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Ross Mirkarimi Pleads Not Guilty To Domestic Violence

Ross Mirkarimi San Francisco

By TERRY COLLINS   01/20/12 12:00 AM ET   AP

SAN FRANCISCO -- San Francisco's new sheriff pleaded not guilty to domestic violence and other charges Thursday as a judge ordered him to stay away from his wife and toddler son despite her tearful pleas not to keep the family apart.

Sheriff Ross Mirkarimi's lawyer, Robert Waggener, entered the pleas during an arraignment in San Francisco Superior Court, where Mirkarimi, 50, is also charged with child endangerment and dissuading a witness after a New Year's Eve incident with Lopez at their home.

Judge Susan Breall issued a stay-away order requiring Mirkarimi not to have any contact with his wife, Eliana Lopez, or their 2-year-old son.

"The violence against me is that I don't have my family together," Lopez said repeatedly in court. "Let me have my family together. This is the only reason I am here is that I have my family with Ross."

Lopez, 36, a former Venezuelan telenovela star, also told the judge that she is not some "poor little immigrant," and added, "I'm not afraid of my husband at all."

Mirkarimi, who did not speak during Thursday's hearing, could be seen taking his glasses off and wiping away tears during Lopez's testimony.

Breall said she found Lopez to be strong, engaging and "quite charming." But the judge said that based on an arrest warrant affidavit that contains "physical and emotional abuse," a stay-away order was still necessary.

"I believe Eliana when she says the sheriff is a good person and a loving father. I absolutely believe that," Breall said. "I believe Eliana never wanted this to go to this extreme and to end up in court.

"This is still a volatile situation. The affidavit shows a volatile situation."

During the frenzied two-hour hearing, prosecutor Elizabeth Aguilar-Tarchi argued that the stay-away order was requested because of the charges and not because of Mirkarimi's status.

Waggener said he was disappointed with the judge's ruling.

"I don't think there was a basis for a stay-away order. I don't think the proper decision was made. We'll come back and we'll fight it," Waggener said. "Mr. Mirkarimi did not commit domestic violence, he did not endanger his child, and he did not try to dissuade his wife from talking to the police or anybody else. That's the bottom line."

Mirkarimi is due in court again Monday to set a trial date and again on Jan. 26 to request a modification of the stay-away order.

According to the arrest affidavit released Tuesday, Mirkarimi is alleged to have mistreated his wife on two separate occasions last year and to have told her he was a "very powerful" man who could take away their son.

Lopez appeared on a Jan. 1 videotape candidly discussing the Dec. 31 confrontation and another incident earlier last year, according to the affidavit.

The footage was shot by a neighbor, Ivory Madison, whose call to police prompted an investigation. Lopez is crying and visibly upset about the couple's run-in the day before, the affidavit said, and she points to a bruise on her right bicep where she said Mirkarimi grabbed her.

"This happened yesterday," Lopez tells the camera. "Two times in 2011, and this is the second time this is happening."

Madison eventually told police investigators what Lopez had relayed to her but would not surrender the videotape. Police obtained it and other evidence through a search warrant.

Investigators from the district attorney's office later found another neighbor who gave an account similar to Madison's and said Lopez described Mirkarimi as "going ballistic." The neighbor also said the couple's son told his mother, "Daddy made boo-boo on Mommy's arm."

Lopez married Mirkarimi after having their first child in 2009. She said in court Thursday that her son woke up early in the morning asking for his father and she promised that he would be home Friday.

She was wearing a shirt she said her son had decorated that read, "I want Daddy back."

Meanwhile, several domestic violence groups have called for Mirkarimi to either step aside temporarily until the case is closed or resign.

Mirkarimi, who was sworn in as sheriff nearly two weeks ago after serving two terms as a San Francisco supervisor, said he has no intention of leaving his new post.

However, he could face up to a year in jail if he's convicted.

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CrestedSparrow
08:57 PM on 02/10/2012
What a disaster. I've always like this man. Good person.
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kathy smelser
08:24 AM on 01/24/2012
go ahead put the child at risk ...BUT when he hurts her again do not call for help ....maybe she will defend herself better next time or maybe the time after that .....i do not think that spousal abuse is ever a one time thing
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bridgeman
Jesus was a Jazz fan
11:32 PM on 01/23/2012
His career is OVER
04:18 PM on 01/22/2012
A SPURIOUS CASE.

Eliana Lopez said: "You are destroying my family". says it all.

The neighbor Ivory Madison has triggered a witch hunt, This case is totally Overblown.

This couple young son, is ironically the one, who will suffer the long term consequences of the very public lynching of his daddy's character and reputation.

The judge reasoning for temporarily braking up this family was that the situation is still volatile, sure, it is volatile (Mostly In the media and on blogs).

Using statistics to justify decisions or opinions in individual cases by bloggers or the court is wrong.

The system needs to be reformed, it is NOT working.

Note: Latino Ladies are among the world's finest mothers, they are the ones who should rise up to defend the dignity and integrity of Eliana Lopez family.
11:37 AM on 01/22/2012
With support from the National Institute of Mental Health, Murray Straus Ph.D., and Richard Gelles Ph.D. conducted a nationally representative survey from the Family Research Laboratory at the University of New Hampshire, of married and cohabiting couples regarding domestic violence. The results were first published in 1977 as was a book with co-author Suzanne Stienmetz Ph.D., in 1980. Straus & Gelles followed up the initial survey of more than two thousand couples, with a larger six-thousand-couple group in 1985. In minor violence (slap, spank, throw something, push, grab or shove) the incident rates were equal for men and women. In severe violence (kick, bite, hit with a fist, hit or try to hit with something, beat up the other, threaten with a knife or gun, use a knife or gun) more men were victimized than women.
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harrymudd
04:37 PM on 01/22/2012
What do you now want reality to get in the way of politics.
11:35 AM on 01/22/2012
This is a bunch of B.S. This is about a political game, not about domestic violence. I now understand why funding is being cut for DV. What a joke.
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92102
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04:58 AM on 01/22/2012
I didn't see in the story where the sheriff actually allegedly struck his wife. The worst allegation appears that he verbally abused her and grabbed her arm. I am by no means trying to defend anyone that engages in domestic violence, but based on the limited information presented here....
a soap opera actress, an elected official, an argument, a neighbor with a video camera, a bruised arm, denial by both parties that there was violence..... this might be a heated argument that got blown way out of proportion. I'm not saying nothing happened, but lets put things into prospective and get the facts before ruining this family.
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harrymudd
06:40 AM on 01/22/2012
Add in a DA with a political motive; a fame seeking neighbor and a judge who still thinks she is a prosecutor.
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dbrett480
11:38 AM on 01/22/2012
I personally think that is what happened. He won't be convicted, but that really isn't the question. The debate is centered on whether he should be Sheriff. Based on his dishonesty and temperament, most people (including myself) think he should step down and let someone who is actually qualified take his place.
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harrymudd
04:35 PM on 01/22/2012
I disagree. What dishonesty did he show? Nobody has shown it to me. This is precisely the goal. The opponents did not win so they want to push him out. If this works just wait for it to be the norm. Powers don't like a person they set him up. Just like Spitzer.
07:45 PM on 01/21/2012
All the makings of a abusive husband and a woman with a desire to be hurt. If she is too stupid to leave him, then stop wasting tax payers money to protect her and the child.
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harrymudd
06:47 AM on 01/22/2012
More like all the makings of a political soap opera. The sad part is that it is hurting real people. And those who are quick to convict do not help the matter.
02:47 PM on 01/21/2012
He did it. NEXT...
08:28 PM on 01/21/2012
His wife said that she had NO fear of her husband, she also said that people were trying to destroy her family. NEXT ...
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harrymudd
06:55 AM on 01/22/2012
How about justice and the right of adults to free association. You convicted him just like that. Say there was a struggle; how do you know she did not hit him? Maybe she tried to hit him and stopped her causing the bruise. By your logic any woman may scratch herself; get a video tape and husband is guilty. Anyway she is denouncing the RTO to me it means big brother should keep out. This is what people will call government gone wild. This is not helping the cause of real abuse in families rather opposite.
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harrymudd
03:47 AM on 01/21/2012
This is court ordered "divorce" which reminds me of a case in Egypt. As well as colonial England. Where a prosecutor and judge would "force" a couple to divorce agaisnt their mutual will. Oddly Huffington Post is mostly allowing posts of those supporting this outrage.
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Learn to grow banannas
11:37 PM on 01/20/2012
Cops are a trip, they use that "system" against their fodder in the poor neighborhoods and politically if someone threatens their rice bowl. Totally sick individuals. My own Sheriff arrests anyone who runs against him. Needless to say, these days he goes unopposed.
12:28 PM on 01/21/2012
How is that possible? He has to have probable cause to be arrested, and a really unliked indivdual within the police department because to run, I imagine you'd have to be a cop. If this is true, why are you not wistle blowing this out of the water?
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Foodgrade
Learn to grow banannas
01:10 PM on 01/21/2012
Me a cop? That's funny. No, the guy was framed up, all in the papers and all. It was dropped right after the election. Probable cause is whatever a cop says it is.
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CaliforniaGirl
09:21 PM on 01/20/2012
lopez should absolutely leave her son out of it-- she says she was wearing a shirt her son was wearing that said" I want Daddy back" -- always leave children out of these circumstances-- the same son Lopez told her other neighbor was present and upset by daddy pushing mommy-- Is Lopez lying is Lopez hiding an abuser? Lopez is making the case worse not better and using her son as a pawn--
10:06 PM on 01/20/2012
Lopez is suffering from the typical "cycle of Domestic Violence" syndrome http://www.domesticviolence.org/cycle-of-violence/ . This is going to be a tough road ahead. Ross should step down till this matter is resolved and allow an interim sheriff do the job. As an officer of the law, he should be required to take a leave of absence till this matter is resolved.
11:15 PM on 01/20/2012
Agreed, if this were a regular police officer, or sheriff....charged and arraigned on a crime...he/she would be removed from public work....until the criminal case is resolved

Even if he is acquitted....future sherifs and officers will surely point out this inconsistany.
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Foodgrade
Learn to grow banannas
11:40 PM on 01/20/2012
It kinda stinks that it so happens to be an issue during an election don't you think? Why was he not brought down long ago? He crossed someone. How corrupt.
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CaliforniaGirl
09:18 PM on 01/20/2012
I dislike faulting a " victim" but as I see it-- lopez went to her neighbor asked the neighbor to videotape her so she would proof if her husband tried to take her son away- showing 0off a bruise she said and a story where the husband was alleged to have pushed and pulled her in front of the son-- causing a bruise-- and telling her she " did not deserve to eat" this woman then refuses to co-operate and goes on foreign radio and gives interviews and statements to the press that this is a debacle and tragedy for her--------WHICH SHE STARTED ------IS SHE LYING ? DID SHE HIT Mirkarimi ( sorry about caps) she went to neighbor and asked for video help-- now Lopez says it never occurred and rich rich people are against her progressive politics husband --whaaaaaaaaat?
08:36 PM on 01/20/2012
If this lawyer/neighbor didn't report it...and the violence escalated to serious injury or worst.....would she be responsible legally? I hear that Eliana Lopez and their legal team are attempting to say that the discussion is privileged under attorney/client disclosure rules.....NOT.....you have to hire the lawyer first.

Also the idea that the lawyer had a political axe to grind.....smacks untrue..as the neighbor held a fund raiser for his run for sheriff and donated $500 to his campaign... this smells like a scramble to me.

If there is any truth to these allegations..he should step down..admit it...get a plea deal...get family counseling.....ask for forgiveness....and then start his new job as sheriff.
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Foodgrade
Learn to grow banannas
11:42 PM on 01/20/2012
Except that he can't. A person convicted of domestic violence can't own a gun and you can't be a cop unless you can carry a gun. You see, in the U.S., with cops, the gun is the main thing.
12:55 AM on 01/21/2012
Foodgrade....not entirely true.....he is charged only with misdemeanor..as opposed to felonies..... He can carry if convicted of MISD...but not Felony... also in SF the head sheriff really doesn't need to pack..as they don't do street patrol..they do jails, and security for the courts only
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harrymudd
03:31 AM on 01/21/2012
So you convict him without hearing evidence. Without jury or trial right?
04:08 AM on 01/21/2012
Harrymud,

Learn to read. I said "IF" there is any truth to the allegations.......IF IF IF IF
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Foodgrade
Learn to grow banannas
01:26 PM on 01/21/2012
It doesn't really matter does it? The cops used the system for their infighting and this guy is out. But stop it, I'm, about to burst into tears at the thought of a cop having his civil rights violated.
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04:39 PM on 01/20/2012
The first mistake Eliana Lopez made was going to her neighbor to gossip and complain about her husband and not realizing that the neighbor, being a lawyer and an officer of the court, had the responsibility and duty to tell the cops!
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dbrett480
07:51 PM on 01/20/2012
That wasn't a mistake if it caused this knucklehead to be revealed as a wife-beater.
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harrymudd
03:31 AM on 01/21/2012
And all based on hearsay evidence. Did anyone see this? Was it not possible the wife originally lied and is now telling the truth?