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Dollywood Bans Visitor's Gay-Friendly T-Shirt

Dollywood Gay Couple

By KRISTIN M. HALL   07/26/11 10:53 PM ET   AP

NASHVILLE, Tenn. -- A lesbian couple is asking for changes at Dollywood after an employee asked one of the women to turn her T-shirt reading "marriage is so gay" inside-out to avoid offending others on a recent visit to the Tennessee theme park complex.

Olivier Odom and Jennifer Tipton said Tuesday they want the park to be more inclusive of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender families after Odom was asked to reverse her shirt when they visited Dollywood Splash Country next to the Pigeon Forge amusement park. The story was first reported by WBIR-TV in Knoxville.

Dollywood spokesman Pete Owens said on Tuesday that Dollywood is open to all families, but their dress code policy is to ask people with clothing or tattoos that could be considered offensive to change clothes or cover up.

Owens said the couple was not asked to leave and complied with the rules to reverse the shirt when asked.

"The park is open every day to everybody," Owens said. "We try to provide an environment for families of all shapes and sizes to enjoy themselves.

Owens said park officials were discussing the matter and would speak with the couple directly.

Odom said that they visited the water park July 9 with friends and their friends' two children when she was asked by a person at the front gate to turn her shirt inside out because it was a family park.

Odom said she complied so as not to make a scene in front of the children, but felt offended.

"That's what we found so offensive – that he said it was a family park," Tipton said. "Families come in a wide range of definitions these days and we were with our family."

The two said they felt they needed to file a complaint with Dollywood because they believed it was important to stand up for their beliefs in marriage equality.

"If marriage equality is going to happen, it's not going to happen if people sit at home quietly," Odom said.

Odom said they understand the park can have dress code policies, but she felt Dollywood needed to make their policies clear and provide better training for employees when determining what is considered offensive.

Odom and Tipton are not legally married, but held a ceremony last year in North Carolina. They wrote an email to the park asking the park "to implement policies that are inclusive of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people; conduct staff sensitivity training; and issue a public statement indicating that the park is inclusive of all families."

Owens said the couple's complaints have sparked discussion at the park about the dress code, a policy that park employees deal with frequently because of the thousands of visitors every year.

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butchcliff
The future is unwritten
07:06 AM on 07/30/2011
Dont understand why the woman was so offended. She turned her shirt inside out and had a good day with the kids and partner. Political slogans of ANY ILK, if not accepted by the establishment, should be heeded. Day should be for the kids not for protest or political message.
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AnitaMan
Deep down I'm really very shallow
10:56 AM on 08/23/2011
You're correct about one thing...YOU don't understand
02:37 PM on 07/29/2011
Do you think that political statements should be allowed? How about if someone came wearing a NOM t-shirt "One man: One woman"? Would you be upset that the people at the gate told them to turn the drama insideout so others don't have to be subjected to it? The shirt is offensive for 2 reasons. It's a political statement, and it's using the "that's so gay" colloquialism that many parents term as a SWEAR and work to get their kids not to use. If she wanted to affirm their family, there's plenty of shirts that would have ("Happy family" on the shirt with a picture of her and her wife/partner and their kids, or something along those lines.) This one was offensive not because it was LGBT friendly but because of it being an overt political statement and using inappropriate language.
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golions
Real Americans drink coffee, not tea.
11:17 AM on 07/29/2011
I have written to Dollywood asking the park to give these two ladies an apology, to serve them a good meal, and to give them free admission.

https://www.dollywood.com/askaquestion.aspx
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Maria Kovacs
Pro-choice, pro-freedom, pro-LOVE
10:12 AM on 07/29/2011
If anything is offensive, its Dolly's massive breasts hanging out all over the place. What kind of image does this give to the families that go there with their young little girls? Dolly is huge-breasted and over made-up. If I were a parent, I would find HER offensive.

The t-shirt was harmless. Dollywood's ignorance is offensive.
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Jeffrey Bryson
Proud straight ally to the LGBT community
11:00 AM on 07/29/2011
Dolly's actually come out in support of marriage equality. I'd be surprised if she had anything to do with this personally.
10:50 AM on 07/31/2011
sound jealous to me...with todays youth tatooed up and purple hair pierced all over you are worried about Dolly`s fine breasts..hahahaha. Get a clue.
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Maria Kovacs
Pro-choice, pro-freedom, pro-LOVE
01:25 PM on 07/31/2011
I'm actually *quite* well endowed in the chest area, so your assumption that I am jealous missed the mark completely. I just meant that there are other things about the notion of Dolly/Dollywood that people my find offensive. And as you mentioned, some people may be offended by tattooed or pierced people. My overall point was that people can get offended by all kinds of things, so if Dollywood has a dress code, it needs to be fair and respectfully enforced.
09:52 AM on 07/29/2011
I thought that saying something was "gay" was supposed to be offensive to the LGBT community. Maybe they were worried that it would offend the LGBT visitors.
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Uosdwis
09:34 AM on 07/29/2011
It's offensive that almost all clothes sold in America are either foreign-made or with slave/child/prison labor. So..no one gets in?
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raker
09:23 AM on 07/29/2011
Why would a gay person want to go to Dollywood. Shudder.
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Maria Kovacs
Pro-choice, pro-freedom, pro-LOVE
10:08 AM on 07/29/2011
Why would ANYONE want to go to Dollywood?
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Griffity
Maybe ambiguous.
02:38 PM on 07/29/2011
That's easy. Dollywood is SO gay (No! I mean it. It's like really, really, really gay in a good/bad, supportive/offensive, pro/con, yes/no, black/white, certain/ambiguous sort of way.)
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92102
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06:36 AM on 07/29/2011
Is the dress code posted? Is there a list of words/phrases/etc of what is banned or is it left up to a minimum wage ticket taker to decide what he/she is personally offended by?

It would have been interesting to find out what would have happened if the woman simply put the shirt back on correctly once she was in the park and out of sight of that one person.
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PinkoPanther
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04:52 AM on 07/29/2011
Once again, the HuffPo takes one step forward and two steps back by allowing this line to see the light of day: "Odom and Tipton are not legally married, but held a ceremony last year in North Carolina." (The couple is married. End of story. It's not up to journalists to define the legalities any more than it is up to voters.)
09:42 AM on 07/29/2011
They may be "married" as you say but if they live in North Carolina they are not "legally married" because for something to be legal, it must follow the statutes of the state.
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ChaCubed
Fabulously Liberal
09:30 PM on 07/28/2011
People heading to Dollywood, this is your assignment: Wear t-shirts with "Marriage is so hetero" or "Marriage is ordained by God to be between a man and a woman." or (I gag a little to write this), "God made Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve," and report back to us.



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Maria Kovacs
Pro-choice, pro-freedom, pro-LOVE
10:09 AM on 07/29/2011
I'll bet you $5 they wouldn't be asked to cover up.
07:23 PM on 07/28/2011
Dollywood has the right to their stupid dress code. I have the right to never go there.
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06:49 PM on 07/28/2011
Excuse me Dolly...Those young kids over there are picking their noses and wiping it on the rails. Could you please tell them to leave the park? They are offending me really bad.
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ChaCubed
Fabulously Liberal
09:31 PM on 07/28/2011
I could say something to make everyone lose thier dinner, but I won't.
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Lily P
Sofa King Awesome!
06:46 PM on 07/28/2011
People just gotta realize...not everyone likes you or agrees with your descisions or the way you live.
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BurtonDesque
Fear a Blank Planet
11:47 PM on 07/28/2011
And your point is?
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ChaCubed
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10:54 AM on 07/29/2011
Lily no likey.
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r henry
I live between concrete walls
06:04 PM on 07/28/2011
Those of you trying to claim that this shirt would force you to have to explain homosexuality to your kids are lying to yourself and the rest of us. When your kid asked where babies come from at the age of 4, did you sit him down and tell him all about straight sex? No. Most of you told him that they come from the stork or whatever other lie you used to push the conversation back a few years. You probably had your kid convinced there was a tooth fairy and a Santa Claus and an Easter bunny and a whole mess of other crap, too.

But now suddenly you are being forced to explain all about gay sex and sexuality by a T shirt that says "marriage is so gay"?

Let's be honest here. A 4 year old asks you what it means and you're going to say, "well, honey, she means that marriage is SO HAPPY!" and you're done.

Next?
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Jeffrey Bryson
Proud straight ally to the LGBT community
06:16 PM on 07/30/2011
I can picture the kid telling her friends "My mommy and daddy have a really gay marriage!"
05:30 PM on 07/28/2011
Aw Dolly, how could you bit the hand that feeds you?
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