AM on 05/02/2011
Sometimes it is, but usually it's a combination of attire, alcohol (or drugs), socially unacceptable cries for attention, and epic mistakes in judgement.
That's NOT to say that women aren't raped that don't fit that criteria.
It's just that generally speaking, rapists don't fall over each other for the fuglies.
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07:30 PM on 05/09/2011
this comment has nothing to do with clothing, and plenty of not particularly attractive and fully clothed women are raped. Honestly, I think that you have no idea what you are writing about.
08:04 AM on 05/10/2011
A few short years ago my region was terrorized by "The Baton Rouge Serial Killer". He targeted confident, elegant, accomplished professional women. Brunettes, actually. Nurses, PhD students, business owners, the wife of a high-profile politician, and more. All brutally attacked and murdered, while minding their own business, most often, while inside their own homes.

Turns out, this guy started by peeping, then burglarizing, then escalated to serial attack and murder.

These women simply fit his mental image of someone it turned him on to attack , subjugate, and destroy. They did absolutely NOTHING to encourage this man, in fact, none of them even knew him. These women didn't engage in risky behavior, and they ranged in age from 65 to early 20's. All nice-looking, all high-achieving.

One of them even had a dog in the house, but it was a little one and she was in the bathroom and probably couldn't investigate why the dog was barking before she was attacked.

Not one person in their right mind blames any one of these women for having been a target. Would you blame them for being pretty? Accomplished? Living alone, or, in some cases, being in the house alone for just a few hours? Driving across the state by themselves?

No, the responsibility for those heinous attacks lies entirely with ... the killer.

And, to some degree, with us. Society...for not addressing violent crime in a more effective manner.
02:43 PM on 04/28/2011
This weekend Sat April 30th in San Francisco Walk Against Rape http://www.sfwar.org/walk/index.html
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Theophrastus
OK, ok... so maybe I'm not "human" per se...
05:28 PM on 04/28/2011
Dress to impress. lolz.
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pseudonymXXVI
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08:06 AM on 04/28/2011
I guess the question is why would you want to dress like one? It seems to have no rational purpose.
12:34 AM on 05/29/2011
Is protection from crime conditioned on a persons' fashion sense?
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pseudonymXXVI
I (Respectfully) Disagree
08:03 AM on 04/28/2011
You have no idea how hard it is for Social Conservatives to get the majority of Americans to agree with them on an issue. They just found one.
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Chris McCamic
08:11 AM on 05/10/2011
Not really.
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Koeiseun
07:05 PM on 04/27/2011
What an idiot....Here in Detroit a woman in her eighties was raped....Wonder what she was wearing to entice it.....