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Nancy Pelosi Nudges Obama To Support Gay Marriage

Nancy Pelosi

First Posted: 01/12/12 05:24 PM ET Updated: 01/12/12 05:42 PM ET

WASHINGTON -- President Barack Obama has said for more than a year now that his position on same-sex marriage is "evolving," a stance that has frustrated and perplexed the gay community given the president's broad support for other gay rights issues.

Now House Minority Leader Nancy Pelosi (D-Calif.), a vocal proponent of same-sex marriage, is nudging Obama to come around on the issue already.

In a February cover story with The Advocate, a national gay and lesbian news magazine, Pelosi declined to give specifics on conversations she may have had with Obama on the issue. Instead, she said she has been focused on pressing the Democratic National Committee to fund efforts to reject state-level anti-marriage ballot measures. "There are more ways to get your voice heard than just speaking," she said.

Pelosi added, "But I hope the president would just say he supports equality in marriage."

The issue has been an awkward one for the White House, which regularly deflects questions on the matter by pointing to Obama's track record on gay rights outside of same-sex marriage. Indeed, his record isn't too shabby: In the last three years, he repealed the military's "don't ask, don't tell" policy, imposed a rule tying foreign aid to governments' protection of sexual minorities, and ordered the Justice Department to stop defending the Defense of Marriage Act, the federal ban on gay marriage. But the fact that he can't give a clear position one way or the other on same-sex marriage will likely continue to dog him, particularly as the 2012 election season heats up.

Questions about gay marriage have already been resurfacing in White House briefings. On Tuesday, White House Press Secretary Jay Carney fended off a reporter's question about the fact that Republican presidential candidate Rick Santorum recently said he and Obama both agree that marriage should be defined as between one man and one woman.

"You know very well what the president's views are on LGBT issues and civil rights, and the president is very proud of this administration's record on those issues," Carney told the reporter. When the reporter pressed further, clarifying that his question was specifically about gay marriage, Carney said, "I have no updates for you on the president's position on same-sex marriage. I think that you know and others here know and understand that his position broadly on LGBT issues is quite significantly different from that particular candidate's views."

Another reporter raised the issue again, this time citing a tweet by Sarah Palin about Obama having the same views on gay marriage as GOP presidential contenders Newt Gingrich and Mitt Romney, in addition to Santorum.

"Again, I don't have anything, I don't have anything new to give you on this," Carney said. "I appreciate the question, but the president has spoken to it. I'm sure he'll be asked again about it. But as of now, I have no -- nothing new for you on it."

By contrast, Pelosi, who represents the gay mecca that is San Francisco, talked to The Advocate about the prospects of her officiating a same-sex wedding in her district.

"I'm not a big officiator, though," Pelosi said. "I did it one time, and the people I married are divorced now. So I don't think I'll be called on again. I think that was probably it."

Earlier on HuffPost:

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WASHINGTON -- President Barack Obama has said for more than a year now that his position on same-sex marriage is "evolving," a stance that has frustrated and perplexed the gay community given the pres...
WASHINGTON -- President Barack Obama has said for more than a year now that his position on same-sex marriage is "evolving," a stance that has frustrated and perplexed the gay community given the pres...
 
 
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LetMeOut
Step out of the box-Think for yourself
09:00 AM on 02/08/2012
Nancy is secretly GAY
10:32 AM on 02/08/2012
Secretly??????????????
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Diana Scrimger
10:19 AM on 01/24/2012
When President Obama makes the decision to endorse Gay Marriage he is making the biggest choice of his own future. Will he do this or not? Then the biggest suprise of the election will happen in America. The Yes on Prop 8 side is going to win. The Yes on Prop 8 side can prove that you cannot marry an AKA! The Yes on prop man is really openly straight! The Yes on Prop 8 man could become President of the Free World. Thank You Ricky Gervias! This will become a reality!
01:31 PM on 01/17/2012
Does it matter....?

If Obama supports or opposes - it does not matter.

People care only when GOP is anti gay...
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Diana Scrimger
01:24 PM on 01/17/2012
Marriage is between a man and a woman. The voters in California passed Prop 8 with the Yes vote winning. As a voter we intend to look at this issue when voting for President. Since the Republicans agree with this side then that means that we will have to vote for that side. It is the moral thing to do!
06:45 PM on 01/27/2012
if gay marriage, or lack of, is more important to you than, well, everything else pressing in this country today, then yes - i guess you should vote republican. since i truly love my neighbor, i hope to have an option in a candidate that promises to fight for an improved economy, improved infrastructure & equality for all. it would be too easy to say this candidate should be a democrat. these days, i'm not sure any "side" has the best interests of americans in their sites. what i am sure of, republicans have become the party of "what i don't want is..."~
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William Brock
10:07 PM on 01/16/2012
Thank You Nancy Pelosi, you have always been there for us and we can always depend on you to make the best decisions on every issue the confronts all working Americans. Your record for standing up for the Civil Rights of ALL, is amazingly constitutionally correct everytime. You record on environmental issues is unsurpassed. The correct position for our planet and it's future is always your first consideration. Your endless energy and hard work is un-matched by any politician in Washington. I will always give my vote to you and support you for as long as you want to stay in politics. You are my hero and you are a most excellent human being............God Bless U
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KAYLEE BURRIS
54 ,FLA ,LOVING LIFE ,TRANS, LALL
11:15 AM on 01/14/2012
Madam minority leader,continue the good fight we're beside you all the way.
09:37 AM on 01/14/2012
He won't do it until after he is reelected, I can't wait for the 2nd term, watch and see how fast he changes his mind then!!!
01:51 AM on 01/14/2012
big deal the dadt repealed but under the ucmj sodomy is still an offense
12:13 PM on 01/16/2012
I don't believe you are correct on that. I recall that the restrictions on "fraternization" and such are sexual orientation neutral.
09:18 PM on 01/13/2012
Someone needs to nudge Leatherface out to pasture, where she belongs.
01:04 PM on 01/13/2012
Pelosi isn't taking a civil rights stance on the issue of same sex marriage. She's trying as hard as possible to bring a voting block in a major populated area of America to the Democratic side in the upcoming presidential election. Nancy Pelosi knows that her re-election depends on the vote of the gay community in San Francisco because she represents the SF Bay area. Whether or not she truly believes that same sex marriage is a "civil rights" issue is something only she really knows.


Becky Sparks wrote on January 13, 2012 at 5:12am:
She represents the people, but that does not mean she's not allowed to make choices that some voters would disagree with. Let me ask you a question. Do you think she's more likely to be reelected in San Francisco for taking this particular stance on civil rights?
12:17 PM on 01/16/2012
Having met Speaker Pelosi a number of times I think I can shed some light. She repeatedly took time away from her own reelection campaign to speak at rallies against Proposition 8. Her speeches had absolutely no solicitations on behalf of the Democratic Party. She spoke in personal language about the rights and struggles of LGBT people for marriage equality. She has spoken against DOMA since it was first proposed, she has opposed the expenditure of House funds to defend DOMA in court. I have no doubt about her beliefts; she supports marriage equality.
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Dan Jighter
11:40 AM on 01/13/2012
Obama seems to simply be trying to avoid the issue, fly under the radar, pursue some reforms slowly like getting rid of DADT, and otherwise being a lying moderate who sounds like he opposes same-sex marriage. As a support of gay rights, I think Obama should keep doing just that.

I also think gay rights advocate should pester Obama for doing this. It's good consciousness raising, it makes a fuss over the issue.

But realistically, gay marriage isn't getting legalized over night and much of the country still opposes it. Obama needs political capital to do anything, be it one gay rights or otherwise, and saying he supports same-sex marriage will cost him a lot of political capital and maybe the election. We need to be realistic. It is more important right now to keep Obama in power and the Republicans out of power.

After Obama has made some reformed on gay rights and made a lot of other reforms elsewhere and after there is more support for gay rights and after Obama has won two terms, then Obama should state he supports same sex marriage. Until then, we need him as president.

Though for goodness sakes Obama needs to stop saying he supports civil unions. Civil unions don't work, it's a bad argument, and it gives credibility to bad homophobic arguments. Obama can still seem ambiguous or not fully supportive of same-sex marriage without making that argument.
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11:23 AM on 01/13/2012
Gee Nancy, I thought you wanted to see Obama get re-elected? For that to happen, he needs to attract moderates; and with your mouth in the headlines it certainly doesn't help.
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gloriaswanson43
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10:42 AM on 01/13/2012
(Sometimes the ads before videos are funny, and then not: I got the "find the rainbow" skittles ad for this article. mmkkay)

Slight nudge? Try a sharp smack to the back of the head. Equality for all. I am hetero and I approve this message.
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KAYLEE BURRIS
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11:17 AM on 01/14/2012
gloria our next write in candidate 8)
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gloriaswanson43
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03:35 PM on 01/14/2012
:)
10:32 AM on 01/13/2012
Everyone needs to relax and just hope that Obama will get re elected. He has done more for the LBGT community then any president and if he is re elected I am sure he will then deal with the issue of gay marriage.
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joeyfoto
“Écraser l'infamie!”
05:03 AM on 01/16/2012
#15 Fanned for taking the political IQ test & Passing...jt
korbendal
Bringing Common Sense Back To America.
10:19 AM on 01/13/2012
"equality in marriage" is general enough that it could be applied to traditional marriage as well...
equal roles in a relationship, whether it"s between a man and woman.. or man and man...
10:46 AM on 01/13/2012
Yes, I would like to see my wife and I take a more equal part in our marriage. I would love to cook meals, wash clothes and vacuum. And I would like to see her doing our auto repair and maintenance, chopping the firewood, up on the roof repairing the gutters and shingles, replacing the windows, painting the house, replacing the 5 gal drinking water bottles, etc.
01:36 PM on 01/13/2012
So negotiate the chores differently. As we are getting older, our physical capacities are changing, so we've had to approach chores and projects in a whole new way. Rather than saying "I must do this" and "You must do that" we now focus on the task at hand, what needs to be done, and how to accomplish that whether we do it ourselves personally or hire someone to take care of it. But we don't get hung up on job assignments based on gender roles--we're a same-sex couple so that wouldn't work anyway--or stereotypes, and you and your wife don't have to, either.
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joeyfoto
“Écraser l'infamie!”
05:06 AM on 01/16/2012
Equal doesn't me 50-50 on all stuff. That assumes that you are as strong as your wife, if you can't hold up your end I'm sure she can find some light-duty for you.