'Lesbian Families In The Deep South' At The Birmingham Civil Rights Institute

By JAY REEVES 03/29/12 05:02 PM ET AP

Birmingham Civil Rights

BIRMINGHAM, Ala. -- Founded to teach about human rights and the fight for equality during the days of racial segregation, the Birmingham Civil Rights Institute is introducing a new topic: Lesbian awareness in the South.

The museum opens a new exhibit Friday night featuring photographs of lesbian couples and families living in the Deep South. Some women are depicted arm-in-arm or embracing with their faces fully visible. Others who weren't comfortable being identified publicly are pictured with their backs to the camera. Some photos include the women's children.

The 40 images are stark and plain. Shot against a white background, there's nothing but the women and their kids to draw viewers' eyes.

Two women are shown in military uniforms with their faces to the side; two female ministers were photographed in clerical garb. The women are young and old; While one couple is kissing there's nothing sexual about the photos, and everyone is fully clothed.

Organizers say the exhibition is meant to encourage civil dialogue about inclusion and equality in Birmingham, once a flashpoint of conflict and violence in the civil rights movement. The museum is down the street from the spot where firefighters used water hoses to douse young civil rights demonstrators in 1963.

While lesbians are the focus of the exhibit, titled "Living in Limbo: Lesbian Families in the Deep South," professional photographer Carolyn Sherer said her work also is meant to encourage greater inclusion for gay men, bisexuals and people who are transgendered.

"We're hoping to start a conversation about equality for everyone," said Sherer. She has never before acknowledged her homosexuality publicly, but the exhibit includes a photo of her and her partner.

Alabama is a deeply conservative state, and Sherer expects some "push back" once people begin filtering through the exhibit, located beside galleries that document the struggle for civil rights in the 1950s and `60s. School groups tour the institute almost daily.

The art exhibition, which runs through June 11, is the first at the 20-year-old Civil Rights Institute to feature homosexuals. The longtime president of the museum, Lawrence J Pijeaux Jr., said Thursday he has received more than 125 emails in support of the exhibit and just one complaint.

"I've been pleasantly surprised with the reaction," said Pijeaux. As he spoke, a museum director hung the final portraits ahead of the opening.

Sherer, who grew up in Birmingham, said she was inspired to do something to encourage greater understanding and acceptance of lesbians after a friend died. The woman's female partner met resistance from the family when she tried to get clothes and other items from the home the couple had shared, Sherer said.

"That galvanized my resolve to go ahead and address my own identity as a lesbian," she said. "This is really my coming out story."

Armed with an idea and a camera, Sherer said she approached friends in the lesbian community and asked them to let her take family portraits for display at the museum.

"Most of my friends would not do this even with their backs to the camera," she said.

But a few did agree, and word of the project spread along with some of Sherer's initial photos: Soon, the dam broke and women agreed to be photographed. Anna Koopman said she and her partner, Hanne Harbison, attended a photo session with their 9-month-old son Amon after getting a couple emails about the project.

Koopman said she and Harbison had to overcome some initial doubts about being photographed as a family, but she is glad they did.

"It felt really monumental. It felt really courageous on the part of the artist, and it felt really great for us to stand up and be seen as part of this," said Koopman. "Who we are is love and commitment and caring, and we were very excited to be counted in that regard."

While the downtown institute is best known for its focus on civil rights, Pijeaux said the exhibit fits its overall theme of promoting human rights.

"I think it's important to note that we don't take sides on issues. Our goal is to bring people together to talk about issues so they can leave with some common ground as we all wrestle with many of the problems we have in the community at large," he said. "This exhibition lends itself to that end."

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ms.understood
pro-choice | liberal | womanist
11:35 PM on 04/02/2012
i wish they would've included a slide show of this, but great article and message anyway.
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lensamy
Humpty Dumpty was pushed.
02:47 PM on 03/31/2012
Amazing project! Im pretty sure when it comes down to it all nuclear families are the same, sibling fights, rivalry, happy and sad moments etc. Prejudices are killing our society.
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Deborah Karr
12:14 PM on 03/31/2012
One has to wonder how much the adults in these situations care about their childrens emotions. Right or wrong, children are the least prepared and most vulnerable in society.. Selfishness is something most parents give to protect their children.
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Dminkel
06:54 PM on 03/31/2012
I am sure they love their children very much. This may be why the have chosen not to live a lie which is often found in marriages with a man and woman. The marriage is bad but they stay together for the children. As if the bad marriage does not affect the childrens lives forever. The messages these bad marriages gives children is played out again in the childrens adult lives, i.e. domestic violence as we all know is a cycle and generational.
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Angie Daniels
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10:07 PM on 03/31/2012
I would imagine that the love they see when looking at their parents helps them and the bigotry they see when they leave their front doors reminds them that some people are evil. It's a lesson all children should learn, because not everyone is as nice as you want them to be.
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ActaNonVerbaNow
05:58 AM on 03/31/2012
Surprised they got the photos included through all the red tape. It's like they scissored their way right through.
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Mindy Czech
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01:20 AM on 03/31/2012
As a lesbian in the northern red state (Ohio), I can only imagine how hard it would be to be a lesbian with my wife in the deep south. Kudos to these ladies.
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01:06 PM on 04/01/2012
Think of interracial relationships , especially when the male is black you'll get an idea.
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gx5000
Life's too short, be happy..
04:14 PM on 04/01/2012
Black but from which culture ?
My friend from Djibouti is nothing like my colleague from Uganda...
Humanity, we still have a long way to go.....
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05:49 PM on 03/30/2012
Dads are so 18th century. Now Bart Simpson that's a real dad.
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Mindy Czech
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01:19 AM on 03/31/2012
A ten year old cartoon character who hasn't fathered children is a real dad? Why not Orel Puppington? He's twelve, but he's fathered half of the young children in town with his bag of special glaze.
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FantasticFourFan
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10:05 AM on 03/31/2012
Bigotry is so eighteenth century. Too bad your side is to hateful to see that.
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Lauren Rossnan
03:48 PM on 03/30/2012
Brought tears to my eyes. What a beautiful project.
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UserNameJane
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02:06 PM on 03/30/2012
This is really wonderful, Thanks to the Brave women that participated.
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01:52 PM on 03/30/2012
Thank you to all of you very brave women and to your families. And a great big Thank You to Carolyn Sherer for having the idea and to the Civil Right Institute for having the courage to hold the exhibit.
12:52 PM on 03/30/2012
Thanks to all of you brave and beautiful ladies... and your families.
11:04 AM on 03/30/2012
My bad. I thought lesbians in the deep south was a picture presentation. I did not know south referred to a section of the United States.
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Kambriel2
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01:14 PM on 03/30/2012
Hmm...I think you might not be as good as your moniker suggests.
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laffFUwant
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11:50 AM on 03/31/2012
Good Little Girl is a Rush Limbaugh supporter-I found out a couple of days ago.

I have learned in this life to 'tend to my own business and leave other folks to theirs.
11:02 AM on 03/30/2012
Never thought I'd see this in my home state. Great job by Sherer, Pijeaux, and the Birmingham Civil Rights Institute. I'll definitely make a trip to see the exhibit.
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tidalwave4455
10:45 AM on 03/30/2012
"and everyone is fully clothed"...of course, any comment about LGBT community has to explain that not all of us are engaged in public sex or exhibitionism! What a back handed compliment.
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VictoryBlue
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11:04 AM on 03/30/2012
Well, let's face it. Men are dogs and need to have it explained to them in detail so as to not get the wrong impression. Why? Because I'm a dog and not a smart one at that. Yes, it is stupid but it wouldn't need to be said if the people were a tad bit smarter and a little more accepting.
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Mindy Czech
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09:56 PM on 03/30/2012
It seems to lend credence to the idea that men think lesbians are only lesbians for their titillation. Sorry, what me and the wife do is for the titillation of each other and no one else.
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Kathy Levittown
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10:45 PM on 03/31/2012
You go girl...Fanned..with deep respect..

Kathy ;-)
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rossgirlfortheworld
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09:46 AM on 03/30/2012
What a beautiful project!!!!
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Someone Out There
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09:04 AM on 03/30/2012
These women should be ashamed of themselves.

What kind of example are they setting for their children?

I mean, no child deserves to be raised by someone who thinks its okay to live in the Deep South.
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kansas ham on wry
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09:47 AM on 03/30/2012
Ya had me going there until the last sentence. My gullibility quotient just went up several more points. F&F
10:36 AM on 03/30/2012
Don't confuse the land with some of the people. And only Yankees say deep south, would that be key West? lol.
10:51 AM on 03/30/2012
ok, then just leave out "deep."
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miz mendo
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11:44 AM on 03/30/2012
....and only straight people say, "Lesbian Families".