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Gulnare Free Will Baptist Church In Kentucky Revisits Interracial Couple Ban After Uproar

By DYLAN LOVAN   12/ 2/11 11:45 PM ET   AP

LOUISVILLE, Ky. -- When Stella Harville brought her black boyfriend to her family's all-white church in rural Kentucky, she thought nothing of it. She and Ticha Chikuni worshipped there whenever they were in town, and he even sang before the congregation during one service.

Then in August, a member of Gulnare Free Will Baptist Church told Harville's father that Chikuni couldn't sing there anymore. And last Sunday, in a moment that seems from another time, church members voted 9-6 to bar mixed-race couples from joining the congregation.

The policy has drawn a firestorm of criticism in just a few days and sent church leaders scrambling to overturn it, perhaps as early as Sunday. The executive secretary of the church's national organization said he has been inundated with angry phone calls, and had an inch-high stack of emails printed out on his desk.

"We are not a group of racist people," said Keith Burden of the National Association of Free Will Baptists. "We have been labeled that obviously because of the actions of nine people."

The resolution approved by the Gulnare church says it does not condone interracial marriage and "parties of such marriages will not be received as members, nor will they be used in worship services and other church functions, with the exception being funerals."

Ballots were cast after the service, attended by about 35 to 40 people, but it wasn't clear why so few people voted.

The church member and former pastor who pushed for the vote, Melvin Thompson, wouldn't tell The Associated Press why he did it.

"I am not racist. I will tell you that. I am not prejudiced against any race of people, have never in my lifetime spoke evil" about a race, Thompson said earlier this week in a brief interview. "That's what this is being portrayed as, but it is not."

Thompson stepped down as pastor earlier this year for health reasons, according to Harville's dad, Dean Harville. He said it was Thompson who told him that Chikuni couldn't sing at the church, a small, one-story red brick building with few windows and a white steeple.

After giving interviews earlier this week, the church's current pastor, Stacy Stepp, and several other church members did not return phone calls Friday. One of the members said they were shocked. Stepp said he voted against the measure and would work to overturn it.

The national group distanced itself from the resolution in a statement Thursday, saying it "neither condemns nor disallows" interracial marriage.

It said the church was working to reverse its policy and added, "We encourage the church to follow through with this action."

Harville, who is now engaged to Chikuni, said earlier this week that she felt betrayed by the church.

"Whether they keep the vote or overturn it, it's going to be hard for me go back there," she told AP.

Gulnare is a small town in Pike County, in eastern Kentucky. The county celebrates its Appalachian heritage in the spring with the Hillbilly Days Festival in downtown Pikeville, the county seat, and the Apple Blossom Festival in Elkhorn City, according to a tourism website.

Harville is working on her master's degree in optical engineering at an Indiana college. She met Chikuni, who is from Zimbabwe, at Georgetown College in central Kentucky.

"It's like we were kind of blindsided," Harville said of the church's action.

More than 40 years ago, the U.S. Supreme Court knocked down a Virginia statute barring whites from marrying nonwhites, overturning bans in 15 other states. But while interracial marriages have soared since then, many churches remain largely segregated.

Curtiss Paul DeYoung, a professor at Bethel College who has studied interracial churches, said church members opposed to a more diverse church usually just go somewhere else.

"Rarely today do you see it so blatantly come to a vote. Usually people just leave but they don't say much about it," DeYoung said. "I think this is still one of the last hurdles around race for a lot of folks in this country. It's just rarely stated this bluntly."

The Free Will Baptists trace their history to the 18th century. They emphasized the Arminian doctrine of free will, free grace, and free salvation, in contrast to most Baptists, who were Calvinists and believed Christ died only for those predestined to be saved.

There are some 4,200 churches worldwide. The National Association of Free Will Baptists organized in Nashville, Tenn., in 1935 and is now based in Antioch, Tenn.

The group said in its statement that the denomination has no official policy regarding interracial couples "because it has not been an issue."

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Gunfighter
Unapologetic member of the Christian Left.
10:11 AM on 12/28/2011
Why is this posted in Black Voices?
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Gunfighter
Unapologetic member of the Christian Left.
10:00 AM on 12/28/2011
The most segregated place in America is a church on Sunday morning.
05:56 PM on 12/21/2011
Ah, the galant South! Underneath the choir robes you'll always find the white sheets and hoods.
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Gunfighter
Unapologetic member of the Christian Left.
10:00 AM on 12/28/2011
Well, to be sure, it isn't just the south.
03:37 PM on 12/28/2011
You're absolutely right. But you can "feel" the difference when you cross that Mason Dixon line.
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iknowscottyknows
07:38 PM on 12/19/2011
Jeremiah Wright, Obama's Pastor for years, spoke against interracial marriage.
05:50 PM on 12/21/2011
Well, when you take a look and how white folks behave, can you blame him???
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iknowscottyknows
07:21 PM on 12/29/2011
If our own perceptions are what define racism, we are all blameless.
01:59 AM on 12/18/2011
ACTUALLY............THIS NON-SENSE IS NOT WORTH ANY ATTENTION.
LOL
11:34 AM on 12/15/2011
the bible does not say a word about interracial marriages, it does say something about marrying outside the faith, what kind of church is this? somebody read the bible before they start voting
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Helen G Thomas
06:10 PM on 12/08/2011
Racist thinking/racism stems from an inherent fear of inferiority.
Unfortunately, caucasians operate, for the most part, out of the fear that they really are inferior in some deep way and in order to combat that feeling, they have created an artificial 'superiority' that, no matter what they do, still doesn't work for them.
I actually feel great compassion for them. Because they are actually their own worst enemy.
05:51 PM on 12/21/2011
Yep. It's psychology 101.
10:48 AM on 12/08/2011
I ll stick to my xbox and watch football and ufc all sunday ... so i don't have to deal with these nut-bars
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Helen G Thomas
06:05 PM on 12/08/2011
And that is your choice, just as it is my choice to commit that day to learning more about the Goodness of the GOD I serve, and learning to submit myself to HIS Will.
As for your question of whether or not we choose our parent, in this case, the case of choosing GOD as FATHER, yes, I can and do choose. That's what's so great about really truly knowing what being born again of the SPIRIT of the LIVING GOD is all about.
12:26 AM on 12/15/2011
CAPITALIZATION
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rtgmath
There has got to be a better way!
05:55 PM on 12/06/2011
Ahh, so they decided after all that they are not racist, that they have never been racist, and that they will welcome interracial couples. The whole nation simply misunderstood the whole silly thing. Banning interracial couples from church membership or participation was really just a reasonable thing, considering, ..., uh, ..., considering, .... Oh forget it! They just aren't racist. That's what they say.

But we know differently. They *are*. They really are racist. They adopted the policy because the nine who voted for it were racist, and the six who voted against it believed "democracy" more important than people. If the vote takes away the rights of others, why that is how the vote went!

Bob Jones University had to relinquish its interracial dating and marriage ban, under pressure from the public who rightly interpreted the underlying basis for the ban. The ban was racist. They tried to support the position by quoting Scripture -- but nothing could distract from the truth.

Truth to tell, we all have our own awful, nasty sides we don't want the world to be aware of. Sometimes we indulge it and get caught. But it would be so much easier to believe in peoples' goodness if change came voluntarily.

Perhaps the Gulnare Free Will Baptist Church should vote on a letter of self-rebuke. It should say that they recognize that they really are racists in their hearts, but that they are sorry and will work to change it.
PATOISJAM
reason: strategize: succeed
11:58 AM on 12/06/2011
Why would you want to attend a church that banned you in the first place? That deep seated racism is still there, still disliking you.
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Helen G Thomas
05:54 AM on 12/06/2011
This will not change the fact that their hearts are wrong. Even though they are doing what 'seems' right, they still have a hard heart. But GOD sees everything, so I pray that HE correct this situation as only HE can, tempered with mercy.
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Zacky Ahmed
Astro-physics, Science, Politics
04:28 AM on 12/06/2011
Circumstances of birth (your race, your wealth, when & where you were born) are random, and should never be a source for exclusion or inclusion by default.
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Helen G Thomas
05:57 PM on 12/08/2011
Sorry, Ahmed, I do believe there is purpose by design. I also believe that there are some things that we totally mess up by making wrong choices. But randomness? That doesn't make any sense at all.
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Zacky Ahmed
Astro-physics, Science, Politics
06:22 PM on 12/08/2011
Notice I did not say what you do with your life, I said where you are born or when you are born or wealthy the family that gave birth to you are, or where they live is all an accident, is not like you can choose those settings before you are born
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Zacky Ahmed
Astro-physics, Science, Politics
10:30 PM on 12/05/2011
This is highly personal for me, as a biracial man

Am i offended ?. Not really, I dont belong to any church or any other cult.

but i am glad for the uproar that it has caused, it should do !
we cant go back to the 50s, and it only has to start somewhere, before others start doing it.
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Helen G Thomas
06:06 PM on 12/08/2011
But you do belong to a cult....the cult of your own opinion.
05:27 PM on 12/09/2011
Opinion and cult are two different things.
05:33 PM on 12/09/2011
I'm a white woman, but imho one thing is certain: we will NOT allow this country to go back to the 50s. We just elected a biracial president, and we can AND WILL certainly do more! There may still be pockets of intolerance, but today public opinion will condemn them in such a way that they cannot possibly continue their outrageous practices. NOT in the US of the 21th century .. we've come a long way, it's impossible to stop progress. But there's still a lot of work to do of course. I'm confident that just like before, the current generation will do what it can to continue this struggle. Because as Obama once said, in the end the truth always prevails. And the truth is that color of skin does NOT make ANY persion superior or inferior to someone of a different color. But diversity of color do adds to the diversity in this country, and a democracy vitally needs diversity in order to be vibrant.
05:05 PM on 12/05/2011
This story just shows how much about god this so called church and its members truly know about god. Not surprising, when you have the blind leading the blind.
04:37 PM on 12/05/2011
Honestly, I would not want to attend this church where the members are sooo not Christ-like.