Lady Gaga On Being Single: 'I Have An Inability To Know What Happiness Feels Like With A Man'

It's not easy to find love when you're Mother Monster. With millions of fans around the world, it's her fans -- and creativity -- that give her fulfillment, not a man.

"I have an inability to know what happiness feels like with a man," the singer tells Vanity Fair in their January issue. "When I fight with someone I’m in a relationship with, I think, what would my fans think if they knew this was happening? How would they feel about my work and about me as a female if they knew I was allowing this to go on? And then I get out."

Does this mean that Gaga's rumored relationship with "The Vampire Diaries" stud, Taylor Kinney, fizzled into a bad romance? The native New Yorker reveals that she doesn't have the best track record when it comes to relationships.

"I have this effect on people where it starts out good. Then, when I’m in these relationships with people who are also creative, or creative in their own way, what happens is the attraction is initially there and it’s all unicorns and rainbows. And then they hate me."

But Gaga has always put her fans and her art first, and it's just something that she feels guys are going to have to get over. The singers recently gave one little monster a special surprise by taping a video in support of his anti-bullying campaign.

"I had a man say to me, 'You will die alone in a house bigger than you know, with all your money and hit records, and you will die alone.'"

That doesn't mean that Gaga is ready to give up on love just yet. In fact, she's already on the hunt for her next bad romance. The singer recently told the UK entertainment rag, Sun magazine, that when it comes to her next beau, her requirements in new man "ranges from a really big d*** to a degree at Harvard."

To read more about Gaga's life and loves, check out the Vanity Fair January 2012 cover story.

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Comments

[William Wasyluk II]

05:19 PM on 04/11/2012

I would have to say that when Lady Gaga was in Roseburg Oregon where I am currently living I was rather bummed that I was not graced with her presents. There is no reason why this attractive young lady can not find love her man might need to be more understanding of her needs. I am smart how ever do not have a degree at Harvard or any other Name Brand college. Good Luck Lady Gaga You have a beautiful mind,body,and spirit!

[djdeleon]

08:46 AM on 12/01/2011

[PerfumeisToxic]

05:12 AM on 12/01/2011

Lady Gaga may have a man tucked away somewhere. Or like many women what she seeks is a hard to get equal relationship with a non sexist men. who is on the same wavelength

The gender role psychosis that we are all compelled to obey makes good relationships between men and women mostly impossible. These rigid gender roles are outdated and women especially are responding by opting out of heterosexuality altogether. They can't find a non sexist man that they can have an equal relationship with and that they have things in common with. They are not able for varied reasons to be lesbians. So they are left with no relationships at all very often. And are chronically discontent.

[sybarys]

10:55 AM on 11/30/2011

No straight man wants to go home with a woman and later have to deal with a male alter ego wearing a prosthetic pen!s.

[ali baba lol]

09:02 AM on 11/30/2011

GAGA IS IN LOVE WITH HERSELF!

[robk06825]

07:58 AM on 11/30/2011

Does anyone else think she is becoming a little over exposed?

[toocoolfoschool1234]

06:34 AM on 11/30/2011

I wanna go down on her.

[kalima1]

04:47 AM on 11/30/2011

gaga is a drag queen that is too self absorbed to ever become involved with another man. i guess "she" was born that way. sad.

[repugnicansfearme]

09:35 PM on 11/29/2011

She's stoned. Move along, nothing to see here.

[Mindy Czech]

09:27 PM on 11/29/2011

If she is happy and secure in herself, she really doesn't need a man. Yes, it's nice to have someone to share your life with, as long as that person is the right person for you. But she's very successful, and she is still really young, so why should she focus on having or finding a mate? If there's someone out there for her, he (or who knows, maybe even she) will come along eventually. I think she deserves to have someone who could stimulate her intellectually, because Gaga is very, very smart. I hope she doesn't end up settling for someone.

[williamson2005]

09:22 PM on 11/29/2011

a really big d*** and a degree in harvard??!! She obviously sets her goals high...

[perturbedintexas]

09:13 PM on 11/29/2011

A big D from Harvard?
How about a wee willy from Our Lady of Perpetual Perpetrators?

[Politidelic]

07:34 PM on 11/29/2011

You just keep rocking for now girl, you'll find love later in life after the bs settles out...

[Billk29]

06:47 PM on 11/29/2011

Everything that comes out of her mouth just sounds like b.s. Guaranteed she just made up that silly quote about dying alone. Nobody actually talks like that.
When she talks about dating creative men and after awhile they hate her it's likely because they find out she's not creative at all.She just has creative people working for her.

[Politidelic]

07:35 PM on 11/29/2011

Not creative at all? What brand of model glue are you sniffing Holmes? I submit she's not for everyone, but listen to this and tell me the girl can't sing! Come on now....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lvib07TvJ1w

[medusamadeinusa]

05:50 PM on 11/29/2011

Whooa whoa...NOBODY LIKES ME... whooa whooa, nobody likes you....i'm the only one for you little monsters....what a sociopath!

[Mindy Czech]

09:22 PM on 11/29/2011

Looks like somebody doesn't know the meaning of the word sociopath.