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Michelle Parker Missing: Mom's Kids Returned To Ex-Fiance, Prime Suspect In Case

Michelle Parker

First Posted: 11/30/11 04:09 PM ET Updated: 12/02/11 11:18 PM ET

A Florida judge Wednesday ordered that missing Florida mom Michelle Parker's 3-year-old twins be returned to the custody of their father.

The Orlando juvenile court judge dismissed a petition filed by the Florida Department of Children and Families. The agency, which said 40-year-old Dale Smith was a "significant future risk" to the children, had taken the twins into protective custody on Tuesday.

The judge said the agency failed to present sufficient probable cause for him to sign a petition on custody. The judge ruled in favor of Smith, pending any future developments in his ex-fiance's disappearance.

Parker, 33, vanished on Nov. 17, the same day she and Smith's appearance on "The People's Court" aired on television. The couple was in dispute over a $5,000 engagement ring that was lost after she threw it at him during an argument. During the program, which had been taped months earlier, Parker alleged that Smith has a drug and alcohol problem and had been violent with her in the past.

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"He gets pretty malicious and vindictive," Parker said on the show. "And he's a mean person, especially when he's been drinking. He shouldn't have put his hands on me, and he shouldn't have put his hands on me prior. He shouldn't have left me three or four times over the past year and a half that we've been together."

After hearing both sides, Judge Marilyn Milian ruled the couple should split the cost of the ring and ordered Parker to pay $2,500 for her half.

A few hours after the episode aired, Parker dropped the twins off at Smith's condo for scheduled visitation. Parker's 2008 black Hummer H3 was found the following day in a parking lot on the west side of Orlando. Decals for Parker's Glow mobile tanning business had been removed from the windows, police said.

The last known outgoing text message on Parker's cell phone was to her brother at 4:26 p.m. on the day she went missing. It contained the single word "Waterford," a possible reference to a nearby area. Police say the cell phone had stopped transmitting a signal by a tower south of downtown Orlando.

Police conducted a search of Smith's condominium on Nov. 18. A similar search was conducted at his parents' house over the weekend. Nothing of interest was reportedly found at either location.

According to the Florida Department of Children and Families, the agency began looking into the case on Nov. 19.

"A child protection investigation was initiated after allegations of past domestic violence were reported to the agency through the abuse hotline," the agency said in a statement. "This report was generated after the mother was reported missing to authorities."

DCF said authorities interviewed the children, but what, if anything, was learned from them is not yet known.

Police initially said Smith was cooperating and was not considered a suspect, but during a Monday press conference, Orlando Police Chief Paul Rooney announced Smith as the primary suspect in Parker's disappearance. Rooney did not elaborate on why he was considered a suspect, but detectives have said Smith has refused to take a polygraph.

Parker's mother, Yvonne Stewart, also spoke with reporters Monday, at which time she pleaded with Smith to cooperate with police.

"Dale, if you had cooperated with the police and took a polygraph test when they asked you, you could have avoided a lot of stress," Stewart said.

"Our family needs to have Michelle home," she added. "We need to heal."

Smith's lawyer, Mark NeJame, fired back on Tuesday and defended his client. He said Smith declined to take a lie detector test because the devices are unreliable. NeJame also said Smith was asking Texas EquuSearch, a well-known missing person search and recovery group, to look for Parker.

"If this doesn't ring as a testament to a man who is not guilty, I don't know what does," NeJame told reporters. "Mr. Smith wants Michelle found. Now what guilty person is asking for a search to be conducted? If she is found alive or not, he knows that will exonerate him."

Texas EquuSearch has confirmed to The Huffington Post that they plan to conduct a search for Parker. An exact date has not yet been set.

NeJame previously represented Casey Anthony's parents, George and Cindy Anthony, Texas EquuSearch and golfer Tiger Woods.

The veteran attorney also said the timeline in the case does not add up -- nor does the suggestion that his client may have been involved.

According to a time-stamped video, Parker dropped the kids off at Smith's home at 3:18 p.m. on Nov. 17, and by 4:30 p.m., Smith was at his parents' home.

"Get in your cars and run that track, and see if you can do it ... and in between, you've killed and gotten rid of, disposed of a body ... where nobody can find it," NeJame said. "There's no marks, no defensive wounds, no scrapes, no blood, no nothing suggesting a struggle or a death."

He added, "You then, in an hour and 12 minutes, go from one side of town to the other, you then drop off your vehicle, you get in your vehicle and you drive to your father's house. In an hour and 12 minutes. It's not physically possible."

Smith's checkered past, however, may play a role in why police suspect he could be involved in Parker's disappearance. According to NBC's "Today" show, he was convicted of battery in the 1990s, serving 10 days in jail. His second wife, Shannon, died of an accidental drug overdose. In 1996, he joined the U.S. Marine Corps and was court martialed in 2001 and found guilty of drug and domestic battery charges. Smith was subsequently dishonorably discharged in 2003. More recently, in 2009, Parker attempted to obtain a restraining order against Smith, but the request was denied due to lack of evidence.

Meanwhile, authorities are searching an area near Lake Ellenor in south Orange County today for Parker. According to WTSP News-10, the location is five miles from Smith's parents’ house and close to the cell tower that logged Parker's last transmission.

Dive teams and search crews from the Orlando Police Department and the Orange County Sheriff's Office are participating in the search. WTSP reports that authorities have not said what prompted the search of the area.

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stymie500r
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09:50 AM on 12/05/2011
"The last known outgoing text message on Parker's cell phone was to her brother at 4:26 p.m. on the day she went missing. It contained the single word "Waterford," a possible reference to a nearby area."
Did anyone else after reading this wonder why nothing more was said like, oh maybe police are searching this location?
12:04 AM on 12/07/2011
The text message could have been sent by someone who had her phone..as in..she was already dead..and they (whoever had her phone) replied to an inbound message. Not hard to do. I dont beleive in coincidences..and I can see why Smith is a suspect..he was the last person to see her alive...hinging her being alive at 4:26 pm( text ) on the "Waterford" text..seems to be foolish..anyone could have replied who had her phone.
Unfortunately I suspect the ex is involved..
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hursh 4 ever
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06:46 AM on 12/02/2011
Just because he is the prime suspect doesn't mean he is guilty... he could just be the "only" suspect...

If he is found innocent... I hope he turns around sues the police for 'tarnishing' his name... cops and detectives get way out of hand, and have a hard time admitting they are wrong, or admitting they have the wrong guy... If he is found guilty, he should get probation or jail time whatever.
11:36 AM on 12/02/2011
If he murdered her, he should be executed.
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hursh 4 ever
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03:28 AM on 12/03/2011
Murder is wrong, but playing the devil's advocate... you do not know what kind of a person she was.. what if she was a truly evil person?
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sassiestkat
If it walks & quacks like a duck, it's a cow
11:02 PM on 12/02/2011
Huh? If he's found guilty, he should get probation (potentially) because of how the police are handling things? I'm sorry, the mind boggles to find that source or line of reasoning.
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hursh 4 ever
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02:51 AM on 12/03/2011
You're grouping 2 unrelated views.
04:05 AM on 12/07/2011
Probation? Are you kidding me? He should get the death penalty or life in prison. He should be a suspect with his track history. If he is found guilty, then he should pay for what he did and the court who first denied Parker of her restraining order should be sued. This has happened in so many cases where women end up dead or something serious happens to them because the courts doesnt take their case serious. This woman has been trying to get way from this man for some time. But by law, she cant keep the kids away from him unless she has evidence that he is dangerous. The court has failed her. If this man is innocent then so be it. But there has to be an investigation.
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Joebudgie
04:10 AM on 12/02/2011
"Smith's lawyer, Mark NeJame, fired back on Tuesday and defended his client. He said Smith declined to take a lie detector test because the devices are unreliable. NeJame also said Smith was asking Texas EquuSearch, a well-known missing person search and recovery group, to look for Parker."

"If this doesn't ring as a testament to a man who is not guilty, I don't know what does,"

Sounds like a talanted lawyer to me but why not take the lie detector test before claiming it gives a false reading? Asking for the Texas EquuSearch team doesn't mean anything to me. Maybe he is confident they won't fine her because he knows what he did with her body? That's only an attempt at misdirection. Eventually we will find out Dale Smith is responsible for this womans disappearance and probable death.
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hursh 4 ever
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06:51 AM on 12/02/2011
You are right, it does show a sign of someone being not guilty... unless you are Sherlock Holmes and exceptional at deducing things.

I also applaud you on your masterful insight into the 'talents' of the lawyer. Perhaps you should leave Huff Post columns and open up a detective agency.
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Ava Johnson
11:52 AM on 12/02/2011
Polygraphs do not work and are not admissible in court. Why waste time and money.
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vcrozas
One can still have an opinion...right?
09:09 PM on 12/01/2011
Most times parents get their kids back ...even if they abuse them, like the woman in Arizona that's five year old disappeared, after she had locked her in a closet and deprived her of food and water as punishment. I am sure this man is a really nice guy and the woman just disappeared and he doesn't want to take a polygraph because ..????? All I can say is poor children,.
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Kev Bat
Fiber is good for my micro-bio !
05:07 PM on 12/01/2011
Florida ...the Ohio of the South !
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sassiestkat
If it walks & quacks like a duck, it's a cow
11:19 PM on 12/02/2011
West Virginia, Ohio only holds a close second..LOL :-)
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Maxedaddy
Leftwing extremist!
04:37 PM on 12/01/2011
Till death do us part! This guy really meant it!
02:54 PM on 12/01/2011
I dont think he was involed at all in her vanishing. They both have a violent past, she also has been arrested for domestic violence. How does she afford a house and a hummer as a bartender. I think she was doing something illegal and it did her in
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sassiestkat
If it walks & quacks like a duck, it's a cow
11:21 PM on 12/02/2011
HUmmer's are not the expensive and I understand that he pays for the home, I think? Additionally, she owns her own business, works at her mom's business, and works at a country bar.
07:52 AM on 12/03/2011
Tanning salon in Florida, that must do well in the Sunshine state lol
02:32 PM on 12/01/2011
If something does happen to the kids...god forbid...I still would feel that our system ruled in the only fair means possible. Every system has flaws, there is no way to prevent everything. If something happens to the kids, people would say that the judge cuased this by giving the suspect custody. But, if the suspect had his kids taken away from him, and later were to be proven innocent, people would say that it was ridiculous that he had his kids taken away without evidence that he was a danger to them and killed their mother.

Law has to be a standard that is used in all proceedings. I would be interseted to hear someones suggestion on how we could change our law to "change the outcome of this ruling" while at the same time being fair in every other charge against someone. We are innocent till proven guilty and thats the bottom line.
03:10 PM on 12/01/2011
I gree with the ruling, there is no evidence this poor man did anything wrong. He did nothing to his kids.
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devinegirls3
10:26 AM on 12/07/2011
are you a detective on the case?
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vcrozas
One can still have an opinion...right?
09:07 PM on 12/01/2011
You are right and then you have the you are proven not guilty and the jury says "that does not mean you are innocent,
02:31 PM on 12/01/2011
People...relax. While I do think there is a good chance that this man had something to do with/committed this crime, I think its ridiculous to say that our system is messed up or that the judge ruled in a crazy way. Unlike other countries, we are innocent until proven guilty. While there are times that people may get away with crimes becuase there is not conclusive evidence to convict, it is still by leaps and bounds the best and only way to fairly rule. Would you rather a place where you are guilty on suspicions until Proven innocent? This case hits a lot of people's hearts becuase it has to do with a young mother and twins and on the surface it looks like the husband definitely did it, especially with his past.

I think that if he did it, there has to be some sort of evidence that will surface and justice will prevail. In the meantime, I wouldn't rule out the possiblity that he didn't do it. As far as the kids are concerned, he has no proven evidence of ever harming them. Whatever may or may not have happened between him and his missing wife, I wouldn't say that automatically translates to the kids. Lets look at the possiblity that he is innocent. Would it be fair to not grant the father of the kids custody if he was NOT proven guilty yet?
02:17 PM on 12/01/2011
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Cayita
I suffer from low BS tolerance
12:33 PM on 12/01/2011
That Chicago cop Peterson with the 4th young wife that disappear, I think he killed her, even though no body had been found yet. The same for for the Powell guy in Utah and his missing wife. This case, not so much.

The TV show was taped weeks before the lady went missing. There is video of her leaving his house. No way he will kill her on the day the show aired.

"A child protection investigation was initiated after allegations of past domestic violence were reported to the agency through the abuse hotline," the agency said in a statement. "This report was generated AFTER the mother was reported missing to authorities."

Maternal grandma called. She simply wants the kids. If she was so concerned about the violence, why she did not report anything before? Answer: no need to, since she had access to the kids through the mother. Now that the mom is missing, daddy gets custody and grandma can not access the kids as she wants to. So she reports domestic violence.

I honestly think that the woman "missing" is a reality TV wannabe. She staged this to get her 15 minutes of fame.
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BeerLover
Carpe Diem!
10:55 AM on 12/01/2011
"he refused to take a lie detector test.... because they're unreliable".......ohhkay!

This judge is a genius... really.....and he's going to be making these type of decisions for the rest of his life.
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Complex757
Professional Cynic
10:51 AM on 12/01/2011
Why can't they stay with the grandparents or an uncle or aunt until he's been cleared as a suspect.
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Cayita
I suffer from low BS tolerance
12:18 PM on 12/01/2011
Because he is the father and he is only a suspect (not guilty yet). It was not proven that the children were in danger.
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Joebudgie
04:26 AM on 12/02/2011
The kids aren't in danger? Hmmm. "Smith's checkered past, however, may play a role in why police suspect he could be involved in Parker's disappearance. According to NBC's "Today" show, he was convicted of battery in the 1990s, serving 10 days in jail. His second wife, Shannon, died of an accidental drug overdose. In 1996, he joined the U.S. Marine Corps and was court martialed in 2001 and found guilty of drug and domestic battery charges. Smith was subsequently dishonorably discharged in 2003. More recently, in 2009, Parker attempted to obtain a restraining order against Smith, but the request was denied due to lack of evidence. " Have you hear the saying Where there's smoke there's fire? He is hardly a role model and not likely to win any Father of the year awards. But you want to leave the kids with him instead of relatives. There is no "proof" you would die if you shot yourself in the head, but because of other peoples experiences there is a great likelihood you would.
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hursh 4 ever
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06:54 AM on 12/02/2011
If the cops don't have any suspects at all, they find suspects... just saying...
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EdCorey1971
08:08 AM on 12/01/2011
Maybe she was a drug dealer and the deal went bad, especially considering that one word cryptic text message indicating a location. I don't put anything past people.
02:51 PM on 12/01/2011
I have said the same thing. How does she afford a house and a hummer as a bartender. I know she owns a tanning salon, tanning salons dont do that well in Florida. I think her ex has nothing to do with her vanishing, I believe she was dealing in something illegal, we all know she has a violent temper and was also charged with domestic violence
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EdCorey1971
03:17 PM on 12/01/2011
It's always funny to see people omit that she had a history of DV, or how they dismiss that she threw the ring at the guy. I think that she has anger issues without a doubt.
03:44 AM on 12/31/2011
She lived at home with her mommy. Where did you get she owned a house and charged with dv?
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