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Dental Phobia: 7 Common Fears, And How To Conquer Them

First Posted: 02/10/2012 7:51 am   Updated: 02/13/2012 11:32 am

The loud whirr of the dental tools.

Your dentist's eyes, peeking out over the sterile (some may say ominous-looking) green mask.

Leaning back in the seat, pinned down by the heavy protective bib that protects your body from radiation during dental X-rays.

Scraping with sharp tools to chip away at the stains on your teeth. Then the dentists' toothbrush, followed by suctioning and sprays of water from the mini water jet.

It sounds like a typical visit to the dentist. But for many people with some degree of dental phobia -- technically called dentophobia or odontophobia -- it's the worst experience in the world.

People with dental phobias have a reflex to feel a fight-or-flight response when they visit the dentist, explained New York City-based dentist Dr. Louis Siegelman, D.D.S., who works in private practice and also is a clinical assistant professor in pediatric dentistry at New York University.

"It's life or death, it's fight for your life or run for your life," he told HuffPost. "That's really what the core of this mechanism is."

Siegelman's dental practice isn't typical -- he specializes in people who have extreme dental phobias. He said the phobias can be a result of a multitude of things, including having a previous traumatic experience at the dentist (maybe a previous anesthetization wasn't done properly), feeling extreme discomfort while having a dental procedure done (maybe the person has trouble breathing while having work done), and having an accident where maybe a person needed stitches in or near the mouth, imprinting that scary moment in memory.

Siegelman said he sees patients who haven't been to the dentist in years because they're so afraid of coming in. For some people, this just reinforces their negative view of the dentist -- because they hadn't been in for their regular checkups, their teeth are in bad shape, just making the dental work they have to have done more extensive.

Even though Siegelman's patients are on the more extreme end of dental phobia -- "I've met people out in the hallway hugging the wall, I've had people I've had to meet outside the office because they couldn't bring themselves in," he said -- a lot of tips and tricks he uses with his patients can also apply to people who are more mildly anxious about the dentist.

About five percent of people have severe dental fear, according to researchers from the Sahlgrenska Academy at the University of Gothenburg in Sweden. Those researchers found five strategies that people use to get over their fear of the dentist; their findings are published in the journal Acta Odontologica Scandinavica.

Their study showed that common coping practices include distracting yourself (counting to yourself or playing mental games so that you think about something else), distancing (telling yourself the pain feels like something else), prayer (praying that the dental treatment will end soon), self-efficacy (telling yourself to be strong), and optimism (telling yourself that everything will be OK after the dental treatment).

Of course, the best way to avoid having to have scary procedures done at the dentist is to practice prevention, Siegelman said. If you know that you're someone who's afraid of the dentist, it would best serve you to "be hyper-vigilant about taking care of your teeth to make sure there's less for them [the dentists] to do," he said.

Here are some common things that people are afraid of during a dental visit, and what you and the dentist can do to help soothe those fears:

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When Siegelman receives a new patient, he often doesn't jump right into the cleaning or dental procedure in the first visit. Instead, he sits with the new patient in his office -- with the door open, so there's no feelings of claustrophobia -- just to talk, so the patient can get to know him first.

Siegelman said that other people with milder dental phobia can also ask to meet with their dentist first to help quell fears. While not all dentists may not have the luxury of time to be able to do this, it's worth asking a dentist before scheduling an appointment if you think it will help you feel more at ease, he said.
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The loud whirr of the dental tools. Your dentist's eyes, peeking out over the sterile (some may say ominous-looking) green mask. Leaning back in the seat, pinned down by the heavy protective bib...
The loud whirr of the dental tools. Your dentist's eyes, peeking out over the sterile (some may say ominous-looking) green mask. Leaning back in the seat, pinned down by the heavy protective bib...
 
 
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50 minutes ago (10:46 PM)
Dental phobia is a very real thing. It is affecting more and more people each year. Can be quite debilitating. The sad thing is I am seeing more and more kids affected by this as well. I recently wrote an article about overcoming this phobia. If interested follow link.....
http://mperronedds.hubpages.com/hub/Top-10-Ways-to-Get-Over-Your-Dental-Fear
12:07 AM on 02/17/2012
I had some really bad dental experiences when I was a kid ... fortunately, we found a great dentist when I was about 16 years old (back in 1973). Dr. Laub was the greatest. Of course this was back in the days when a filling cost about $6.00 - $8.00 dollars. I was in the military for 20 years so all that dental care was free -- and now because of my disability rating with the Veterans Administration all my dental care is free through the VA.

My husband has to go to a regular dentist - he has insurance through his work plan - ALL DENTISTS ARE NOT EQUAL (as you know). One good thing about the dentist my husband has here in Las Vegas is that they only charge HIM whatever the insurance will pay. He never has any nasty unexpected surprises about "you own an additional $$$".

For people without dental insurance try and see if there's a DENTAL SCHOOL / COLLEGE close to you - they do the work for a fraction of the cost that most dentists charge.
11:42 PM on 02/16/2012
Dentists are way too expensive. I have no dental insurance, either. There is also something absolutely terrifying about someone drilling so close to your nerve endings. I usually require more novocaine than most people, but the dentist never believes me until he gives me the usual amount and I nearly faint from the sharp pain I feel when he starts the drill. Then he gives me another shot or 3 and I'm good, but it's so much novocaine that I can't talk and I drool for the rest of the day.
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Robert Grif
10:31 PM on 02/16/2012
Laughing gas helps.
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cqdeed
Filling the mind with facts...or trivia?
09:33 PM on 02/16/2012
I plain ol' don't like pain. I also don't like the helpless feeling of being forced to submit to the pain. Going to the dentist is on the top of my list of things to avoid. Going to the dentist is like voluntary punishment for not taking better care of my teeth. The fear has even gotten me to floss.
mscellanus
U may kiss it!
08:53 PM on 02/16/2012
The worst fear is not going to the Dentist and until it's too late and you lose your teeth. So make sure to make it a habit of visiting your Dentist and not letting Dental problems get out of hand.

I love my smile and seeing my teeth looking healthy.
mscellanus
U may kiss it!
08:50 PM on 02/16/2012
My biggest fear is seeing the bill I get afterwards! It really hurts.
10:50 PM on 02/16/2012
That has far more to do with my not going to a dentist. I kinda want to have a roof over my head, and I'm in the habit of wanting food to eat. Being self employed, there's some things you just can't afford.
mscellanus
U may kiss it!
11:16 PM on 02/16/2012
harleyatl, after years of mocking and laughing at the English for their bad teeth, now the U.S. is catching up to them. Too bad that Obamacare doesn't include Dental care. It is highway robbery what these Dentists charge.
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viper1ex19
IF IT’S FUN…….IT’S PROBABLY ILLEGAL….
08:21 PM on 02/16/2012
Dentists make me ill when I think about how ridiculous their rates are.
I have BCBS insurance and a dentist wanted to charge my insurance plus bla bla dollars out of pocket to work on my teeth and I found another dentist to do the same work for less bla bla dollars and not even use my insurance.

The dentist/doctors and insurance companies have a GREAT BIG SCAM going on and our government supports it.
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carolecray
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08:16 PM on 02/16/2012
Dentist! Ptawh!!! As far as I am concerned any visit to dentist is painful. For me almost fatal. The dentist tried some new coating on my teeth. He coated a bad tooth and six months later I almost died of an abscess. They also never believe that you are actually in pain.
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m320753
06:42 PM on 02/16/2012
my father told me when i was 7 or 8; he said son don't fear any thing in this world, or it will own you. if you want to fear something, fear the wrath of God on judgement day
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Kelly5472
06:16 PM on 02/16/2012
So the way to not be afraid of the dentist is to.....not be afraid? Thanks for the deep, insightful information!

When I was supposed to go to the dentist for the first time, my two older brothers spent all morning telling me about the horrible things he would do to me with drills and picks and tools to the point I was in total hysterics by the time we were on our way, and my Mom had to turn the car around and cancel the appointment. As I got older, I've still had a silly fear of the dentist and all things dental pain. I am lucky to have healthy teeth and gums, and make (yes MAKE) myself go for a cleaning every few years.........but I still am overly sensitive to it.
06:15 PM on 02/16/2012
http://youtu.be/XBqY6cJD3CE
06:12 PM on 02/16/2012
Thanks for the uselsess information. Dentist phobia is real, this articles advice is not.
05:17 PM on 02/16/2012
Just this article has me sick to my stomach. I can't even think about going to a dentist without getting ill *sigh*
04:00 PM on 02/16/2012
Agree with fear of the bill. I pay more to my dentist than I make in car payments.

But FEAR OF PAIN!!!. The last time I went, he started rapping my teeth with the metal handle of one of his tools. I swear I levitated with pain. When gravity finally won the battle and I was back in the chair (which is also agonizing because it is too small (I'm 6'8") I asked him why he did that and he said, "To see which tooth hurt." How about ASKING me??????
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DoggieMom
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05:20 PM on 02/16/2012
Sounds like an episode of the Three Stooges 'The Tooth Will Out', lol.
11:44 PM on 02/16/2012
I feel your pain. But the dentist can't just ask you. If you google pictures of the trigeminal nerve (the one whose endings go into your teeth, you'll see how convoluted and branched it is. That means you can have referred pain, meaning you may feel the pain coming from one of your molars, but actually the tooth that has a cavity is further up front, but the pain signal is not specific enough to determine that on your own.