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Christian Choate, Boy Who Died Locked In Cage, Wrote About Abuse And Desire To Die

First Posted: 06/26/11 12:12 PM ET Updated: 08/26/11 06:12 AM ET

Christian Choate

Records of the Indiana Department of Child Services reveal that Christian Choate, a boy who authorities claim lived locked in a cage and died from savage abuse, wrote letters describing his situation and saying that he wanted to die.

According to the Chicago Tribune, DCS visited with the Choate family in Gary, Indiana more than a dozen times starting in 1999, investigating allegations of abuse and neglect. Authorities never discovered what prosecutors claim was the true depth of the misery in which young Christian lived.

Based on accounts from his sister and stepsister, Christian, who died in 2009 at age 13, spent much of the last year of his life locked in a three-foot-high dog cage, with little food and drink and few opportunities to leave. When he did get out of the cage, he endured savage beatings from his father Riley.

One night in April of 2009, Christian was too weak to keep his food down. His father allegedly beat him to the point of unconsciousness, then locked his limp body in the cage.

The next morning, his sister Christina found him dead.

According to investigators, Riley then buried the boy in a shallow grave, covered his body in concrete, and moved with Christina to Kentucky, where he threatened to harm her if she ever told anyone about his death. It would be two years before his body was found.

One of the reasons his absence wasn't noticed was that his stepmother, Kimberly Kubina, took him out of school, saying that he was being home-schooled.

The extent of that homeschooling was revealed in some letters found by DCS. When other children were out playing, Kubina would give Christian paper and tell him to write.

"Christian wrote of why nobody liked him and how he just wanted to be liked by his family," a DCS document wrote, according to the Chicago Sun-Times. "Christian stated that he wanted to die because nobody liked the way he 'acted.' Christian's writings detail a very sad, depressed child who often wondered when someone, anyone, was going to come check on him and give him food or liquid. Christian often stated he was hungry or thirsty."

In a still more disturbing twist, the Northwest Indiana Times reveals some of the assignments his stepmother gave:

Kubina wrote topics on top of some of the pages including, "Why do you want to play with your peter? Why do you still want to see your mom? Why can't you let the past go? What does it mean to be part of a family?" DCS records state.

Riley Choate and Kimberly Kubina have been charged with murder, battery, neglect of a dependent, confinement, obstruction of justice, moving a body from a death scene and failure to notify authorities of a dead body. They have both pleaded not guilty.

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05:38 PM on 08/02/2011
Dear Christian Choate
It’s been two years since you left this world in 2009. You were mercilessl­y smothered to death at an age when life is an abode of merriment and desires. Your mirth was stolen away by the murk of the three foot high dog cage in which you were ensnared by your own father and stepmother­.
Read more in the article below:
http://dha­rbarkha.bl­ogspot.com­/2011/06/d­ear-christ­ian-choate­.html
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chiara0
The sleep of reason produces monsters.
02:04 PM on 07/20/2011
I want to comment on this but have no words :(
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WheresNixon
Only children require 100% agreement! P.S. Nixon
02:52 PM on 07/18/2011
OMG! My heart brakes for this poor little boy.
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matilda81
04:53 PM on 07/13/2011
Those who torture children, both men and women, should be sterilized. In a perfect world, psychological screening and parenting classes would be mandatory in order to have a child. Unfortunately, there would be too many abuses in the system, so this could never happen. I know I sound extreme, but my mother was brutalized by her mother as a child and was almost killed on several occassions. My newborn niece had her legs and ribs broken by her mother, which resulted in her having to be lifeflighted. She came close to death and suffered seizures for several years after. To top it off she was given 10 years PROBATION due to the incompetence of a small town prosecutor. Now she if free to have more children.
03:56 PM on 07/11/2011
The parents ought to be euthanised.
12:14 AM on 07/12/2011
Euthanisation is way too humane for these monsters. They deserve much worse than death.
01:03 PM on 07/09/2011
Even more, the biological mother, Aimee Estrada, should be ashamed of herself for not once trying to contact her child since 2005. Even without custody, does this excuse you from any and all parenting duties? Did you not call your children to wish them a happy birthday or a merry Christmas even once during that 4-5 year time frame?! I know she herself was abused before she got out of the relationship, but despite her situation, she allowed her innocent children to stay in the abusive home. Even worse, she didn't bother to call/hear her child's voice to ensure his safety even once. Had she atleast called once during that 4 year span, she would have realized that her son had been missing for over two years, and could have allerted authorities, filed a missing person report and gotten the investigation going. A mother is always accountable for her child's whereabouts. She has failed as a parent. This whole situation is beyond sad, but luckily, Christian is up in Heaven now where he can feel no more pain.
01:03 PM on 07/09/2011
Riley Choate is a sad excuse for a father and we can only hope that they charge Kim Kubina with the same crimes. Kubina did nothing to stop the child abuse from happening and she is threrefore just as guilty. The sister, Christina, would apparently beat poor Christian for "mouthing off" and choke him until he would turn blue. She was only 15 at the time and because i do not know the extent of physical abuse that she herself may have endured, i will not fault her for not allerting authorities/ teacher/friend regarding the incident. These violent acts were learned behavior, but at her age, she is old enough to distinguish right from wrong. According to the reports, no one was standing over her forcing her to beat him was a metal pole and choke him until he turned blue. She took it upon her self to follow daddy's footsteps. I feel bad for all of the children who were forced to live in such a dysfunctional home, but concurrently, I also find her accountable for his death being that she was apparently the last to deliver the final blow before his untimely death.
03:42 AM on 07/07/2011
He would've been my age, I am so sick to my stomach right now.
apoyo
Micro-bio? Sounds serious.
08:40 PM on 07/06/2011
Even if you are home schooled you still have to report your child's progress. Did no one ask proof for competency of grade level. A student has to be enrolled in home schooling. Who was watching out for this child? What is wrong with society?
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jwcmass
I dream of things that never were and ask Why not
10:44 PM on 07/06/2011
Likely underfunded agencies with underpaid staff.

There simply is not enough caseworkers to handle a reasonable load, so they get overburdened and many end up burning out.

I also doesn't help that because the pay is so low that many people who would be effective social workers leave the field entirely, taking their talent with them.

The sad fact is that our society just does not care enough for our children (judging by the amount of money invested in them. We are willing to pay MUCH more for prisons, but aren't willing to pony up the money needed to intervene early enough to save a child's life from being severely damaged (if not ended).

Christian and his sister Christina are OUR children -- and what we as a society are doing is not nearly good enough.
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Vikki Rogers Steinrauf
Never take a knife to a gun fight.
10:05 PM on 07/11/2011
Unfortunately there is no oversight on "home-schooling" in any state in which I have lived. While there are some parents doing an excellent job, hiring tutors when necessary, socializing their kids and treating their education as a priority there are far more that are raising children with no real education. I worked in an educational store and had home-schoolers complain that the cheapest one year curriculum we carried was $49.99. Even if not abused these children are being raised at a distinct disadvantage. Remember I said there are parents doing this well, but they are the exception not the rule.
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jwcmass
I dream of things that never were and ask Why not
10:42 PM on 07/11/2011
Yes, I doubt many parents could teach a course in calculus or physics. (just to give one example). And that could have a critical factor in denying a student interested in science or engineering a chance to get into an elite university.
10:29 AM on 07/06/2011
This is happening in every neighborhood in every corner of Earth. Hell is for children. 4 y. ago a coworker was driven from our school when she found out an employee - who was principal's best friend - was abusing students with mental retardation. I left soon after, but this employee is still there! Now my sister in law & her husband abuse their mildly retarded son. Ask him to do homework in public and ridicule him when he gets answers wrong. Go to his soccer games & yell & call him names from the stands when he makes a bad play. Once they even left in the middle of his game to "teach" him a "lesson." WHAT F**KING lesson? At family gatherings parents give him dirty looks from across the table & whisper & point at him. He knows what they are doing, but if he sulks or cries they scream that he has a "sh***y attitude" in front of everyone & send him to sit outside by himself. 2 F**KING MONSTERS. Not quite the same as Christian's parents but not so terribly different - just on a less extreme spectrum. Whole family knows it's wrong & tries to stop it, but those I know in the field assure this kind of abuse is hard to prove & foster care system isn't much better, especially with a kid w/a disability like that. If we knew this wouldn't cause war in spouse's family, we'd go after custody ourselves. They both
03:37 PM on 07/06/2011
Child and Family services should be involved with your sister in law. Why are you standing silently by while you are seeing abuse all around you?
02:33 PM on 07/11/2011
That' s my question too. How come you don't report it the proper authorities? It doesn't matter what the people you know, who are "in the field" tell you -- you still need to try. Who cares if you ruffle a few feathers in the family? Your sis-in-law doesn't deserve the priviledge of being a parent if she's treating her son that way. Someone, a mature, responsible adult in your family, needs to be his advocate. If you don't, who will?
05:16 PM on 07/14/2011
To Ritan7471 and 5hundie: You ask a good question and make a valid point, here. In fact, though, I have not "stood silently by" in either of these cases. In the case of my coworker, after the first abuse was reported, the child involved was removed from her caseload. The following year, it came to my attention that she was abusing another student, and I brought it to the principal's attention (the same principal who drove the first accuser out of the school), and also to the attention of the student's parents, who removed their child from my coworker's caseload. The Principal then assured me that if I dared to pursue the issue further, she'd make sure that I, NOT the abuser, would be indicted on child abuse charges. "I'll make sure of it," she said. Meanwhile, I was not abusing anyone. I was helping my students! But the principal was best friends with the abuser, and would do anything cover for her. That is a large part of why I resigned the end of that year, for anyone who is wondering. As far as my nephew--he is my spouse's nephew "by blood." Regardless, I have become very close to him. And, again, I have NOT been silent on this issue, either. I have brought it to the attention of my in-laws and have confronted my sister-in-law and brother-in-law about their actions.
05:17 PM on 07/14/2011
Continued: So has my spouse. My mother-in-law is a narcissistic infantile who defends my sister-in-law (her son's wife, NOT her daughter), tooth and nail over EVERYONE in the family, even as my S.O.L. has behaved destructively and spitefully toward several of my spouse's kin. Only as one example, 2 years ago, she stole $450 from my mother-in-law's brother because she wanted a new Birkin bag. She was caught red-handed. My M.O.L. defended her over her own brother, and still does, even though my S.O.L. never apologized or admitted what she did was wrong. Instead, M.O.L. trashes her own siblings for being angry about the situation, and coddles her daughter-in-law making excuses for her outrageous actions and shooting down anyone who questions them. This is the kind of dynamics we are all dealing with. I have seen the abuse, my spouse & other in-laws, too, and we have brought it to the attention of my parents-in-law and their siblings. But since I am an "in-law," I am in an extremely sticky situation. I've done what I could, bringing the situation to light, spending time with the kid. We've addressed it with the parents frankly, told them that what they are doing is eroding this boy's future. They act as though they are receptive, even ask me for feedback, then just continue with that they've been doing.
07:18 PM on 07/04/2011
1965, Indiana, Gertrude Baniszewski brutally tortured and murdered Sylvia Likens,
Does it ring a bell ? The same story, the same horror.
A shame for the world and USA social work !
03:46 PM on 07/04/2011
If everyone of us who was moved by this article got up tomorrow and did something, the world would change, even if just a little. Call your local representatives and tell them you are sick of this type of thing, find a local agency that helps children and volunteer, give money, spread the word, do something. For all of you who say you would have loved to have this child in your family, well, there are plenty of other kids out there that need foster homes. It is a long, drawn out process to become a foster parent, and many fit parents are rejected for stupid reasons - for those of you who fit this description, start a crusade to allow fit people to raise kids, no matter what their background, race, or marital status. Even if this article doesn't move you to do something, find something else, some other issue that does, then DO SOMETHING. Every act of good does help. There are people out there who spend every single day of their lives fighting injustice and misery, they just don't get written up in articles by the media. It is a crappy world in a lot of ways, but turning your back on the crap, or writing a sad comment on a news article, won't change it. But you can. You really, really can.
10:32 AM on 07/06/2011
Great advice, A Still. Thanks for sharing your wise insights.
02:08 PM on 07/06/2011
Completely agree. Been thinking of becoming a foster parent for a while. Started the paperwork today. In your name Christian. We are our brother's keeper.
03:39 PM on 07/04/2011
I can't stop looking at that poor boy's photo...
I can't stop reading the articles about his short life...
He "just wanted to be liked" by his family.
I can't stop weeping...

DEAR GOD wtf is wrong with people?
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jwcmass
I dream of things that never were and ask Why not
10:49 PM on 07/06/2011
I know exactly what you mean.

It is in many ways a sad world for many children. My sister is a social worker who works with the Police Department dealing with issues of domestic abuse.

She is often frustrated by how the system is failing (I believe this is a big factor in burnout for many social workers) those families. She has told us of many horror stories.

It is tragic the hell that so many children have to suffer.
12:51 PM on 07/04/2011
set those two demons on fire!!!
12:55 AM on 07/03/2011
Parenting is at an all time low in the U.S. These poor children. And little to nothing is being done.

DCS many times will do ridiculous things to parents that are doing the right thing, and in many situations like this they are found to be negligent, and NOTHING happens to these employees.

They need to be called on the carpet, fired and prosecuted if they knowingly allowed the abuse by not doing something about it.