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Obama HRC Speech 2011: President Talks Gay Rights At Human Rights Campaign Dinner

First Posted: 10/01/11 09:41 PM ET Updated: 12/01/11 05:12 AM ET

WASHINGTON -- President Obama forcefully called for the repeal of the Defense of Marriage Act on Saturday night at the annual Human Rights Campaign fundraising dinner, but he did not come out in support of marriage equality, as some hoped he would do.

The 3,000 attendees at the dinner, which took place at the Washington Convention Center, gave the president multiple standing ovations when he touted the repeal of "don't ask, don't tell," hospital visitation rights for same-sex couples and spoke out against the bullying of LGBT youth.

The most electric reaction, however, came when Obama sharply criticized the GOP presidential candidates for staying silent when audience members at a debate booed a gay soldier who asked a question about DADT.

"We don't believe in the kind of smallness that says it's okay for a stage full of political leaders -- one of whom could end up being the president of the United States -- being silent when an American soldier is booed. We don't believe in that," said Obama to loud cheers and a standing ovation.

"We don't believe in standing silent when that happens. We don't believe in them being silent since. You want to be commander in chief? You can start by standing up for the men and women who wear the uniform of the United States, even when it's not politically convenient. We don't believe in a small America. We believe in a big America -- a tolerant America, a just America, an equal America -- that values the service of every patriot."

Notably at Saturday's dinner, there was a table filled with servicemembers -- both active-duty and retired -- wearing their uniforms. HRC spokesman Michael Cole-Schwartz said it was a first for active-duty members to do so, since it's also the first post-DADT dinner.

Last week, Obama also chastised the audience at the GOP debate for booing the soldier, but this is the first time that he forcefully went after the candidates for their silence.

Obama referenced the remarks he gave at the annual HRC dinner two years ago, when he acknowledged the frustration that many LGBT activists had with his administration. He said it wasn't appropriate to tell them to wait anymore than it was for "others to counsel patience to African Americans petitioning for equal rights half a century ago."

"We've got more work ahead of us. But we can also be proud of the progress we've made these past two and a half years. Think about it," he said, mentioning the repeal of DADT, new hospital visitation rights for same-sex couples and hate crimes legislation protecting LGBT individuals.

"I need your help to fight for equality, to pass a repeal of DOMA, to pass an inclusive employment non-discrimination bill, so that being gay is never again a fireable offensive in America," said Obama. "And I don't have to tell you, there are those who don't want to just stand in our way, but want to turn the clock back, who want to return to the days when gay people couldn't serve their country openly. Who reject the progress we've made. Who ... want to enshrine discrimination in state laws and constitutions -- efforts that we've got to work hard to oppose, because that's not what America should be about. We're not about restricting rights and restricting opportunity."

Obama also cited the White House summit he held to fight youth bullying, saying it was an issue his administration would continue to press.

"Together, we also have to keep sending a message to every young person in this country who might feel alone or afraid because they're transgender," he said. "They may be getting picked on or pushed around because they're different. We've got to make sure they know there are adults they can talk to, that they are never alone, that there is a whole world waiting for them, filled with possibility. ... And I want all those kids to know the president and the first lady is standing right by them every inch of the way. I want them to know we love them and care about them, and they're not by themselves."

The dinner was the last one under the helm of HRC President Joe Solmonese, who has led the organization since 2005 and recently announced he would be stepping down.

"No president has done more to improve the lives of LGBT people than President Obama," said Solomnese in his introduction of the president. "No longer will gay and lesbian couples be kept apart when we are at our most vulnerable, at the hospital, thanks to President Obama. He kept his word, and he ushered in the end of DADT while others promised to reopen the wounds of that discriminatory policy. And unlike those who want to keep same-sex couples as strangers under federal law, our president has called the Defense of Marriage Act unconstitutional and indefensible."

Also attending the event were Rep. Tammy Baldwin (D-Wis.), musician Cyndi Lauper, New York City Mayor Michael Bloomberg, actress Sarah Jessica Parker, former Second Lady Tipper Gore and actor Jesse Tyler Ferguson.

CORRECTION: An earlier version of this report incorrectly referred to Tipper Gore as the former First Lady. She is the former Second Lady.
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WASHINGTON -- President Obama forcefully called for the repeal of the Defense of Marriage Act on Saturday night at the annual Human Rights Campaign fundraising dinner, but he did not come out in suppo...
WASHINGTON -- President Obama forcefully called for the repeal of the Defense of Marriage Act on Saturday night at the annual Human Rights Campaign fundraising dinner, but he did not come out in suppo...
 
 
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09:09 AM on 10/28/2011
It was not the soldier they were booing at. It was the ungodly acts he and his partner were committing.
10:48 PM on 10/07/2011
Yeah, it is the dream of every American mother and father to send their sons and daughters into battle to die for the advance of Gay and Lesbian rights. Get Real!!!
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RepublicanDepression
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09:26 PM on 10/07/2011
As homophobic comments continue to get removed here, I'm reminded of some science that all homophobes should be aware of:

Single, Angry, Straight Male... Seeks Same?
A classic study reveals that young homophobic men have secret gay urges

http://www.scientificamerican.com/article.cfm?id=single-angry-straight-male
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jaggeththewires
God said what?
11:21 PM on 10/18/2011
If gay is so to die for why would you hide it?
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RepublicanDepression
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12:13 AM on 10/19/2011
Because of homophobes like Rick Santorum making life miserable for gay people by denying them equality and because of the other homophobes who torment and kill people for being gay.

"To die for? " Cute, considering all the many murders of people for being gay.

Have you ever talked to gay people? I don't think they are saying being gay is "to die for." I think they are saying that they don't want to be persecuted and treated as second class citizens because the of who they are.

Do you think they should be persecuted and not allowed equal treatment under the law?
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10:15 PM on 10/04/2011
The Over Brewed Grand OLD Propagandist's are the folks who Booooooooooo Our Military and Cheer Executions! Puleeeeze!
02:20 PM on 10/04/2011
Again the president is too lazy to even watch or do his research. The crowd never booed the gay soldier. If you actually watched they booed his asking about not repealing DADT not his gayness. They want the DADT reinstated and booed the thought of it staying as is... It amazes me how stupid Obama is..actually no it doesnt I stopped being amazed in year 2.
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JudgeMoonbox
08:35 PM on 10/04/2011
"The crowd never booed the gay soldier. If you actually watched they booed his asking about not repealing DADT"

Does it make a single bit of difference???? The "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" business was an easy fraud deferment, and the people who wanted to keep it were too prejudiced to consider the possibility that it kept more good people out of the military than it improved the morale of those who could live with it.

"It amazes me how stupid Obama is."

It amazes me that you can define a person's IQ by how often they agree with you, and expect to get away with it.
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Neenerpuss
If you cant laugh at yourself...someone else will
05:42 PM on 10/07/2011
They were not booing the singer...they were booing the singing.
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RepublicanDepression
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08:53 PM on 10/04/2011
feltch: " If you actually watched they booed his asking about not repealing DADT not his gayness."

Prove it.
01:18 PM on 10/04/2011
Obama won't get the gay vote by this kind of lying. The spin is on.
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RepublicanDepression
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01:42 PM on 10/04/2011
Obama lied about DADT being over?

You got any actual evidence of this lying or just that you heard it on Roger Ailes self-confessed right wing unfair and unbalanced Fox News?
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NYBill
01:54 PM on 10/05/2011
FOX News................Oooooo, I'm so excited. It's sooooo original?
You don't even know the lines....It's FAUX NOISE! Now study up and get it right or you will be drummed out of the army of the mindless.
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Contact1972
BigGayInc
05:11 PM on 10/04/2011
Obama won't get the gay vote by this kind of lying.
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Please explain.
12:26 PM on 10/04/2011
"You want to be commander in chief? You can start by standing up for the men and women who wear the uniform of the United States, even when it's not politically convenient."-Mr. Obama

In this instance, Mr. Obama failed to follow his own words, demonstrating a lack of leadership and his personal agenda as the Candidate-in-Chief.

"...being silent when an American soldier is booed."

Was it an American soldier being booed or your course of thought, Mr. President?
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01:43 PM on 10/04/2011
Jerm: "In this instance, Mr. Obama failed to follow his own words, demonstrat­ing a lack of leadership and his personal agenda as the Candidate-­in-Chief. "

How?

Jerm:: "Was it an American soldier being booed or your course of thought, Mr. President?"

An American soldier.
06:50 AM on 10/05/2011
"How?"

Self-evident.

"An American soldier."

He was not booed when he stated that he was deployed in Iraq. He was not booed when he stated that he was a gay soldier. He was booed for a question espousing an Obama policy at a GOP debate.
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Sam Bark
It's a MAD world after all...
08:57 PM on 10/06/2011
jeremiahA -- well said, F&F
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10:37 PM on 10/03/2011
I'm always shocked at the number of fact-free homophobic comments on any article with anything to do with gay rights.

It's like the homophobes feel an urge to plunge in and flamboyantly make a lot of noise, loudly and proudly.

Could it be?

Nah.

Then again...

"A classic study reveals that young homophobic men have secret gay urges"

http://www.scientificamerican.com/article.cfm?id=single-angry-straight-male

Pass it on...
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11:09 PM on 10/07/2011
Is this from the same "scientific " team that gave us global warming and then changed it to global climate change? How many homophobic men did they study? Two? And what about older homophobic men?
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RepublicanDepression
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12:15 AM on 10/08/2011
Oh dear. Did the survey about the secret gay urges of young homophobes hit a nerve, little Lulu?

LOL! "global warming" and "climate change" are not inconsistent. Wiki:

"Global warming
This article is about the change in climate Earth is currently experiencing. For general discussion of how Earth's climate can change, see Climate change.

Global warming refers to the rising average temperature of Earth's atmosphere and oceans and its related effects....Warming of the climate system is unequivocal, and scientists are more than 90% certain most of it is caused by increasing concentrations of greenhouse gases produced by human activities such as deforestation and burning fossil fuel. These findings are recognized by the national science academies of all the major industrialized countries"

Lulu: "How many homophobic men did they study? Two?"

LOL. I liked to the article on the study for a reason. Do you need me to click the link for you, too?

Lulu: "And what about older homophobic men?"

Do I really need to explain what makes good science good? (Oh, you're a right-winger. Guess I do.) The subjects were young, so the researchers responsibly did not extend their conclusions to older men, however reasonable such a conclusion would be.

For a guy who has a lot of issues with gay people I notice you like to use comments about "catty transvestites"a lot. Anything you need to let out?
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RepublicanDepression
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12:31 PM on 10/08/2011
Oh dear. Did the survey about the secret gay urges of young homophobes hit a nerve, "Lulu"?

LOL! "global warming" and "climate change" are not inconsistent. Wiki:

"Global warming
This article is about the change in climate Earth is currently experiencing. For general discussion of how Earth's climate can change, see Climate change.

Global warming refers to the rising average temperature of Earth's atmosphere and oceans and its related effects....Warming of the climate system is unequivocal, and scientists are more than 90% certain most of it is caused by increasing concentrations of greenhouse gases produced by human activities such as deforestation and burning fossil fuel. These findings are recognized by the national science academies of all the major industrialized countries"

Lulu: "How many homophobic men did they study? Two?"

LOL. I liked to the article on the study for a reason. Do you need me to click the link for you, too?

Lulu: "And what about older homophobic men?"

Do I really need to explain what makes good science good? (Oh, you're a right-winger. Guess I do.) The subjects were young, so the researchers responsibly did not extend their conclusions to older men, however reasonable such a conclusion would be.

For a guy who has a lot of issues with gay people I notice you like to use comments about "catty transvestites"a lot. Anything you need to let out?
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Sam Bark
It's a MAD world after all...
09:37 PM on 10/03/2011
Oh boy..... where was Obama for the last 3 years, ignoring completely this matter and now when he needs the votes suddenly discovered the item...... please do not hold you breath.... this is only an election fodder for him.......
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Eddie VanderMolen
2 + 2 = 4, period!
09:22 AM on 10/04/2011
Right!? For instance, now he's getting tough on Congress to pass a jobs bill. Now, he's using the bully pulpit. Now, he's drawing lines in the sand. Never mind those first two years where he had a majority in the Congress and all the Republicans could do was filabuster. Now, that the election is a little over a year away, he's pandering to the progressives that got him in the office. It irritates me so much because I've been screaming that he needed to do more when he needed to do more and he wasn't. But, as usual, what's our alternative,... nothing. Once again we vote for the lesser of the two evils.
02:45 PM on 10/04/2011
Eddie and Sam: exactly! The pretentiousness and hypocrisy of this man blows my mind. And yet again, who else is there to vote for - voting for the lesser of two bad choices, as usual. Sigh.
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Neenerpuss
If you cant laugh at yourself...someone else will
10:55 PM on 10/04/2011
You blame the president because the Republicans filabuster?

President Obama has been trying to help us climb out of the hole we have been thrown in...the republicans keep throwing dirt on top of us...and you blame Obama???

Get over it...roll your sleeves up and start climbing. We are in this together. Let's get to work!

Obama/Cuomo 2012
01:19 PM on 10/04/2011
He is a Lame Duck President now. The press won't say it yet.
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talkstocoyotes
09:18 AM on 10/05/2011
Let's hope you're right !
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Kels
08:48 PM on 10/03/2011
Thank you President Obama. Well done!
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RepublicanDepression
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10:10 PM on 10/03/2011
Indeed! Bravo!
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libobstruction
Am I my brothers keeper...NO, I am not
08:37 PM on 10/03/2011
Please, this POTUS won't call sharia a human rights violation yet he's worried about something that the people who're about to steal his job DIDN'T say?
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RepublicanDepression
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10:10 PM on 10/03/2011
LOL! You think Sharia is relevant.

Nice distraction issue that is meaningless.
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libobstruction
Am I my brothers keeper...NO, I am not
08:57 AM on 10/04/2011
Its plenty relevant. Shows that the worst cases of human rights violators are being ignored purposely. Gee, I wonder why.....(rhetorical question, of course).
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Lady1genius
No se puede tapar el sol con un dedo
10:46 PM on 10/03/2011
Sharia law doesn't exist in the US judicial system. It will never exist in the US, where we separate church and state. Why should Obama concern himself with Sharia law when he's president of the USA, not Iran or Yemen?
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libobstruction
Am I my brothers keeper...NO, I am not
08:55 AM on 10/04/2011
Well he sure does criticize China a lot for its human rights violations so......
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daveagain909
07:30 PM on 10/03/2011
where was Obama when the union leader said terrible things about the Tea party? No where? he was there and said nothing. Obama a is a two faced Liar, who says things that are only used in his own behalf. the countries majority knows this and only laughs or just ignors this incompetent president.
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Lady1genius
No se puede tapar el sol con un dedo
07:54 PM on 10/03/2011
I accidentally marked this as favorite, please disregard. And by the way, to hell with the tea party.
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Sam Bark
It's a MAD world after all...
09:43 PM on 10/03/2011
daveagian909 - well said F&F
05:53 PM on 10/03/2011
There's a lot of the Obama administration disappoints me (though it's not 100% his fault, and I blame the Dems in congress for not acting before they lost the power to), but his commitment to getting the GLBTQ community treated like the human beings we are for once is one of the few reasons I'm still voting for him.

And anyone telling me I should care more about the economy than a "wedge issue" like gay rights can kindly shut up. For heterosexuals who have the option to ignore it, it may be a wedge issue. For the rest of us, it IS a primary concern, as important as anything to do with the economy.

Yes, having a better job would be awesome right about now. But even if all our economic problems were fixed tomorrow, I still live in a very conservative at-will state. As sexual orientation is not an officially protected class under both federal and state anti-discrimination laws, my job security hinges upon how solidly the door to my proverbial closet stays bolted.

I frankly don't care if people ever change their opinion on homosexuality. The backwater religious folk who have and still do make my life a nightmare can disapprove all they like. I only demand to be accepted as an American in the eyes of the law, with the same legal rights and protections as my fellow heterosexual citizens. I don't think that's too much to ask from a nation founded on freedom.
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Homer for real
...snap out of it!!
07:25 PM on 10/03/2011
Well...., fortunate for America most of the GLBTQ community does NOT agree with you. If you 'open your eyes' you'll clearly see that this charlatan is using you for his own gains. He doesn't care about you. He'll use you until you too become useless to his goals..
07:35 PM on 10/03/2011
Even so, that'll still get SOMETHING done. Way more than voting for any GOP candidate (all of whom are openly against the GLBTQ community even existing) will. Being a means to an end is fine by me as long as that end is in my favor.
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RepublicanDepression
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08:00 PM on 10/03/2011
Homer: most of the GLBTQ community does NOT agree with you."

Prove it.

The right is pretty desperate to try to drive a wedge between Obama and the people who need Obama the most (everyone except billionaires).

Too bad that desperation FAILS!
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Lady1genius
No se puede tapar el sol con un dedo
07:49 PM on 10/03/2011
Keep the faith. You don't need anyone's approval but your own. F&F.
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jaggeththewires
God said what?
12:26 PM on 10/21/2011
see, problem with that way of thinking is I aint got a place prepared for my immortal soul. My flesh might approve many an illicit thing but in reality my personal approval be getting Jaggy tossed in the Lake!
05:24 PM on 10/03/2011
This from the man who does not support gay marriage and allowed the persecution of thousands of gay soldiers on his watch under Do Ask, Don't Tell, when a simple executive order could have suspended those firings pending Congressional action.

Ah yes dear friends, the Orator in Chief is back in campaign mode, where the hope generated by his cynical, progressive promises and rhetoric will become the greatest show on earth, only to be upstaged by the bitter disappointment of his governance to the right.

"Fool me once, shame, uh, shame on, uh, me. Fool me twice...uh, you can't get fooled again." --George W. Bush
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Neenerpuss
If you cant laugh at yourself...someone else will
06:14 PM on 10/03/2011
Any executive order only lasts as long as the president who signs it. The next president could rescind one just as fast. We need permanent change.
07:11 PM on 10/03/2011
Understood. That was the change that Obama campaigned on, and then used Congress as an excuse not to deliver. Congress eventually acted appropriately, but not before so many careers were needlessly destroyed.

When you see something is unjust, you immediately do whatever is in your power to corrected it, regardless of how impermanent. If you're principled, that is. Obama has repeatedly proven he is not, but he's relying on us to again believe words and not actions.

Obama/Orwell 2012: All That is Required is a Series of Successive Victories Over Your Own Memory!
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daveagain909
07:31 PM on 10/03/2011
That next president is coming soon,
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Sam Bark
It's a MAD world after all...
10:02 PM on 10/03/2011
truestpatriot -- well said F&F