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South Africa Lesbians Targeted In Rapes, Murders

South Africa Lesbians

By DONNA BRYSON   05/11/11 06:21 AM ET   AP

EKURHULENI, South Africa -- They found Noxolo Nogwaza's body in a drainage ditch choked with trash and high reeds. The lesbian activist had been repeatedly stabbed with broken glass, and beaten so severely with chunks of concrete that her teeth had been knocked out.

The neighborhood where the 24-year-old mother of two was slain once was known as a haven for black gays and lesbians, but activists say her death here late last month highlights an alarming rise in homophobic violence in some of the country's most impoverished areas.

"If the police and other state officials do not act swiftly, it will only be a matter of time before they have to account for their failure to the family and friends of the next lesbian who is beaten and killed in Kwa-Thema," Human Rights Watch researcher Dipika Nath said in a statement.

No arrests have been made in Nogwaza's death, one of dozens that happen each day in a country with high rates of violent crime. Authorities are also investigating whether she had been raped.

In the days leading up to her funeral, friends, family and colleagues held several marches in her honor, traveling from the ditch where her body was found through the streets of the Kwa-Thema neighborhood in this community just east of Johannesburg.

Some union leaders and politicians also have offered support, with one union noting Nogwaza's children in particular.

"We hope that they will one day manage to see beyond the horror of what has happened, and recognize and be proud of the wonderfully warm and courageous person their mother was," it said in a statement.

South Africa's Ministry of Justice announced last week that it wants to open special shelters for people who fear for their lives because of their sexual orientation. But the governing party's women's league says the government must go further, and wants lawmakers to classify these attacks as hate crimes.

Same-sex marriage is legal in South Africa and the country has among the most liberal laws on sexual orientation on a continent where many other countries punish gay sex with fines and jail terms. But cultural attitudes don't always match the progressive constitution approved in 1996 after the end of apartheid.

"We've been so confident here in South Africa, thinking the law will protect us," said Bontle Khalo, a friend of Nogwaza's who worked with her in a group fighting for the rights of gays and lesbians in Kwa-Thema. "We're facing the same struggles all over this continent and all over this world."

South African lesbians say they are particularly vulnerable in a society where conservative attitudes, especially among the black majority, have strong influence on how women are seen and treated. The attacks on lesbians have all taken place in townships – the communities where black South Africans were forced to live under apartheid that remain predominantly black and poor.

The assaults on lesbians have been called "corrective rapes," and are meant to humiliate and punish women who don't fit the norm. Some attackers have reportedly said they believed they could "cure" women of being lesbians by raping them, said Vasu Reddy, a researcher at the government's Human Science Research Council.

Victims are even believed to include a 13-year-old girl who was assaulted in Pretoria last week.

Some 30 attacks have been documented since 2003, and they have steadily increased over the years, Reddy said. But the real number is likely higher because victims can be reluctant to come forward for fear of being stigmatized or blamed, and because the motives of murders aren't always immediately known or recorded.

The drafters of South Africa's constitution, with its clauses banning discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation, wanted a document that countered the restrictions and inequities of the apartheid era.

Activists have used the charter to push for more in the courts, overturning anti-sodomy laws, and securing guarantees that gay parents have equal child custody and adoption rights. But such success can lead to backlash.

"There is a mismatch between the constitutional protections and the mindset of people on the ground," Reddy said.

Kwa-Thema, where Nogwaza lived and died, had long been known as being gay-friendly, drawing people from across the country.

Then in 2008, Eudy Simelane, an openly lesbian star on South Africa's women's national soccer team and a Kwa-Thema resident, was gang-raped, beaten and stabbed. Another lesbian, Girlie Nkosi, was stabbed a dozen times in a Kwa-Thema club in 2009.

Those deaths led to the founding of Ekurhuleni Pride Organizing Committee known as EPOC. One of its first events was a gay pride march through Kwa-Thema in 2009 that was endorsed by religious and traditional leaders, Khalo said.

About 500 people marched in 2009, and even more turned out last year. Khalo, EPOC's spokeswoman, thought the marches and discussions helped for a time. Then came Nogwaza's death in late April.

Nogwaza, whose first name means peace, had been active in the group. Colleagues said she was ready to help out with the unglamorous work of putting up posters and knocking on doors to spread the word about events, and came to meetings regularly.

Her family reportedly accepted her homosexuality – an aunt told a local newspaper she used to buy her niece men's clothes.

Khalo believes the violence in Kwa-Thema comes from a small group of people, and that it can be overcome. She plans another gay pride march this year, though she acknowledges it could stir anger among those who want gays and lesbians to keep quiet.

"We are afraid," she said. "But I think sitting down and not doing anything doesn't help."

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MMMMarilyn
12:30 PM on 07/07/2011
THese are stories the government makes up .
THese murders are committed by men not lesbians.
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FaceTheTruth00
I'm a girl.
03:38 PM on 05/12/2011
Rape and murder is disgusting.

So are the people who use things like this to religion-bash.

It's sad, and rather kind of scary that people think that everyone is going to church every week, sitting around gay-bashing and planning rapes and murders.

I got news for you, for someone who spent every week of my formative years going to Catholic church and catechism, I never once heard homosexuality so much as mentioned. Not once.

I know it kinda kills the image of the evil churchgoers sitting around gay-bashing, but it just does not happen outside of fringe people like Westboro.

Most people could not care less what someone else does or who they do it with. They find it unnatural and have no need to hear about the details of it, but they certainly don't sit around discussing it either.
03:17 PM on 05/12/2011
Donna. You said "...an alarming rise in homophobic violence...". Homo=same, phobic=fear. So people that are affraid of sameness are using physical force to damage in increasing frequency? Those affraid of two silver hondas lash out? Campbell soup aisles trashed?
06:12 PM on 05/12/2011
You're being purposely obtuse and I find it in extremely bad taste considering what is being reported in the article.
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IamYourDrillThrall
You can't be pro-war & pro-life.
06:23 AM on 05/13/2011
Stop it. You know exactly what she meant. What is your point; besides being irritating?
01:27 PM on 05/13/2011
Words are important are they not? Choose them carefully and understand their meaning.

Live long and prosper.
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Atwill
Proud Father of a gay son.
09:27 AM on 05/12/2011
Any and all of these so called Religious people who try to cure gays of being gay are demented. They have a serious mental illness. They are brainwasd by the evangelical / fundies/ bible thumpping group. These groups, evangelical / thumpers, prey on the weak minded and recruite them into their ranks of hate. This is why thiey to go these third world countries, where people are less educated and can be easily brainwashed.
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Louise Aloft
08:24 AM on 05/12/2011
Some attackers have reportedly said they believed they could "cure" women of being lesbians by raping them, said Vasu Reddy

i love the logic in that. in reality they're more likely to end up vehemently hating the whole category of males for the rest of their lives
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SusanElizabeth1949
My micro-bio may be empty but my head isn't.
10:47 PM on 05/12/2011
I've known straight women who felt that way about men after a violent rape.
Mainstream American
To promote peace, simply promote atheism.
08:00 AM on 05/12/2011
Sounds like something the Family at C Street House would approve of.
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mgrant33301
07:58 AM on 05/12/2011
what a sick world.
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MarcEdward
likes all cats more than most people
11:45 AM on 05/12/2011
Humans are an odd species.
While other mammals will kill and eat each other, or engage in homosexual behavior, you never see an mammal kill another mammal because they "suspect it's gay"
04:56 PM on 05/12/2011
Here, here. Well said. Humans are capable of such love and generosity... but also such hate and cruelty. I'm a new mother, and it's very disheartening to have to raise a little girl in this kind of world.
05:21 AM on 05/12/2011
Boy, that country sure went to hell in a handbasket.
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SteveDenver
Progressive and liberal, just like Jesus Christ.
04:59 AM on 05/12/2011
Lesbians are routinely raped in the United States, as a way to "teach them a lesson" or "show them what they've been missing."

In Nazi Germany, gay men were outlaws, but not lesbians — they could be forced to bear children.

It boils down to oppression of women by men, this situation is exacerbated by homophobia and bias against homosexuality. Many men feel entitled to women's bodies and resent any kind of rejection.
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mgrant33301
07:59 AM on 05/12/2011
you have been fanned.
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elbeas
Pragmatista sinistra
08:19 AM on 05/12/2011
Worse. It boils down to the reclassification of a human being as a thing. A thing to be abused, tormented and discarded. Number 1509
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Kald
02:55 AM on 05/12/2011
Kwa-Thema... seems like the Phelpses would do well putting up a mission there.
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MiraMcB
An eternally optimistic skeptic.
01:49 AM on 05/12/2011
More sadness on this page. I just don't get why someone else's sexual preferences would be of concern to any one not in a relationship with that person. It's like the color bias thing. It seems so inconsequential to me. How could anyone get so exercised by these things that they would rape, assault, murder? It's not a nice world.
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Noel Alumit
01:30 AM on 05/12/2011
Hmmmm. I'm just thinking out loud, but I wonder if this has anything to do with Christianity spreading throughout the continent. Just wondering....
01:52 AM on 05/12/2011
I wouldn't rule it out. Christianity has some of the harshest terms spelled out for homosexuality and it seems to coincide with the bigoted furor we've been hearing out of Africa.
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SteveDenver
Progressive and liberal, just like Jesus Christ.
04:59 AM on 05/12/2011
And the intriguing thing is that in the two passages where reference to homosexuality is mentioned, so are a host of other laws christians choose to overlook.
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Louise Aloft
01:05 PM on 05/12/2011
combine its homophobia with its inherent general mysogyny.. no i wouldn't rule it out, either!
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Inghram
03:28 AM on 05/12/2011
I wondered the same thing ... look at Uganda and how close they are to passing the brutal dark ages anti-gay bill. They have been largely influenced by American Christian groups like The Family.
12:48 AM on 05/12/2011
Just like Men, if you don't like men I KILL YOU, if you don't like my God, I KILL YOU, if I can't control you I KILL YOU. Why do men fear so much. They sound like alot of little spoild boy who are afried of women.
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JShankel
I want my country forward
01:54 AM on 05/12/2011
"Why do men fear so much."

Their mothers teach them.
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pjwrites
04:11 AM on 05/12/2011
Because their dads aren't there.
05:11 PM on 05/12/2011
Oh, blah blah blah. This wouldn't be happening in matriarchal society.
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RainbowTeacher
07:27 AM on 05/12/2011
That fear is certainly being spelled out here where they are so desperately afraid of the power of the female majority that they will do anything to maintain their control over us from stripping away constitutional rights to objectifying all women in a position of power. They are more likely to comment on a women's appearance than her politics.
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JShankel
I want my country forward
09:10 PM on 05/12/2011
Women are complicit in this attitude:

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1251040/Rape-Its-fault-victims-say-50-women.html

Remember: women raise sons, so however men are acting it's at least slightly due to what their mothers taught them.  Not too many children of single fathers out there.
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JShankel
I want my country forward
10:55 PM on 05/12/2011
"Sad but true in many cases. One of the things I vowed to myself was to raise my sons to be better men than their father. And my sons don't see women as "asking for it". And they are proud of their lesbian Mom."

Good on you.  And I don't mean to get down on women.  It's actually somewhat of a hopeful notion to suggest that women have more power in society than we imagine.

My own take is that it's less about men vs. women per-se than it is about the uterus vs the penis.  The uterus is incredibly valuable compared to the penis, bioeconomically speaking.  A man can reproduce hundreds of times in a lifetime without breaking a sweat.  But if a woman has a dozen children, she'd pretty much have to make a career out of it even if she didn't nurse or raise them.  So the uterus becomes the limiting factor on the rate of reproduction.  There are plenty of penises to spare.

Too many dicks on the dance floor.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9Wl_uQOABxg

Ironically, being worth less gives men more freedom.  Who cares how many men die in a war so long as there are enough left to repopulate?

So all of us, men and women, have evolved with a vested interest in making sure that young girls have no freedom.  Being valuable, they must be controlled.

So we set up systems where men are nominally in charge, but women make most of the domestic decisions.  Men can be spared to manage everything aside from the raising of children because there are plenty of us.

Of course, now that we're living in a civil society and not in Game of Thrones, none of these rules need apply and we can go about evolving.  It's like you can argue that there's an evolutionary selection for sexual assault, but that doesn't make it okay or justify it in any way.
10:57 PM on 05/11/2011
Man has made religion a dangerous thing. Those spreading false Christianity fingerprints are all over this.
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conservicide
I don't play nice.
11:32 PM on 05/11/2011
Barbarians.
Religious.

not a surprise
01:52 AM on 05/12/2011
Men also made religion.
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SteveDenver
Progressive and liberal, just like Jesus Christ.
05:11 AM on 05/12/2011
You mean a women's monthly cycle serves a physical purpose and not because of a talking snake and a forbidden apple tree?
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MajorKong
If the pilot's good, see, I mean if he's reeeally
09:14 PM on 05/11/2011
I don't get it.

I really don't spend much time worrying about other people's sexuality. I've got better things to do.

To paraphrase Thomas Jefferson - "It neither picks my pocket nor breaks my leg".
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MarcEdward
likes all cats more than most people
10:00 PM on 05/11/2011
Yeah, I never got bigotry. I've been tempted by many sins, but hating people because they were different was never one of them.
03:26 PM on 05/12/2011
From the keyboard of cats over people.
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monte2115
Equal- everyone, always
11:20 PM on 05/11/2011
My personal fav is
"The only people that should be concerned about my sexuality is the person sitting on my lap"
---Michael Stipe
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SteveDenver
Progressive and liberal, just like Jesus Christ.
05:12 AM on 05/12/2011
Or the person who wants Michael to sit on mine!
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elbeas
Pragmatista sinistra
08:23 AM on 05/12/2011
I probably shouldn't post this. But it's too early for common sense.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d5YrB7TpT1Y