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Jorge Gutierrez, Undocumented Queer Activist Works To Bring LGBT And Pro-Immigration Groups Together

First Posted: 02/14/2012 12:24 pm Updated: 02/14/2012 4:11 pm

Jorge By Julio Salgado
Jorge, by Julio Salgado

Jorge GutiƩrrez, 27, was addressing a hall packed with almost 200 young people in Memphis, Tennessee.

Like him, they were brought to the United States as children. Like him, they grew up as Americans. Although they were bilingual, English was their first language.

Their parents came illegally, so they too, are undocumented.

Then, he told them that he is not only undocumented, but also gay. He asked the pro-immigrant organizations represented there to be inclusive. If there were others who, like him, were undocumented and LGBT, he asked them to stand up and come down to the front.

One by one, more than 20 activists stood up and approached. Some of them were revealing their sexual identity for the first time. Some were well known activists in the DREAMers movement.

GutiƩrrez, currently lives in Santa Ana, California. At the age of 10, he arrived illegally from El Cora, Nayarit, Mexico, with his mother, two brothers and two sisters. In 2008 he graduated from Cal State University - Fullerton with a BA in English.

He is undocumented and queer, one of many.

"Some of the most recognized leaders of the DREAMer movement, who never talked about it, are now out of the closet, and are calling on others to do the same," he told The Huffington Post in a series of phone calls.

Increasingly, scores of undocumented students are joining the ranks of the DREAM Act movement, in support of a federal law -- the Development, Relief and Education for Alien Minors Act (DREAM) -- which would grant legal status to many of them under certain strict conditions. They do this openly -- "undocumented and unafraid," they say.

Opponents label the DREAM Act as "amnesty" and argue that granting legal status to 2 million "illegals" would reward undocumented immigration to the detriment of those who came here legally.

But for Jorge and others who are also gay, the experience of working in an organization fighting for the DREAM Act and which openly challenges current laws may have opened the path to express themselves. For many, this has been a liberating experience because they see it as one struggle: Undocumented and Unafraid; Queer and Unashamed.

Over the last few years, the fight for the DREAM Act has created a new type of legal rights' activist: primarily undocumented Latino students who are resolute in revealing their immigrant status. In some cases, these activists are openly gay and have taken upon an added mission alongside their DREAM Act advocacy.

"In a year, we want to organize a meeting between the main LGBT organizations and the main pro-immigrant organizations" so they can work as allies, said GutiƩrrez.

He is one of the founders of DeColores Queer Orange County, a group created in 2009 that "focuses on narrowing the gap of needs of Latino/a Queer individuals."

"They are no longer afraid," they state.

Jorge also seems unafraid, and even combative, in a new video released today by the civil rights organization Cuentame, or "Tell Me" in Spanish, part of the non-profit Brave New Foundation.

"CuƩntame is a production and documentary campaign organization for Latinos, by Latinos," says Axel Caballero, the Mexican-born founding director of the group, in an interview with The Huffington Post.

The video, says Caballero, is part of a series that "as a whole breaks a taboo within the Latino community, as it is often the case that things like that go unspoken, hidden.ā€

As for Jorge Gutierrez, these days he is busy working on the board of directors of United We Dream, a network which identifies itself as "the nation's largest immigrant youth-led organization," as well as on collaborative projects with the UCLA Labor Center.

Recently, said Gutierrez, "in United We Dream we pushed for the Queer Undocumented Immigrant Project" or QUIP. A United We Dream statement GutiƩrrez sent to The Huffington Post states: "The Dream Movement has begun to intentionally acknowledge and praise the contribution of Queer undocumented immigrant youth to the movement."

"Faggot, illegal, dyke, wetback, pervert and alien," are some of the insults directed at both "the LGBTQ and the immigrant communities," states the document. The project aims to "engage Queer Undocumented immigrant youth in intentional dialogue with allies in the LGBTQ and Immigrant Rights Movements.

While the quest for immigration reform is an issue which has generated confrontation between the Latino community and external groups, the individual path which persons traverse in recognizing their own sexuality is an inward one, and confrontation around it can occur within a family.

Jorge describes repeatedly struggling to be accepted with dignity since he was six years old and still living in Mexico, stating how he was rejected by his own father. "I knew I was different from my brothers, but I didn't know how to explain it; but for my father, everything was clear. Society told him that people like me go to Hell. He was very repressive: don't walk like this, don't play like this, don't speak like this... and then severed all relations with me, like I didn't exist. He used to take my brothers to the country, or the city, without me. I felt ashamed and bad, and even considered suicide."

"I am alive thanks to my mom."

A constant presence in Jorge's life is his mother.

"I was around 15 years old and she was driving me somewhere. Suddenly she stopped and asked me if I liked girls. I was afraid I was going to lose her love like I lost my dad's and I almost lied to her. But I told her the truth because I remembered just then that she always told me to be myself." His mother, Amelia Cortez, who works cleaning houses, is now an important ally and talked to The Huffington Post.

"I already knew, but I wanted to be sure. It was a critical moment," stated Mrs. Cortez in a phone interview in Spanish. "I wanted to protect him, even though I am not a schooled person; I knew that there is a lot of hatred against them, like they are not normal, although they are. Like his father felt."

And she added: "Men in our culture are such machistas."

"It was like in a telenovela", said Jorge, remembering his coming out to his mother. "She told me to leave the car and followed me. We hugged. She recognized that she may not understand everything, but she will always, always love me. From that moment I became able to explore my identity as a gay man."

Jorge's father lives somewhere in California with his daughters. He is not in touch with his son. But Jorge continues his activism: for rights; recognition and dignity. And he continues to dream. "I want to pursue a Master’s degree or a doctorate to study the LGBT Latino youth community, so as a professional I'll be able to contribute." Shooting the video for Cuentame was part of this path.

"With this video and this series," said Axel Caballero, "we want to create an honest conversation on a nationwide basis, one that can engage families at the dinner table in real, although often uncomfortable, discussions about Latino youth."

"Because if not us, then who?"


Illustration by Julio Salgado


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01:11 PM on 03/14/2012
I applaud this person for all that he has endured and for getting his education but the writer of this article I think made a mistake.
This is what he wrote:

Like him, they were brought to the United States as children. Like him, they grew up as Americans. Although they were bilingual, English was their first language.

That is wrong !!!, English is not their first language especially since they were born from a different country unless they were born there but raised here before they started talking which is very unlikely, What the writer should have wrote is that English is their primary language NOT first language, Hell English wasn't my first language either and I was born here lol but English is my primary language. I know conversational Spanish but since I was born and went to schools in the US, I concentrated more on English so it depends who raised you and where you were raised.
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Karissa36
Saving lost boys and fighting pirates.
02:55 PM on 02/20/2012
Another "Dreamer", who at age 27, has been out of college for 5 years. He has now been illegally in the U.S. as an adult, longer than he was as a child. This is the "Dreamer" bait and switch. The proposed law does NOT only apply to children. Most of the "Dreamers" covered by the law have children themselves.
09:36 AM on 02/19/2012
Take all your goofy counter culture toxic behavior/issues and go back where you came from. We have enough on our plate without your goofy selfish issues...LEAVE..try Iran, they'll embrace you.
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05:52 PM on 02/18/2012
It takes a lot of courage to step up and stand out when the price is deportation.
12:26 AM on 02/18/2012
The indigenous people of North America should have asked to see our papers.
mira chancleta
No ball-balancing, clapping, belching seals!
11:00 AM on 02/17/2012
...and under arrest!
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11:25 PM on 02/23/2012
You commit 3 felonies a day on average...(as does each US citizen on average) So you're an illegal. Do you feel any different? Do you find the idea of that non-sense language to be upsetting. Do you want to lash out and deny it. Do you want to quibble?

Well, please do so, then show some empathy and respect. Show that you belong to the human race... Stop your xenophobic hate.
mira chancleta
No ball-balancing, clapping, belching seals!
12:28 AM on 02/24/2012
que que?
07:48 AM on 02/17/2012
Thanks to Your Mom you're alive, wee Thanks to your Mom your illegal. Protest her!!!!
tlewis5285
Seriously?
02:37 PM on 02/17/2012
First fan!
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11:26 PM on 02/23/2012
the first of few. Because hate doesn't tend to build a big fan club.

Anti-immigrant people are just stupid to the core, don't understand history, and are enemies to the nation..
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Karissa36
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06:10 PM on 02/16/2012
Do you think if his parents had illegally brought him as a child to Siberia, he would be insisting that he can't return to Mexico?
AllegroTroppo
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01:34 PM on 02/16/2012
On the fringe right---Tea Baggers. On the fringe left-- Tea Baguettes.
Sigh.. what a rational person to do...
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ModerateCentrist
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02:59 PM on 02/16/2012
become an Independent.
AllegroTroppo
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03:21 PM on 02/16/2012
Yep. And stop listening to Chomsky and Limbaugh.
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Viper1st
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09:24 AM on 02/16/2012
Jorge GutiƩrrez = Jose Antonio Vargas, wanna be
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11:30 PM on 02/23/2012
Um, no. One is a journalist the other is an activist. To the degree JAV has crossed over he's wanting to be like Jorge.
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05:33 AM on 02/16/2012
"Jorge GutiĆ©rrez, 27," "GutiĆ©rrez, currently lives in Santa Ana, California. At the age of 10, he arrived illegally from El Cora, Nayarit, Mexico, with his mother, two brothers and two sisters. In 2008 he graduated from Cal State University - Fullerton with a BA in English." 

And I am not even going to go into how this family of 6 people were able to work, go to school, including college, eat, get medical, get housing, drive a vehicle, register a vehicle, get insurance on a vehicle, etc with no legal documentation, and could budget for all this with the Mom cleaning houses.

The part that bothers me the most is his attitude. He is 27 now, he has been here since the age of 10, so 17 yrs. He has been an adult since he was 18, yet at 27 he is still blaming Mom for bringing him over illegally and not taking any responsibility for his actions as an adult. So while he was able to get a BA at Cal State, he is taking no responsibility for making any attempt to reconcile his illegal status. 

If a kid is raised by parents who make their money engaging in illicit activities, say selling drugs, gambling, prostitution, mafia, etc, they bear no responsibility for these activities until they become an adult. Once they are over 18 and aware that the money comes from illicit activities and by virtue of accepting these activities and income, they are culpable, at least morally and probably legally too, for the activities along with the parents.

At some point when you become an adult, no matter what position your parents have put you in, you are now responsible for your own actions. My Dad always told us "You can do anything you are "man enough" to take the consequences for!". 

So Jorge, "man up" and get yourself to an immigration lawyer and get the papers started to be here legally. 
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05:45 PM on 02/16/2012
He probably has no grounds to become legal.

Many don't.

I am not defending illegal immigration, but not everybody can become legal, according to the law.
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08:38 PM on 02/16/2012
He has a BA from Cal State so he should be able to get a work visa for starters. Those with an education are more in demand. Also, many people who come here have someone sponsor them. 

Back in the late 80s, early 90s, when I notarized documents for the last Amnesty, many of those working on ranches couldn't even write their name, in Spanish or English. They would just make an X. Now those were the ones who would have the hardest time finding grounds for legal immigration. 

Link for Immigration website. It is a process, not everyone will be eligible but we do have immigration laws and we need people to obey them. The rest of us don't get to pick and choose which laws we want to obey without consequences. 

http://www.uscis.gov/portal/site/uscis
AllegroTroppo
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06:55 PM on 02/15/2012
Being queer is now an excuse for being also illegal?
Amazing lack of logic...
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01:20 PM on 02/15/2012
ĘÉØŃ•hŅ Ń”e says of Native American's attitude towards homosexuality;

"Respect for all", "non-interference" and the knowledge that "no one path is the right path for all", are fundamental values in my society.

There would not have been (is not) an issue one way or the other.

It would have been (is) recognised that they are different, without any rejection of them as a person with value. Like everyone else.

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Anishinaabe (Chippewa/Ojibwa)
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05:45 AM on 02/17/2012
That sounds nice but you also know, as well as I do, homosexuality is not openly accepted in Native American culture.

They are "accepted" but they are "shunned".

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09:11 AM on 02/17/2012
That is a bold assumption about what I know there ladydoberman. And it is quite wrong,

But if what you say about Native Americans attitude to homosexuality is true then perhaps they have simply adopted the habit from us, as they are wont to do, for example their move to capitalism.
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TruelyFedUp
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01:19 PM on 02/15/2012
God, get rid of the "queer" moniker will you please? It is utterly demeaning.
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12:46 AM on 02/17/2012
Simply being illegal is not enough these days. Playing the gay card might be worth trying since screaming racism isn't working anymore.
01:13 AM on 02/17/2012
that is the first thing I thought of too when I saw the headline lol
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11:35 PM on 02/23/2012
How are you demeaned by it?

I'm a queer-identified natural born male. And I take great comfort in that self-understanding.
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09:04 AM on 02/24/2012
How am I demeaned by it - because I am connected to you and other people of different sexual orientation. You are part of my family and I, my dear, am more comfortable when my family members are honored socially, not made seperate by a name which in my experience was intended to diminish others.

As for you, you are loved and I am glad that you are comfortable.