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Scarlett Johansson's Marriage To Ryan Reynolds 'Was The Best Thing That I Ever Did'

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First Posted: 12/02/11 06:51 PM ET Updated: 12/02/11 06:55 PM ET

Scarlett Johansson opened up about her divorce from Ryan Reynolds in Cosmopolitan's January issue, on newsstands now. The usually tight-lipped actress said that she does not regret her two-year marriage.

"I'm a big believer that when something feels right, you should do it," she said. "I'm a big believer in instinct. Getting married was the right thing to do because it was natural. It grew out of a romance and love and a desire to have a future with somebody and I was very fortunate that I married somebody who turned out to be the person I thought he would be."

The star couple married in 2008, though they split two years later in 2010. Johansson attributes their divorce to hectic work schedules, admitting that she was not prepared to handle the ups and downs of maintaining a marriage.

"Relationships are complicated.. and being married is a living, breathing process. I think I was not fully aware of the peaks and the valleys. I wasn't prepared to hunker down and do the work," she told the magazine. "Both of us were extremely busy. We spent so much time apart. It's very difficult. It's bad."

However, being married taught Johansson a valuable life lesson: "You have to be very confident and solid within yourself to have a successful marriage."

And though the currently single actress misses "having a partner and a confidant," she affirmed that her marriage was nothing but positive.

"It seemed like a very romantic thing to do, and it was. It was the best thing that I ever did," she said.

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Scarlett Johansson opened up about her divorce from Ryan Reynolds in Cosmopolitan's January issue, on newsstands now. The usually tight-lipped actress said that she does not regret her two-year marria...
Scarlett Johansson opened up about her divorce from Ryan Reynolds in Cosmopolitan's January issue, on newsstands now. The usually tight-lipped actress said that she does not regret her two-year marria...
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04:36 PM on 07/08/2012
What a very mature and positive thing to say.
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01:30 PM on 12/05/2011
Scarlett, you are hot and a movie star so ANYTHING you think or don't think, do or not-do, is awesomely-perfect and way-always-appropriate!! You are some awesomely-perfectly-rightly-about-everythingly!!
11:06 PM on 02/03/2012
so sad that you think a human is a god. all the best to you with that. celebrity marriages fail more than the average because they're screwed in the head. that's why they're so good at acting. they are mostly borderline personalities who haven't got a clue how to be themselves. for you to think as you do, demonstates a strong need for therapy, just like 99.9% of actors!
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04:07 AM on 02/04/2012
Nice to see another product of a fine public education.
10:00 AM on 12/04/2011
Sorry her marriage ended, but, nice to hear someone speaking positively about marriage and former partner. Her statements reflect maturity. All relationships require sacrifice, prioritization and effort. It is all worthwhile, especially for couples that desire children and a family.
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MeMyselfI
keep ur words soft n sweet cuz u may hve to eat em
09:50 AM on 12/04/2011
I always get the feeling that with time and maturity these two may find a way to grow old together.
08:21 AM on 12/04/2011
and somewhere alanis is laughing her a o.
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wedgie
MegaSAHD is where its @
07:55 AM on 12/04/2011
If possible, choosing to say nice things about your former lover/spouse is always a worthwhile and positive thing.
03:16 AM on 12/04/2011
I am available. I would be supportive and I would accommodate her complicated schedule.
12:52 AM on 12/04/2011
Anyone who is married for only two years really can't speak on marriage. Unless a situation develops where there is physical abuse, emotional abuse or terrible substance abuse, what is the reason for dissolving your marriage after such a short time? Balancing two careers of any sort anywhere isn't easy, especially without the sorts of paychecks these two make, so that as a reasonable reason doesn't fly.

Might as well have simply dated.
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Stephen Thorpe
Every breath you take - I'll take one too!
11:23 PM on 12/03/2011
Okay, I'll be there for you Scarlett.
So what do you say?
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wakawaka09
Capitalism is a cult.
08:51 PM on 12/03/2011
Historically, marriage is a business arrangement. Now it's about love, commitment, and hard work, yeah lot's and lot's of hard work. Let's work at keeping a marriage fresh and romantic and spontaneous. And remember, don't be a quitter.Don't quit on love.
09:48 PM on 12/03/2011
Among these publicity-seeking celebrities, marriage is most definitely still a business arrangement.
10:59 PM on 12/03/2011
Since marriage is no longer a business arrangement it has become harder to maintain. Often the only justifications are religious or a deep shared sense of mission. Most marriages do not have what it takes really, even if they do keep it together. Marriage is often a bad idea based on emotion without adequate thought and planning. It can never be less than highly risky. I would never recommend it to anybody. People should only do it if they absolutely must.

But once you are in it, I think you are right. Ya gotta stick with it, but I don't think it is about not quitting on love. It is about honoring one's commitments. At least that is why my marriage has held together. So far.

The business model made more sense.
09:49 PM on 12/22/2011
It would be very sad if the only reason you remain married is to honour your commitment. If that is why you are staying married to me please find the closest door and walk right on through. A business model may have made sense from a man's perspective but how many woman were forced to have sex with a partner they were not attracted to? Any idea how traumatic and repulsive that is? Women now have choices, thank God. All that said, I would chose Ryan Reynolds any day of the week!
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gerbersmail
One who doesn't laugh doesn't live
08:23 PM on 12/03/2011
It makes you wonder if they sat down and discussed their work issues BEFORE they decided to get married. They were both working actors at the time of marriage. What changed?
08:11 PM on 12/03/2011
And if I were married to Scarlett, i would give up my career and stay home to take care of her!!!! That is if she is a nice person otherwise....
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Lynda Filler
Telling it the way I see it.
08:06 PM on 12/03/2011
Classy.
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jmslotnick
mother of 3 & 2 are twins.
07:37 PM on 12/03/2011
Two careers in a marriage in Hollywood is not easy. But I will tell you if I had married Ryan Reynolds, I would not hesitate to give up my career if it were just an average one and glady stay home and be Mrs. Reynolds and take good care of him in every way possible.
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JC2009USA
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07:19 PM on 12/03/2011
You know there are three sides to every story...hers, his and the truth...each persons view may be different than the other person...marriage is a circle of compromise, tolerance, ups, downs, and hanging on tight a good deal of the time, it's forgiveness, it's understanding, it's rolling up your sleeves and working hard and it's putting the other person and their dreams ahead of your own...sometimes it's sacrafice...but all of that only works if BOTH people do the same thing and only while you respect the other person...to me once the respect goes...you can't get it back no matter how much you love the other person... we've only heard her side of the story...Ryan's side might be completely different...and the truth probably falls somewhere in the middle...

I do respect the fact that no matter what happend she isn't throwing him under the bus...she is taking the high road...and that doesn't really happen very often...