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Lois Hayes, Retired Teacher, Sends Handwritten Birthday Cards To Former Students

First Posted: 02/28/2012 12:21 pm Updated: 02/29/2012 2:11 pm

Lois Hayes

Lois Hayes, 66, may have retired from her career at an elementary school, but she hasn't forgotten her former students.

Every week the Lexington, Miss., resident rolls through an index of cards with past students' names and birthdays. And every week, she sends out a handful of handwritten, personal birthday notes for the upcoming birthdays -- about 400 each year, MSNBC's The Daily Nightly reports.

Hayes says the tradition began when she decided she wanted her students to know they were "special." "It brings back memories to think of them, and what they were like when I taught them," she says.

“When I retired, I really was afraid we would not be able to send cards anymore,” Hayes told the news source. “I buy the cards by the box and it has never been a problem, coming up with the postage or buying the cards. The Lord has provided for us, so it has been a joy to be able to do it.”

Hayes isn't the only one to get a bit of joy out of the birthday cards. Her former students continue to be inspired by their teacher -- including Jessica Donald, who eventually became a teacher herself.

“When I see my former students out I always try to give them a smile, or a big old hug if they’re willing,” Donald told The Daily Nightly. “I try to keep up with their lives… it’s never too late. I may pick up the tradition of sending them birthday cards.”

"When I got older and parents started telling me how their child was still getting a card in their 20s, I realized how special it was ... You don’t get cards in the mail anymore," says Hayes' daughter Natalie McKinley, 33.

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Lois Hayes, 66, may have retired from her career at an elementary school, but she hasn't forgotten her former students. Every week the Lexington, Miss., resident rolls through an index of cards wi...
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TankGirlz
Lyrical Combat
02:21 PM on 02/29/2012
I heart teachers!
01:15 PM on 02/29/2012
I HAD A WONDERFUL 6TH GRADE TEACHER. I NEVER LOST TOUCH WITH HER. SHE DIED ON HER 100TH BIRTHDAY 2 YEARS AGO. SHE HAD GONE DEAF BUT STILL LOVED COMPANY AND SHE READ LIPS PRETTY WELL AND SHE JUST LOVED TO CARRY THE CONVERSATION. SHE NEVER FAILED TO ASK OF MY YOUNGER SIBLINGS. THERE WAS NOT A STUDENT SHE HAD NOT KEPT UP WITH FROM OUR LITTLE COMMUNITY. TEACHERS LIKE THAT ARE HARD TO COME BY.
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Mr Anonymous
Mumpsimus, I am not entertained!
09:50 PM on 02/29/2012
That's a nice story. If only she could have taught you about caps lock.
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Mauirascal
01:04 PM on 02/29/2012
A favorite teacher is one of the memories that I cherish at my age...84. A long time ago...in 1935, my favorite teacher at the southward school in Kennett, MO...was Alice McHaney...and, in the 5th grade in Sikeston, MO, my favorite teacher was Ruth Bateman. My favorite high school teachers was Alice Geier and Sheila Thorpe...Covina Union High School in Covina, CA...1942-45...Some teachers just go out of their way to leave an indelible image of the minds of some students...I am sure that there are some of those still today! 4 teachers that made a difference in my life...a long time ago.
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Samsdog212
09:09 PM on 02/29/2012
It was nice to hear your story. I too have great memories of some teachers from my school days. And my dad was a high school teacher in the South Bronx for 25 years and even when he retired he still had some former students sending him Christmas cards with letters explaining how he had made a difference in their lives. He passed away two years ago and I've saved them all. I just can't throw them out.
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Mauirascal
09:41 PM on 02/29/2012
Thanks so much for your response to my comment! Teachers have a fantastic opportunity to have a positive impact on the lives of many young children...and, for their entire lives!
01:00 PM on 02/29/2012
Nice article
12:44 PM on 02/29/2012
I liked this story. What a gracious thing for Mrs. Hayes to do. She's showing her former students that her caring for them extended far beyond the classroom. True, her action isn't going to save humanity or win her a Nobel Prize, but it sets a lovely example for us all.

I personally think the post office should give her a break on postage. Fat chance!
12:38 PM on 02/29/2012
How can you not admire someone like this. The fact that someone would even take pen to paper in this day and age is amazing by itself. I bet she was an excellent teacher and her kids have benefited from her tutelage all their lives. Well done, Lois ! Well done.
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Endsieg
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12:36 PM on 02/29/2012
We thank the taxpayers of the small rural area for making it possible for this nice teacher to, as the video says, teach for 20 years, and retire at ( it says she has been retired for years) aound 62.
01:04 PM on 02/29/2012
Yes, and she's been giving a gift of love and compassion to her former students ever since.
So don't p*ss on her parade!
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TankGirlz
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02:24 PM on 02/29/2012
JEBUS!! Leave it to a winger to crap on GOOD NEWS
12:33 PM on 02/29/2012
My hero, what a lady, she will keep America alive with thoes kinds of acts, Love, compassion, understanding, caring, Honor, and I honor her for her act's of kindness, I'm a Disabled Vet. 260% and she is doing her part here, HORA for her. She will keep the kids in love and caring with her acts of kindness. A Real AMERICAN, Steve
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12:25 PM on 02/29/2012
Kudos ma'am - bless you.
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brokenleoheart
12:19 PM on 02/29/2012
that is really precious
12:14 PM on 02/29/2012
And we don't give noble peace prizes for the little things, when they are what truly changes the world. What a shame.
12:07 PM on 02/29/2012
Wow, what a lady! Such a nice gesture to do for her students. I'm sure it makes them feel special and gives them a little lift to make their day. If everyone were this kid and considerate we would be reading less and less of the horrific crimes that we see in the news.

To quote a song made famous by the Beatles: "All We Need Is Love".
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Amanda Willenborg
12:00 PM on 02/29/2012
Man, why couldn't I have had a teacher like that in Elementary school instead of ones that made fun of me and treated me like crap just because I was different than the other kids?
11:55 AM on 02/29/2012
Well done Mrs Hayes, well done.
11:37 AM on 02/29/2012
It's nice to see a story finally online that doesn't villify teachers, who work for very little, who care to nurture and support our children.