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Hypnobirthing: Is Pain-Free Birth Acheivable?

Hypnobirthing

First Posted: 08/02/11 08:41 PM ET Updated: 10/02/11 06:12 AM ET

On a rainy June night, six couples strained to get a better view of a home video of a woman, legs spread, giving birth.

The room was hushed -- the couples' rapt silence matching that of the soon-to-be mom as she labored in almost eerie stillness. Aside from her steady breathing, the scene was quiet, as though someone had taken a sitcom birthing scene and pressed mute.

This is both the seductive promise and allure of hypnobirthing, the method of self-hypnosis that had brought the couples to Brooklyn that night. In the current climate of record cesarean section rates and regular epidural use, it was possible, their instructor told them, to have natural birth with no drugs, no screaming and seemingly little pain. Hypnosis, with its focus on inner attention and concentration, offers an alternative.

Obstetrical hypnosis has long existed in many forms, but the best-known version these days is the trademarked "HypnoBirthing" or "The Mongan Method." Now taught in more than 30 countries, the technique was developed by Marie Mongan, a former college dean from New Hampshire who claims to have used self-hypnosis to deliver all four of her children without anesthesia and without pain, some 60 years ago.

In subsequent years, Mongan went on to study hypnosis and wrote several books, including "HypnoBirthing: The Mongan Method," which has become the central tome of Mongan's technique. By eliminating fear and tension, it claims, physical suffering does not have to be part of the birthing experience.

"We do not promise a pain-free or painless birth. We say easier, shorter, more comfortable," Mongan said. "But there are many, many who do birth painlessly. I was one of them. I never felt a smidgen of pain."

Pain-free versus not pain-free is a tension that pervades much of the hypnobirthing rhetoric -- tempering women's hopes so they do not expect a pain-free birth, while at the same time tantalizing them with tales of women who rave about calm, even physically pleasant experiences.

"I had an amazing birth," one testimonial on the HypnoBirthing website states. "I would do it again today."

Central to a woman's ability to enjoy a similarly gentle birth, Mongan said, is completion of the five-week class cycle, which women typically start in the second trimester or early in the third.

According to a HypnoBirthing Institute survey, more than 12,000 mothers completed the class in the last two years worldwide. Mongan said that the program has "grown and grown," largely via word of mouth, estimating that she sells upwards of 2,500 copies of her book per month. And celebrities, like Jessica Alba, have brought attention to the method, publicly supporting it.

Prices for the class range between $150 to $600, depending on location. Though teachers can vary their approach, the core syllabus is meant to stay largely the same.

After a lengthy introduction to the method, students begin to practice a series of hypnotic relaxation and visualization exercises and work on breathing techniques. Over the weeks, they practice time distortion, making 10 minutes seem like five, and five like one. They practice hypnotic anesthesia, making certain parts of their body go numb. And they learn to replace words common to labor like "contraction" -- which Mongan said elicits fear -- with terminology deemed more empowering, like "surges." Rather than pushing, they are told to "breathe down the baby."

At home, students practice with a CD dubbed "Rainbow Relaxation," in which they are led through a series of relaxing commands. Your lower body becomes totally lose and limp, Mongan coaxes them, as music chimes lightly in the background. Picture yourself on a bed of strawberry colored mist.

"I can't describe it," said Cindi Braby, author of the blog A Utah Mom's Life, who used hypnobirthing with all five of her babies. "With my first child especially, I was in pretty deep," she said. "I was aware of what was going on around me, but I was having really, really low levels of pain the whole time."

Such relaxation takes work, and daily practice is recommended. Women are encouraged to read the book several times throughout their pregnancy so that when it comes time to labor, they are adept at moving themselves into a state of deep relaxation relying on the techniques they learned and the help of their birth companion.

"There's a learning curve," explained Yael Quittner, a certified HypnoBirthing practitioner and the teacher of the Brooklyn class.

"An incredibly laid back person might have an easier time relaxing than a career person who works an 80 hour week and is in charge of hundreds of employees," she continued. "But I do find, ironically, that type-A people tend to be incredibly good at HypnoBirthing, because they are succeeders. They are going to be successful no matter what."

Hypnosis expert Carol Ginandes, Ph.D, a health psychologist affiliated with Harvard Medical School, explained that positive expectation is central to that success, adding that anyone with direct personal exposure to hypnosis -- whether via smoking cessation or just a gimmicky stage act -- will have internalized expectations. Openness to the process is essential, she said.

Ginandes also cautioned that the "alert awake hypnotic trance" that can accompany successful hypnosis means it is possible that "suggestions presented to [a person] may be taken in at a deep level of mind." In other words, unanticipated physical or psychological developments may emerge.

"As a totally hypothetical example, imagine a scripted protocol that routinely instructs the client to imagine herself wading into the warm ocean all the way up to her neck, in an effort to elicit relaxation," Ginandes wrote in an email to HuffPost. "Now suppose, unbeknownst to the practitioner, this individual has suffered a near-drowning experience as a child. A strongly-worded direct suggestion about the ocean could precipitate a panic response or a post-traumatic re-evocation of an old trauma."

This, Ginandes said, is a potential issue with a "one-size-fits-all" approach to hypnosis, like The Mongan Method. She says that many lay hypnotists, meaning people who are not state licensed health care providers or affiliated with The American Society of Clinical Hypnosis, are experienced, well-intentioned and can have good results. But some may not.

To become a practitioner of The Mongan Method, instructors have to complete a four-day program, which includes a 16-hour introduction to hypnosis for childbirth or birthing basics, depending on the student's background. It also includes a 16-hour certification program and additional reading.

In the four years that she has taught HypnoBirthing, Quittner said she has had few bad experiences. She estimated that she has led at least 50 classes in that time, and has only had two couples who did not complete the program. Even students who did not necessarily have the results they dreamt of -- like the woman who had four previous C-sections, wanted a vaginal delivery, but ended up in surgery again -- were pleased with the overall sense of calm they maintained throughout.

"That mom called me after and said, 'I had a C-section, but my experience was totally different,'" Quittner explained. "She said, 'I was actually able to hear my doctor. I was calm. I had a positive experience.'"

One key consideration for women interested in pursuing the method is selecting a doctor or midwife who is accepting of it.

Dr. Laura Riley, medical director of labor and delivery at Massachusetts General Hospital and author of "You and Your Baby: Pregnancy," said that for many doctors who may not necessarily know a lot about the method, that means simply staying out of the way.

"You really have to advocate for your patient, especially in a big hospital," Riley said. "That means that we don't need a resident coming in and asking, 'Are you in pain?' because that's not a word we use. If things are going well, I tend to be really quiet and spend as little time in the room as possible, to not interfere."

Mary Murry, a certified nurse midwife and co-editor of the "Mayo Clinic Guide to a Healthy Pregnancy," said that in hospitals, it's the labor nurses who really need to be on board. They are the ones who spend the most time with women throughout the process.

Both Riley and Murry said they have seen an uptick in patients using the method in recent years, although neither believes it has crossed into the mainstream. Murry estimated that some 10 percent of the births she sees now involve some form of hynpobirthing; Riley said she has only seen 25 to 30 over the last 30 years. Both medical practitioners consider themselves to be fans of the process.

"I don't think there are any negatives to it," Murry said. "It doesn't require any pharmaceuticals, it gives the couple more autonomy and as long as people are open to changing the plan if complications arise, it helps women cope with their contractions."

Indeed, in spite of many of the sweeping claims of pain eradication that float around hypnobirthing, learning to calmly cope with contractions (or "surges," as they're sometimes known) is at the true heart of the technique. Which is why it appeals to women like Nadine Niznik, 32, a public relations professional in Manhattan who said she has no interest in greeting her birth with fear.

Niznik explained that the biggest thing she and her husband -- who initially saw the practice as "pretty out there" -- have learned is to really relax. She is able to better listen to herself, both tuning out external factors and tuning in to her body. She said she finds herself using the methods she learned in Quittner's Brooklyn sessions in other situations, like when she has been able to ignore the person fidgeting next to her on the subway, or when she has soothed her body after a long day at the office.

"I know birth is the most challenging thing I will do, and I expect pain," said the first-time mom, who is due any day. "But I have confidence that I can get through it. I don't have any fear."


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09:19 PM on 08/10/2011
Giving birth? I had 50 hours of labor and 4 months to recover from it. Once was enough. I had my "tubes tied." Worst experience of my entire life. And, I have survived several cancers (double mastectomy), nearly going blind and I could go on --- but childbirth was a nightmare of epic proportions. I have a wonderful daughter, however. I have no idea how anyone does this more than once!!!!! When I asked my doctor if another pregnancy would be "as bad." He frankly told me "it could be worse." Enough said.
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04:15 PM on 08/08/2011
I had a pain free birth....did not scream...and I can't complain about being pregnant....I can not relate to other women when they describe their pregnancy because mine was easy breezy.
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gypsynomad
I dwell in possibility.
08:00 AM on 08/07/2011
I had the drug-free delivery, did not take Lamaze, oh, it was excriciating pain for thirty six hours,much later looking at the bundle of joy , what pain ?
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aviandonn
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02:47 AM on 08/07/2011
OMG, that thing about the video brought back memories of my high school health/sex education class. The teacher said she was going to show us a video of a birth during the next class. There was high excitement among the boys - they were going to get to see a vagina! The room darkened. About 5 minutes into the woman shrieking and the water breaking and the sweat and the blood, I noticed this long pair of legs sliding past my desk. The guy behind me had fainted and oozed out of his chair. By the time the lights came up, 3 of the boys had fainted dead away. I have a feeling they took the birth control lessons pretty seriously after that. LOL.
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Beth Schindler
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10:44 PM on 08/06/2011
I had two drug-free deliveries. I never had any training in Lamaze, so all the reminders during labor to "do your breathing" was quite annoying. (At the time I had my children, if you wanted drugs you had to BEG for them repeatedly.) I had very long labors both times--the first was going on 45 hours when it was induced and I had had nothing to eat or drink during those hours. More than the pain (and the contractions were painful), I remember that it was hard work trying to relax and ride out each contraction. I was exhausted when it finally came time to push. LABOR is just that--hard work!
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visconti24
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03:56 PM on 08/06/2011
Oh! Pain Free Birth! That's for the birds. My sister-in-law said she was going to have pain free birth and she screamed, screamed and screamed! And that was just during conception!

credit: Joan Rivers (40 years or so ago)
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papapj
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10:30 PM on 08/06/2011
Now THAT is the proper agony..

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gypsynomad
I dwell in possibility.
07:56 AM on 08/07/2011
Great one..and fave....
02:42 PM on 08/06/2011
I don't remember pain during childbirth maybe others experience it but I didn't your body stretches. Too much fear given to young women pretend its just a bad bowel movement. More like pressure than pain.
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agness nutter
What fresh hell is this?
01:29 AM on 08/07/2011
My mother didn't remember any pain in childbirth either. Scopolamine.
01:59 PM on 08/06/2011
I'm so sorry. I misunderstood byline to read:
Palin Free Birth: Is it possible?
My answer would have been 'Yes'.
A defense case for Darwinism has
merit otherwise, too.
02:20 PM on 08/06/2011
LOL That's the way I read it too.
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01:57 PM on 08/06/2011
I have had 8 babies by natural childbirth. I have been told I have a high tolerance for pain. I agree that it is a natural process and with my 1st birth I just told everyone that I had waited 9 months for this baby and I wanted to be awake to see it happen. I had my babies back in the 50's, 60's and 70's when natural birth was not accepted, so I had to fight doctors and nurses for this experience. My smallest baby was 7lbs 12 ozs and the largest was 9 lbs 2 ozs and yes there was pain but I was convinced that women had been doing this since the beginning of time and I could do it also. I can tell you that the pain I experienced was forgotten once the baby is born and is such a good thing for the baby. I did not yell, scream, or threaten to kill someone, including my husband. The thing that allowed me to "get" through the pain was controlled breathing and not fighting the pain. I would never allow anyone to give me medication that might complicate my baby's life and as it turned out my babies all had ABO blood problems that would have complicated their lives if I had. It really, like all pain, is mind over matter, and we are amazing creatures that never know what we can do without trying.
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seriouslyfalling
06:46 PM on 08/06/2011
LOL The whole time I was in labor with my four I kept saying to myself....anything another woman has done I can do too! Am I competive or what!!!!! But my "mantra" and my breathing got me through all four with no screaming, yelling or threats to anyone. But that stupid thing where your husband is supposed to lightly brush your abdomen while you are having a contraction...I did threaten to break hubbies hands if he tried it again!
12:20 AM on 08/07/2011
I had my 4 babies by natural childbirth as well, 8lbs 3oz, 8lbs 10 oz, 9lbs, 5lbs13oz. I also figured women have been having babies long before hospitals...My husband ask me not to cuss. I never did. I took it to be a challenge to see how tough I can be. Lol. At the same time I wanted my mama to be there with me cause nobody loves you like your momma does! Plus I quit smoking so I sure didn't want to drug my babies.
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01:32 PM on 08/06/2011
No matter what your experience, the pain goes away when you see and hear your child for the first time.
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dickn2000b
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01:52 PM on 08/06/2011
That's not what my wife told me.
02:09 PM on 08/06/2011
I'm unsure if offense is present from dickn2000b listening or reporting.
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sabelmouse
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07:56 AM on 08/07/2011
it took me a little while to get over my NEVER AGAIN decission.
01:09 PM on 08/06/2011
Not unless you are planning to cross breed a woman with a kangaroo.Look it up.
12:56 PM on 08/06/2011
Gee, isn't this a bit like Lamaze? We had all three of our children with Lamaze back in the 1970's. No drugs, nothing. And the best way to deliver our babies. High Apgar scores, no drugs in the baby and I was able to get up and walk around. No numb legs. I'd recommend Lamaze to anyone wanting a natural birth.
02:19 PM on 08/06/2011
The first Lamaze back-board for general service at my University Hospital
was personal construction, cost, and design. I'm ahead of my time. T&C
is an abbreviation of Technology & Culture, published by Society for the
History of Technology, if you want to get up to speed.
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seriouslyfalling
12:08 PM on 08/06/2011
Childbirth was very messy and for me, not completely pain free, but neither was it the horrible screaming, pain that I hear so many on here describe. I had four children, the smallest (last one) 7lbs 11oz, the largest 10 lbs 4 oz. All completely natural, three born face up meaning very long labors. Read everything, practice, make a birth plan, but be willing to accept change if necessary. And if at all possible...watch several animals give birth!!!!!! Believe it or not, that is the best advice anyone will give you! Animals have a completely different perception of labor of course. They instictively breath through the contractions, they seek out a quiet, dark place to give birth, and at most they might give a small yelp as the first or second of the litter is born, but even that seldom happens. They accept what is happening, accept that they have no control over what is happening and then they just relax through what is happening. Then they proceed to do what comes naturally- feed, raise, and discipline their babies! And that acceptance and relaxation is the key to a much more comfortable birth. I truly believe that as we get away from giving birth naturally, we are also get away from parenting and bonding and disciplining instinctively.
12:18 PM on 08/06/2011
E-YESSSS!!!!!! FINALLY SOMEONE WHO GETS IT!!!! When I say things like this people look at me like I'm from another planet -- animals are perfect role models! We humans USED to be natural animals, until the medical profession (men) convinced us that we had to let them take control of the situation. WISE UP, WOMEN, and take back YOUR childbirth!!!! It's the most rewarding experience you will ever have.
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sadiemae1214
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12:53 PM on 08/06/2011
3 kids, no pain. My last was born face up (Doctor called it "sunny side up"). I drove myself to the hospital and told them I thought I was in labor. The doctor told me to go home, I had plenty of time. I refused to leave and sat in the waiting room. Boy, was he surprised when 1/2 hour later, out popped my son on the way upstairs to delivery. Had him in the elevator. I went home the next day.
03:03 PM on 08/06/2011
I went home the same day. I did not let the doctor even take my placenta out. It is supposed to come out on it's own a few minutes after the baby.
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thetxsndn
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11:51 AM on 08/06/2011
When I was 5 months with my son, Playgirl's second issue had come out & in it was an article about Dr. Robert Bradley & husband coached childbirth. I read the article & immediately went for his book. I was sold on natural childbirth. When I asked the OB I was seeing how he felt about it he said "Well, if you want to hurt I guess it's ok". I got home,called the Institute for Husband Coached Childbirth mentioned in the book. They put me on to an OB in Long Beach, 20 minutes from home. He thought he invented natural childbirth. I had lower back labour for 2 & 1/2 hours, my hard labour was 5 minutes & it took 2 pushes to get him out. I had it in my mind that it wasn't going to hurt. Granted it wasn't comfortable but neither was it like I'd heard so many women describe. He was 6lbs 12 & 1/2 ozs and 19" long. Now at 37, he's been present for the birth of all his children & with the exception of the last 3 they were all natural. That was only because 4 & 5 were twins & required c-section. There are some women who do have pain but also a lot that don't because they KNOW what's going on in their bodies & they aren't afraid. Fear causes pain.
12:29 PM on 08/06/2011
LOL, you mean you bought Playgirl to read the articles?! I must have missed that issue (I still have the 1st & 4th ones tho) but in any case I went for the Bradley method also -- didn't he advocate delivering the baby into a water bath? Or was that someone else. Anyway, the hospital didn't do what they were supposed to, once they had me in a position where there was nothing I could do about it, so it ended up being just a natural birth -- but that's OK, too :) Aren't you happy that you were in control of your childbirth and have great memories about it.
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thetxsndn
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12:53 PM on 08/06/2011
ROTFLOL do you really ? That is so cool. The one I read it in was the 2nd for sure. I'll never foreget it cuz it changed how I looked at childbirth completely. Bradley didn't do the water thing. That was Leboyer. His book Childbirth Without Violence is absolutely mind blowing. I found out about that one quite a few years after my son was born. Have had several copies but always seem to loan 'em out & never get 'em back. LOL. You betcha I'm happy about it. It was a wonderful experience. :)
http://www.soul-guidance.com/houseofthesun/birthwithoutviolence.htm
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venturamickey
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11:13 AM on 08/06/2011
Yes pain free birth is really possible. I have 5 kids and did not feel a thing. Its raising them up and loaning them money they never will pay back that is painfull. Just ask my wife.
11:18 AM on 08/06/2011
Thanks for the laugh!