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Serena Williams Admits "I Don't Love Tennis" During Preparations For Australian Open 2012 (VIDEO)

First Posted: 01/04/12 08:11 AM ET Updated: 01/04/12 08:11 AM ET

By Peter Bodo, Tennis.com

You know we'll probably be in for a rough ride in 2012 with Serena Williams when, in her first post-match press conference of the New Year, she declares: "I don't love tennis today" and then adds, ". . . I've never actually liked sports."

It kind of makes you want to ask, Like, Wow.. . . Maybe you shoulda thought of that a little sooner—like 20 years ago?"

But seriously -- the more appropriate response would be to open the dictionary to the letter "P," find the word, "professional," and point it out.

Then tell Serena that the unwritten part of the definition is the mandate to continue doing whatever it is you're good at, and to do it at an extremely high level, even though it can no longer be called "fun" and it's no longer something you "love" in the most romantic, infatuated sense of the word. In that regard, being a professional is a lot like being happily married; love is no longer a feeling, it's an action.

And a professional's great reward is not the thrill you may feel when you're, say, in love. It's that glow of satisfaction you get from having done something well, and right, despite the hazards, starting with the temptation to just mail it in.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not calling Serena out on this. I don't see her as being ungrateful, haughty, or even contemptuous of tennis. What I see her as, mostly, is . . .unaware. That was the great lesson Andre Agassi learned in 1999, and it laid the foundation for the man he became after he retired in 2006. Agassi's was a mid-career transformation, or Epiphany. And it enabled him to re-write his auto-biography long before he took pen to paper to write it down between the covers of "Open."

Serena no longer has that kind of time, and -- truth be told -- she doesn't have quite the same demons to rassle with, nor the personality to cover up for her transgressions. She has 13 Grand Slam titles, which is five more than Agassi. But it's also nine fewer than her Open-era rival Steffi Graf and five fewer than the collection of Martina Navratilova.

Serena fans, fully cognizant of her "no woman is safe, any time, anywhere" reputation, are confident that she can add to her take. But the things she's saying, and her seeming disinterest in basically sucking it up and winning majors simply for the sake of making the most of the single conspicuous talent God gave her, is discouraging.

This is bad news for tennis fans, especially in the talent-starved USA.

I also think it's bad news for Serena, in the sense that letting any opportunity slip by is always a mistake. Does anyone seriously doubt that these are the best days of Serena's life, not least because she still has the greatest gift of all—her youth? Sometimes, I wish somebody would just grab and shake her and say, Serena. . .This is your life, make the most of it while you can because there is no "there" over there on the far side. . .

It would be a shame if Serena spent the waning days of that youth, and her strength, and her ability to make the most of that thing called a specific talent, wishing or wondering if she might have done something different with her life. Asserting that, after all, pro tennis isn't all it's cracked up to be. You know what? Nobody wants to hear that. That's fact No. 1.

We don't always have all the information we could use when we have to make our choices, or our choices are made for us. But backtracking is almost never an option. Most tennis players, even the more rebellious or deluded ones, figure that out.

The WTA is choc-a-bloc with hungry young professionals who still love what they do, and a number who have figured out that it isn't just about "love," at least not beyond a certain point. Serena was beaten by one of them at the last U.S. Open. She well find many more of them in her path in the months to come.

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By Peter Bodo, Tennis.com You know we'll probably be in for a rough ride in 2012 with Serena Williams when, in her first post-match press conference of the New Year, she declares: ...
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Querent
I say the things that have to be said.
11:47 AM on 06/15/2012
Who's Peter Bodo? He sure thinks he's hot stuff.
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I AM THAT
What we allow is what will continue..
10:41 AM on 01/08/2012
No one can manufacture feelings. I just hope she stops when her heart is no longer in it. Then she can walk away with her head held high as a great champion for and of the sport.
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butchcliff
The future is unwritten
08:17 AM on 01/08/2012
Tennis was her life's success. Where would she have been career-wise? Shouldn't you dance with the one that brought ya?
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03:16 AM on 01/08/2012
Thats what High School is for, fun. Probably most professional athletes aren't having fun at the time.
05:25 PM on 01/07/2012
I can understand you can burn out...of anything. But then I respect people who can be humble and thankful for success when it comes and behave the way they deserve it and they don't take it for granted. It is just that biggest sport achievement come from heart, hard work..not necessary from love...you can't love it all the time, and the way you overcome those weak times makes it special achievement. I feel sorry for people who do sport for money and when they retire - they can't even touch that sport - Lendl for example...It is sad...
02:10 PM on 01/07/2012
Just a little less than gratitude?
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Frod43
01:36 AM on 01/07/2012
true agassi did change his name ....and yes he felt he would be better accepted in the chi chi world of tennis .....
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mnwildfan
Think. It really doesn't hurt that much.
07:15 PM on 01/06/2012
Who knew Serena Williams and I have something is common.
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Cimms
Escaped from NC.
11:00 AM on 01/06/2012
Just chiming in to say the picture of her for this article....Damn, she is fine.
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mnwildfan
Think. It really doesn't hurt that much.
07:15 PM on 01/06/2012
Oh, yes she is.
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blurredmolly
Ipswich, Mass. 1641
08:34 PM on 01/06/2012
and it's all her
TomMartin
Freedom and equality.
04:59 AM on 01/06/2012
I did not love programming, but at least I was able to make a career with it, rather than with my real love, linguistics. Maybe that is what Serena thinks likewise.
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Shukr
There I was...
03:03 PM on 01/05/2012
Didn't that Aghasi guy say he didn't like tennis either?
TomMartin
Freedom and equality.
05:03 AM on 01/06/2012
His name is really spelled Agassi. But interestingly, his father was born Aghassian, and changed his name to Agassi after coming to this country. Maybe he felt that Italian names are respected more than Armenian names.
09:23 AM on 01/05/2012
What an absurd column. Serena has every right to feel any way she wants about tennis. And every right to walk away from it any time. She owes nothing to the sport. Serena, Venus, Althea Gibson, and Arthur Ashe are pioneers in the integration of tennis and owe the game NOTHING.
01:59 PM on 01/07/2012
Exactly! She has worked hard to get where she is and has every right to express her emotions. Lots of people slog away at jobs they hate. As long as she puts in an honest day's work, she does not owe anyone anything else.
07:30 PM on 01/08/2012
I do think she owes the fans something. A remark like that is deflating to all those fans who buy tickets to go see her play. Now we feel like we're watching her do something that she's not that into. It takes a lot away from the enjoyment of watching her on the court in competition. I say this as her BIGGEST fan. I am a club level tennis player, middle aged white female, and she inspires me. I have been watching and admiring her for the last 6 years and a comment like The one she made disappoints me, that's all. I'm sure her millions of other fans feel somewhat the same.
02:32 AM on 01/05/2012
Leave my African Beauty Alone you aggravating media sharks let the best and Beautiful Female Tennis Player this decade say what she wants to say and when! Go Serena much love
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Samwise1948
06:45 AM on 01/13/2012
She is no more african than I am, so call her what she is, AMERICAN!
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Dr Confuso
Australian/American Broadcast veteran...
10:42 PM on 01/04/2012
It seems that everytime one of the sisters is in the news, they're either whining about a line call, defending their atrocious dress sense or threatening someone. Why not retire and give us all a break.
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Bados
I love Sarah Palin. No wait...I love parasailing.
02:05 AM on 01/06/2012
which one of those did she do this time?
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LovethemSkins
05:35 AM on 01/07/2012
Um, she did all of that? Wait, did she do any one of those? Geez, I missed it! Let me reread that again! Your name says it all...sheesh!
05:19 PM on 01/07/2012
Actually Serena is not example of best sportsmanship ....if you missed it you missed big chunk of tennis history...
10:00 PM on 01/04/2012
Oh boohoo poor little rich girl
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Bados
I love Sarah Palin. No wait...I love parasailing.
02:08 AM on 01/06/2012
I missed the part where she asked for sympathy. She just has other interest besides tennis.
She just so happens to have worked incredibly hard on her game over the years and became the world best and richest ever while never letting the game consume her.

That family should be studied and modeled.