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Weighing Attraction: Wealthy Men, Educated Women Can Weigh More, Still Find Mates, Study Claims

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First Posted: 10/09/11 03:06 PM ET Updated: 12/09/11 05:12 AM ET

When it comes to finding a mate, it’s easy to feel like physical appearance matters most, at least in terms of first impressions. That’s not a misguided view, according to Pierre-Andre Chiappori, a Columbia University economist, but appearance isn’t everything. Chiappora has developed a formula for calculating how men and women can compensate for weight gain when attracting a spouse, the New York Post reports.

According to Chiappori and his co-researchers, whose working paper is titled Fatter Attraction: Anthropometric and Socioeconomic Matching on the Marriage Market, physical and financial attractiveness trump all other factors in the marriage market, but if your appearance diverges from the ideal, specifically if you weigh more than is considered conventionally attractive, other factors can help you remain as attractive to a potential spouse as you were before.

For men, a 10 percent increase in body mass index (BMI), which is calculated by dividing your weight by the square of your height, can be overcome by a 3 percent increase in income. A woman who weighs more can up her level of attractiveness with more education.

"Our findings tell us that physical appearance is not such a big deal, and it’s easy to compensate for,” Chiappori told the Post.

The Post refers to the finding that women are willing to marry wealthy overweight men as “obvious,” citing the pairings of movie mogul Harvey Weinstein and socialite Georgina Chapman and “doughy” Donald Trump and “trophy wife” Melania Trump
as examples. But the idea that extra education makes a woman more attractive, to the point that it compensates for physical imperfections, also makes sense in light of recent data. According to GOOD, women are earning more bachelors and graduate degrees than men. Being highly educated is an increasingly female trait. It's not necessarily surprising, then, that men consider women with more education more desirable compared to women with less.

Chiappori's findings may hold true in the marriage market, but they wouldn't in the labor market, according to a spate of recent books arguing that physically attractive people fare better financially: Daniel Hamermesh's "Beauty Pays: Why Attractive People are More Successful," Deborah Rhode's "The Beauty Bias: The Injustice of Appearance in Life and Law," and "Honey Money: The Power of Erotic Capital" by Catherine Hakim. "Beauty is naturally rewarded in jobs where physical attractiveness would seem to matter ... but it also yields rewards in unexpected fields," the Economist reports, and this isn't just the case for women. "Men too, having lost their monopoly of well-paid jobs, are investing in their erotic capital to enhance their appeal to mates and employers."

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When it comes to finding a mate, it’s easy to feel like physical appearance matters most, at least in terms of first impressions. That’s not a misguided view, according to Pierre-Andre Chiappori, ...
When it comes to finding a mate, it’s easy to feel like physical appearance matters most, at least in terms of first impressions. That’s not a misguided view, according to Pierre-Andre Chiappori, ...
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Anne Siperek
04:51 PM on 11/06/2011
Don't believe any of these surveys or polls. NIce, sincere, clean (LOL) and interesting, will still get you somewhere in this world~!
04:04 AM on 10/13/2011
Fitness does matter a lot though, i as a man love to have a fit woman with me when i go to a posh party. Someone that can wear the little black dress and make it look fabulous.
04:03 AM on 10/13/2011
Captain obvious!
Money and Power = attractive women
Educated women = not a needy woman and this is attractive for men
12:35 AM on 10/12/2011
We needed a study to tell us the Obvious??

Women, especially, are more attracted to money and power ... everything stated in this study and by the experts is obvious..
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fireart
I got mine the hard way.
12:36 PM on 10/11/2011
I love plump girls! They are out for fun and are not offended when they accidently get hurt in the fun. They feed you better. They keep you warm at night. They are not like holding a pile of coat hangers. They are not always wiping their nose or caughing up snot. They jump in to help and are fun to help. They are just overall congenial. They take care on their babies. They are not always so primped that you cant mess them up.
To prove my point----The next time you go to a cafateria look down the line. A skinny girl will give you 6 green beans, a plump girl will fill the bowl. Pick a plump girl we will eventually all go to pot so enjoy all your life.
12:36 AM on 10/12/2011
It's true, the plump ones appreciate the attention more .. attractive women are spoiled ..
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manntxs
I opted out cause I don't need no stinkin badges.
08:21 AM on 10/11/2011
Wealth isn't the only consideration for men having 'extra' pounds and finding acceptance from the fairer sex nor is it the main one. Women, as a whole, are less concerned with that. For the most part the character of a man, his humor, his demeanor and how he treats a woman and others are all above his looks and waist size.
12:38 AM on 10/12/2011
Ugh, you really mean superficial things like money and power .. the nice guys get eaten up by women in favor of the Bad Boy. Women are just as immature as Men but in different ways .. plus the gals cut each other down sooo bad ..
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09:33 AM on 10/12/2011
Nice should not equal boring, this is often the case. WOmen generally do not like boring men. Some men want women to take care of them, provide nonstop entertainment for them..just lay there. Now that is a complete turn off. This is why bad boys get a lot of attention. Women dont have to do all the heavy lifting when they are with a bad boy.
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lgtaper
01:35 AM on 10/11/2011
money makes the world go round and round lol
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lgtaper
01:32 AM on 10/11/2011
well yeah? show me your money and I'll love you forever !
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GOODDOC1
"civil war" is an oxymoron
11:39 PM on 10/10/2011
I guess "mate" must not equal "love".
11:28 PM on 10/10/2011
Or you know, find someone who accepts you for you and loves you for what's inside not just the body that will go downhill with age regardless of it's current state.
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aries932
quote the Raven..."nevermore"
12:28 AM on 10/11/2011
yes thats true..you can get 2x as much in a pluse size person.
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Brett Tonaille
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09:50 PM on 10/10/2011
If men are in fact tending to prefer more educated women, that would seem to be a HUGE shift from being intimidated by brainy women. Especially when it's countering one of the more common physical criteria.
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pslcitizen
I intend to live forever. So far, so good.
09:43 PM on 10/10/2011
It takes an attractive person inside to appreciate another attractive person inside or otherwise you just get to sit around & watch each other grow old..lol.
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Carmen Madonna Campos
dude! it's me!!!
04:58 PM on 10/10/2011
more educated women tend to gravitate away from shallow men who place greater value on converntional attractiveness.
05:26 PM on 10/10/2011
works also the other way around: conventional people (overall) do not gravitate toward highly educated women, which is where I disagree with the premise of the article. women are socially expected to be weaker, also in brainpower, so this is a kind of disruptive exception.
05:28 PM on 10/10/2011
More educated men tend to gravitate away from nags and place a greater value on youth and beauty. Please Carmen, men don't fall for that shaming strategy anymore. I have standards and no woman is going to make me feel ashamed about it.
07:18 AM on 10/11/2011
A young beautiful girl can be a horrible nag. She's a princess and entitled to never lift a finger. Dont fall for pretty = nice - lots of guys have their pockets emptied by very pretty hands.
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09:36 AM on 10/12/2011
so many many men equate youth with being not very smart. But look closer the younger and prettier women know their value inthe marketplace and they will play that card wisely by using you for your money
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NyJimbo
You wanna go that way? Oh, we'll go that way !
02:15 PM on 10/10/2011
"For men, a 10 percent increase in body mass index (BMI), which is calculated by dividing your weight by the square of your height, can be overcome by a 3 percent increase in income."

That, or if you are funny. I mean truly, naturally funny. Women fall for men who are really, sincerely funny and easy going. So if you ain't got no money, learn how to tell a good joke.
03:52 PM on 10/10/2011
You are spot on. When dating my husband, sense of humor was in the top five on my list. And we are a perfect match.
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Carmen Madonna Campos
dude! it's me!!!
04:58 PM on 10/10/2011
true, true, true, true, true!
01:14 PM on 10/10/2011
I think women can get away with weighing more when they have a healthy sexual appetite and the skills to match. :)
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NyJimbo
You wanna go that way? Oh, we'll go that way !
02:12 PM on 10/10/2011
Indeed.
03:45 PM on 10/10/2011
Assume the OP is slightly obese AND went to a state school (NO full ride) AND tends to take care of himself more often than not....eeew.