Kantor, a seasoned New York Times Washington correspondent, takes an inside look at the Obamas marriage, alleging that Michelle Obama has shaped her husband's character as a president -- and influenced many of his decisions.
Knowing what we do about marriage, we here at HuffPost Weddings wondered whether it's really possible for someone outside of a relationship to truly understand its inner workings. We posed the question to the Twitterverse and got some surprising replies. Click through the slideshow below to see what our followers had to say.
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