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Christopher Smeltzer, New Hampshire Man, Sentenced To 15 To 30 Years In Mentally Ill Wife's Death

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By LYNNE TUOHY   12/ 2/11 02:52 PM ET   AP

BRENTWOOD, N.H. -- A New Hampshire man was sentenced Friday to 15 to 30 years in prison for beating his mentally ill wife to death with a flashlight after he came home to find she had strangled their 4-year-old son with a ribbon and tried to kill their 7-year-old daughter.

Christopher Smeltzer, 39, pleaded guilty to killing Mara Pappalardo, who was hospitalized several times for mental illness. Prosecutors say she was paranoid, obsessed with death and convinced her husband and mother-in-law were plotting to take her children away.

Smeltzer initially was charged with second-degree manslaughter. Prosecutors at his plea hearing in October changed the charge to manslaughter by provocation in deference to the horrific scene that triggered his actions.

The 90-minute sentencing took place in a Rockingham Superior courtroom. There was tension between members of Smeltzer's family and his wife's. And at one point, a member of her family shouted to Smeltzer that God will be the judge of his actions.

Judge Tina Nadeau questioned whether the outcome would have been the same had Smeltzer not used drugs that night, but she acknowledged that he must have had an extreme emotional reaction to what greeted him when he came home. She said nothing she could do or say would lessen the grief for the families.

Nadeau imposed the sentence the state requested, including a provision that five years will be suspended if he earns his college degree and takes anger management classes. With the suspension and credit for time served since his arrest, Smeltzer could be free in nine years.

Adam Roz, a cousin of Pappalardo who was first to speak for the family before the judge imposed the sentence, faulted Smeltzer for leaving his wife alone with their children that night, and said he failed as a father, a husband and human being.

But Roz also spread the blame more widely.

"In my heart, I feel anyone sitting here today should have, could have, but just plain didn't act," Roz said. "For that, we're all guilty of this tragedy."

Senior Assistant Attorney General Jane Young said what happened at the Smeltzer home Nov. 7, 2010 "was simply a tragedy." The voices of the two survivors of that tragedy – Smeltzer and his daughter – were heard publicly for the first time during Friday's sentencing. A tape recording of Mercey reading a letter to the judge was played by her lawyer; the girl did not attend the hearing.

Mercey's young voice hushed the courtroom. "I am mad and sad that my Daddy killed my Mommy and brother Mason," she says on the tape. The girl, who lives with one of her mother's sisters, ends by saying, "Please keep him in jail for the rest of his life."

Young said Mercey's statement contradicts what she said in the days after the attacks and to her counselor.

"There's no evidence we have been able to find that supports her statement today that Mr. Smeltzer killed Mason," Young said. "You heard a reading from an 8-year-old girl who has suffered more trauma than any of us could understand."

Smeltzer said he wished he had a "rewind button" to go back and change what he did, including leaving his delusional wife to do cocaine and smoke crack with his friends. He came home, prosecutors say, to find his son strangled, his daughter dangling off the bed with a scarf wound around her neck and his wife in the throes of a suicide attempt.

"As soon as I saw my son I knew something was very wrong," Smeltzer said, choking with emotion. "I knew he was dead and I lost all control. Enraged, I struck my wife. I did something that was not going to bring my son back."

Smeltzer believed his daughter was dead as well. Prosecutors say toxicology tests confirm he took a large quantity of pills in an effort to take his own life. They say Mercey awakened him the next morning and asked if her mother and brother were breathing, and asked her father to make her some tea.

Young said the girl repeatedly told investigators it was her mother who carried her into the master bedroom and it was her father who removed the scarf from her neck.

Defense attorney John Newman asked the judge to impose a 7 1/2 to 10 year sentence, saying he could think of no greater provocation to manslaughter than Smeltzer picking up his dead son, putting his mouth to his son's mouth only to find it ice cold.

"Mercey is an innocent victim of Chris's actions as well as Mara's actions," Newman said. "Chris is painfully aware his actions were wrong."

Pappaladro's sisters spoke of her passion for nature and reading and dreams of writing children's books one day.

"She believed in God, the saints, the power of prayer and love and even in magic," her sister, Mona Harris, said.

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08:47 PM on 12/23/2011
I am glad to read that 98% of the people who have given their opinion here agree to the fact that the father shouldn't have gotten such a hard sentence. I don't understand how would it be different if someone comes in the middle of the night and strangles one of my 4 children, and I kill the person...., everyone would agree that I did what was right..., but in this case he gets blamed and harshly sentenced because the person he killed was his own wife who killed his son???!!!!
We love our baby (8 yrs old) we still think he is our "little one." I can imagine this man getting home and expecting Mason to come greet him at the door to find him dead in HIS OWN BED!!! I find that killing his wife was nothing (though not accepted.) he should have chopped her to pieces....!!!! I cannot imagine being in his shoes...! The pain of losing "a little one...mercilessly," can do that and more from a father who truly loves a son. Think of it..., this man's dream of a baby boy came true when Mason was born..., and "mom" KILLED him???!!!
The wife's sisters should also have their head chopped for putting all these horrible thoughts into this poor girl's mind!!! No one is using their brain lately..., sorry to say: TO INCLUDE THE JUDGE!!!
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11:10 AM on 12/05/2011
Here's a much more in depth article. it seems she was scheduled to see a doctor the next day. Another source mentioned that he had initially gone out to get her medicine for a headache. He then purchased/used the cocaine and later met friends at a restaurant. They had been foreclosed upon and she had been hospitalized three times in the six month prior to the murder/suicide. They had moved in with his mother then gone back to their home the day before the murder.

http://www.seacoastonline.com/articles/20111006-NEWS-110060410

Sounds like they were trying to have help around. Sad all around.
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03:50 AM on 12/05/2011
That little girl needs some serious counseling ASAP. Who put the idea that her dad killed her brother in her head and if it is so why is that not what she said initially? I am very concerned for this yongster as this needs to be addressed so that she can understand what really happened.
12:55 PM on 12/05/2011
It's clearly the wife's family--that is so reprehensible it's beyond words.
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04:28 PM on 12/05/2011
I agree. While they may be trying to spare the child from what both parents did she will eventually come to realise the truth and turning her against her father, who overreacted passionately, will not help her understand or heal. While what he did was wrong, he did it out of his love for his children. Later in life she may want to know him and all children have the right to make their own decisions as to how they feel about a particular parent's character. As in a divorce, it is advised to keep negative opinions to one's self and let the child establish a relationship and form their own opinion. Kids are far better judges of character than they are given credit for. He will get out some day and she will be all he has left on the outside.
11:53 PM on 12/04/2011
The letter from the daughter sounds... unreal.
12:57 PM on 12/05/2011
It's clearly rehearsed/being read--so bizarre...
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MissTake1989
Equal means equal, hypocrites.
05:26 PM on 12/04/2011
So, Barbara Sheehan is allowed to murder her husband at her convenience because he may have hit her once...but this man is going to jail???

Can anyone explain the world to me?

I don't get it. Such injustice...
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08:40 PM on 12/04/2011
"May have hit her once?" What sad statement. From a woman, no less. Read her adult children's account of years of abuse.
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MissTake1989
Equal means equal, hypocrites.
09:31 PM on 12/04/2011
I have no pity for people who choose to stay in abusive relationships, especially those who keep children in such an environment.

It's not self defense if what you are defending yourself against happened a day, week, month or years ago.
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11:37 PM on 12/04/2011
I think the sentence is excessive too. But i have just read up on the Sheehan case. While there were some glitches in the testimony of events, it was pretty clear that she was constantly threatened. When both adult children, co-workers, friends, and acquaintances of the husband all testify that they knew of or suspected severe abuse... It is pretty compelling.
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MissTake1989
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07:00 AM on 12/05/2011
I believe abused people should leave abusive relationships immediately.

I don't believe they should have the right to stay, tolerate the abuse indefinitely, and then, on a whim, be allowed to legally kill the abuser.

That's essentially a codependent form of premeditated murder.
04:30 PM on 12/04/2011
He should have divorced her long ago,or atleast never left the kids alone with her.Bummer he goes to jail.
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03:44 PM on 12/04/2011
The wife's family must be delusional to blame everyone BUT the mother. If as they say, she
loved God, the power of prayer, etc. then she should have NEVER, EVER KILLED HER CHILD.
I'm sure the family knew full well this woman was mentally ill yet they did nothing to help get
her the mental treatment she needed. Now of course, they blame the husband for the murder. I
wonder what any of us would have done coming into the same horror.
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03:25 PM on 12/04/2011
Honestly, if it is true the Mother killed the son...I don't know if I would have found this guy guilty.
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08:47 PM on 12/04/2011
He wasnt charged in the sons death, so either the prosecution didnt believe he had committed that crime or that they didnt have evidence to convict him of that crime.
09:55 PM on 12/04/2011
i'm pretty sure the prosecution believed his story about what happened since they charged him with "manslaughter by provocation in deference to the horrific scene that triggered his actions." It even says that they reduced the charge (at first he was charged with second degree manslaughter) and they wouldn't have reduced it if they thought he had killed his wife and son in a coked out rage or something.
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08:12 AM on 12/05/2011
Seems like a really long sentence....honestly I would have had trouble finding him guilty...but at least the prosecuter did not go for the chair.
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02:34 PM on 12/04/2011
I'm speechless and can't say a thing here---double edge sword---
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11:34 AM on 12/04/2011
One parent was paranoid schizophrenic, the other was addicted to crack cocaine. The inlaws were negligent in not trying to have these kids removed and placed in a healthier environment long before this happened.
12:01 PM on 12/04/2011
Let's not jump to conclusions on her diagnosis. None of us are psych doctors. Her symptoms actually could be a number of diagnoses. I do know that statistically speaking, schizophrenics are at the bottom of the ladder for committing crimes of passion.
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12:38 PM on 12/04/2011
Ok, allow me to revise my comment then. She was mentally unfit to care for the kids, and he was too addicted to crack to care.
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11:30 AM on 12/04/2011
The article doesn't reveal what specific mental illness the wife was dignosed with, but according to the discription of her symptoms, it sounds like schizophrenia.
11:40 AM on 12/04/2011
Those symptoms (paranoia, obsessed with death, dangerous behavior) could be applied to many mental illness diagnoses, so let's not be so quick to pin it on schizophrenia. I've done my homework on that and as it turns out, most crimes of this nature are not committed by schizophrenics at all: schizophrenics have the lowest crime rate of all of the mental illnesses.
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09:03 PM on 12/04/2011
They do have the lowest rates of violence, but it can still occur. You're right tho the symptoms are far too vague to guess and it said she was simply paranoid not delusional. If she had a history or stimulant use too that can cause the paranoia.
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11:25 AM on 12/04/2011
In my opinion, a polygraph exam should've been administered to this man. Next, I can empathize with his "crime of passion." How do you come in and see your children dead or on the verge of death at the hands of their "mentally ill' mother, his wife, and not lose control?
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11:19 AM on 12/04/2011
Case of Andrea Yates, woman who drowned her children in the bathtub, yet, was left alone, when her husband knew she was emotionally unstable. I don't walk in this man's shoes and perhaps family and friends were alienated and they had no one to depend on for help. There are always hospitals, agencies that send home care persons or neighbors that would be willing to assist anyone in need. My heart goes out to this young girl for the trauma she's experienced and now estranged from her parents and seeing her brother being murdered and mom at the hands of her father. Horrific. May God Bless this child and the loved ones of all this family, may they have a comfort in healing.
11:44 AM on 12/04/2011
It reminded me of the Andrea Yates case, also. You have something that is important to consider: many family members become embarrassed of the mental illness "stigma" and thereby alienate the patient and their families. You're right that there are agencies and people willing to help, but in most cases, CPS is involved and are quick to try to take the children away. CPS are really also very dangerous to children as they often very quickly take the children and place them in abusive foster homes. My heart goes out to the entire family, but especially the children. It's easy for us, as outsiders, to sit here and say, "this is wrong" or "that is wrong", but truly everyone here is a victim, but none moreso than the innocent children.
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09:07 PM on 12/04/2011
And if they were involved in illegal drug use you dont want to invite the police. Sometime too (I have family members that are ill) it just becomes "normal". Eventually folks become blind to the extent of the problem.
07:55 PM on 12/12/2011
It's not just the stigma. The standard of protecting the civil rights of the mentally ill is so high that it can be difficult to prove that someone is a danger to herself or her children. He may not have been able to protect his children. I feel bad about the whole situation. Everyone suffered. It is not easy to deal with a mentally ill spouse and know the right thing to do, especially since they don't act mentally ill 100 percent of the time and you don't always know how to force them into treatment.
11:16 AM on 12/04/2011
i do find this guy guilty of accidnetal manslaughter in the case of the 4 year old,he should not have left the kids alone with that psycho.i would have beaten my husband to death to if i came home to find my 4 year old dead ,clearly the little girl is being told her daddy strangled her brother,she will eventually learn the truth.it takes many years of school to learn how to deal with these crazies.my mother is schitzo .it was a very hard life ,my father worked 90 hour weeks so we were left with her ,no one had a clue that the reason she was such a miserable person was cuz she was psychotic.Just sayin i do not fault this guy for beatin this woman to death ,how do you think the 4 year old felt when mommy was strangling him.
11:38 AM on 12/04/2011
That is what I got from listening to her tape as well-- that someone had made her believe DADDY killed her brother and mother. So sad.
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09:08 PM on 12/04/2011
I agree. She will probably never have a healthy relationship with him again - why cant people leave the kids out of it.
10:54 PM on 12/04/2011
i know this is truly a tragedy,daddy only killed mommy cuz mommy was a psycho who strangled her brother,hopefully this little girl will find out the truth when she gets older
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11:15 AM on 12/04/2011
Control of rage, however, this case, I see my children killed at the hands of my spouse, I don't know if I'd have the control to not reach out and kill the abuser. What his first reaction would've been to do was take his surviving child to a neighbor's, call 911 and leave his alleged "menatally ill" wife until the police, emts, etc., arrived. Now he's spending 15-30 years in prison for the murder of his wife, and his little girl will be in Foster Care, or the care of a reliable relative, not having either parent, and the trauma of knowing both parents murdered her loved ones.
Horrible, how does one leave an unstable, "menatlly ill" person alone with young children? Why wasn't another person watching her and the children while he was out of the house, or that he should've taken both children with him or let them stay with other relatives or a friend?
11:35 AM on 12/04/2011
I think this is a point that not many consider-- I'm a mentally ill person btw (treated and stable). Many people disagree that MENTAL illness is indeed an illness at all. My husband used to say to my psychiatrist, "Is she really this ill, or is she just looking for attention. Maybe this is just her personality and she's just a horrible person!" What I'm trying to say is that people don't get it, or they don't wish to accept their spouses are ill, etc. I'm not saying that's right per say, just saying that is how society handles mental illness. If she had a physical illness, he would have taken pity on her and forced her to get treatment, but being that she was mentally ill, I'd say he was probably just embarrassed and unwilling to admit it to anyone she was sick. No one wants the stigma, you know? He should be ashamed of not doing what he should have done as their father and as her husband, to prevent all of this!
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09:09 PM on 12/04/2011
Fanned.
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12:01 AM on 12/05/2011
You're blaming him for this? You're right, you are mentally ill, and I'm not sure about the stable part.
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12:04 AM on 12/05/2011
There's a lot of post on here blaming him for leaving the children with their mentally ill mother. If I'm not mistaken and missing something from the article, she was legally their mother, so why WOULDN'T he leave them in her care, as he has probably done many times before.
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11:16 AM on 12/05/2011
I have no problems with him leaving - she had shown no signs of harming the kids prior to this. But she had been hospitalized three times in the six months prior to the murder and according to another article he knew her illness was escalating. I think though they were trying to take care of it. She had a dr. appointment the next day and had been living with his mother. I certainly dont think he is at fault for her illness or leaving them. The cocaine use wasnt the best idea...