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Does Hollywood Hurt Celebrity Marriages?

Celebrity Marriages

First Posted: 01/ 5/2012 9:51 am Updated: 01/ 5/2012 9:51 am

Let's just say it -- Tinseltown hasn't been good for celebrity marriages over the past year. Not only did Russell Brand and Katy Perry abandon their nascent union, but Kim Kardashian bailed on her hubby a mere 72 days after saying "I do." And let's not even get started on Sinead O'Connor's wedding drama.

All of these splits beg the question: Can marriages survive in Hollywood?

"Long shooting days, months on the road and a seemingly endless array of options and suitors make it tough for high-profile actors and celebrities to stay focused on their marriages," says relationship expert Andrea Syrtash, the author of "Cheat on Your Husband (With Your Husband)." "Kim Kardashian had a 'fairytale wedding' but celebrities need to remember that marriages aren't movies. Long-term partnerships require dedication and focus or they're bound to fail."

Other notable celeb divorces of 2011 include splits between Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore, Arnold Schwarzenegger and Maria Shriver and Jennifer Lopez and Marc Anthony, just to name a few.

Sure, it seems like celebrities are getting divorced more frequently and more quickly than the rest of us, but is that just because their stories are so loudly publicized? Maybe not. "Cult of Celebrity" author Cooper Lawrence thinks that celebrities simply have more options for infidelity than other Americans.

"The cliché of the seven-year itch has now been cut in half with most short-term marriages ending in about three years for us regular folk," he tells The Huffington Post. "For celebrity couples, that is even shorter for many reasons, but a main one is their unique access to other celebrities who want them. So let's say you are a business woman from Connecticut and you are unsatisfied in your relationship. The chances of meeting someone new and feeling like you could leave your marriage are smaller than, let's say, [they are for] Katy Perry."

It may also be the sense of entitlement that comes with being a big star. Celebrities want things their way or the highway, and that's not necessarily a good baseline for a lasting marriage.

"Hollywood can absolutely be toxic for marriages," says Hollywood Life Editor-in-Chief Bonnie Fuller. "It's filled with larger-than-life personalities and egos who are used to having their every wish catered to. When two oversized egos and personalities get married it's hard for them not to start having a tug of war for attention once the initial sexual attraction wears off."

Just like all marriages, celebrity relationships are all about compromise -- a concept that some stars have a hard time understanding, according to Fuller.

"With Russell and Katy, he expected her to drop career commitments and be the moon to his sun," she said. "And she wasn't willing to quit her fun partying to support his sobriety. In many Hollywood marriages, compromise can be a four letter word."

Check out some photos of celebrity splits below.


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Let's just say it -- Tinseltown hasn't been good for celebrity marriages over the past year. Not only did Russell Brand and Katy Perry abandon their nascent union, but Kim Kardashian bailed on her hub...
Let's just say it -- Tinseltown hasn't been good for celebrity marriages over the past year. Not only did Russell Brand and Katy Perry abandon their nascent union, but Kim Kardashian bailed on her hub...
 
 
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08:41 PM on 01/18/2012
I don't think it's Hollywood, I think it boils down to individuals. We more likely to blame Tinseltown because of the tweets, facebook updates and emails letting us know when a famous person gets a divorce so it seems like it happens more often than it does in real life, when in actuality celebrity divorces count in the national average. So statistically speaking, divorce is an American problem, which brings me to my initial point -- it boils down to individuals.
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Pointless Agony
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05:29 PM on 01/15/2012
Satan hurts marriages whether you're in Hollywood, suburbs, or the hood. It just so happens that Hollywood is the easiest place for Satan to conquer. Satan wants to destroy all God's creations, and marriage was created by God. White collar folk have just as much of temptation as Hollywood does. White collar people are invited to parties and award ceremonies where many beautiful and handsome people will attend, and many white collar folk work with beautiful people. Marriage takes commitment, communication, discipline, patience, and much more, whether you're a celebrity or a football coach for a small town high school.
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Pointless Agony
Currently an undergrad at the University of Tennes
05:22 PM on 01/15/2012
It's completely understandable that celebrities have more temptations to adultery and cheating than us white collar folk, but I figure knowing that would make celebrities more cautious and disciplined in their dating lives. I think celebrities date more so on a persons success than white collar folk. For example: I would date Vanessa Hudgens because she's beautiful and a successful actress. But when our relationship gets a bit sour I meet another woman by work (acting, music, etc), or by a party or award invitation who's beautiful and more successful in their career...I don't really know where I'm going with this. Celebrities are like from another planet to me.
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Kingpleasure
Live for Pleasure
06:03 PM on 01/14/2012
'Cult of Celebrity" author Cooper Lawrence thinks that celebrities simply have more options for infidelity than other Americans."

Wrong Anyone can cheat it ain't that hard to get some on the side and you don't have to be a celebrity to do it. Celebrities lives make the tabloid news. Nobody cares that Joe and Nancy Schmoe have been cheating. Nothing glamorous about them. The paps are all over every facet of celeb lives. But celebs represent a miniscule part of the billions of people on the planet.
People end their marriages all the time for various reasons; whether you're a celebrity, a school teacher, doctor, lawyer, truck driver, business man, homeless man, whatever, we only hear/read about the celebrities but that doesn't mean other marriages with regular folks don't have their issues.
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beachgirl61
04:18 PM on 01/13/2012
I don't think Hollywood hurts celebrity families. I think the celebrity's failure to control their publicity does. Thing is, publicity is a two edged sword. Many of the celebrities claim they want privacy, but yet when it's convenient for them they trot out the causes, addictions, pimp out kids or whatever they think will garner attention. Several years ago, I was an aspiring singer/songwriter and I had several opportunities to go to L.A./H'wood to mingle with industry people. I can tell you that if those celebrities wanted to they can keep their names out of the media. Consider Rick Springfield, for instance. After years of being ignored by the media and labeled a 'has been', he writes a tell all and now you can't keep his name out of the freaking papers! Yet the stuff he wrote in the book didn't make the press at the time they happened. Interesting, eh? Valerie Bertinelli claimed she paid off paparazzi to keep her "fat" pictures out of the media, and Kirstie Alley is constantly doing the "I'm sooooo FAAAAT" moan and racking up all sorts of sympathy and publicity. So when all is said and done, the celebrities can start the publicity avalanche, and they can take personal responsibility and stop it, too.
04:42 PM on 01/08/2012
Celebrity marriages hurt hollywood. End of story.
10:53 PM on 01/07/2012
Divorce is rampant in our whole society. There are long successful marriages in Hollywood, but they don't sell as many tabloids. Every marriage has it's stressors.....it's how the couple handles it that makes or breaks it. Maybe because they can afford the divorces.........?
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CSNC
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02:54 PM on 01/07/2012
"Does Hollywood Hurt Celebrity Marriages?"

No... marriage hurt marriages.

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michelleobamaok
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11:32 AM on 01/07/2012
WELL, I know that NOTHING gets in the way of J-Ho's career. If the public knows this, then certainly the men do. She loves the spotlight more than she loves staying with any particular man.
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rentfromus
08:04 AM on 01/07/2012
I agree with previous commentor who says it has to do with a country in decline. No one seems to value marriage any longer. We have watched it fall apart before our eyes with "hollywood" and we don't value it any more than they do now. People put too much emphasis on these "stars" who are just people like you and me but they got a break and make a gazillion dollars. That doesn't make them smart or buy them any morals.
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Dixiepopulist
07:42 AM on 01/07/2012
This type of story misses the whole point. It isn't that celebrity marriages are subject to some unique strains. The problem is that the celebrities are a bunch of adolescent, spoiled, self-centered, narcissistic dingbats to begin with (male and female). The irresponsible, immature personalities weren't ready for the responsibility of marriage. The American entertainment industry has produced a generation of immature stars and celebrities who, in terms of their personal qualities, aren't worth very much to begin with. These idiots get married and quickly get divorced, and the media feed on the mess like maggots on a dead carcass, as if each story is a separate one about a marriage gone sour as a result of some intervening circumstance. The marriage was doomed from day one.
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Kingpleasure
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06:05 PM on 01/14/2012
I don't know if you remember, but a few years back there was a regular couple who ended up making national news when the woman skipped out on her groom before the wedding. I think they were in Atlanta, they called her the real life runaway bride. Point being is that regular folk end their marriages for all kinds of reasons and many in a dramatic way. It's not just celebrities, but they are well known, so they make the news.
07:39 AM on 01/07/2012
Extreme narcissism run amok... That's HOLLYWOULD!
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saortolani
Firmly rooted in reality
06:46 AM on 01/07/2012
I can answer this question in one word -
Ego's.
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Dixiepopulist
07:54 AM on 01/07/2012
Plus an exploitative media that knows how to milk a story. Nobody ever went broke overestimating the American public's desire for celebrity gossip. Add to this witch's brew an affluent teen--particularly, female--market and stir in the fact that most American 20-somethings probably have the mentality of the average teenager of past generations, and--presto!--endless drivel about the sex lives of celebrities plaguing the airwaves and Internet. Plus, pre-pubescent girls choosing the next American Idol.
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saortolani
Firmly rooted in reality
08:29 AM on 01/09/2012
It has all become rather messy, hasn't it?
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loveO
A plague on both their houses
04:01 AM on 01/07/2012
It has nothing to do with drinking, drugs, money, and stupidity mixed with the biggest egos on earth?

Oh wait that's Hollywood.
12:45 AM on 01/07/2012
What's breaking up celebrity marriages? Giant egos?