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First Posted: 12/02/2011 6:08 pm Updated: 12/05/2011 9:58 am

The woman -- dressed in a crisply-ironed blue dress, practical and polished flats and the perfect shade of red lipstick to complement her smooth alabaster skin and ebony hair -- approached the microphone. What she said next made the audience at an October forum on joblessness gasp.

"Ladies and gentlemen, I stand before you," Gayle Leslie said, "as a woman with a college degree, as someone who is incredibly well networked, congenial, flexible and determined and who has never stopped looking for work. But after almost three years without a job, I am also the face of homelessness."

The last time Leslie had a full-time job, she was responsible for producing voters for Barack Obama. Today, the 51-year-old former copywriter and event planner, is homeless.

Much ink has been spilled covering the so-called "mancession," and men's plight in the current recovery. Earlier this year, in a story titled "Dead Suit Walking," Newsweek asked readers to consider what would become of men after a decade of declining wages. In November, a piece in The Atlantic titled "All the Single Ladies," explored how men's economic decline has impacted women's search for romance. The piece generated so much online traffic that a producer optioned it for a possible television show.

Women's struggles are less well-known. "It's one of those things that has somehow stayed under the radar," said Joan Entmacher, vice president for Family Economic Security at the National Women's Law Center, a Washington, D.C.-based think tank.

Sixty-six percent of the government jobs lost since the recovery began were once held by women, according to a Women's Law Center analysis released Tuesday. Indeed, for women, much of the current joblessness, Entmacher said, traces back to the push to trim the size and spending of government. Congress has refused to pass bills that would have saved thousands of government jobs held by women, or that earmarked funding to create jobs for underrepresented groups in male-dominated industries such as construction.

On Friday the Labor Department announced that the unemployment rate among women fell to 7.8 percent in November from 8 percent the month before. The slight improvement belies the fact that the unemployment rate for women has been fairly stagnant since the recovery began in June 2009. Men have done better: Unemployment for men was 8.3 percent in November, down from 9.9 percent at the start of the recovery.

The reasons that men have regained jobs at a faster clip than women and have seen their collective situation improve since the recovery began are hard to explain, said Entmacher. "It isn't as if male-dominated industries have suddenly and really rebounded," she said.

The anecdotal stories that Entmacher hears from middle-aged and older women, left struggling with their finances and their identities, suggest that there's also a belief lingering in the culture that it's more important to put unemployed men back to work, she said.

Many believe that women will eventually see the same improvements in their job situation as men.

"I think with the changes that are happening in our culture and in our economy things that many women seem to do so well -- communicate, collaborate, multi-task and endure -- are in demand. We are poised to eventually fair really well," said Vicki Milazzo, an author of this year's "Wicked Success is Inside Every Woman," a New York Times bestseller.

Milazzo's words are cold comfort to many of the middle-aged women like Leslie who spoke to The Huffington Post recently.

After a childhood in Texas with what Leslie says are her dysfunctional parents, she thought she was on her way to a good and independent life when she graduated from college and moved to Manhattan in the 1980s.

"I always had these great apartments, and managed to make money," said Leslie, who never married.

After a few years, Leslie landed jobs coordinating major events like the Gotham Awards and celebrations at places such as St. John the Divine. She got into fundraising for nonprofit agencies and eventually moved on to the work of copywriting ads. In 2008, both of Leslie's now divorced parents were also coping with health problems so serious that she didn't expect one of them to live. "So I decided to go home and try again to do the good daughter thing," Leslie said.

The situation was fraught. Her father was so passionately opposed to Obama being elected that his pre-meal prayers included the n-word and a request that Obama lose. Then, one night Leslie awoke to find her stepmother in her room expressing disdain for sinners and, Leslie thought, people like her. Leslie felt she couldn't stay. But, her savings had dwindled to practically nothing.

Leslie found a spot at the local women's emergency shelter then got a job with the Walker County Democratic Party. When the election was over, Leslie was able to get back to New York. She lived on her unemployment benefits, thinking it would be a matter of time before she found a job. Then in 2010, the benefits ran out.

Now, she's depending on the kindness of friends. She splits her time between sending out resumes, hunting for her next temporary sleeping spot and writing a book about her life. To get by, Leslie rations everything -- subway passes, cellphone minutes and even that red lipstick -- so that she will have them if, and when, she gets a job interview.

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The woman -- dressed in a crisply-ironed blue dress, practical and polished flats and the perfect shade of red lipstick to complement her smooth alabaster skin and ebony hair -- approached the microph...
The woman -- dressed in a crisply-ironed blue dress, practical and polished flats and the perfect shade of red lipstick to complement her smooth alabaster skin and ebony hair -- approached the microph...
 
 
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10:04 PM on 12/06/2011
Event Planning might work. The present day problems started before Our President was elected. We probably all forgot that TARP was started in 2008 before President Obama was elected. Two wars with the wrong countries just left us financially strapped and now they are looking at us for money when we do not have any. Too bad it was all started years ago when the former President was on his way out.
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TexasBahr
act as you would like to be treated
03:37 PM on 12/06/2011
Leslie's story is a sad story that is probably not atypical of current times. The jobs situation will not change until we vote out the tea partyers and many of the obstructionists in the Republican party and those 3 or 4 Democrats that have consistently voted with the republicans.
The president's jobs bill, a veryfundamentall plan that gets people back to work rebuilding this countries infrastructure has been and continually gets blocked by the republicans solely because they cannot live with a bill in which the president sponsors even though the majority of the legislation proposed by the president is the same legislation proposed by the republicans in prior legislation. As long as the GOP refuse to increase taxes on the 1% so that they pay their fair share we will continue to have high unemployment. One would have to be blind to not see the draconian measures that the GOP takes every single day.
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parabq
03:17 PM on 12/06/2011
The American dream has been destroyed by the political class, the bankers and government !!
Welcome to the new America. Citizens have trusted govt to do the right thing and this is the result.
America should be ashamed !!
02:22 PM on 12/06/2011
She had enough assets to last her three years. Most families don't have enough to last three months. We would all do well to take an assessment of what we can live without and still get by. I have friends who lost their home to foreclosure and now live on a 30' sailboat. They are in their 60's, and they are not devastated; they are going hapily along. With their pension and retirement, they have enough for food, boat slip rental, car insurance. They have medicare. They put their equity into a house they thought would continue to appreciate; it didn't; both lost their part time jobs and could no longer afford the mortgage which was by then under water. So there goes their equity, but they are still OK.
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yogajan
Well behaved women rarely make history
09:41 PM on 12/05/2011
It was an interesting story until the part that she is going to write a book. I am cynical, but it seems like everyone who has a tough time in life thinks it is worthy of a book. Write if it makes you feel better, if it sharpens your skills, but don't expect to make money on it.
03:50 PM on 12/05/2011
It is a tough thing when you have elderly parents......regardless of what they have done there is still the need to mend fences and assist them.

Women have it exteremely tough, if divorced and making a decent living....well your paying to get your kids through the best schools, get the best help and try to make up for an absent parent. Then you turn around and the elderly pull at you hems....before you know it you look at your retirement and it is not enough.


But worldwide women are screwed if they are not super models trophy wives or daddys little rich girl
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jkkFL
microbio refusé, je vous refusez
08:06 PM on 12/05/2011
f&f
You've been livin in the Real world.
09:48 AM on 12/06/2011
Yes I have, and I was the lucky one.....I fought to get ahead. I will not bang my own drum, and I should have been more successful, but I understand what it takes to move out of lower social economic groups. It is difficult mentally and emotionally.... that is way we need the best school teachers in the system to help kids, we throw everything at the "top kids" and then ignor the marginal and confused.

But this is the way the world is and the top does not care.
09:49 AM on 12/06/2011
Also, thanks.....for the acknowledgement.
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Anne Rutherford
01:55 PM on 12/05/2011
There are few professions where being older, or more experienced are a plus. There are so many things people are missing, like employers chosing to hire younger, less experienced workers for less money; age discrimination in some fields; and the fact that overall, women still earn less than men for comparable work. In general, older workers are not doing well in finding work in this recession.

This is just one story and it can't all be blamed on the fact that she worked for a President you don't like, or on the fact that she attempted to mend fences with her family or anything else. The economy is tight and if you are "over qualified" (like for working at convenience stores, McDonald's and the like) - you won't get hired- no matter what. It is just a difficult time out here.
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European1919
I am the Pigmâ’¶n
07:42 AM on 12/05/2011
Exactly. We need more unemployment for women, so more men can go back to work to feed their families, pay their alimony/child support and feel like they're a worthy member of society once again.
02:15 PM on 12/05/2011
So basically, those of us who are older would be better off sitting in an empty house all day instead of working?
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jkkFL
microbio refusé, je vous refusez
08:13 PM on 12/05/2011
Who the hell has a house?
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DixieMelody
Iso Blue in Red Idaho
10:56 PM on 12/04/2011
She escaped her hateful, judgmental, fundamentalist, uneducated, narrow-minded, bigoted parents and her Texas roots but. . .

She then CHOSE to return for more abuse. . . and stayed while her savings dwindled away.

It sounds like her life might have stayed on a more even keel but for that misstep.

However, I wonder if there is even one among us who doesn't look back and cringe at our own "What was I thinking?" life-altering mistakes.
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election2012
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01:14 AM on 12/05/2011
And she had Democratic campaigns on her resume while applying for a job in a Red state. No doubt employers took that incompatibility into account.
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ShirleeK
08:46 PM on 12/04/2011
I've read many of these comments and I have to say I cannot find much to be optimistic about. I'm reading so much mean-spiritedness, so much acrimony. It doesn't seem possible to have a rational discussion about where we are and how we're going to get out of this mess. Incredibly it appears that many of you are nostalgic for the robber barrons and exploitation of workers and the environment. God bless us everyone.
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DixieMelody
Iso Blue in Red Idaho
10:35 PM on 12/04/2011
I was with you until the "God bless us everyone."

Would that be the "God" who is supposedly omnipotent and has allowed (or orchestrated) the turmoil our world is in?

We are on our own, and we would probably stand a better chance of setting things right and getting along with each other if religion was taken out of any model for change.
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ShirleeK
01:51 PM on 12/05/2011
I'm sorry,sometimes subtleties get lost in print. It was a snarky seasonal reference to A Christmas Carol - set in an era that some seem to hunger for. I think Tiny Tim said it.
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election2012
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08:24 PM on 12/04/2011
There are 7,910 search results for 'Copywriter' in NYC. Get the picture?
01:37 PM on 12/05/2011
She can possibly apply for the 7,910 and still not get a call for an interview. The problem is not applying, but getting the interview. I believe that most jobs sites do not maintain their sites when it comes to removal of jobs that are no longer available.
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01:52 PM on 12/05/2011
No ~8,000 copywriters on LinkedIn in NYC. Not job ads.
04:42 PM on 12/04/2011
"Cute" headline: "Many Baby Boom Women Going Bust in Recovery" That's right, they are all tripple "D" now:

Dejected
Deleveraged
Distressed Asset
rdk70816
Yellowhammer
02:56 PM on 12/04/2011
Has Leslie thought about moving? What are her skills? Shilling for Obama was her downfall; does she now realize it? What kind of job will she accept? Are her views of herself too lofty when compared to all her skills?
04:59 PM on 12/04/2011
Dumb and dumber. Whereas women in Middle Eastern countries are forced into visible "burkas", American working women are forced into invisible "burkas", but with the same effect, namely disenfranchisement.
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Yellowhammer
05:27 PM on 12/04/2011
No one is entitled. Women have to earn their way, and so should you.
12:12 AM on 12/05/2011
Hah, nice.
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12:24 PM on 12/04/2011
Guess she will be voting for the conservatives next year eh?
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structurequity
structurequity not oppression
12:06 PM on 12/04/2011
Women keep us afloat they raise the children, raise the food, herd the animals and mostly stay steadily on course through lives that at times speak of quiet desperation, as for us men, well we too do our share but in fits and starts compared to them...