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Gay Student's Flamboyant Behavior Blamed For His Murder

Brandon Mcinerney

First Posted: 11/23/11 10:42 AM ET Updated: 11/28/11 03:07 PM ET

Only a few hours had passed after 17-year-old Brandon McInerney had pled guilty to the fatal shooting of 15-year-old Lawrence "Larry" King at E.O. Green Junior High School when the media started pointing fingers.

The Los Angeles Times ran a story the same day, November 21, which said that the assistant principal at the school, who is openly gay, had been criticized for being "more intent on protecting King's civil rights" than "acknowledging that his dress and behavior were causing problems."

In a separate piece, also published Monday, the LA Times reported that the murdered teen's mother, Dawn King, had sought the help of school officials in "toning down her son's behavior" just a few days before the shooting. But she was allegedly told by the administration that King had "a civil right to explore his sexual identity."

During his live radio show on November 22, Rush Limbaugh claimed the school's progressive attitude was at fault for King's murder. "He was showing up in school dressed as a woman," Limbaugh said. "So now a confused 17-year-old is dead because the school [said] 'Ah, there's nothing we can do.'"

But Limbaugh had his facts wrong, according to Superintendent Jerry Dannenberg, who told The Huffington Post over the phone on Tuesday that King had not broken the rules of the middle school's dress code, which forbid a male student to wear dresses to school. It's true that Larry King wore heels, makeup, and jewelry to class. But none of these things were against the school's dress policy, said Dannenberg.

Dannenberg also told The Huffington Post that he did not know "for a fact" that King's mother had been rebuffed by school officials when she came to them for help before the shooting occurred.

Brandon McInerney, King's killer, was a Hitler enthusiast who was born to a meth-addicted mother and was beaten by his drug-addicted father.

McInerney was friends with neo-Nazis in the Oxnard area, according to testimony from an investigator. When law-enforcement officials searched his room, they found seven of Hitler's speeches along with a notebook full of "elaborate drawings of Nazi symbols and regalia."

On February 12, 2008, after days of conflict between the two students, McInerney, who was 14 at the time, sat down behind King in computer class around 8:00 a.m. McInerney pulled a .22 caliber handgun from his bag and shot King twice in the head, before dropping the weapon and leaving school grounds.

Neither Limbaugh nor the LA Times stories went into great detail about McInerney's background or his actions. But Limbaugh quoted freely from a Newsweek cover story on Larry King's murder, which was written in the summer of 2008, a few months after the shooting occurred. The Newsweek article described the teen as someone who liked to "slick up his curly hair" into a "Prince-like bouffant," and as someone who "acted out from an early age" and "pushed his rights as far as he could."

But was the school's tolerance of King's flamboyant behavior to blame for the fatal shooting on that tragic morning in February of 2008?

There are many who think E.O. Green Junior High, which is located northwest of Los Angeles, in Oxnard, California, isn't progressive enough--that the school should be teaching students to be understanding of a variety of sexual orientations.

"A more inclusive and holistic sex education is needed in our current school system," Luis Guerra told The Huffington Post in an email. Guerra is a Program Manager at the Health Initiative For Youth, a San Francisco-based organization founded in 1992 to educate young people about HIV prevention.

"This is something that sex education could have prevented," he said.

Guerra explained that implementing comprehensive sex education in middle schools can be extremely difficult, because the term "sex education" makes people think of sexual activity among children. But that's not what sex ed is, he said. Good sex ed teaches students about sexual orientation, gender identity and tolerance.

"Middle school is a good time to start addressing gender issues," said Sandi Goldstein, the project director for the California Adolescent Health Collaborative, a statewide coalition of organizations devoted to promoting adolescent health. "Schools can be a safe place to reinforce the fact that not all boys need to conform to the images of men we see in the media."

Dannenberg, the district superintendent, said that E.O. Green does offer sex ed classes, which teach students about "all the FDA-approved kinds of contraception." But the classes are optional, he said, and "don't include anything about gay rights or homosexuality in the curriculum."

In July, Governor Jerry Brown signed a bill that requires California's public schools to include lessons on the history of gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender figures in its social studies classes. The bill does not say at which grade level the lessons should start.

Still, the state of California does not require schools to teach sex ed. It only mandates that HIV/AIDS education be taught to students at least once in middle school and once in high school.

Correction: An earlier version of this story noted that Oxnard, Calif. is located to the west of Los Angeles. It is actually northwest of L.A.

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Only a few hours had passed after 17-year-old Brandon McInerney had pled guilty to the fatal shooting of 15-year-old Lawrence "Larry" King at E.O. Green Junior High School when the media started point...
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ajbiggs
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02:14 PM on 12/27/2011
The NEW America...blame the victim not the tormentor/murderer/rapist/etc...

Sure sends a strong message to victims!
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ethelmertzrules
Yeah, I said it.
09:28 AM on 11/29/2011
The blame game sucks. I know people who had much worse upbringing than Brandon McInerney and who have had greater provocation to act out and they have NEVER HURT ANOTHER LIVING BEING.
09:23 PM on 12/06/2011
It must be said that Lawrence King's mom smoked crack. But do you see anything wrong with Lawrence King's anti-social conduct of harassing others in the bathroom & even touching himself in front of others? If you don't, then there's something wrong with you. What worsened his conduct is the lesbian VP Joy Epstein refused to expel him when complaints were made. With gay bashings, I'm against starting fights, but if a gay is going to be anti-social such as harass or commit assault&battery such as pinch a man's butt or groin against will, then a man has a right to use just force & legal ways to end the abuse. Even if you support gay rights, harassment is not a civil right & there's no need for a man to take harassment by a gay.
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dre31
02:20 PM on 11/28/2011
This is just bad no matter what.
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07:32 AM on 11/27/2011
Ultimately he was killed for being effeminate...not for being gay. It wouldn't matter how he dressed, he would still be hated for how he talked and walked. There is an absolute terror of gender non conformity in our society. It is a national phobia. It is a type of neurotic insanity that people are driven to murder because of someones CLOTHES.

Until we rid our society of this neurotic and outdated genderphobia there will be homophobia. Homophobia and fear of gender non conformity always are completely intertwined. Everyone has a vested interest in ending outdated gender roles as homophobia will not go away until gender terror goes away.
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ethelmertzrules
Yeah, I said it.
11:00 PM on 11/27/2011
Ultimately he was killed because another teenage boy wasn't comfortable with his own sexuality. Otherwise I agree with your comment.
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practiceempathy
Tolerance need not yield to willful ignorance.
01:28 PM on 11/28/2011
Homophobia is rooted in misogyny. It all comes down to a hatred of the feminine, agreed.
04:18 AM on 11/27/2011
Can we please not blame a kids choice of clothing on his murder??? This is ridiculous... Things to expect when you wear clothing in unusual manner, or your hair in a weird way, or have piercings and tattoos include being looked at funny but does not include being shot in the back of the head!!! Anyone who is commenting with a "Well you shouldn't flaunt it so much." in thier comment should rethink what they are saying, what if the situation was backwards and you were shot for dressing in what you like to wear?
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Christina-Xena
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07:22 PM on 11/27/2011
I guessed you missed reading the part about how King was repeatedly sexually harrassing McInerney for days in highly aggressive manner, and making him a target of taunts from other kids.

This went WAY beyond clothing choice.

Stop trying to change the facts to justify your agenda.
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ethelmertzrules
Yeah, I said it.
11:09 PM on 11/27/2011
You are obviously not familiar with the facts. Larry King did not sexually harass his killer.
01:44 AM on 11/28/2011
I certainly missed reading that.
09:19 AM on 11/28/2011
The brunt of this story talks about his clothing, IF he did sexually harass this kid or make advances, is the logical conclusion his death?
02:50 AM on 11/27/2011
The only person to blame is the person who commits the crime. I wish people could just get over homosexuality so we can focus on things that actually matter, like the failings of the education system.
01:12 PM on 11/27/2011
And the failings of (too many) parents like McInerney's.
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11:32 PM on 11/26/2011
Let me just say that I don't think what the "killer" did was in any way acceptable. Unless you are in fear for your life, you should never use deadly force for any reason other than self defense.

That being said, I don't care if you're gay, straight, crooked, diagonal, transgender, or Martian. What I do care about is when you flaunt it in an excessively flamboyant manner. I don't care that you're gay, but I don't want to know about it either. I personally use a modified version of the military's policy. "I'm not going to ask you, and I don't want you to tell me/show me/etc." But when I see two gay people kissing/making out/other forms of PDA, it bothers me. And to be fair, I don't want to see straight people doing it either. There's a time and place for all that. I don't want to see any of it. However, I also don't care to see guys, or girls, in "drag" either. I would never shoot someone in the back of the head over it, but I still don't want to see it. I took my little niece and nephew out the other day, and my nephew asked me "Why is that man wearing high heels and a dress? I thought only women wore those." I was dumbfounded, I didn't know what to tell him. Amazingly, without any prompting, my niece said "He's just confused."
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Robbert Bricker
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07:28 AM on 11/27/2011
funny, i always hear how straight people do not want to see anyone making out, but if a gay person blew a straight couples' brains out, i bet you'd be singing a new tune.
02:01 AM on 11/28/2011
I never said what he did was right. And if you bothered to read the entire comment, I said I don't want to see straight couples making out either.
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Erin84
12:38 PM on 11/27/2011
Correction: *effeminate men* not "effeminate black men." I typed that way too fast and have no idea why I wrote that. But yes, there were effeminate men of all ethnicities, now that I think of it. Oh, and it's really simple, tell your niece some men, though a very small minority of them, feel more comfortable like that. End your own confusion and her's instead of projecting it onto the transexual, who knows perfectly well who she is and dresses accordingly.
08:04 PM on 11/26/2011
"Born to a meth-addicted mother and beaten by a drug-addicted father?!" No wonder Larrry's killer was so messed up! Violence that led to more violence and then death; this is just plain tragic.I'm not sure what's to blame for this, but it is definitely not poor Larry King's fault.
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DovS
05:32 PM on 11/26/2011
I think that King's flamboyant style was probably not the primary reason for his murder. I may be stretching here but I suspect that the main reason this murder occurred was because McInerney was a Neo-Nazi who hated gay people and came from drug-addicted, abusive parents.

The fact that people are so ready to assume that it's all because King wouldn't tone it down that they completely dismiss the fact that McInerney idolized a genocidal maniac reveals more about the people making this anti-gay claim than about the case itself.
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Atwill
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06:31 PM on 11/27/2011
you hit the reason right on target
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bearchao
Un-Holy Cow
12:11 PM on 11/26/2011
"Gay Student's Flamboyant Behaviour Blamed For His Murder"

And every woman that has ever been raped can be blamed for provoking their own attacks. They wore too much makeup. They wore a short skirt or a tight blouse. They said NO but their actions said YES.

Perpetrators are just weak men/boys. Let's put the blame where it belongs... on the VICTIMS!

SICKENING!
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Robbert Bricker
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07:29 AM on 11/27/2011
excellent comment!
10:25 AM on 11/26/2011
What is amazing is how the moderators pick and choose post. I took the time yesterday to compose a sane contribution on this subject. It didn't violate any of the rules. Someone just felt the reality of the subject matter was risky?

Many in the Heterosexual majority think they have a sort of channel changer in hand where they can at will monitor the behavior of LGBT folk so it fall into their comfort zone. Shooting the messenger seems to be the MO when Gay folks are victimized. My partner and I have been on the receiving end of Hate and many believe that by us taking a stand, that since we are humiliating some cowards, that somehow we brought it on. That somehow we should accept the harassment that it comes with the territory of being DIFFERENT. In our situation the wagons have circled and it appears that a conspiracy is in motion to keep us quiet. This conspiracy includes Law Enforcement and Local Government. On Nov. 13 we discovered a bullet hole in the shade of our dawn to dusk security light. The entry and exit hole line up with the front porch of the neighbor who is leading the charge. Is this a warning?
I believe that Larry felt in his adolence mindset that "fighting fire with fire" was a gut cooping mechanism. This whole tragedy is so disturbing on so many levels.
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Christina-Xena
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08:01 PM on 11/27/2011
jerry23 states: "That somehow we should accept the harassment that it comes with the territory of being DIFFERENT. In our situation the wagons have circled and it appears that a conspiracy is in motion to keep us quiet. This conspiracy includes Law Enforcemen­t and Local Government­."

That is so right! It seems nearly impossible to get hate words and actions reported as such...as the police, and local government, refuses to report it as such even when more aggression and violence is likely to occur without intervention. In fact, if hate is involved it makes it LESS likely to be reported or mis-reported. Seen this many times.
09:18 AM on 11/26/2011
I agree that blaming King's flamboyant style for his murder is disgusting and apalling. Is that all it takes in the US to be murdered? Wear some of your mothers shoes and jewerly and wind up in the obituaries. For people to suggest that McInerney was somehow justified in doing what he did because he was threatened is rediculous. I do not imagine King was hurting McInerney by expressing himself. While it may have possibly made McInerney uncomfortable, it still DOES NOT justify the actions that he took. I think that the school should have taken more action with King. Not necessary telling him to stop what he was doing, but to give him some counseling and find out if he was in fact acting out. I think that because the assistant principal was a homosexual and believed that was just who King was, she didnt think to acknowledge that King could in fact have been starving for attention. This is just another reason why schools need to teach, among other things, to respect your fellow man and not to judge others because we will all be judged in the end.
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HotheadPaisen
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04:13 PM on 11/26/2011
Well said. Fan #1
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Christina-Xena
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08:18 PM on 11/27/2011
I have YET to read where anyone attempt to justify MURDER for King's actions. Not once! So this keeps being an extreme "strawman" issue...so "if you assign any responsibilily or blame to King then that means you support murder as the solution"....totally false!

I've written 500 words in a message about all the respective boundries and responsibility and still someone makes that same biased false conclusion.

But the rest of what you said I agree with.

I've been struck in the face twice when in junior high...simply for saying "hey, watch out" when someone pushed me hard in the hallway and then on the school bus (both cases the pushers were little punks who then got older/bigger boys involved to intimidate me). One got away with it and the next time I got my high school brother involved....not a pretty ending....but it worked. When the school fails to have a bully policy and ways of intervening, then kids have to do whatever they can to put a stop to it.

Some kids, unfortunately, are willing to do more than t a punch or physcially fight to stop it....and nothing will ever stop that from being a potential outcome, so to ignore that reality is to take the chance of an over-reaction...and possibly major harm.

The school was most irresponsible.
05:57 AM on 11/26/2011
The parents of Brandon McInerney should hold some accountability. If this young adult was taught tolerance and understanding at home, this could have been prevented. However, its totally appropriate he was charged as an adult. Any person able to just take a human life in the matter he did doesn't make him human at all. Very sad that two young lives are (for the most part) over.
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dannywanny
12:33 AM on 11/26/2011
Blaming the victim because he dressed provocatively is like blaming the female victim for being raped because she dressed provocatively. Have we not advanced at all in the last half century?
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Conuly
04:48 PM on 11/26/2011
When I see parents telling their children not to play with certain toys because they're for "girls" (or boys), sometimes I think we've gone backwards.
01:10 PM on 11/27/2011
"Have we not advanced at all in the last half century?"

On gender and human sexuality issues, no we have not advanced. At all.

Sadly.
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Christina-Xena
That little Voice in your Head...is mine.
08:36 PM on 11/27/2011
Again states: "On gender and human sexuality issues, no we have not advanced. At all"

Totally wrong! Advancements on these issues have been huge in the Western World...in science, social acceptance and related medical areas. I won't bother to explain the breakthroughs in transgender care and medical procedures. The civil rights has made wonderful gains...but obviously still has some way to go, and should be worked on in order to help reduce discrimination and number of violent incidents in society.

Let's not paint the whole picture black...just because we still have negative cases popping up here and there. We need to take away the real and useful lessons, and not try to cry "the sky is falling" every time something bad happens.
08:05 PM on 11/25/2011
There should definitely be no "gay panic" defense as a justification for murder, that's totally clear. It's equally clear that students should not be dressing for school in a way that disrupts the learning environment. This horrible incident makes the case for school uniforms even more strong. I'm all for student individualism as it manifests itself in school work, class projects and after school activities. School is not a fashion runway, gay straight or whatever, the kids are there to learn.

Funny how there's constant complaining about school achievement, yet at the same time there's much acceptance for the idea that students should be allowed, even encouraged, to make disruptive fashion choices.
NancyY
carpe diem!
12:47 AM on 11/26/2011
Thank you for a sane perspective on this situation. The basic issue is that these kids will be out in workplaces sooner or later, and in almost all workplaces, gay or straight won't matter - it's all about one's abilities as compared to the company's needs. Kids need to learn that they can do their "showboat" stuff away from school or work, as they wish - other students and co-workers are not to be treated as their standing audience.
11:40 AM on 11/26/2011
Why not? Gay students/fellow employees/co-workers are constantly barraged by offensive, in-your-face heterosexual conduct every day. They're "treated as their standing audience" all the time. Showboating, bullying, PDAs, conversations about the weekend dates, who did what with whom, etc. - it permeates the school environment. Every work environment lets str8 folk put up pictures of the opposite-gender spouse, and they call it 'showing family values'. When gay people do it, you call it "shoving it in our faces/down our throats/flaunting it, etc. We ARE your "standing audience".
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cwebster
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11:40 AM on 11/26/2011
I've always thought that school uniforms are partly the answer. No one can be singled out as different.
NancyY
carpe diem!
09:18 PM on 11/26/2011
I agree with you.
01:48 PM on 11/27/2011
Why must anyone be forced to hide their "difference" in the first place?