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LEGO Friends Petition: Parents, Women And Girls Ask Toy Companies To Stop Gender-Based Marketing

Lego Friends

The Huffington Post   First Posted: 01/15/12 05:49 PM ET Updated: 01/15/12 10:55 PM ET

Debate over gender-based toy marketing has reached a fever pitch. In December, LEGO -- a brand that previously could do no wrong -- came out with a girlified version of their beloved blocks called LEGO Friends, and the marketers behind this switch were greeted with a bellowing, albeit virtual, "Why?" Now, a pair of 22-year-old activists for girls, Bailey Shoemaker Richards and Stephanie Cole, have launched a petition to get LEGO to commit to gender equity in marketing.

The de facto spokeswoman for this campaign, as well as anyone who has ever protested so-called princess culture, seems to be 4-year-old Riley Maida. Her one-minute and 11 second rant about toy marketing took the Internet by storm in December.

"Some girls like superheroes, some girls like princesses, some boys like superheroes, some boys like princesses. So why do all the girls have to buy pink stuff and all the boys have to buy different color stuff?" she asked.

Sarah Maida, Riley's mom, told The Huffington Post that this video was actually shot in May of 2011. She and her husband Dennis had shared it with a few friends, who responded positively to Riley's message. But, after Sarah heard about LEGO Friends -- shapely mini-figures that lock into pink, purple and pastel green settings, such as a dream house, a splash pool and a beauty shop -- she posted the video on Facebook fan pages for Princess Free Zone and Pigtail Pals, companies that sell only gender-neutral products and stand up for girl's rights. (Princess Free's tagline is "Come as you are," and they sell apparel featuring designs like a dinosaur on a scooter or a skateboarding octopus.)

"I posted it because both sites were having a conversation about the new toys. I thought what Riley had to say was so perfect and relevant," she said.

According to the LEGO Group, their new line was designed based on four years of research into the ways in which boys and girls play.

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Bradley Wieners, executive editor at Bloomberg Businessweek, investigated why LEGO was trying to attract more girls at all. On the surface, he discovered they were responding directly to parents like Peggy Orenstein, author of "Cinderella Ate My Daughter" and poster-mom for equal-opportunity play. He quoted Orenstein saying, "The last time I was in a Lego store, there was this little pink ghetto over in one corner. And I thought, really? This is the best you can do?" The goal was to give little girls another option when they reach the "princess phase," at around four-years-old, the time when boys their age enter their "LEGO-phase." Because, as BusinessWeek reported, "Unlike tiaras and pink chiffon, Lego play develops spatial, mathematical, and fine motor skills, and lets kids build almost anything they can imagine, often leading to hours of quiet, independent play."

But, Wieners foresaw backlash to LEGO Friends. "They're definitely running a risk here of reinforcing some stereotypes, even as they try to break down the ones about girls building," he told NPR's Morning Edition.

And, within a few weeks of Wiener's article running and the new LEGOs being announced, a 1981 LEGO ad surfaced -- a photo of an adorable little redheaded girl (pictured below). She is wearing overalls and sneakers. She is holding an elaborate LEGO creation. The ad copy: "What it is is beautiful." Parents and childless adults alike connected with the image, clicked their Like buttons and sent it flying around Facebook. For places like Princess Free Zone and moms like Sarah Maida, the ad was a perfect foil to LEGO's newer, glossier, "sexier" girl-focused ads.

"It would be easy to assume that this is just about LEGO, but [it] is part of a much larger marketing environment that puts the interests of girls and boys into ... limiting boxes," said Cole, one of the women behind the new petition agains LEGO Friends. Indeed, other classic brands including Rainbow Brite, Strawberry Shortcake, My Little Pony -- and even Troll dolls -- have been transformed. The characters are much more slender, many look like they've gotten hair extensions, the Trolls carry purses. Sociological Images found nine examples which can be seen below.

Still, LEGO Friends touched a nerve that these other brands didn't. More than 45,000 people have signed Cole and Richards' petition, and parents are taking to Twitter, helping to spread word about the campaign with their hashtag #LiberateLEGOs.

To drive their message home, SPARK, the organization Cole and Richards are a part of, and Powered by Girl produced a video including footage of young girls today playing with traditional primary colored LEGO sets; they're building houses, stadiums and "trucker hide-outs." One little girl, wearing a princess dress, says, "I can build anything!" And, Riley Maida herself makes an appearance. She shares her favorite thing about LEGOs: "You can do whatever you want [with them]."

For parents who are concerned about the potential negative impact of gendered marketing, the best solution may be encouraging this kind of creativity at home -- and discussing issues around the dinner table. As Sarah Maida said:

"I have no problem with them making pink LEGOs, but I really hate the message they send. [Riley] doesn't need to be building a hot tub and serving drinks. I want her to build whatever she wants. We want her to be herself."

Click through to see LEGO Friends and other brands that have been updated in recent years to be more "girly" (via Sociological Images)

Correction: A previous version of this story stated that the aim of the petition was to shut down the LEGO Friends line.
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11 seconds ago (10:16 AM)
I am a 21 year old male in the military that builds LEGO. LEGO is about creativity and imagination the LEGO group is allowing the builder to have more options and there is nothing wrong with this if you want to whine and cry over girl based toys I hope you are utterly freaking out over barbie and what about the boys? we have tons of toys that target our gender I don't hear anyone freaking out for us. I am also a very active member on a website called Flickr, Flickr has a very large crowd of LEGO builds yes most of which are males but there are some females both genders build great creations and both from what I have heard love the new LEGO friends mainly for the new extreme colors the set come with. As most people have already said if you do not like it then just don't buy it you are taking away the freedom of builders of all gender.
04:31 AM on 04/30/2012
This is the worst of activist shams. Friends is not the new girly Lego. It is the re-imagining of Lego products for girls that have been around since the 90's. Look at their catalogue at over a decade at sets marketed to appeal the girls. The colors aren't for girls. They were all first introduced in product lines that were "for boys". The Friend's sets are not simplistic or limited. They have comparable part counts and complexity to other Lego sets for that age group. Friends doesn't advance a stereotype. Friends characters are race-car drivers, engineers chemists and robot designers.The same roles women are cheered for taking on. Most importantly, sirens don't go off in the store if a young girl purchase a Star Wars Lego set or any damned set she wants. Lego is just giving girls (and for that matter boys) another choice of the things they can build, more colors and figures for their palate. Don't listen to me, look at what these sets are about, look at the pattern of what Lego has done for girls and continues to do. Your politics don't belong in your children's toyboxes. Let them play with the toys they want.
11:19 PM on 04/24/2012
After living over seas for two decades and coming back home, I find one thing that is prevalent. America needs to put their energy into more productive concerns. America is now composed of a land of Mrs. Kravits and whinners. Hey, Bailey, Sarah and Steph, go and emasculate your husband/boyfriend if that has not been done already and leave my daughter's Lego Friends alone. If you don't like it don't buy it. Morons!
11:43 PM on 04/23/2012
The problem is not that Lego made these friends sets for girls. The problem is that they don't have anything else for girls. I loved building things with legos when I was little in he 90s, and that's the key word, building. I had dolls I played with and had fun with too, but the amazing thing about legos was how detailed they were. It was like a puzzle to put them together, there were different levels of difficulty and you could challenge yourself. And all of the girl-friendly legos I've seen are really simplistic and not very interesting to build. If you want details, you have to get boys legos, and I received plenty of those for birthdays. But they rarely had any female characters. Most of the sets were for spaceships or weaponized vehicles of some sort. The best Lego set I ever had was Harry Potter. That's the closest example I can come up with that was enjoyed by both genders without resorting to weapons or "female" props and still required creativity to create it, even though I still wanted something similar with the intricacy of, say, my brother's Lego death star.
07:50 PM on 04/05/2012
I love Lego Friends! My daughters love Lego Friends! They love the colors and the dolls. I am so happy to add these to my collection of legos, including StarWars, Harry Potter, Pirates, etc... My kids play with all of them. They have the masculine characters with beards and pretty feminine charaters with pink dresses. I don't understand why people care. If you don't want to buy them, then don't. But in my house, kids can decide what they want to play with...if it's pretty and pink, it's ok with me.
04:29 AM on 04/23/2012
absolutely pixiepeanut, i cannot figure out why there is such a controversy over this. It just seems like two ladies with lots of time on their hands are having their 15 minutes of fame. really, would a 4 year old know what "stereotyping is". I read this one mum write about this whole fiasco, totally agree her reasoning, http://fasttrack.hk/featured/lego-bends-over-to-pressure-from-two-ladies-with-too-much-time-on-their-hands. So, people please stop this, let our kids be kids and build beutiful memories with their lego sets.
09:36 AM on 02/22/2012
I despise some gender-targeted toys and marketing, but I'm honestly a bit torn on this one. As much as I battle stereotypes and encourage my daughters and my son to be who they want to be and break free from manufactured outside restraints on their identity, well...you got yer facts and then you got yer reality.

I don't know how many - or if any - pretty princesses will become engineers or architects or just hang on to math class for a few years longer because of pink LEGOS, but I suppose it's a possibility. And regarding the 1981 add of the little girl in blue jeans - from what I remember, there were girly-girls and tomboys waaaaay back then as well. You don't have to be a tomboy in dungarees and Chuck Taylors to play with trucks and LEGOs anymore than you have to dress like a typical suburban PTA mom to be a good mother. I've seen woman dressed as Bratz dolls who are pretty darn good moms. I try to control my knee-jerk from all directions.

Anyway, I'm not convinced yet of any risk/benefit balance regarding this toy in particular.
06:28 PM on 02/14/2012
What do these people think their little snowflakes will be cheated of or miss out on? Please! There are gender differences and that's why little girls love pink little mommy and friend style role playing toys. What a fricking First World Problem!
06:15 PM on 02/12/2012
There is nothing wrong about these "Lego Friends" toys. My little girl loves it. Did these ladies petition against the boy Legos. Why do these ladies have to make a big deal out of nothing. Just lett the girls enjoy it. I think the "Lego Friends" line is so cool. Hope they continue to make them. This allows the girls to build too. If these ladies protesting want the normal legos then they should just buy the normal Legos. No one is stopping them.
04:39 PM on 02/14/2012
I agree. I kind of feel like if you don't like it, don't buy it. Why make such a big deal over it? The world is changing. I think it's nice that they're willing to try out different things than being a snob and stick to the vintage yellow man look forever. I don't think the old mini figure should disappear, but options is always good. It's a competitive market out there, so why put them down for trying something new?
12:21 PM on 02/10/2012
All Lego has to do to appeal to girls as well is SHOW girls playing with LEGOS in TV commercials, have stores place the line in the nuetral "creative" section, and add some more female figures into the assortment. Bit Fat DUH. How about some amazon women fighting battles, to compliment the "friends" figures?! I coulda used that kind of role model female figure when I was having wars between the knights and the woodsmen as a kid. I know a few little boys who would build a city with pools and malls, too-- why not add similarly sculpted boy figures to the Friends line and some more city settings-- fire house, police station, schools... to compliment the salons, malls, pool.

There's enough pressure on either sex (boys and girls!) to conform to a box-ed in stereotype for their gender, lets not add to that. Lets promote a well-balanced selection of toys and TV shows, to raise our kids into well-balanced adults, who know what they they like and like who they ARE!

I'm a cartoonist, and coincidentally, my current comic storyline is very fitting to this topic--- A grown tomboy who played with Thundercats as a kid (that would be me) meets a little boy who loves the new My Little Pony (aka- a "brony"). Start reading it here: http://www.zfcomics.com/comics/490-bronies/
08:00 PM on 04/05/2012
Why not add beauty salons, pools and stores to the Star Wars set to compliment the spacecrafts? I've watched Star Wars...the women were beautiful...hmmm...I guess it's good they created Lego Friends so we can have a well-balanced selection on toys so our kids can grow into well-balanced adults. If you don't want pressure on either sex, buy Star Wars and Lego Friends.
02:42 PM on 02/07/2012
If you don't like the "girly legos" then DON'T BUY THEM!!!! Stop pushing YOUR wannabe ways onto others!!! Get over it and let everyone live their own lives as they choose!!!! GROW UP!!!
06:41 PM on 02/06/2012
I am a 47 year old male married for 19 years we have a 7 year old daughter whom absolutely loves to play with these Lego friends...Our daughter is a girls girl and loves these Legos. Why is it when children play with certain toys parents take offense? I'm just guessing but think you are jealous that they the children have it better then you did as a child. Why don't you grow up and let the kids be the judge of what they want to play with...
11:00 AM on 02/05/2012
I have a 4 year old daughter who I introduced to my old space and city legos rom the 80s. She didn't care much for them, other that the few girl minifigs I had. But now , she's been playing at least 8 hours straight with her new Lego Friends set. I call it a win.
05:42 PM on 01/30/2012
I've loved LEGO's since I was a little girl, and I'm 32 now, with an impressive LEGO's collection. No one ever bought me LEGO's when I was little because it was a "boy" toy. My stepcousin had thousands of dollars worth of LEGO's I was not allowed to touch. Finally my parents got it one year and got me and my brother both Construx sets. I was constantly building things - anything - with anything I had on hand. My brother rarely did, and finally I took his LEGO's. I saw this in the stores the other day and couldn't take my eyes off it, I wished so much they had had something like this when I was little. Not because I wouldn't play with any color LEGO, but I loved pink and purple and would have loved this, and my family would have bought it for me.
09:07 AM on 01/28/2012
and here I was thinking how awesome it was for LEGO to make something wonderful for those "girly-girls". I played with LEGOS when I was little and there is nothing wrong with them....But too many girls at my school thought it was beneath them to play with LEGOS because they are for boys. Now everyone can enjoy the wonders of LEGO. Why does this world have to make everything good seem so bad? I bet some of these people who are petitioning LEGO used to be mad they DIDN"T make girly things