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Emma Stone: 'I Feel So Fat," And Other Body-Shaming Comments

Emma Stone

  First Posted: 03/12/2012 4:28 pm Updated: 03/12/2012 4:30 pm

By Hanna Brooks Olsen

I really want to like Emma Stone. She’s young, she’s got great style, and she’s funny when she hosts SNL. Unfortunately, she’s making it difficult to get behind her, because she seems to have internalized Hollywood body-shaming and snarking. In a recent interview with S magazine, she had some pretty negative things to say, both about her own body, and about working out in general. Why, Emma Stone? Why?

Stone’s comments weren’t particularly out of the ordinary -- but that’s what’s disappointing about them. She basically repeats the most maddening line that actors continue to troll out: that, in spite of being slender and beautiful, they “hate exercise” and “eat tons of junk.” And, predictably, they feel bad about themselves. For eating. Here’s one quote from the interview:

"I do have that thing of, ‘Oh my God, I’m disgusting –- I ate a huge Wagamama lunch, the whole yaki soba, and I feel so fat.’ But I’m still gonna eat that stuff, and you know what? You can get nice, loose clothes that cover it all up… You won’t hear me saying I have no body issues because I wouldn’t be human if I didn’t."

Hooray! She feels OK to eat food, like a human being! But booooo, she also feels “disgusting” after doing so, and thinks it’s a requirement to feel negative about her own body. This is not the makings of a body-positive role model. But then, maybe she doesn’t need to be a role model -- maybe not every single female in Hollywood needs to be leading a good example of what it looks like to love and care for your own body. Maybe some can just live their lives and we all can just take it or leave it. But if that’s the case, it may be wise to not offer advice about working out… which she went on to do:

"Running is bad for your knees and I like to do things I actually enjoy, like going for a swim. I had a trainer during Spiderman and I discovered I have deep-seated rage when I’m holding heavy weights over my head. Whatever dormant anger I have in me, that’s where it comes out. That’s not the kind of working out I want to do. I would much rather sleep at night than want to throw a weight across a room at someone."

Sigh. Well, at least she’s into swimming, right? That’s kind of a positive thing?

"I haven’t worked out for a month and I’m proud of it!"

Oh. Perhaps not. Stone did have one slightly-positive (but also saddening) comment, which makes me think that she’s trying to be a little more positive.

"Yes, you should be healthy and take care of yourself, but growing up I’ve seen people who have horrible issues with food."

Emma Stone is entitled to her opinions, and plenty of people don’t like to work out and that’s totally acceptable. And I’m sure it’s no easy task to keep up a positive body image under Hollywood’s constant scrutiny. But seeing a beloved female actor continue this kind of unhealthy rhetoric --calling themselves fat, even when they’re clearly slender, etc. -- is always a bummer. Maybe she should meet up for lunch with awesome role model Jennifer Lawrence, or honest, pragmatic body-positive champ Demi Lovato?

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04:12 AM on 03/14/2012
I thought Emma sounded exactly like every other young woman her age. It doesn't sound to me like she was giving advise as much as she was offering her opinions. I think a lot of people see celebrities as being from another planet or belonging to another species when, in fact, they are the same as we mere mortals with our mere mortal issues.
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Adam Koblenz
10:15 PM on 03/13/2012
i'm sorry but i think you're totally understanding this wrong. there's a huge difference between saying you feel fat all the time and saying you feel fat after you've eaten a lot of unhealthy food. and there's a huge difference between saying you "feel fat" and saying "i am so fat." because her feeling that way is conditional, and because that it's not how she feels about herself all the time, there's no body issue. i think the message here is exactly in step with the way americans should be thinking about their bodies. if i eat unhealthily and don't exercise, i may feel bad about my body... if we thought that way, instead of being so sensitive to feeling good about ourselves and loving ourselves for who we are, or yada yada yada, maybe the obesity rate wouldn't be so high?
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Adam Koblenz
10:33 PM on 03/13/2012
thinking about this in retrospect, acceptance of others is really not the reason americans are fat. corn syrup is. but i just think it's the opposite of what we need right now. we shouldn't be tripping over ourselves to love and accept people no matter what their body type. don't pick on them either. but let's call it what it is. it's not beautifully different, it's dangerous and life-threatening...

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08:52 PM on 03/13/2012
She is just young.
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happycat
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08:45 PM on 03/13/2012
I give Stone a lot of credit for being honest and forthcoming about her body image. It seems as if the author of this article, has a personal gripe against Stone, as much as she pretends she doesn't. I have watched and listened to Stone talk about her dislike of exercise and love of food during sever interviews. She comes across as funny and engaging.
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07:05 PM on 03/13/2012
How about expressing some compassion for a person who's obviously struggling with a big problem? Given your apparent concern about people with unhealthy body images, criticizing her seems like the least helpful thing you could do.
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simian sez
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06:50 PM on 03/13/2012
Perhaps all Emma (and people of similar mind) need do every now and again is to take a look at the people of the world around them who are less gifted, less physically attractive and less fortunate and realize that there...but for the grace of whatever god(s) there may be go I.
A little perspective goes a long way.
Frankly Emma...I think you're "cute as a button"!
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Omeezee
06:09 PM on 03/13/2012
Emma what I am willing to do, for free, is join you on a 3 month vacation to St. Tropez and I will do nothing but sit with you at the pool and tell you how "not fat" you are. I won't even take a lunch hour.
05:53 PM on 03/13/2012
Hmm, and somehow I have the impression that if she were to say "I love myself, I exercise all the time, I love the way I look", she'll be called vain.

I applaud and admire her for being honest. When I eat greasy food, I do feel fat and bloated afterwards.Does that make it body-shaming? Doubtful. I have worse things to say about my body. Who doesn't get insecure about their bodies sometimes? Unfortunately, we live in a culture where we feel the need to compare ourselves to others all the time, focus on the negative in ourselves and the positive in others. That's society's fault in general. I find her more brave for standing up and saying: "yes, I have issues too" than if she were to say "it's all fine" and not mean it.

As for the negative comments about working out: I, for one, love running but I would hate exercising by riding my bike. I fail to see how that makes it a negative comment. She loves swimming, she likes other means of exercising. Just because she dislikes certain ways of working out doesn't mean she dislikes all ways of working out. Even if she dislikes working out, period, that is her choice. I won't stop running because she wouldn't want to.
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Dakotadem
05:47 PM on 03/13/2012
Ah, give her a break. Haven't you ever teaten too much at a favorite restaurant and felt "disgusting" afterwards? Who hasn't? She sounds pretty normal - and pretty healthy to me.
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happycat
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08:45 PM on 03/13/2012
I agree with you completely.
05:44 PM on 03/13/2012
I'm not an actor. However, I do eat junk, I am slender, and I hate working out. It's not just repeating that "maddening line that actors continue to troll out" (though as I said, I'm not an actor). I know I'm nowhere near fat/overweight, and you won't hear me say it - but yes, generally, and especially in the Hollywood climate, people are inclined to have SOME time of self body issue. And it may not have anything to do with the weight - it could be the fact that even though some of us are lucky to stay slim and not worry about what we're eating or how much we're working out, there is an element of guilt knowing that it's still not good for us.

Plenty of people DON'T like to work out, you're right -- I don't think "working out" and exercise is a prerequisite to having a healthy image of yourself, though, or that saying "I hate working out" is automatically negative, or that promoting working out is the way to encourage people to have a healthy self-image. In fact, I know several people that work out TOO much and put so much emphasis on that aspect of their "healthy image" that it ends up being destructive.
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Skotyman
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04:41 PM on 03/13/2012
GAWD!.....I love that face.
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itruth
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03:58 PM on 03/13/2012
At a time in life that most young women are looking for affirmation,self definition becomes a task that some find daunting.We need to find a way to be more ok with that.When she is older and has found her way what we say won't amount to a hill of beans.And i think she is very pretty indeed.
03:49 PM on 03/13/2012
I'm sorry I'm just not getting this article. She doesn't exercise, she eats crappy food and then she feels bad about it. Isn't that what we should feel when we know we're not being as disciplined as we should be for the sake of our health. I know I do.

It's true, disgust is a pretty strong word and doesn't really apply with me, but then, at 62 years, I've long since given up exaggerating my emotional states for effect. As she's very young still (and an actress to boot) I'm not too surprised by Ms. Stone's use of the most dramatic word possible to describe her state of mind. Not really sure it means she has issues.
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Highball
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05:47 PM on 03/13/2012
Great post.

This was exactly what I was thinking, but you articulated it better.
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Mindy Czech
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03:29 PM on 03/13/2012
I do that, call myself fat. I lost eighty pounds and am now a size three, but I still see myself as the beached whale I once was.
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03:23 PM on 03/13/2012
Me gusta Emma Stone!