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Harmony Smith: The Mom Behind High Five For First Kiss (VIDEO)

Harmony Smith High Five For First Kiss

First Posted: 05/09/11 11:01 PM ET Updated: 07/09/11 06:12 AM ET

Harmony Smith spent Wednesday evening doing what she typically does when she finds she has some time on her hands: editing videos of her 5-year-old son, Elliott, to share with family and friends.

So she edited and uploaded her latest video, "High Five for First Kiss," a clip featuring Elliott sharing his first kiss with Bowie, their 6-year-old next-door neighbor. Smith, who's 24 and lives in Upland, Calif., sent the YouTube link to Bowie's mom and a handful of family and close friends, and then went to bed.

She woke up Thursday morning to a text message from a friend telling her that the video had been viewed overnight several hundred times and had been posted to Reddit, the social news site. "I'm calling it right now," the message said. "It's going to go viral."

He called it. Only five days later the video has garnered almost 5 million views. Ryan Seacrest featured it on his website. Justin Bieber tweeted it, and sites like The Huffington Post and CBS News posted it. Smith, along with Bowie and Elliot, is set to appear on Good Morning America on Tuesday and Jimmy Kimmel Live! Monday night.

"People are saying it's the next 'Charlie Bit My Finger,'" said Smith, referring to the 2007 YouTube clip that went viral and has more than 300 million views.

Smith describes her son, who will begin kindergarten in September, as a "showman" who loves to sing and dance. Even before the video went viral, Smith had considered getting him an agent. "He loves attention," she said. "When I told Elliott that Justin Bieber said he 'has game,' he thought that was really cool."

"I could not fathom the impact that it could have on people."

Reaction to the video has been mixed, with comments ranging from "sick" and "perverted" to "adorable," and everything in between (and, being the Internet, even more extreme).

Smith did not expect the two kids to kiss, and her voice can be heard in the video telling Elliott "no more" after they first plant one on each other. "Even though it was cute, and even though it was innocent," she said, "I didn't feel like it was appropriate as a parent to encourage it." She said that she's not against affection, "but children need to know when it's appropriate."

Smith said she's stopped reading the comments because there are so many -- the YouTube post has more than 40,000 -- but she receives between 50-100 messages each day about how the video has affected someone's life.

"I do appreciate when people go out of their way to tell me how it changed their life," she said, adding that she's saving the messages to show Elliott when he's older. "I thought it was just a cute video. I had no idea it was changing people's lives and views."

One message, from a 20-year old college student, has stuck with her. "Please pass along my thanks," the note said. "Tell them to never stop loving. It's people like them that save the world."


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Harmony Smith spent Wednesday evening doing what she typically does when she finds she has some time on her hands: editing videos of her 5-year-old son, Elliott, to share with family and friends. ...
Harmony Smith spent Wednesday evening doing what she typically does when she finds she has some time on her hands: editing videos of her 5-year-old son, Elliott, to share with family and friends. ...
 
 
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04:12 AM on 06/26/2011
One message, from a 20-year old college student, has stuck with her. "Please pass along my thanks," the note said. "Tell them to never stop loving. It's people like them that save the world."

Hell, I totally agree with what that guy said. It's people like Elliott and Bowie who makes the world feel more warmer and interesting.
02:22 AM on 06/10/2011
Ahh, only my typo-correction got through the first time...sorry about the single-word profanity, Huffington Post.

Anyways, my point was - kids will be kids. I agree that our society these days tries to force sex on little children, but a simple kiss is definitely not sexual in any way, shape, or form. This video was adorable, so take it for what it was: two children being sweet, as children should be.
01:04 AM on 06/10/2011
two* Oops, sorry.
10:35 PM on 05/30/2011
I watched a lot viral videos in wally.tv .They are more hilarious. Such as sperm bank, ANGRY BIRDS theme, Jeff Dunham Achmed. You can take a look that will enlighten your gloomy day.
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09:44 PM on 05/19/2011
Ah cute, let's see...how can we sexualize our kids a little more. Hmmm...We've done full on lip-on-lip action, we have g-strings for little girls, we call our little daughter's friend her "boyfriend". Oh I know, Elliott's "first time"! Ah, it will be so cute. Get the camera ready and don't forget the itty-bitty condom, mummy!
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You can't handle the truth!
01:13 PM on 05/13/2011
Welcome to America...
11:41 AM on 05/12/2011
So cute! Saw a spoof of that video on YouTUbe, by the way. http://youtu.be/nci7h06XomQ
10:40 PM on 05/11/2011
That is very nice..
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01:44 PM on 05/11/2011
does kissing your sister count?
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anthonyparker80
12:25 PM on 05/11/2011
Exploitative
04:53 PM on 05/11/2011
LOL. I hope you're joking.
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anthonyparker80
12:24 PM on 05/11/2011
Kiddie Porn
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DiGil
11:30 AM on 05/11/2011
Heck yeah, little boy. That little girl is wearing a Batman shirt, and she seems cool. You should hope she remains your next door neighbor for years to come.
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02:30 AM on 05/11/2011
I can't remember my first kiss. How sad.
08:06 PM on 05/10/2011
Here's my side of the story: "High Five for First Kiss: The Birth of a Viral Video" (http://emliv.blogspot.com/2011/05/high-five-for-first-kiss-birth-of-viral.html). I personally encouraged and witnessed this video explode and it has pumped me up so incredibly much! It's been quite the trip watching the video from the beginning be shared around the world and gather as much feedback as it has. Excited to see where this leads the families involved!
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04:03 PM on 05/10/2011
This was a very cute video. Its very refreshing to see kids being kids and not breaking something or doing something stupid. Just verifies that sweetness still exists in the world.