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Census Finds More Young Adults Living At Home With Parents

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Posted: 11/05/11 11:50 AM ET

In Italy, they're known as "mammone", a staple of adult men living with at home with their mothers. In the US, they're known as "losers", and they're on the rise. So much for that "empty nest".

New data from the U.S. Census Bureau shows that the number of men between the ages of 25-34 living at home rose from 14 percent in 2005 to 19 percent in 2011. Women have managed to escape Jezebel's "loser" nomenclature as Cenus data reports that in 2005 only 8 percent of women in the same age brackets lived at home, with the figure rising to 10 percent now in 2011. Furthermore, NPR reports that while the number of men age 25-34 living with their parents has risen 2.2 percent just in the past year, the number for their female counterparts actually dropped 0.8 percent.

While the Census data did not differentiate between "boomerang children" who previously moved out only to return later, and those who never left their parents' home in the first place, the findings dash any notions for an empty nest. Younger adults, those ages 18-24, are sitting in a similar boat with their older counterparts, with 59 percent of men living with their parents (a 6 percent rise from 2005) and 50 percent of women living with their parents (a 4 percent increase from 2005).

Although The Los Angeles Times points out the increase of adults living in their parents' home began before the recent recession, and outlasted it, many weatherbeaten parents and their filial roommates agree that the dreadful economy is most likely to blame, with unemployment rates and rent remaining high and the outlook of starting a proper career remaining bleak. However, the widening gap between the number of men and women who live with their parents is the figure that is stirring up conversation.

Jezebel has a running list of societal norms in question from the discrepancy in parental attitudes towards men versus women to the possibly more negative implications of a women living at home in comparison to a man. AARP's blog thinks the diminishing stigma of retaining one's childhood dwellings may be a factor in the increase of more boomerang children and an American mammone movement.

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In Italy, they're known as "mammone", a staple of adult men living with at home with their mothers. In the US, they're known as "losers", and they're on the rise. So much for that "empty nest". Ne...
In Italy, they're known as "mammone", a staple of adult men living with at home with their mothers. In the US, they're known as "losers", and they're on the rise. So much for that "empty nest". Ne...
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11:50 AM on 12/23/2011
Over 65 million men denied acces to housing in America due to The Crime Free Housing Iniative thank your insurance companies for the prison sentences hopefully one day we will be flushing the toilet on those that are forcing us to commit more crimes.

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11:24 AM on 12/23/2011
We all know that a child can not live on $7.50 an hour so how can grown men losing their jobs.
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09:41 AM on 11/07/2011
Some commenters have referred to the idea that holding down a job is what constitutes adulthood.

Throughout history the meaning of adulthood has changed. Decades ago, women achieved adulthood when they married – became a Mrs. Having sex has been another way of judging whether a person is ‘adult’.

The idea of proving oneself to be a 'man' through work has more to do with macho masculinity than adulthood. Individuals in education and not working full-time might still be seen as adults. And some people, due to limitations, might not be able to hold down a job. So, are they adults? If a support system enables them to work, does this qualify them to be 'adults.'

Has society departed from the idea of adulthood which means 'doing paid work' ? For years now many young adults have found themselves in a state of moratorium, halfway between dependency and 'adulthood', largely due to the changing economy and of course, feminism, which changed the world, bringing many more workers into the workforce than it could hold.

If making money and spending it wisely is the only sign of adulthood, it takes away from many aspects of life that others engage in.

See http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Adult
04:00 AM on 11/07/2011
Kid's can't afford to move out the way we did years ago..period. Even at above min. wage, IF they can find full-time jobs, they can't afford rent, car payments, car ins., utilities, gas.....It's all WAY more expensive than it used to be.
09:23 PM on 11/07/2011
As a 20 year old, you can, but it's HARD. You better live in a low-cost area, have a steady if not necessarily lucrative job (Lots of low end jobs string their employees along with inadequate hours.), live in either a broom closet or with roommates, take the bus or drive a junker car (and be half decent with a wrench, and hope it doesn't break often), forget about that smartphone, and don't you dare get sick.
03:28 PM on 11/06/2011
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12:51 PM on 11/06/2011
Please, I'm a man. I make a decent living and work hard everyday. But in today's world $50,000.00 ain't enough. $450.00 for a sitter each month, $400 a month in student loans, health insurance for my kid, car insurance, and so on, see where I'm going here?? After taxes and monthly expenses there ain't much left over and being as I'm in the bracket of "making too much but not enough" the system doesn't off me anything in terms of public assistance.
12:07 PM on 11/06/2011
people moving out their parents prior to marraige is a relative new thing. Most of the rest of the world people live with parents until they are married or at least educated or makeing a goddenough living to do so. I lived at home off and on until I was 25. However, i didnot have any student loans when i graduated college and was able to by a house within three years of moving out with a large downpayment.
I was looked down upon by some, especially women I was trying to date. but in the end it worked out well for me. I lso paid rent the last year I lived at home and helped with expenses.
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sstevens37
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01:07 PM on 11/06/2011
what? a guy lives at home til' he graduates high school (and works and pays rent while in highschool), then goes off to live at college (and works and pays for his own education, or at least I did), and then gets his own apartment or home....only women still live at home til' marriage...I couldn't get a job right out of college so I pulled dents in supermarket parking lots for a living...I did what I had to, like an adult...and that is what these kids and the OWS crowd need to learn, is how to be an adult and do what you gotta do to support yourself...if I ever had to move back in with my parents I would consider myself a complete failure at life
06:28 PM on 11/06/2011
Why wher you paying rent in HS? Sorry if you consider yourself a failure if you had to move into parents house post college. Sound like they would have charged you rent anyway so whats the difference. Maybe if OWS is succesful we can bring back a few jobs back to united states
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catcancook
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12:06 PM on 11/06/2011
It will probably happen to us. After spending all the money on college ..there are few jobs for graduates. Young adults can't live on the hourly wages at some coffee shop job. I'm not looking forward to this though. I think young men need their own space as do parents. But in this economy I'm not sure some of us have the choice. You do what you have to do until something better can be done.
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dennis1943
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10:58 AM on 11/06/2011
Any of my children would be welcome should the need arise..........they are all good company......
macchugsid
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02:34 PM on 11/06/2011
When the economy went in the crapper back in '08 all of my adult children (and grandchildren and spouses) came back to live with my wife and I. It took up until last July for them all to filter back out. That was a total of 12 people in a three bedroom house and a old Silverstream travel trailer in my back yard. We got by with the help of some of those "government programs" (food stamps, utility subsidies, etc.). We made it work because we are a family. I know that if I need help around my house all I have to do is pick up the phone and ask and they will come. That is what I consider true "family values" not the FRC and Congressman Walsh from .ILL are trying to sell.
02:03 PM on 11/07/2011
You share the same view on this as my parents. My sisters and I know that we are always welcome if we come upon hard times. And my parents also know they can call on any of thier children if they need anything. That is what family is all about.
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10:34 AM on 11/06/2011
I had this conversation a very long time ago with my brother who didn't leave the family home till he was 35... Not all that long ago - a decade or two, actually - it was considered normal for at least one child to stay at home, maybe run the family business, help out with chores, be available to get groceries, drive Mom to the doctor, mow grass or clean the gutters. Right now, friends of mine are now looking at moving into a larger home and so they can invite their two daughters and grandchildren to live with them. Economically it works. But, it also will let them spend more time together. So, while I realize that many kids are returning home because of the economy, maybe we can also view it as a way to reconnect with family and offer support.
macchugsid
Conservative Progressive: Hey, it could work.
02:41 PM on 11/06/2011
When I was in my twenties I stuck around to help take care of my mom. My 2 older sisters were off doing there own thing. I did not live with her but I was very close by if she needed anything. When she passed away I then packed up and moved away from where I was to where I am now. That was 1979 and I am still where I landed after that move. Raised a family, sent them off, had them come back and have sent them off again. True "family values".
10:20 AM on 11/06/2011
He##. I may have to move in with the kids and grandkids. If Social Security and Medicare gat cuts or eliminated we are screwed. Heck 50 year olds can't get hired and are being blackballed so anyone 60 or older getting a job? Think not. We have already lost at least $200 a month in cuts this year.
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10:16 AM on 11/06/2011
I have a great question for everybody who would think I'm a loser because I live with my dad at 25.

Do you ENJOY paying exorbitantly high rent? Do you love the Roommate Lottery? Because I don't. And now, because I am living at home, I can SAVE MONEY and PAY DOWN CREDIT BILLS because I don't pay for rent in the Silicon Valley.

So I'm not going to change my financial decisions because women attempt to shame me into a lifestyle that works for them, not me.
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10:56 AM on 11/06/2011
"women attempt to shame me into a lifestyle that works for them, not me."

Something tells me you're going to be living with your dad for a looooooong time.
12:31 PM on 11/06/2011
I did the same thing and purchased myfirst house when I was single and 28 years old. I would have probalby got laid more if i had my own place, but in the end, i was alot more attractive to women later on because i was financal solvent. Look towards the long term as you are doing adn in the end you will be more stable and successful kudos to you
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Bert Dodson
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10:15 AM on 11/06/2011
to be honest they shouldn't have left in the first place. this idea of sending them off to college is just silly. keep them home send them to local community college and then to the nearest 4yr school, save all that money paid out in room & board, transportation home. then the graduate will have a much reduced debt. when they find their first job, then they can leave home believe me they will be rocketing out that door. to the boomers like me it isn't the kids it is our folks, and if they cut medicaide it will be alot of old folks living with children in 20's census
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11:00 AM on 11/06/2011
I totally agree with you! I don't know if all Americans who attend university feel they must leave home to attend university but where I live (Toronto), almost everyone I know who went to university lived at home to cut costs and continued to do so for even post graduate studies. My brother lived at home for both undergrad and law school (both were full scholarships). He also worked part time during the school year and full time in the summer so by the time he had his law degree, he was debt free with money in the bank to travel the world for six months and buy a house with his friends as an investment! BTW, he also helped our parents with their mortgage the entire time he lived at home and going to school. I was helping our parents for a few years before I got an opportunity to work overseas so that is when he took over helping out the parents.
12:38 PM on 11/06/2011
That what i did and it worked out good for me. no colge loans, i payed my way through college. being debt free, gives you a huge head start. i was able to buy a house 3 years after moving out and still had money in bank
10:03 AM on 11/06/2011
After 8 years of bush and the republicans it is surprising that anyone could leave home.
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demisfine
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10:07 AM on 11/06/2011
and that there are still enough parents with a home to which their children can return.
macchugsid
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02:43 PM on 11/06/2011
You got that right!
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Pembrokelib
09:46 AM on 11/06/2011
Odd that the number of young men living with their parents is higher than that of young women. Maybe they're too lazy to do their own cooking and cleaning? Bad solution for most parents and their kids. The kids can be independent by sharing apartments and working part time in most cases.
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Aj Beamish
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09:55 AM on 11/06/2011
Had to pull out the talking point while ignoring the GLARINGLY OBVIOUS. Most young women get married to wealthy males thus making the move back home unnecessary for them. So, it's not that bloody odd at all.
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10:04 AM on 11/06/2011
Or the young women were pushed to achieve success and by this time have bought their own homes.
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demisfine
Often correct, NEVER right.
10:08 AM on 11/06/2011
Substitute "older" for wealthy.
The divorced middle aged guys convince the younger girls that life will be joyous as their second or third wife.
10:05 AM on 11/06/2011
To bad you are too dumb to understand what is going on around you!