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Boners BBQ Bashes Customer On Facebook And Twitter, Social Media Battle Ensues (PICTURES)


First Posted: 01/10/12 02:26 PM ET Updated: 01/10/12 03:46 PM ET

UPDATE: Boners BBQ has issued a personal apology to Stephanie S. via Facebook.

Frustrated by a woman they say didn't leave a tip after using a coupon to eat at their restaurant, employees at Boners BBQ in Atlanta called out the customer on Facebook and Twitter and linked to her personal social networking account.

Now, an epic social media exchange continues to unfold across Facebook, Twitter, Yelp and Reddit, which users have helped document and post online.

It all started when Boners BBQ posted complaints on both Twitter and Facebook about the behavior of restaurant customer Stephanie S., whom they say failed to tip waiters on a $40 tab she paid for in part with a Scoutmob discount. The Tweet and Facebook post have since been removed, but users managed capture screenshots before they were taken down.

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The strongly-worded posts made some social networkers wonder whether other factors had possibly contributed to Boner BBQ's reaction. Browsing the restaurant review site Yelp, users pointed to a negative review written by user Stephanie S. from Atlanta, which was posted on the site Jan. 8, one day before the possibly retaliatory attacks were posted.

In an e-mail to The Hufffington Post, Stephanie S. confirmed that she did in fact eat at the restaurant and write a Yelp review. But she says she didn't fail to tip waiter, as the restaurant claimed.

She and her husband decided to celebrate his birthday at Boners BBQ because the restaurant was nearby and was offering a coupon through the website Scoutmob. The couple paid for the meal, which cost $30 after the coupon was applied to the total. Stephanie said they left two twenty dollar bills on the table and left.

Stephanie then gave her account of what happened next:

On the drive home I discussed my feelings about the restaurant with my husband and decided to write a review on Yelp. We decided to go there because of Yelp so I thought it was an appropriate forum to explain my experience. I honestly didn't worry too much about it and barely even looked at my computer until the next afternoon when I found two emails from people letting me know what had happened on Facebook.

I did leave a tip and my review was not scathing by any means. The response from Boners BBQ has just been astonishing to me, especially since it came from the owner of the business.

Only Boners BBQ knows whether the Facebook and Twitter posts were written in response to the Yelp review, as users have suggested.

In response to backlash on social networks, the restaurant has apologized for their behavior in a series of Facebook updates, explaining some of the factors that contributed to their reaction.

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Hopefully for Boners BBQ, customers will be forgiving of the negative posts. But for now, the restaurant's rating continues to fall on Yelp as users post negative reviews in response to the recent events.

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03:38 PM on 02/01/2012
Why is it okay for a patron to use social media to bash an establishment, effect the wages of the servers and staff that work there, and post sometimes scathing, unwarrented reviews or people to read. As a bartender, let me be the first to say that I am painfully aware that exceptional service is rare. But I can't tell you the number of times that someone has told me what an amazing experience they had and then left almost nothing as a tip. Tipping is customery. I don't want to hear any "owners should pay their employees more" excuses as to why not tipping someone is okay. It's not like this practice is done by a few establishments. It's pretty much everywhere.

If you as a customer have the right to use social media to bash someone's livelyhood then they should have the right to use social media to defend themselves. Granted I don't agree with the wording of the comments, and I happen to be related to establishments owner, but I do agree with the concept. Perhaps when the majority of diners and patrons learn to treat the people preparing and serving your food with a little respect...well, you get what you give folks. No one should have to just suck it up and take it because your spending your money there.
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skye12
It may be legal, but is it right?
03:03 PM on 01/16/2012
I like the fact the restaurant is standing up for itself. This era of political correctness is tiring.
The customers these days are SO entitled. If you are rude and don't leave a tip, you deserve to be hassled. It is NOT all about the money. Money does not give anyone the right to take advantage of "working" people. And some wonder why Occupy movements are growing.
10:41 AM on 01/12/2012
I wouldn't have left one dime if the service I received was snooty and unprofessional, I'd even sue whoever bashed me on facebook, or any other social media page as a costumer for leaving no tip. because bashing a costumer for not leaving a tip, that's as bad as running a pyramid scam, in General that's just wrong and stupid.
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Solar Bear
Freethinking in one age = common sense in the next
10:50 AM on 01/12/2012
Sue? Give me a break.
10:17 AM on 01/12/2012
I think that Yelp is also being unprofessional. Allowing "reviews" that admit that the so-called "reviewer" has not sampled the product makes the site a social-networking rumor-mill, not a site of reviews of businesses.
05:01 PM on 01/22/2012
Hmm, interesting point. However, I'm pleased that they are allowing it! I would definitely want to know if the owners or staff of an establishment were such jerks! How else would I find out? I'd rather not risk an attack by a clearly unstable restaurateur.
09:01 AM on 01/12/2012
I just took a quick look at the restaurant's facebook page. The owner and his family are STILL responding to comments in a way that illustrates how truly (not at all) sorry they are for the fallout from this. Some people just CAN'T learn to shut it down.
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48thGuy
08:54 AM on 01/12/2012
That woman should be on the duct tape diet.
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exile
07:00 AM on 01/12/2012
my guess
the food sucks
just sayin
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Rutilus Publicola
a son of the American Revolution
10:42 PM on 01/11/2012
So Mike Seaver's best friend owns a BBQ restaurant?..crazy
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Drosco
10:39 PM on 01/11/2012
Nothing good comes out of Facebook...and boners evidently.
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sam ella
Gee, Brain. What are we going to do tonight?
09:54 PM on 01/11/2012
i read her yelp review. it didn't seem too bad (3 stars out of 5)...she definitely didn't have a bone to pick with them (pardon the pun). This is just a scathing and uncalled attack on a customer.
02:01 PM on 01/12/2012
Judging by her descriptions, it didn't sound like she liked anything she had, so I think giving them 3 out of 5 is generous.
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morgansher
just disgusted in general
07:41 PM on 01/17/2012
Three stars out of five? She basically said they were 'average.' But seeing how they responded, it's a place I'll never go out of my way for.
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stjoshy
"C is for COOKIEEEEE. thats good enough for me"
09:11 PM on 01/11/2012
hahahaha... boners
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08:45 PM on 01/11/2012
Actually their advertising isn't anatomically correct. They need a pic of a GUY dressed up like a girl waitress with the logo and tag line. Last time I noticed, lady waitresses don't get boners.
09:39 PM on 01/11/2012
No they give them
Steve68112
Provoking thought through sarcasm
02:27 AM on 01/12/2012
Apparently the ones at boners do! Must be something in the sauce...
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Jaguar8450
07:22 PM on 01/11/2012
There would be no reason to tip anyone if restaurants employees were paid a decent salary to begin with and not well below minimum wage besides being cheated on their overtime hours and holiday pay plus having the management help themselves to any of the tips that are left for the workers.
04:22 PM on 01/11/2012
wow, thats just wrong!
03:41 PM on 01/11/2012
I once had a business owner get pissed at me for giving them a 3 star review on Yelp. Guess who doesn't get my business anymore?