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HuffPost Greatest Person Of The Day: 7-Year-Old Evan Moss's Inspiring Fight Against Epilepsy

Evan Moss

First Posted: 07/18/11 06:49 PM ET Updated: 09/17/11 06:12 AM ET

Evan Moss's story is one of those inspirational stories that makes one stop what he or she is doing and marvel at the strength of will some children display.

Evan started having seizures within his first month of life. By the time he was 4-years-old, he was having 300-400 seizures a month. Every day, the normal activities of a toddler would be interrupted about 10-15 times by epileptic seizures.

At the time, his parents Lisa and Rob Moss made the difficult decision for Evan to undergo brain surgery. "I remember thinking, we're making this decision for another person, and he can't even have any say in it," Lisa told The Huffington Post. Evan left the hospital seizure-free, and enjoyed a two-year respite from seizures.

That good fortune would prove not to last. Now, Evan is 7 and suffers from about 3-4 seizures a month. "He seems to be on a cycle where roughly every 8 to 10 or 12 days, he has a seizure. They always happen in his sleep, and last a long time," Lisa said. "They start very quietly, and we can usually tell because he sleeps in between my husband and I, and one of us always has one hand on him."

In an attempt to provide Evan with more security and independence, the Moss family has embarked on an ambitious project. They asked Evan if he wanted to write a book that could help them fundraise the $13,000 needed to get a seizure dog that would come alert Evan's parents if he was having a seizure.

Evan always enjoyed writing, Lisa said. His favorite activity in school was the "writing center," where students were handed pieces of paper stapled together into makeshift books. "By the end of the year, we had a stack of Evan's books about 9 inches high," she said.

As part of the extensive process of applying for a seizure dog, the organization tries to ensure that the student actually wants a dog. They ask for a letter or drawing from the child, and Lisa said Evan was eager to write a book instead.

Once Lisa and Rob showed the book to family members, an idea came to her. She scanned the drawings and typed up the text -- which Evan had written himself -- into a word document and eventually self-published the book on Create Space, a web publishing outlet owned by Amazon.

The end product, "My Seizure Dog," is a cute book that could do well as a gift for parents and children looking for inspiration. Younger children could read the book as a window into a life of a peer that's facing serious struggles, and parents will likely feel their heartstrings tugged by Evan's sincerity and willingness to take his fundraising and health into his own hands.

Lisa says when most people have seizures, the episodes resolve on their own or they come out of them relatively quickly and have to recover. But in Evan's case, he doesn't come out of them on his own. "After a seizure lasts 5 minutes or longer, it's considered dangerous and that's when medical attention becomes necessary. Evan's always last longer than 5 minutes, so we're constantly administering emergency medication -- sometimes two doses."

The seizures Evan experienced prior to surgery were quick and relatively low-key. He wouldn't lose consciousness, and Lisa says that sometimes someone standing next to him wouldn't notice. The seizures he has now, however, are far more serious, and it's not uncommon for the Moss family to call 911.

"We have a very nice relationship with the EMTs that respond," Lisa said. "The crew has been here before and they understand what we're dealing with."

When asked if Evan understands his health issues, Lisa said that she thinks so. "Evan has a pretty good understanding of it, and we've also created a website to track Evan's seizure activity. I'm also on the board of directors for the National Epilepsy Foundation. As a result of these activities, we attend a lot of family conferences, walks and events, so he knows other kids have it and he's very open about it," she told The Huffington Post. She added, "He'll run right up to people with dogs and tell them, 'I'm getting a dog that will tell my parents when I have a seizure!'"

Evan's condition hasn't only affected his life. His father, Rob, is a photographer, but he's minimized his work in order to be with Evan as much as possible. Lisa, who was a photo editor at AOL for many years, says it's a hard balance for everyone in the family. "We joke that his 9-year-old sister, Aria, knows more about epilepsy than most adults," she said. "Sometimes I think I worry more about Aria than Evan, because we know what we're dealing with with Evan, but sometimes I worry more about Aria and how it's going to impact her, having lived this life with a sibling with a chronic medical condition. That's something we try really hard to balance, but I don't know if you ever really can."

"The first thing we do when we travel is go meet the local emergency response team and give them a heads-up," she added. "We've spent holidays in the hospital, birthdays in the hospital, and it changes a lot. These are things neither of them should have to deal with."

The family is holding on. Lisa sounds upbeat and determined on the phone, and reports that Evan is cheery -- especially after he recovers from a seizure. "He's in the absolute best mood you can imagine after he gets up after having slept off medication after a seizure," she said. "He feels like he's on top of the world. Rob and I will be a mess, but he's singing and walking through the house and getting some cereal."

"But there's a reason we're [fundraising and getting Evan a seizure dog]," she said. "Evan sleeps with us, and we're not sure how much longer that's going to be ok."

For now, they are parents sleeping half-awake, with one arm resting on their son, hoping he enjoys a night uninterrupted by a visit from paramedics.

WATCH: See Evan And His Family Tell His Story

Follow the Moss family on their blog. If you'd like to buy Evan's book, you can do so here. For general donations, please visit this page.

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Kim0330
Purr, and the world purrs with you...
03:19 PM on 07/19/2011
Adorable little boy, I really hope that he gets the dog...
09:36 PM on 07/19/2011
Thank you! We are very excited for Evan and know that having a seizure dog will make a huge difference for all of us!

Lisa (Evan's Mom)
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Jennifer Zirn
Agree to disagree.
02:45 PM on 07/19/2011
Evan is a real hero and hope he gets the dog he so needs.
09:36 PM on 07/19/2011
Thank you Jennifer, he is certainly my hero!

Lisa (Evan's Mom)
02:27 PM on 07/19/2011
Hopefully like many have suggested he can get a VNS implant in his brain to control them. That along with meds and a dog will hopefully bring more stability. God bless the doctors and researchers to find a cure for this. Some families cannot deal with this and place the children away in homes. Other family members should rally around them and support them with encouragement, willingness to learn about the disorder, and willingness to help out a time or two to give the parents a breather. God Bless this young man, and his wonderful parents and sister Aria.
09:37 PM on 07/19/2011
Thank you for your words of support.
Lisa (Evan's Mom)
02:23 PM on 07/19/2011
Our son, who is now 41, started having seizures at 17 1/2. He was diagnosed with tonic-clonic and partial complex seizures (temporal lobe epilepsy), and he'd have about 7 or 8 extremely violent Gran Mal episodes a day once or twice a month, with sporadic and frequent partial complex seizure activity throughout the month. No medicine ever provided any relief or control, and we considered brain surgery until we learned that his seizures emanated from both his right and left temporal lobes, meaning surgery was impossible. In 1998, our son had a VNS implanted and was seizure free for ten months. With the VNS and more effective medicines we gained a little bit of control over his epilepsy, but not nearly enough. Finally, about 20 months ago our son's seizures simply stopped. He still has the VNS, and he still takes his meds, but he's currently seizure-free, and to us, that's a Godsend, and a blessing.
I don't mean to be blunt, but if your kid has epilepsy, so do you. And to beat it, you've got to be stronger than you ever thought you could be. Be strong, live strong, love strong.

I hate epilepsy. I hate every damn thing about it.
09:39 PM on 07/19/2011
I can relate to every word you wrote and you are right, in our family we all live with epilepsy and it impacts you in ways you don't even realize sometimes. Thank you for your comment.

Lisa (Evan's Mom)
01:41 PM on 07/19/2011
Hello Lisa (& Evan! & Dad! & Aria, too!). I saw your story on AOL/Huffington Post and my heart certainly goes out to you. As a [hopefully former] adult multiple seizure victim, I can only imagine how horrible it is as a child and parent. In 2006, I was told by conventional doc I was developing epilepsy and started giving up hope. After reading the book "Chemical Free Kids", I cut all 40 free-glutamic acid ingredients (including MSG) from my diet and have been seizure free for 2 1/2 yrs and working with naturopaths. I wish you the same success in all your endeavors to overcome this plight. We wish we could join you for the book signing July 24, but we're a bit far (NH!). All the best! Brenda
09:41 PM on 07/19/2011
Brenda,

Thank you for posting this -- I love hearing about people who are now seizure-free. As a parent it always gives me hope.

Lisa (Evan's Mom)
01:27 PM on 07/19/2011
Good bless Evan and his family! I'm a sibling of a chronically ill child and I would just say to make sure that Aria feels loved. The parents sound like they are very in tune with their kids though!
09:42 PM on 07/19/2011
Thank for for sharing that and we really do try to be aware of that for both of them. It's not always an easy balancing act but I can honestly say that although we will make mistakes, our hearts are always in the right place.

Lisa (Evan's Mom)
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Westies
01:09 PM on 07/19/2011
He is so cute!
09:43 PM on 07/19/2011
Thank you!
Lisa (Evan's Mom)
12:53 PM on 07/19/2011
WOWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW
09:43 PM on 07/19/2011
He amazes me too!
Lisa (Evan's Mom)
12:46 PM on 07/19/2011
To the Moss family,
Thank you for sharing your inspiring story with all of us! I hope Evan's story is read by families all over the world and shared as an inspiration that there is still hope for all children who suffer from seizure disorders. My 8 year old daughter suffered a bleed in her brain at birth and had seizures her first day of life. for about 4 years she had 30-40 seizures a day before we could find the right combination of medication to control them. Happy to be seizure free for 4 yrs! We still have our challenges because she does not speak and is developmentally delayed, but we are thankful everyday because she exceeded all of her doctors expectations. She is my angel. From one mom to another, your story helps give me strength in those "helpless" moments, and knowing we are not alone! I hope Evan gets his seizure dog soon so you can get some rest without worry (my daughter sleeps with us too!) and Evan will have an amazing bond with his four legged friend.Your family will be in my prayers and please keep everyone updated! God Bless
10:23 PM on 07/19/2011
Thank you so much for your comment and many congrats on being able to say that your daughter is 4 years seizure-free! I love hearing things like that, it gives us hope!

Lisa (Evan's Mom)
12:34 PM on 07/19/2011
I think this young man is a Hero because he is going through these trying ordeals with an angelic smile. I had two friends in school who had a similar condition; one kept having seizures while in class and the other one passed after suffering one in the pool. I will pray that he grows out of his condition in time. God Bless you and your family.
04:33 PM on 07/19/2011
Elizabeth,

Thank you for your kind words about Evan -- he is my hero!

You also bring up a good point of the danger of water sports and even bathing with epilepsy. I'm so sorry to hear about your friend who passed.

Lisa (Evan's Mom)
11:41 AM on 07/20/2011
Thank you. I hope that Evan will soon have his special friend. He looks so handsome and cute in the picture. I hope that his condition improves and that the dog is not only alerts him, but also becomes his best buddy.
12:27 PM on 07/19/2011
I have 2 sons who have epilepsy, and my youngest was having several seizures a day. In January, I bought a dog so I could try to train it to keep him safe & alert us when he is having a seizure during his sleep. We are amazed that he has alerted both sons to oncoming seizures, as well as hypoglycemia spells for my mother & I. I don't know if he will ever be a fully certified "service dog", but him doing this has really made our lives so much easier.
04:31 PM on 07/19/2011
Renee,

I love hearing stories like yours! It must be such a relief. The things dogs can do just amaze me! Good luck to your family.

Lisa (Evan's Mom)
11:50 AM on 07/19/2011
My husband has siezures and had a VNS Implant put in. I was wondering if this was an option for Evan or not. I have a great-niece that also has siezures and it has been a long haul for her but she does fine now. I have Evan does it his dog it would be a welcome freedom to be able to tell when a siezure was getting ready to happen and then meds can be adminstered. Good Luck Evan
04:29 PM on 07/19/2011
I'm so glad to hear your grand-niece is doing well with epilepsy and I know the VNS can be an amazing help for so many! I'm not sure that Evan is a good candidate for the VNS at the moment but you never know when that could change.

Thank you for your support and good luck to your family!
Lisa (Evan's Mom)
11:48 AM on 07/19/2011
It's so sad to read about young children with serious health problems. After reading, it makes me even more thankful to have a healthy 4 year old boy. What a wonderful family this little boy seems to have though. I just purchased the book - I hope Evan is able to get his dog very soon :) Keep fighting Evan!!
04:27 PM on 07/19/2011
Thank you so much for your support, I hope you and your son enjoy Evan's book!

Lisa (Evan's Mom)
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Bjay0421
Live the Golden Rule
11:46 AM on 07/19/2011
Evan truly is "Greatest Person of the Day". Thank you for sharing his story with us.
I would like to suggest that there are three other "Greatest People of the Day" here. That is Lisa, Rob and Evan's sister, Aria.
I know the fear they go through every time Evan has a seizure. I am impressed by how they have dealt with this very difficult part of their lives. And my heart goes out to all four of them.
I hope that Evan gets everything he needs to help him handle this problem. And that the dog will help not only Evan, but also his family. I imagine the dog will quickly become a beloved member of the Moss family.
I hope you will do many follow-ups to let us know how they are doing.
Thank you, Evan, for showing us that we can overcome problems in our lives if we try. You are indeed special, and deserve the award of "Greatest Person of the Day".
04:26 PM on 07/19/2011
Thank you so much for this touching comment. My uncle told me that he expects this dog will help us in ways we don't even know of yet and I think he is right. We are looking forward to meeting this new member of the family!

lisa (Evan's Mom)
11:44 AM on 07/19/2011
Evan sounds like an amazing kid, and I hope his book does very well. My daughter is 16 now, and has had seizures for 8 years. We are also in the process of fundraising for a seizure response dog, and know how daunting it can be. She is an artist, and I hope to create some saleable items featuring her creations.

Good luck to you.:)
04:23 PM on 07/19/2011
Thank you so much. What organization are you going through for your daughter's seizure response dog?

Lisa
05:35 PM on 07/19/2011
We are working with PAWS With A Cause, out of Michigan. She was just accepted last week, so we're just getting started, and hope to have the dog by this time next year.

Kelly