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Ricky Martin Talks Sex, Gay Marriage, Fatherhood And What He's Done For Love In 'Details'

Ricky Martin Details

First Posted: 02/15/2012 2:47 pm Updated: 02/16/2012 5:00 pm

Ricky Martin has remained mostly tight-lipped about his personal life since coming out in 2010. But in the March issue of Details magazine, the Latin pop singer reveals some surprisingly intimate details about both fatherhood and his relationship with longtime partner Carlos Gonzalez.

In the interview, the 40-year-old Martin quickly dismisses reports that he had sought citizenship in Spain in an effort to wed Gonzalez under that nation's same-sex marriage laws. "Everybody is asking me when I’m going to get married," he said. "People that I don’t know are pushing it. But it’s not something that we’re talking about."

Still, the star -- who has spoken of his desire to eventually get married -- talks in depth about his views on marriage equality: "I don't want to blame the government. I think there’s a stolen faith –- an interpretation of what God 'says.' That's your God -- I have my God. It’s about civil rights. I'm not telling you what to believe. I wish people understood that love manifests in different ways. Allow me to have my life and I won’t mess with yours."

Other choice quotes from the interview:

On working out:
“I'm a father to two toddlers. And lifting them is a workout – this is biceps, this is triceps. I also try to make love. That helps."

On the most spontaneous thing he had ever done for a man:
"I cancelled a show once to be with someone that I loved. My manager came up with some excuse. It was the most expensive date I’ve ever been on."

When you came out, you said, “I am, very blessed to be who I am." What did you mean?
"Well, I don’t know who your God is, but my God doesn’t make mistakes."

Martin is also certainly keeping busy on the professional front. Having won raves for his guest appearance on the hit TV series "Glee," he's scheduled to star in the much-anticipated Broadway revival of Andrew Lloyd Webber's musical "Evita," opposite Argentine actress Elena Roger in the title role.

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Ricky Martin has remained mostly tight-lipped about his personal life since coming out in 2010. But in the March issue of Details magazine, the Latin pop singer reveals some surprisingly intimate deta...
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robjh1
That Job Just Isn't Into You!
11:13 PM on 04/05/2012
Cancelled a concert to be with someone he loved? I hope that love was reciprocated.
10:24 AM on 02/17/2012
Thank you Ricky for making it somewhat easier for those of us who are discriminated against on a daily basis. I respect your courage and determination, as do many, many others in our community.
10:20 AM on 02/17/2012
Your Awesome Ricky, and many of us are so thankful for your strength and support in a world were we are so discriminated against.
05:08 AM on 02/17/2012
Christians like bullying gays and the worst part is that they use the bible to do it. But the skip the adultery, eating shrimp ect.

The bible also says:

We should stone to death disobedeant children.
We should stone to death women that aren't virgin in their wedding day
Ect

HOW COME WE HAVEN'T SEEING "ONE CHRISTIAN" DO THAT, IF IS IN THE BIBLE AND GOD TELLS US TO DO IT?

If christians really want to live by the bible times then change this:

Cut off your electricity
Moved from your house to a cave
Change your car for a camel
Become vegetarian
Dress in robes
No cutting hair or shaving
AND GET OF THE COMPUTER cause is all UNNATURAL!!!

My point:

Yes is good to be christians and read the bible to see how people USED to live back in the days BUT we can live in the past, because if that's the case let's start dressing like hippies!

I'm christain, I'm gay and I just concentrate in GOD ONLY!! No what people say or do!

After all his message was simple:

LOVE ONE ANOTHER

If you are straight and hate gays (and vice versa) you're disobeying God.

If you are a Closet gay person you're in SIN cause you're LYING to everyone by not telling them who you really are.

LET'S JUST LOVE GOD AND EVERYONE IN GENERAL, WE CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE, WE CAN MAKE A CHANGE!
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ForeignFlier
01:02 PM on 02/17/2012
BRILLIANTLY SAID...!!!!!
08:31 PM on 02/16/2012
Gay or not he can sing.
05:08 PM on 02/16/2012
Hey all you people who think being gay is a choice. How do you know that homosexuality is not Gods form of natural birth control? Maybe he is creating more gay people these days because the earth is overcrowded and soon it won't even be able to feed all of his children.

Think about it!
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DavidEm
Estne Volumen in Toga...?
01:57 PM on 02/16/2012
"Oh, Ricky, you're so fine. You're so fine you blow my mind."

OK, thanks for letting me get that off my chest.
01:54 PM on 02/16/2012
I hate this world it's so many hateful people here where is the love?
12:32 PM on 02/16/2012
the bible is clear on a lot of things but it can be confusing also....for instance it says that if man lays with man and women lay with women they shall burn in hell for only a man a woman can have children...but here we are,we have let science over come that with artificial incemination...i think its ok for the most part if a couple cant conceive but where do we draw the line on who should benefit from this...straight or not straight couples?...and I'm sorry but our children are confused enough with our media and entertainment folks running rampent they should have to wonder why they 2 momies or daddies?
roscoewpa
Dont Hate, Appreciate
10:25 PM on 02/16/2012
Read your bible again theres not mention of lesbian sex in the bible. It says if a man lay with a man as a man lays with a women.
06:36 AM on 02/17/2012
I think that just means use a different position..
12:30 PM on 02/16/2012
Personally, I will never understand how two men can love each other romantically; and I realize that the trendy thing is to go with the flow. As long as it doesn't affect me and those close to me, more power to them. In fact, I wish that there were more gay men; that way, there would be more women for me.
06:41 AM on 02/17/2012
Well, personally, as a gay man, I will never understand how a man and a woman can love each other romantically; and I realize that's the trendy thing to do, as long as it doesn't affect me and those close to me, more power to them. In fact, I wish there were more gay men, that way, there would be more for me.
09:39 PM on 02/17/2012
William, I really don't understand how a "real man" cannot like a beautiful woman with supple, firm breasts, and a nice butty. But I guess that if I understood, then I would be like you; thank God I don't understand!
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11:15 PM on 02/18/2012
Nice try. But for straight women it IS a CHOICE. And more gay men does not guarantee you more women.
12:29 PM on 02/16/2012
Dang. I guess HuffPost specializes in Gay Articles.
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DavidEm
Estne Volumen in Toga...?
01:54 PM on 02/16/2012
Please make a count of the gay articles, and compare the total to the number of non-gay articles.

Get back to us on that, will you?
06:34 PM on 02/16/2012
wow, still only 2 fans. quit trolling the gay articles, closet case
11:49 AM on 02/16/2012
I had an idea of what i was going to see in the comments section and i was not dissappointed! More hypocritical bible freaks. This is the book that condones slavery throughout its entirety and yet Christians say "oh well, these passages were the results of faults in man" yet they take passages about the treatment of gays as word of god. Total hypocrisy.
jm26dream
gaining fans despite posting ridiculous things
12:20 PM on 02/16/2012
Hey don't knock my sexual insecurity projected on those who differ from me!
11:40 AM on 02/16/2012
Did you ever notice how the hateful people tout their belief in God as a way to judge their fellow man? The bible says many things to guide us through this human expirence. We are all created as perfect souls and I too believe God makes no mistakes.
jm26dream
gaining fans despite posting ridiculous things
12:21 PM on 02/16/2012
The Bible says what I WANT it to say! You have to judge others or God won't love you
06:01 PM on 02/16/2012
I'VE USED THAT "GOD DOESN'T MAKE MISTAKES" EXCUSE TO DO WHAT I WANTED TO DO 'AT THE TIME' A FEW TIMES MYSELF = THEN I GREW UP!
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dre31
11:37 AM on 02/16/2012
Rick Martin is a nice looking guy
chuckl4826
OMG Jan.2013 The end of the "PUD"ERROR!
12:23 PM on 02/16/2012
You can't spell...guy should be gay!
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ForeignFlier
01:06 PM on 02/17/2012
What a stupid thing to say.....
Gay or no gay is a guy...!!!!
And a very good looking one...!!!!!!
11:35 AM on 02/16/2012
gay marriage?....another issue...just get in line..with the breakdown in ethics and the me first generation..society wont last long enough to settle this issue....the divorce rate is only going to get worse.until people take marriage seriously...civil union rights...yes...marriage..no
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novaguy1968
01:25 PM on 02/16/2012
Exactly....like the way Britney, JLO, Kim, Pamela Anderson, et al all took marriage seriously.
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Rick4646
Union-worker, make working-class strong again
07:05 AM on 02/17/2012
actually since MA passed gay marriage, divorce rates went down.