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Mark Foley's Longtime Partner Dies: Report

Posted: 03/23/2012 3:51 pm Updated: 03/24/2012 1:50 am

WASHINGTON -- Layne Nisenbaum, the longtime partner of former Rep. Mark Foley (R-Fla.), died Thursday.

Nisenbaum, 53, was waiting for a liver transplant when he died in a West Palm Beach hospital, according to Gossip Extra, a website that covers celebrity news in Palm Beach, Broward & Miami.

Nisenbaum had been suffering from a rare form of cirrhosis of the liver, the website reports. He was on a transplant list, but Foley said that even if he had received an organ, he may have been too weak to live.

"He'd lost so much weight that it wouldn't have saved him,” Foley told Gossip Extra.

The two had been partners for 28 years but kept their relationship private until 2006, when Foley was forced to reveal his sexuality after admitting to charges that he had been sending sexually explicit emails and text messages to underage males serving as House pages. Foley resigned from Congress and faced investigations by the Federal Bureau of Investigation and the Florida Department of Law Enforcement. Neither ended with criminal findings.

Foley said Nisenbaum stood by him throughout the scandal. “Layne was my most solid supporter through that ordeal,” he told Gossip Extra. “He came to see me in Arizona (where Foley was in rehab) every weekend."

"At one point, he asked me if I was coming home," Foley said. "I told him I would if he'd have me, and he said: ‘Of course.’"

Foley announced last summer that he had prostate cancer and was preparing for surgery. He told a local blog in September that his surgery was successful and he was "progressing ahead of schedule."

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WASHINGTON -- Layne Nisenbaum, the longtime partner of former Rep. Mark Foley (R-Fla.), died Thursday. Nisenbaum, 53, was waiting for a liver transplant when he died in a West Palm Beach hospital, ...
WASHINGTON -- Layne Nisenbaum, the longtime partner of former Rep. Mark Foley (R-Fla.), died Thursday. Nisenbaum, 53, was waiting for a liver transplant when he died in a West Palm Beach hospital, ...
 
 
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05:36 PM on 03/28/2012
Mark. I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I met you recently and we spoke about this. I too lost my partner to liver failure. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and to Laynes family.

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ramal
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06:28 AM on 03/27/2012
Ah, Mr. Foley, think how much more your relationship would have meant if you had stood with your now deceased loved one, proudly, openly with heads held high for all those years. Perhaps you would have felt no need to be propositioning underage pages via email.
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10:53 AM on 03/26/2012
I feel sorry for Mr. Nisenbaum's family and friends. It's hard to lose anyone you care about, but I'm not going to pretend to like Mark Foley. He has been a part of that hypocritical, homophobic right that condemns people for being exactly what he is. There are alot of us who have gay family members, friends and co-workers and we've stood up for their rights and wouldn't dream of supporting any thing that jeopardizes their well-being. Foley is part of a political system that hates people I care about. And it's at this very moment that I'm frustrated that the Republican Party uses all this hateful rhetoric against gay people, women and minorities to win elections but at the end of the day we're all human and we all suffer loss. It's great to know that people are showing Mr. Foley the same compassion that he earlier suggested that people don't deserve.
08:25 PM on 03/25/2012
Layne was my cousin and his loss has devastated our family. I appreciate the kind words. I have known Mark more than half of my life and he and my cousin had a wonderful relationship. Whether you agree politically or not is irrelevant. Whether you care about mistakes made is irrelevant. Our family lost an incredible, loving and generous son, brother, nephew and cousin. And Mark lost his soulmate and partner. Love and grief are not political.
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09:24 AM on 03/26/2012
I am sorry for your family's loss.
10:13 PM on 03/26/2012
Thank you. Layne was an incredible man. Kind, intelligent, funny and generous. He was the oldest of us cousins and I am the youngest - we had a very special bond and we all miss him deeply.
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01:36 AM on 03/25/2012
Mr. Foley, I am very sorry for your loss. I saw you on the Bill Maher show and I must say that I enjoyed your sit down with him.
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Michael Ludin
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09:45 PM on 03/26/2012
Me too. Peace to you!
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pynecastle
10:53 PM on 03/24/2012
How sad that Mr. Foley chose a party that despised his core being, when he could have been a successful politician and lived openly like Barney Frank . What a wasted opportunity for him. And what a tragedy for his longtime partner who loved him enough to live a shadow life.
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10:27 PM on 03/24/2012
My condolences Mr. Foley. Liver disease is a terrible illness and, unfortunately, I know from experience that it does get to a point where a transplant will not help.

My thoughts will be with you.
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NovemberScorp
08:15 PM on 03/24/2012
My heartfelt condolences to Mr. Foley. It has been 11 years since my long time partner died. The wound may have closed but the scar is forever. Grief is a tidal wave that overtakes you, smashes down on you with unimaginable force. It sweeps you up into its darkness where you tumble and crash against unidentifiable surfaces, only to be thrown out on an unknown beach ... bruised, reshaped. Grief will make a new person out of you if it doesn't kill you in the making. I often think of a quote that Queen Elizabeth made ... " Grief is the price we pay for love."
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Angie Daniels
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11:00 PM on 03/24/2012
Sorry for your loss as well.
03:32 AM on 03/25/2012
Wow, that made me cry. My biggest fear is losing the love of my life... took so long to find him!
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mrld20
07:39 PM on 03/24/2012
I can understand keeping their relationship a secret... But Foley's blatantly homophobic attitudes over the years were unacceptable... I don't care how closeted one is; he could have been silent on gay rights or neutral; he didn't have to say all the things he did...

Although I pity Foley for losing his partner... I hope he can find some comfort...
07:17 PM on 03/24/2012
Mark, sorry about your loss. Your partner deserved better than you. Ripon/Scotland/ London sometime between 2000-2003... I saw you...everybody did. you had a good. time.
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Totto
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05:49 AM on 03/25/2012
Nisenbaum certainly deserved someone who was proud to be his partner, not hiding who he was.
06:49 PM on 03/24/2012
Closets are for clothes, careful what hangs in the balance when the door is put ajar.
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ramsha
06:24 PM on 03/24/2012
Republican or Democrat when life comes to an end at such an young age it is sad. My condolences go to his family and friends.
04:51 PM on 03/24/2012
A sad story, for many reasons, but also inspiring and encouraging in a way (the page scandal notwithstanding), just for the longevity of the relationship. Love is love, I'm hetero, but hearing anyone stay together that long is something to be applauded, it's romantic, it's beautiful and my condolences to Mark Foley.

(.....but.....what is "Gossip Extra"? Sounds like an odd place to eulogize your life-partner!)
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04:37 PM on 03/24/2012
Fifty-three is very young. Mr Foley should reject the party of hate.