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Natural Or Relaxed, For Black Women, Hair Is Not A Settled Matter


First Posted: 08/04/11 05:57 PM ET Updated: 10/04/11 06:12 AM ET

ATLANTA -- All month, Sharee Bryant had been hearing women talk about hair.

She'd overheard two women in a grocery store checkout line talking about a $62 shampoo and conditioner combo designed for black women who had decided to forgo chemically straightening their hair. She'd heard a woman at her church questioning why so many of the young women in the pews had the temerity to show up with their hair in its natural state -- curly, kinky or somewhere in between. And she had read online about the black women driving from places as far away as Arkansas and Chicago to the Spring World Natural Hair Show in Atlanta.

So by the time Bryant -- an Atlanta-area insurance agent who's taken to wearing her natural hair coiled into Bantu Knots since cutting off her chemically relaxed bob last year -- stood in a 35-minute line outside the late April hair show, she had a list of the products she wanted to touch, sample and smell.

Still, what Bryant, 34, heard next took her by surprise.

"Go to the beach. Go to the club. Wherever you want to go this summer. Ladies, what you need is a Prota Organic Weave," a rail-thin woman equipped with a Janet Jackson-style headset microphone announced from a booth near the front of the sprawling exhibit space. "Let it blow in the wind. That's right, shake it."

"You can have the man you want, the life you want, ladies," the woman continued. "Change your look up today for $15. I can change your life for $15. Right here, we've got what you need, organic weave."

The pitch wasn't just persistent, it had deeper resonance. For black women, how they wear their hair is complicated by a deep well of personal, social and commercial interests. Despite a record one-year decline in the sales of chemical hair relaxer anda boom in beauty products, websites, blogs and YouTube channels aimed at black women with natural hair, the conversation around black hair is anything but closed. In 2011, the question of when and why so many black women chemically relax their hair or go natural remains fraught and very much open.

"I really feel like this may be the year that the natural finally went mainstream," said Bryant, before pursing her lips and taking one of those deep, stay-calm breaths. Prota's pitchwoman was doing her thing just a few feet away from a table where Bryant had stopped to inspect a 6 oz., $27 jar of curl cream. "I'm really kind of surprised -- maybe even a little offended -- that weave woman is here. As far as I'm concerned, she's like a money changer in the temple."

In early part of the 20th century, a black beauty-products operation created by Madam C.J. Walker made her the nation's first black millionaire. Today, black hair care products make up a nearly $10-billion industry, according to industry data. But in the last two years, chemical hair relaxer sales -- marketed mostly to black women -- have dropped by 12 percent, according to Mintel, a consumer spending and market research firm.

"In this business, that's a big dip, a very, very big dip," said Kat Fay, a senior beauty personal care analyst at Mintel. "Of course, those years do coincide with the recession. And we know that it can be expensive to maintain a relaxer or a weave. But there are some real indicators that something else, something related to the growing popularity of natural hair and a paradigm shift away chemicals may be taking hold here."

The sight of black women with curly, kinky and Esperanza Spalding-sized hair has grown so common that in July, CNN published a sort of natural black hair etiquette guide on its website. The story explored white curiosity about black women's natural hair and the historical and cultural reasons why touching a black woman's hair without invitation is rude.

But black hair -- the hefty price tag of a single weave (sometimes more than $1,000), the harsh chemical makeup of hair relaxers and the reasons why millions of black women spend time and money to get and maintain them -- might have remained almost exclusively a conversation between black women if it were not for Chris Rock, Fay said.

In 2006, Rock and HBO films produced the documentary "Good Hair." In it, Rock used his characteristically comical approach to explore a serious set of questions about black women and why straight, long hair remains the prevailing beauty ideal. The movie also put a new phrase in the national vernacular when several women interviewed for the documentary called chemical relaxers, and the devotion they inspire, "creamy crack." On screen, Rock explained that the movie had been inspired by his young daughter's question about her natural hair. Rock's daughter asked him why she didn't have "good hair."

The cultural weight and social value of straight hair is very strong, and Fay is not aware of a single company that has stopped producing relaxers, despite the sales declines.

But some of the world's largest and best-known black hair companies, such as Bronner Brothers and L'Oreal-owned Mizani, which built their reputations on relaxers, have also started producing natural hair product lines, said Michelle Breyer, one of the owners and founders of NaturallyCurly.com, an offline beauty industry market research company and online discussion and retail space that caters to women (of all races) with curly or kinky hair.

Both Bronner and Mizani were at the Atlanta hair show with staff in place not just to hand out samples, but apply them to would-be customer's hair, discuss the results and advise the displeased.

Today, there are stores that have entire sections of products dedicated to curly hair, Breyer said. And the practice of planting black hair care products on one aisle and everything else aimed at everyone else on another is disappearing even in a lot of chain stores. All sorts of companies are even adopting in their packaging some of the styling language -- "wash and go," "twist set" and "braid out," to name a few -- that is common to the online discussion spaces and blogs where black women review how to care for natural hair.

"Hair has incredible social significance," said Nowlie Rooks, author of the book, "Raising: Beauty, Culture and African American Women." Rooks is also the associate director of Princeton University's Center for African American Studies. "Think about the obsessive level of attention men losing their hair give that process. In some cultures people shave their hair as an act of mourning. For African-American women, wearing one's natural hair was just not socially acceptable for the longest time."

Perhaps no one knows this better than Alicia Nicole Walton, the writer and psychotherapist behind CurlyNikki.com, a natural hair care blog. Curly Nikki's blog stands out in the sea of online voices talking about the decision to "go natural" and the care and maintenance of natural hair. Walton does more than just evaluate products, she pays attention to the emotional and social issues that surround black women's hair in a regular series of posts written by Walton and guest writers called On the Couch.

Walton grew up in a home where chemical hair treatments were banned because of an experience that her father had with "a bad Jehri Curl," she said. But in college, Walton had a harder time getting to a salon to have her hair temporarily straightened with a heated straightening comb. Then she damaged her hair when she used a flat iron, another temporary heat straightening method, too often at home. Her boyfriend -- now husband -- pointed out that Walton's moods, even her self-esteem seemed to rise and fall around the appearance of her hair. When it was straight, Walton was up. When it was not, Walton was down, he said. Walton decided this wasn't emotionally healthy and began experimenting with wearing her hair in curly and braided styles. Her father wasn't pleased.

"He said, 'Please don't sacrifice your career for this hair choice,'" Walton said. "'How will you get a job or get into graduate school with that hair?' But that was the thing: What I was doing wasn't really a choice, like dying your hair pink. This is what grows out of my head."

For older African Americans, natural hair or appearing in public with one's hair un-straightened can seem a lot like going somewhere without pants, Walton said.

In 2010, NaturallyCurly.com purchased Walton's blog for an undisclosed amount.

"Let's just say that my husband and I don't absolutely have to work," said Walton, a new mother who hopes to establish a therapy practice for women with body image and self-esteem issues. Choosing a natural hair style in the 1970s often conveyed a political message, Walton said, citing Angela Davis' afro.

But in the hair show, packed into 75,000 square feet in the Georgia International Convention Center, the politics of natural hair seemed to take a back seat to commercial interests. During the two-day event, thousands of black women approached sales staff -- black and white -- for advice about their hair. White-owned companies continue to dominate sales, but many of the small- to medium-sized black-owned companies are trying to infiltrate the market. And most of the black startup owners interviewed for this story view white women with curly hair as the next customer frontier that will help their businesses continue to grow.


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08:12 AM on 08/28/2011
Natural looks great on some black women, whether it is Two-strand twists, Bantu knots, Braids
Cornrows, Flat twists, Coils, Locs, Afro puffs and relaxed looks great on other black women. I think the black woman in the pic above looks kind of hot. I personally think that if one compared the more attractive black female with natural hair, with the most attractive black female with relaxed hair, the former would win.
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Ayesha Harrison
Gotta be a go-getter
09:37 PM on 08/15/2011
I, personally, can't go without a relaxer.
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Nelle
bah-weep-grahna-weep-ninny-bon
03:00 PM on 08/10/2011
Being black is not about what's on your head, it's what's in it! If the opposite was true, anyone could throw on an Afro-wig and be black, but we all know that's not true!
02:13 PM on 08/10/2011
I have to say, not everyone can wear the natural look and look presentable. Some people just look like they're lazy and don't want to put fourth the effort to neat and well groomed. I've seen sistah's that look plain nasty. I don't like the natural look unless you have natural silky curls. That kinky crap looks gross. I'll rock my shoulder length bob with occasional spiral curls but I care too much about my apperance to go all natural, which to me means " I just don't give a damn."

Also...don't think for one moment African American men really like this all natural look. If you're going to do the kinky look you better already have a damn solid relationship because that look will not help you if you're in search of a man.
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04:23 PM on 08/10/2011
"I don't like the natural look unless you have natural silky curls. That kinky crap looks gross."

Just read a post stating that black people are their worst enemies when it comes to discussions about the standards and practices of which we live. Second, if your (not you personally, sir) is built upon the look of someone and not the true person you're bonded to, then naturally or chemically relaxed hair will be the least of your problems.

ClassAct, not very classy at all.
05:01 PM on 08/10/2011
First of all I'm not a "sir"; I'm a "mam". Secondly because I have a positive attitude about my outward appearance I reflect a positive and out going personality. I have a terrific relationship with my boyfriend; and both attitude and personal appearance are important to us. We are both business professionals and want people have a positive interpretation of our professionalism as black people. A well groomed, neat appearance that looks as if it was well thought out indicates to other business professionals that we take ourselves seriously and will handle their business portfolio with the same thoughtfulness and care. You can preach the "All Natural Look" if you want to but I'd prefer to save it for the African American venues. I just don't like the look on everyone.
Oh and by the way....I am very classy! Note the fact that I didn't go off on you proves that I embody the word "Class" in every sense of the word.
03:55 PM on 08/12/2011
Perhaps you are unaware of this fact but it takes time and effort to pull together a natural look. No professional should be dumb enough to perceive a natural and nappy look as unprofessional. You have to condition, oil, trim, and maintain your look just like a person with a relaxer.

All natural means not getting a chemical treatment. The end. Your assumption that it means not giving a damn is just wrong and sadly biased.

I guess you haven't noticed the number of African-American men who seem to geuinely love the look.
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piul05
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11:20 AM on 08/10/2011
My personal opinion is that black women look gorgeous with natural hair - I don't really like the Beyonce's or Tyra Bank's look; I do believe they have less to do with personal choices but with stereotypes of beauty which have been internalized. Afro hair, on the other hand, has something about it that projects strength and freedom of the spirit .

I have a picture of my great-grandmother taken in the forties and she had her afro hair combed back and tied up high. She looks majestic and proud.
01:06 PM on 08/14/2011
“God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble.”
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piul05
Can I have a biscuit yet?
02:44 PM on 08/14/2011
For that to mean anything to me; I'd have to believe in such entity.
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TjayeInLA
10:22 AM on 08/10/2011
Has anyone else noticed that those which ones are saying "wear your hair healthy, clean and do you" versus the ones who feel the need to try to judge, demean and criticize another woman's choice while touting their own choice as if its superior?

I was raised to believe that the only reason someone needs to put down another is because they aren't honestly secure in their own choices in life.

Just sayin'.
10:14 AM on 08/09/2011
I am satisfied that the days are finally ALMOST here where Black women can make their own decision about how they wish to wear their hair and not be penalized about it.
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TjayeInLA
10:27 AM on 08/10/2011
AMEN!!
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11:17 AM on 08/19/2011
How many mega successful women besides Whoopi Goldberg sport natural hair? I can't think of any so to say that "the days are finally almost here where Black women can make their own decision...and not be penalized" is a myth. There is an unspoken penalty.
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DeePDX
09:33 PM on 09/03/2011
Successful black women with natural hair:

Corrine Bailey Rae
Macy Gray
Marcia Ambrosius of Floetry
Natalie Stewart of Floetry (currently sporting a shaved head)
Grace Jones with her short fad back in the early 80's
Skin from the punk/rock group Skunk Anansie
Erika Badu (alternates between sporting her natural hair and wigs)
Ledisie
India Irie

There is no penalty that I can see these artist have been held to in creating their music and art.
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pgurlatl
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02:30 AM on 08/09/2011
Like Marcus Garvey once said. Take the kinks out of your head, not your hair.

I am so glad more and more women are going natural. If I want to achieve a look, I wig or weave the look. But I will never use harsh chemicals on my hair again.
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TjayeInLA
10:28 AM on 08/10/2011
Okay, but what does your choice have to do with any other Black woman on earth?
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DeePDX
04:25 PM on 08/10/2011
Reading pgurlatl's post, it sounds like her opinion for herself. She's not projecting her choice to be natural upon anyone.
03:30 PM on 08/08/2011
I'm a black woman who's tired of the endless haggling over hair. Ladies, wear your hair any way you want. I value freedom of choice and we have more choices than almost anyone else. I don't measure "blackness" according to how someone chooses to wear his or her hair because I abhor the idea that blackness is something anyone needs to "prove." Just do what you want. On a daily basis, I see everything from dreadlocks to silky straight and they all look just fine.
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GravitonX
10^300 bosons could care less.
03:56 PM on 08/08/2011
I think the question isn't so much as to what you like but why you like it, i.e. internalization of certain standard of beauty. From my study of Black American history, this was the crux behind the Brown v. BOE decision. So, what you're saying is that it doesn't matter if your daughter consistently chooses the white doll over the black doll?
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TjayeInLA
05:12 PM on 08/08/2011
Why is the question WHY you like it? That sounds like you feel that someone needs to have a good/approved reason for liking wha she likes. There is no question. Wear your hair how you choose.
12:30 PM on 08/09/2011
Pressuring a child to like what you consider politically correct only creates more anxiety and confusion. I've seen it happen. Trying to escape the dominant culture is a futile quest in this mass media-driven society. Give the kid a chance to grow up and discover and sort out things for him- or herself. Meanwhile let the kid be a kid.
06:01 PM on 08/08/2011
HEAD NOD@CHU...PEACE.
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UserNameJane
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03:21 PM on 08/08/2011
I have been wearing my hair natural and cut close to my head since I was about 30. I love it, its easy, and cool in the summer. And it is very healthy
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BLACKMANVISION
03:16 PM on 08/08/2011
Combed or Uncombed. thats all that matters, as long as the hair and washed clean and has no odors who cares what style length or color the hair is in...its about hygeine not beauty.
02:37 PM on 08/08/2011
Weave has made Black stylists lazy. Rocking a natural has made “diversifying” your style easy because wearing your hair in the texture that it grows out of your head is still a new concept that is really hard for many people to come by. What I’m looking for is that old thing back, when you could walk out of the salon after umpteen hours with your hair did and your style solidified as all your own. I know many of us as children aspired to the hairstyle of the woman on the Dark & Lovely box, but not that we’ve got it what else can we do with it.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/08/04/black-hair-natural-relaxed-_n_918200.html
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Tre Members
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01:39 PM on 08/08/2011
The last I'll say on this issue is this: In 2006, a young woman named Kiri Davis produced a documentary in which see asked Black girls to take the "Doll Test" that was created by Kenneth Clarke 50 years ago and was the foundation of the NAACP's argument in Brown V. Board of Education. The results were basically the same in 2006 as they were in 1954 i.e. the Black girls overwhelmingly identified the white doll as pretty and the black doll as ugly. We need to understand the motivations behind the choices we make and be honest about them. Only then can we make healthier choices.
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GravitonX
10^300 bosons could care less.
04:03 PM on 08/08/2011
I guess I should have scrolled down. Right on target;)

There are too many signs, at least from my perspective, that most, not all, of the Black women who straighten their hair is because they don't like or are embarrassed of their natural hair. You would have to be in denial not to see it in the context of other "elephants in the roo" like skin lightening and colored contact lenses.
07:57 PM on 08/08/2011
I think it is a huge misconception that a black woman straightens or gets relaxers because she is ashamed of her natural hair & wants to be closer to being white. Me and many of my friends do it because it personally makes our hair easier to manage & maintain. It was a chore to do my natural hair. & believe me I have never held white women as my standard of beauty I was always given black dolls & preached about the ignorance of colorism.
We as a society expect blacks to be in touch with our natural African roots when most blacks can't identify with what they are.Due to having it beat out of them in slavery.

If we want to go back to the natural African way we can't even describe or know we might as well condemn our dress, make-up, and customs.

So why not allow people to embrace "black" American culture. Which maybe sadly perms & weaves that were created to look more like whites but since then is used by the majority of women today as a sense of self-expression.
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01:09 PM on 08/08/2011
When we were saying "Black is Beautiful" we called ourselves Brothers and Sisters or Kings an Queens. Many Had Afros or other natural styles.The popular artists were James Brown, Herbie Hancock, Jimi Hendrix, Aretha Franklin, Nina simone. We sought out our history and reflected our African culture in Art, fashion, politics etc. I haven't heard the Mantra "Black is Beautiful." in years. What do we call ourselves now? What artists are popular and what do they sing/rap about? Do we promote our African heritage today? My point is you can say that the hair issue is purely cosmetic, but it is not. Pimp philosophy states: When you have the woman's [person's] mind, you got the woman's body and soul. Free your mind and the rest will follow- remember that?
03:59 PM on 08/08/2011
thank you
exactly
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TjayeInLA
10:16 AM on 08/10/2011
Wow...you are discussing Black awareness and the examples you use are three black males who reject Black women across the board??? Not one of the males you mention consider Black to be beautiful....at least not in Black women. But you think how a Black woman wears her dead follicles is questionable?? Really????
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12:59 PM on 08/10/2011
I have never heard of James Brown, Herbie Hancock or Jimi Hendrix rejecting Black women. If you have, give some examples please. But my post was related to how, when Black People fully embraced our worth and love of self, it manifested on many levels. You could hear, feel, taste and touch the love we had for ourselves. My question was can you feel that love today?
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12:59 PM on 08/08/2011
"I really feel like this may be the year that the natural finally went mainstream,"

Finally???

SMH.

Black women...

All natural means is the way your hair grows outta your head.

And guess what?

It looks good on ya.

"In 2006, Rock and HBO films produced the documentary, Good Hair."

I wanted to reach into the T.V. and smack those heffers telling the gal with natural hair they'd not hire her if they walked into their offices.

Really? Geez.

"For African American women, wearing one's natural hair was just not socially acceptable for the longest time."

Like, since slavery when they were told how totally opposite of beautiful (white women) they were? Yep. Long time indeed.

"But that was the thing, what I was doing wasn't really a choice, like dying your hair pink. This is what grows out of my head."

Bingo!!!!!

The Free Republic, online message boards for political conservatives, temporarily disabled comments related to the trip because of statements made by readers describing Malia Obama and her hair in terms such as "typical ghetto trash."

Yeah, they didn't want the world to see just how many rac-ist pricks frequented the site.