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HuffPost Greatest Person Of The Day: Rick Phillips Stops Bullying From The Inside Out


First Posted: 05/09/11 07:18 PM ET Updated: 07/09/11 06:12 AM ET

When he was 10 years old, Rick Phillips moved from Montreal, Canada to a motel room in Los Angeles, Calif., along with his brother and newly single mother. Immediately, he felt like an outsider.

During his very first day at his L.A. public school, Rick was badly beaten up, and the experience sparked an anger and resentment that would last for the remainder of his high school years.

"The trauma of that early event -- with no dad around -- it really screwed me up," Rick told The Huffington Post in an interview Monday. "I became an aggressor myself, just for protection."

After being expelled a few times and jumping from school to school, Rick eventually graduated. He decided to pursue a career in education "to be the kind of adult I wish I had more of growing up," as he explained.

He spent the next 20 years working for California's public school system: first as a teacher, then a principal, and then an assistant superintendent.

"For me, it was always less about the curriculum and more about wanting a sense of community within the schools -- a place where kids felt like they really belonged," he said. "I felt hamstrung by structural limitations and wondered, 'how can I really foster the healthy development of these kids?'"

In the mid-90s, Rick decided that he could do more if he started his own organization -- one that encouraged educators to look at problems from the inside-out instead of the outside-in. Thus Community Matters was born.

"Everything we want –- higher graduation rates, less violence, cultural respect and diversity –- all of that will happen if we create a real community in the schools," Rick said.

Unfortunately, on April 20, 1999, Rick's mission became more clearly defined.

"The shootings at Columbine were seminal for a lot of reasons," Rick said. "It marked the end of this assumption that families could just send their kids to public school, and they'd come home safe at the end of the day."

Columbine also forced educators and administrators to look at social issues within their schools through the lens of bullying, a subject Rick knew all too much about. He re-focused the mission of Community Matters, realizing that -- more than ever -- kids needed to watch each other's backs, to look out for one another.

Outside laws and zero tolerance policies weren't enough to stop more tragedies from happening. You couldn't punish kids and force them "to be nice," Rick said.

So he began planting the seeds for the Safe School Ambassadors (SSA) program, which is predicated on the idea that the kids themselves are the essential catalysts for social change within public schools.

"It's high school social capital," as Rick says. "Leaders influence their own constituencies."

In the earliest months of the program, nobody was biting. But then, after addressing a small crowd at an educators' conference in 2000, one Florida superintendent approached him. One of her schools, she said, had witnessed a tragedy of their own.

"One of her teachers was shot and killed by a 13-year-old student," Rick recalled. "The boy had told 25 other kids he was going to kill this teacher, but none of them spoke up -- nobody did anything about it. She said that if they'd had a program like mine, maybe somebody would have stopped him."

So Rick took the SSA program to Palm Beach County. He surveyed students anonymously to assemble his initial group, asking questions like: Who do you consider a leader? And who would you turn to if you were in trouble?

Based on the results, they assembled a group of influential students on campus from a variety of cliques. The students were then trained in different exercises, encouraged to listen and learn how and when to intervene.

Since 2000, the program has caught on around the country. Currently, SSA operates in almost 1,000 schools in 30 states, from the Midwest to inner city L.A. In a study of 19 schools with the SSA program, suspensions were down 33 percent, compared to an increase in suspensions of 10 percent in schools without the program. Not only does it have a clear social effect, the reduction in suspensions saves schools thousands of dollars in operating costs.

"We're not selling it as a social idea, we're just appealing to their self-interests," Rick said. "We ask these kids: Do you want to keep your friends and family safe? Do you want to keep your friends out of trouble? It has a Jedi warrior effect when kids realize they have the power to diffuse problems. They do want to help."

For more, check out these videos on the SSA program.

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When he was 10 years old, Rick Phillips moved from Montreal, Canada to a motel room in Los Angeles, Calif., along with his brother and newly single mother. Immediately, he felt like an outsider. Du...
When he was 10 years old, Rick Phillips moved from Montreal, Canada to a motel room in Los Angeles, Calif., along with his brother and newly single mother. Immediately, he felt like an outsider. Du...
 
 
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09:57 PM on 05/18/2011
We love the SSA program. This is one of the school programs that is most effective in preventing
bullying and stopping bullying when it is observed. All schools should consider this program.
My co-author and I strongly recommend that parents ask for and school administrators explore it for their district.

For free bullying solutions resources and tools, visit solutionsforbullying.com.
12:17 PM on 05/15/2011
Great article. Empowering students to help themselves as well as providing a vehicle for them to protect their friends and family makes them active participants. Peer to peer training/mentoring is a powerful tool especially for this age group.

http://dr-carol.com/2011/03/22/tips-for-dealing-with-a-bully/
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Terri Lorz
10:56 AM on 05/11/2011
This is important work - good luck - Terri Jo Lorz
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Lion Goodman
Evocateur, Coach, Teacher
03:51 PM on 05/10/2011
I've been involved with this program - and can verify that it has a dramatic impact on young people in schools. Rick has found the key that unlocks the awful consequences of separation, denigration, teasing, and bullying. His program takes the natural student leaders in schools, including gang leaders, clique leaders, sports leaders, and academic leaders, and brings them together in a deep and profound way so they see each others' humanity, soul, and vulnerability. They start relating to each other differently, and then their "followers" start acting differently. Even rival gangs in schools begin to recognize their common brotherhood. It's a fantastic program. Bring it to your school district (more than 600 schools around the country already have). Send them money. They're doing the right thing for our young people.
02:43 PM on 05/10/2011
So richly deserved!

Bless Rick on all he does for young people and for our communities everywhere. This is a man making a difference.
02:24 PM on 05/10/2011
This award is well deserved for Rick Phillips. My column just did a piece on his safe school ambassador program, too. I interviewed five of his safe school ambassadors, one a former bully. To read what the kids say about what the program did for their schools and for them as individual humans see http://straighttalkforteens.com/index.php/teen-advice/entry/a_bullying_solution_that_really_works/
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poeticjustice4all
Past = Prologue
12:46 PM on 05/10/2011
"For me, it was always less about the curriculum and more about wanting a sense of community within the schools -- a place where kids felt like they really belonged," Phillips said.

If even a quarter of our teacher workforce had this philosophy -- we would live in a very different world.
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CarryOn
no matter where you go, there you are
08:16 AM on 05/10/2011
We need to change our attitude toward violence as a society. whether the bullying is psychological or physical,children and adults perceive giving is better than receiving. (Hazing in colleges, personnel and administration relationships in business...private and public)
SSA program is a start...but it is not enough.

Many industrialized nations, including the UK, Canada and Australia have legislation regarding Hostile Work Environment, beyond sexual harassment, this legislation addresses behaviors that make for a toxic work environment ...

we need to take it to that level in this country
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CarryOn
no matter where you go, there you are
08:08 AM on 05/10/2011
so how do you stop bullying at the Congressional level?
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Robert Frank
My last name is FRANK so thats what I am..
07:08 AM on 05/10/2011
punch a bully in the mouth...works every time
01:52 AM on 05/10/2011
Once again we create programs that attempt to address the diseases in the leaves of the tree but fail to acknowledge the inherent disconnect that we have created in our society between parent, student and teacher. Although some programs attempt to bridge this gap, the structure and direction of our society is to remove responsibility from parent to state, and as long as this happens, there will be no true community - only an artificiality created by the nanny-state.

Call it progress if you will.
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SoreEyes
Now my micro-bio is half empty
07:52 AM on 05/10/2011
Let me tell you about nanny state. Minimum wage that's not even barely enough to survive let alone to raise a family, forcing both parents to work. Lack of maternal and paternal leave, forcing parents to work through the most important months of a child development. Who opposed minimum wage? not the progressives. Who opposes maternal leaves? not the progressives. It's the so called conservative mantras that translate into "save your own a$$" what is turning our kids into sociopaths. I could go on and on, but why bother? Keep voting red, the repubs still have a long way to go in destroying what's left of civility.
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LoneRangerDude
Cross between The Lone Ranger and The Dude
01:12 AM on 05/10/2011
It sounds like Rick Phillips received a well-deserved honor.
10:56 PM on 05/09/2011
I notice that the article cites a 33% decrease in suspensions as evidence that bullying is decreased. This seems like a rather flimsy connection.

Evidence of a decrease in violent incidents or that students' perceptions of safety have increased would indicate that students are actually safer.
01:59 AM on 05/10/2011
Where would we be if we didn't have at least flimsy statistics to guide the gullable. The foundation of our society is based on flimsy statistics. Heck, we even award Nobel Peace Prizes for simply not being Bush. Get with the program.
03:57 PM on 05/10/2011
As a member of the team that evaluated the Safe School Ambassadors program, I need to point out that the statistics were actually quite strong. For an intervention of this kind to be considered effective, there must be less than a 5% probability that the stats could have lined up that way “by chance” – in statistical terms, the p-value must be less than 0.05. Analysis of these stats turned up a p-value of less than 0.0001, which translates to there being less than one-hundredth of one percent chance (one-in-ten-thousand) that the suspensions just went down that much on their own.
04:08 PM on 05/10/2011
The Safe School Ambassadors (SSA) program is about improving school climate, helping to create a physically and emotionally safe environment where students can learn, teachers can teach, and everyone can thrive. What gets in the way of that safety? Students experiencing, or even just seeing, a wide variety of incidents that range from exclusion to insults to bullying to fights. Suspension rates are recognized in the field as an indicator of climate and bullying, because state education codes specify situations that students are to be suspended for, and most of these are for causing or threatening to cause harm (which also creates fear, which gets in the way of students feeling safe). For example, students get suspended for: causing, attempting to cause, or threatening to cause physical injury; using force or violence upon another person; committing or attempting robbery or extortion; committing or attempting sexual assault, bullying, threatening other students or staff, and more. The study found significant decreases (averaging 33%) in those "suspendable" incidents. fewer suspensions means fewer hurtful/violent incidents like those, which means students have fewer reasons to fear harm or loss, and thus they feel safer and can open up and excel... a fact corroborated by the administrators at the schools involved in the study: SSA reduces bullying and improves school climate.

The study also found that friends of the Ambassadors reported an improved school climate and more peer interventions in mistreatment, compared to friends of the demographically matched "key students" at the control schools.
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kmdippenger
Montgomery County, PA
10:22 PM on 05/09/2011
Maybe we can start this program in the schools, with the kids, and then it will trickle up to their self-absorbed parents. There has been a paradigm shift in this country to one where it's survival of the fittest instead of power through strengthening our community. There is a vicious cycle out there and maybe Rick Phillips can help stop it.
09:51 PM on 05/09/2011
Good recommendations, also children learn from adults including teacher, parents. Stop adult bullying such as workplace bullying, employment discrimination, legal abuse, abuse of power and authority and this will stop bullying overall.