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Sharon Bialek, Herman Cain Accuser, Stands By Sexual Harassment Allegations Against Candidate

AP/The Huffington Post   First Posted: 11/08/2011 7:43 am Updated: 01/08/2012 4:12 am

WASHINGTON -- The recurrent theme of questions for the woman who has publicly accused Herman Cain of sexual harassment is not why him, but why now.

Making the rounds of morning television news shows Tuesday, Sharon Bialek was asked repeatedly about her motives in coming forward against the pizza business executive and Republican presidential hopeful years after the incident of sexual harassment that she alleges.

She said she was "embarrassed" by the incident and wanted to move on. Bialek said she had nothing to gain financially, and in fact wasn't even paying a fee to Gloria Allred, the nationally known attorney whose name has become synonymous with women's rights issues. And Bialek said she decided to go public at this time mostly because her 13-year-old son told her to.

Bialek steadfastly defended her assertion Monday that Cain had made an inappropriate sexual advance toward her, years ago, while the two were in a car and at a time when she was out of work and seeking his help.

"I'm just doing this because it's the right thing to do," she said in one interview. Bialek said she was neither paid nor offered a job to go public with her allegations. She said she waited so long to come forward because "I was embarrassed ... and I just kind of wanted it to go away."

Bialek said she sympathized with Cain's wife, Gloria. "You know what I want to say to Herman is? If not for yourself, okay, to come forward and admit this, what is his wife going through? You know, that's who I feel for the most in this whole thing," she said in an interview on CNN's "American Morning," according to Politico. "I have to believe she's going through her own personal turmoil. And if not for himself, for the women that he's done this to, just for Gloria, that's his wife, too, he should [come forward]."

Bialek said she encountered Cain at a tea party event earlier this year. "I shook his hand, and he remembered me," she said. "He looked a little uncomfortable."

Bialek acknowledged in another appearance that she faced dire financial difficulties a decade ago, and that she had filed for bankruptcy protection. But she said her decision to speak out about Cain was not financially motivated.

"It's not about me. I'm not running for president," Bialek said.

Asked about Cain's characterization of her charges as a "total fabrication," Bialeck stood her ground, saying she went public because "I wanted to give him a platform to come clean, to tell the truth."

She said, "I was trying to be nice about it and it just didn't work."

Cain said late Monday there was "not an ounce of truth" to her accusations. He plans to answer questions in greater detail at a news conference later Tuesday in Phoenix.

Bialek said that one of the reasons she came forward to tell her story was that her 13-year-old son thought she should. "My biggest fan is my son. .... I called him and I said, `Nick, what do you think I should do?'" He said, `Mom, you have to do the right thing. I think you need to tell on him.'"

"That confirmed it for me," Bialek said. "If my son is saying it I want to be the role model for him and for other kids growing up that this is not appropriate behavior."

Bialek acknowledged money problems. "I have had bankruptcy and it was after the death of my mother, to help my father pay for medical bills, and a custody battle. Like millions of other people out there I was struggling. I could have sold my story but I didn't."

Bialek appeared on CNN, ABC's "Good Morning America," CBS's "The Early Show" and NBC's "Today" show.

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WASHINGTON -- The recurrent theme of questions for the woman who has publicly accused Herman Cain of sexual harassment is not why him, but why now. Making the rounds of morning television news show...
WASHINGTON -- The recurrent theme of questions for the woman who has publicly accused Herman Cain of sexual harassment is not why him, but why now. Making the rounds of morning television news show...
 
 
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Marcia cee
04:43 AM on 11/11/2011
Personally, I don't trust Allred and hope Cain is telling the truth. I am confused and saddened by the double standard of the black community. If anything that resembles a racial remark is intimated about Obama, the black community demands an apology. But when an ethnic slur is thrown directly at Cain by another black person...no one stands up for him! This is the division I am talking about that I noticed after Obama's first year! The aisle between colors, religions, parties and Americans have been at an all time low which translate into low self worth as a country. No communal pride, no jobs and work ethics, economy stinks, market stinks, housing stinks, we are no longer seen as a world power. We may just need a third option because Obama and the Dems. suck and the GOP are weak..we need something stronger than China, Russia, and the entire Middle East and can tackle everything here at home!
12:21 AM on 11/11/2011
I know what I am going to say is not going to go over well, but let us face facts. I am a victim of sexual abuse, and I wouldn't have to read off note cards to state what had taken place, I don't care how many people are around. When she first appeared on TV making a full statement of what took place, she was reading off note cards. Right there tells me that it is not totally true. When you are a victim of anything related to such things what you remember you remember clearly and note cards are not needed. And then there is the issue of her having to ask her son what she should do?
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Endogenous Light Nexus
There actually is light within you
02:27 PM on 11/11/2011
You might think you could cheerfully blab away about your problems on live television, and maybe you could, but if you have a good attorney she'll always advise you about what you should and shouldn't say in public because just one wrong word could undermine you totally. And Ms Bialek certainly understood that the rightwing hate machine would throw everything they have to try to discredit her as we have seen, so she was very smart to have her talking points written down so that she wouldn't make any mistakes.

At no point has there been any suggestion that Ms Bialek 'had' to talk to her son about it, merely that she DID. If I were in her situation or anything like it I know that I would have certainly consulted my daughters if for no other reason than to let them know that there would be a whole lot of hateful people trying to find any little thing they could even about them, to try to blow out of proportion and discredit me. Repugs are like that, they have no conscience.
09:40 AM on 11/09/2011
This situation is bigotry. It feeds into the negative stereotype of black men. Black men will now have it harder to be supervisors and managers or to be promoted.
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JoePenn
Shuhada?
04:36 PM on 11/09/2011
Blah blah blah. Good people come on all colors, genders, sizes, and ethnicities.
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Endogenous Light Nexus
There actually is light within you
02:27 PM on 11/11/2011
As do bad ones like Cain.
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OneWhoVotes
HEROES: OBAMA,Maddow,Carville,TheClintons,Bernie
06:07 PM on 11/09/2011
No, serial abusers and bullies will now have a more difficult time getting away with their abuse. It is not about race. It is about dignity and respect and how employers treat employees. It is about abuse of power. NOT race.
09:04 AM on 11/09/2011
Reposted: Americaone Favored Comment 19 hours ago in Politics
“She's had a three million dollar offer already.”

Within the guidelines
07:35 AM on 11/09/2011
Its OK when Clinton does this, and even lies under oath about it, but now its deplorable? Lets have some consistency here... And don't bring up "consensual" bs re: Clinton, some were, some weren't.
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OneWhoVotes
HEROES: OBAMA,Maddow,Carville,TheClintons,Bernie
06:09 PM on 11/09/2011
No one ever claimed abuse or harassment. No charges were filed.
Consensual is legal and harassment is illegal. No bs - just facts.
07:48 AM on 11/10/2011
Paula Jones... not consensual, illegal harassment. $850,000 settlement out of court... When you claim facts, please have your facts straight.
11:59 AM on 11/10/2011
There is a major difference between someone crawling under the "oval office" desk &
having a "relative" stranger touch you where you don't wish for them to touch you.

In BOTH cases, it is NOT alright. But, in the latter, the act is much worse.
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GoRyanExpress
Loving Life
01:34 AM on 11/09/2011
Mr. Cain has said, " I watched the press conference and said to myself, I never saw this woman before...her name, her face, her voice was not familiar to me. I've never met this woman".

If there are any reporters out there worth anything, someone should be looking for a credit card receipt that shows payment for the upgrade of her hotel room here in VA. Her story had a lot of details. At that time she was no longer working, so if the credit card was in his name or NRA's it should serve as proof that he did (if nothing else) know her.....and he lied. How will the right spin that...???
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OneWhoVotes
HEROES: OBAMA,Maddow,Carville,TheClintons,Bernie
06:11 PM on 11/09/2011
And how could ANYONE want someone with such a faulty memory leading this country? Not happening and we can be thankful for that.
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candycorn
Moving Foward
12:49 AM on 11/09/2011
Herman was the flavor of the month, let's move on to the next useless republican.
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OneWhoVotes
HEROES: OBAMA,Maddow,Carville,TheClintons,Bernie
06:12 PM on 11/09/2011
Why can't we just take a pass on that?
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candycorn
Moving Foward
12:45 AM on 11/09/2011
Women should rally around these women. It is hard to come forward on something like this. We should not teach our daughters to stay quite when being sexually abused or assaulted. Women must stick together when things like this happens. I believe all five of these women and evenually it may be more coming out of the woodwork. This man is running for the highest land of the country, and women should not turn a deaf ear. This needs to be brought out to set an example that no one should be subjected to this treatment. No company will pay hush money if there was not something behind it. They had to have proof before firing him or letting him go. Herman is not telling the truth. Come clean Herman, and then move on.
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tresluv
01:19 AM on 11/09/2011
F&F and love your micro-bio. I'm poor and struggling on retirement income and physically unable to work to supplement it (even if work was available).
I'm a person that Herman Cain would tell "blame yourself".
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Michaela19801
Dante's Inferno aka GOP
06:26 PM on 11/09/2011
Don't listen to him. Money does not make the person at all. Just look at all the millionaires in Congress, most are losers as human beings.

Just give of yourself, your time and caring and life will help you. You will see.
07:27 AM on 11/09/2011
You are truly an uninformed person! While you are at it, voicing your not too educated opinion, that is,- why don't you try really hard to refrain from painting all republicans with the same brush!!! That is ever so ludicrous!
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OneWhoVotes
HEROES: OBAMA,Maddow,Carville,TheClintons,Bernie
06:14 PM on 11/09/2011
Au contraire! She is well-informed and she has heart, something you clearly do not. You are the ludicrous one!
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terry63
treasure hunter.
12:34 AM on 11/09/2011
Cain, has agreed to take a lie detector test. I think that they all should have one. Cain, and the women.
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tresluv
01:22 AM on 11/09/2011
Actually, he did NOT agree. First he said he would, then he said "but I'm not going to do that".

As for the *victims*, their cases have already been settled, they have nothing more to prove. This isn't a good night for misogyny, you're a bit out of touch.
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GoRyanExpress
Loving Life
01:40 AM on 11/09/2011
No, he didn't exactly agree to take a lie detector test. He said, "sure I'll take one, BUT only if I find there's a reason to take one".....DUH...Is he waiting for a BETTER reason...???
11:44 PM on 11/08/2011
And here comes the "old broad" registered Democrat to say I do not think H. Cain is guilty. Please do not get me wrong. Sexual harassment is wrong. I just do not think this whole thing is true. Do I think Cain did something re the ONE complaint that was filed and an agreement was reached happened? Sure, something happened. The big question is what. And as for this gal that is making the rounds now, I've watched her for 2 days and she is about a believable as a skunk. I'm retired now, but back when all this supposedly happened was my working life and no matter what I would have screamed bloody murder. If a man were stupid enough to do something blatantly, inapproprate out of the clear blue sky, I would have called him on it and stopped him in his tracks. The days of "being afraid" have been over for decades as there are just too many good lawyers out there now that would jump on a chance to take a case like this if it happened. Hell yes she going to make money from this. Nevertheless, bottom line, damn him (do not vote for him) because of his stand on political topics and not because of something that may or may not have happened.
CognitoErgoSum
CogitoErgoSum was taken when I signed up.
12:28 AM on 11/09/2011
Since she was not employed at the time, which was why she spoke to Mr. Cain in the first place, she had no one to "scream bloody murder" to.

Since he wasn't for President of the United States before, there wasn't the same compelling need to warn the public about his character.
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Iamrebelriser
iamrebelriser
10:23 PM on 11/08/2011
Angry replies from an angry man tell me all I need to know about his guilt. No woman would want to go through with such scrutiny if it weren't true and she is not asking for money. As usual, the FOX followers are defending the accused Republican. They have NOTHING to say here concerning articles that are favorable to Democrats, but say one wayward word about any accused Republican, and they're here confusing the shock jock's talking points and not knowing what they're talking about. Also, say anything positive about Democrats, and the uninformed Followers of FOX are here throwing angry, nonsensical words at them. Learn some truth before you lash out, Tea Party followers.
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tresluv
01:29 AM on 11/09/2011
Ignoring them, for the most part, works very well. :)
07:43 AM on 11/09/2011
And you are so uninformed too!!!! FOX, TeaParty - let us all blame somebody else - no one wishes to take responsibility for their own thoughts even!!!! FOX does reporting to their own bias as does every other news program in America and any other part of the world. What is so terrible about 24 hour a day news is exactly that; Americans are spoon fed innuendo, slightly grounded in fact and then proceed to believe what they hear rather than exploring enough to make an educated decision as to the validity of the statements. Everyone is entitled to an opinion but opinion's are exactly that if you can understand from reading the dictionary what the meaning of the word is. What an opinion should not be is someone else's idea that you, as an individual, adopted!
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OneWhoVotes
HEROES: OBAMA,Maddow,Carville,TheClintons,Bernie
07:10 PM on 11/09/2011
Since you're a Fox fan you are blazingly unaware that there are actual news networks who report the news. They do not broadcast their personal opinions and biases. Some do better than others. There are some that attempt to balance out Fox with the opposing viewpoint but there are some who are still trying to report news without bias. Then there is the internet where you can pick up any information you want - left, right, middle. But, happily, we have fact checks available there as well.
Your last sentence sort of puzzles me - are you saying that the only opinions you allow are original ones that no one else has had? That's kind of silly, isn't it? No matter what you think, undoubtedly, most of the time, someone else, somewhere, has thought the same way. There are very few original ideas any more.
10:07 PM on 11/08/2011
We need the guy from the Russ Meyer films who played the hippie on Star Trek to start yelling "Herbert!" repeatedly at Herman Cain.
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OneWhoVotes
HEROES: OBAMA,Maddow,Carville,TheClintons,Bernie
10:54 PM on 11/08/2011
I think Palin already did that - just less directly. (Herb)
09:16 PM on 11/08/2011
Vietnamvet1967 isn't the only 'Nam vet with an opinion, and this one's opinion is that vietnamvet1967, and others like him who demand "proof" of Cain's offenses demand the impossible. If 1000 women, including these apes' own mothers, stepped forward to accuse this sexual predator, vietnamvet1967 and his followers would not believe them because their blind, ignorant, un-American prejudice rejects real proof. Fortunately, America still has enough genuine patriots to make sure that Cain is going down (as if he needed any help).
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tresluv
01:30 AM on 11/09/2011
Fanned with a big smile. :)
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Ron Weaver
Whatever it takes
08:42 PM on 11/08/2011
Just a note to you on the right...You're about to become very disappointed in the coming days.
09:25 PM on 11/08/2011
Why, Ron.. do you have evidence that Herman Cain sexually assaulted you?
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Glowbeanie
09:57 PM on 11/08/2011
I would rather see them disappointed on November, 2012.
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Ron Weaver
Whatever it takes
11:45 PM on 11/08/2011
Oh they will but it wont be Cain. Too bad. He would be an easy beat.
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LarrBerr
11:59 PM on 11/08/2011
Don't worry. We can have both.
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Ossit
Ossit
08:39 PM on 11/08/2011
On other boards when it comes to children, what do I always hear? Those parents should stand up their kids. They should stop coddling them. They should use the word "no". But oddly with that kind of philosophy, what do I get? Defenses of the kid who advised mom on what she should do. I'm sorry, but a kid is a kid. You don't go to your kid and put them in the role of advisor or conscience. I think there's something odd when a grown woman goes to her son and asks him what should she do. I'm sorry. When I was growing up, my brother and I didn't rule. My parents did. We didn't tell our parents what to do, they told us. My brother and I were our parents' kids. We weren't their confidants or friends. We were their kids. Kids are not advisors nor should they put in that role. Kids are not an adults' conscience and shouldn't be put in that role. You should obviously love your kids unconditionally and respect them as you expect to be respected. But they're not your councilor, your 'friend', make decisions for you. You don't discuss these adult topics with them. They should be kids. When I hear so many yell at parents who have the inability to say "no" now give a gold medal to this kid for being her conscience at her consultation instead of being her own conscience/advisor, it doesn't sit well.
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Glowbeanie
10:01 PM on 11/08/2011
If only the world be that way and respect that about children or children, period. We wouldn't see so many of them incarcerated, dead or missing. We are doing poorly by children across the entire world.
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Havana Thinks
Live and Let Live!
10:41 PM on 11/08/2011
I agree and share your wish that parents understood this but so many do not get it. ThankU, Ossit for speaking truth and being a defender of letting a child be a child and a parent be a parent not a friend! F+F
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Ossit
Ossit
12:52 PM on 11/09/2011
You're very welcome Havana Thinks. My father taught me that. I was about 10 watching dad do taxes. I wanted to know how to do them. I begged dad to teach me. He said you're a kid! Your job is to be a kid, go to school, have fun, do your artwork. You'll learn about taxes soon enough. Now, go away. LOL! He later got an accountant. Doing taxes drove him insane despite being able to calculate in his head. I guess taxes should be left to the tax experts and parents should just be parents not tax calculators.